Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 14/10/2026The difference between my two choirs is if I say that in the one we're singing the Mozart in I won't get scoffed at for being low culture. Someone at the other choir still hasn't forgiven me for saying Holst's Christmas medley was awful (it is though). 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 14/10/2026Fulfilling a teenage emo dream and singing 'that choral bit from the Evanescence song', i.e Mozart's Lacrimosa. 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 09/10/2026Should finally get hot water today! There's only so long one can live on Tesco meal deals.static.klipy.comElmo Dancing JoyfullyAlt: Elmo Dancing Joyfully 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Haha yeah it's the right mix of twee and isolation for me. Unfortunately maintenance can be a huge pain, but potentially cheaper to buy than a house (even with mooring fees) 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026I'm from Bristol, it's the home of pirates! Would quite like to live on a narrow boat for a bit at some point 100
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026I am curious to see if I would like cruises so this is a good test. I adore boats and routine but the thought of being trapped in a floating box full of old people and (likely) norovirus makes me somewhat wary 220
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026Booked my (what has now become annual) Scandinavian adventure for next year. Uppsala and Helsinki with an overnight ferry between the two. Should be fun! 120
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026Ultimately none of the work stuff matters in the grand scheme of things. It's nice to have something to channel whatever this is into something constructive 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026As a fellow control freak, I get it. But either you want the analyst to analyse or you don't. And why they thought an end of quarter survey deadline was a good idea I don't knowstatic.klipy.comAngry Pingu in Pink HatAlt: Angry Pingu in Pink Hat 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026It would be fine but they are also control freaks so they're not letting me do what I need to do and pestering me about it at the same time. My 2 year old niece is more patient. 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026Meanwhile I have had 3 papers to write, a presentation to finish and the neediest department's survey results to analyse with a 24 hours deadline. Going surprisingly well but if OD give me any more grief I will eat them (along with my feelings and lots of Jaffa cakes) 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026Dad has been giving the three of us updates every day, think it's helping him more than anything. Genuinely this is the longest I have spoken with him since I was a young child. 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 05/10/2026Mum's unlikely to leave hospital this side of the week, recovery from surgery is proving tough. Considering the amount of stuff the doctors stole from her insides I'm not surprised 110
Reposted by WildeElizabeth Anne, PhD @lacksauthority.bsky.social · 05/10/2026never the wrong time for this classic 56120313575
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Mum's surgery seems to have gone well. In ICU for now but should be placed in a ward soon. Now to hope there was no spread before they joined everything out 120
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Scottish folk- what's a good city to spend a couple of days in after the fringe? Went to Glasgow last year but want to see more of Scotland. 002
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Great evening seeing Nish Kumar, was well needed. It's nice to see someone who cares SO much about things even if things are a bit bleak at the moment. 020
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I think the right need a new issue to be distracted by before we go back (also gets some space from remain floating). Plus from an EU perspective it's not sensible to let us back in very easily, sets a precedent. So there will be compromise and I don't know if we know how to do that atm 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I would be thrilled to be wrong. I just think the environment is so toxic at the moment (and things weren't great back in 2016). Attempted pogroms were being carried out not too long ago. 200
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 30/09/2026What would be good is to build closer ties though for sure. 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Also I kind of think it's too soon and it runs the risk of constant reruns depending on the government of the day 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I want this more than anything but this, now, is a bad idea. As a country we are not in the right place to have a sensible discussion about it 210
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 29/09/2026I still have no hot water in the kitchen and a massive hole in the ceiling, but I will enjoy this temporary stability while I can 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Finally. After two weeks of drip, drip, drip and my ceiling falling through, the leak has been stopped. Third repair callout's the charm it seems. 110
Reposted by WildeNyika @puzzledbyadream.bsky.social · 24/09/2026I love it when parents let children lean HEAVILY into their enthusiasms. It’s my favourite. www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...bbc.co.ukHenry superfan from Melksham shows off 35-strong vacuum collectionTed, from Melksham, is gifted a limited edition cleaner to mark the company's 45th anniversary. 162
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 24/09/2026*not rather. That said, I can't use my kitchen properly until then so hoping they can sort over the next week or so 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 24/09/2026Waiting for the repair agency to get a new water tank so they can take the old one out. They need to build a floor in the ceiling to get to it and then patch the ceiling - glad I'm paying for it! 100
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 24/09/2026It would be good if one non-shitty thing could happen at some point 100
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 24/09/2026I would but the rent has stayed cheap! May go to a hotel for a few days though tbh. The choir guy thing is more upsetting to me as there were so many mixed messages. He's never had a relationship so is likely unaware but yeah it's a dick move tbh. At least I don't have to see him at choir anymore 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 23/09/2026Well. Ceiling has fallen through and choir guy is seeing someone now. Fucking great. 101
Reposted by WildeOlúfẹ́mi O. Táíwò @olufemiotaiwo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026great advice in general but doubly so if you're going to spend any significant amount of time on social media 8909163
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 22/09/2026I am finding most of this more amusing than anything else thankfully 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 22/09/2026Kitchen ceiling still very much a problem and they will have to take it down, but they have now removed the water tank at least. Can't do anything about the mum thing but everything else seems to be slowly looking up a bit if I squint a little. 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 22/09/2026Finally got my mattress! Best lunch nap in a very long time 120
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Thanks 💜 No I don't, that would have been a great idea! Been using my duvet on the floor and then my heated throw as a blanket. Can't wait to get my new mattress tomorrow, my back is not happy! 120
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Haha with how old this flat is I wouldn't chance it! Yeah it's a bit much tbh. I have had it lucky up until now though so it's fair enough I suppose 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Between sleeping on the floor, mum having stage 4 cancer and my kitchen ceiling growing mushrooms and close to falling down, things are going great right nowstatic.klipy.comThis Is Fine Meme DogAlt: This Is Fine Meme Dog 310
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 21/09/2026If anyone is thinking about getting a new bed, I wouldn't recommend Dreams. They pushed back my delivery so I've had 3 weeks sleeping on the floor. Now, the day before the rearranged date, they forgot to pack the bedframe so only gettythe mattress. Not sure how it can be that difficult 130
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Unsurprisingly, this didn't end up materialising. As always it's the hope that gets you. 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Working in an office with an am-dram person is annoying. Every conversation projects across the entire floor. I respect it but god I also want to throw them out of the window. 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 09/09/2026My plan is to cram my time with as many semiquavers as possible so I don't have time to think about anything else 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 09/09/2026This term's music is absolutely perfect for what I need at the moment. A Bach mass and Handel's Messiah. Lovely. 110
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 09/09/2026Brother finally knows about mum's cancer. Feels wrong to be relieved that he is now sad, but at the rate things are going I was worried he'd find out when things were at the end. Hope he learns to keep hold of a phone for more than 5 minutes 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 06/09/2026Ultimately I am fine being patient if it's right but I don't know at what point it's just harmful to the old self esteem more than anything. 010
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 06/09/2026The choir guy thing is possibly dead in the water (again) but I did know this was a possibility going in. Maybe one day I will like someone who is emotionally available. 000
Wilde @wildeaboutoscar.bsky.social · 06/09/2026In theory I should also be starting a weekly pub quiz thing with new choir friends (Inc choir guy) but who knows if that's happening. Could do with some light relief at the moment though so fingers crossed. 220