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Whitney Dafoe

@whitneydafoe.bsky.social
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Severe ME/CFS patient and advocate. Writer, photographer, filmmaker. artist, activist, creative. Bedridden since 2013 sick since 2004. Never. Giving. Up. ✊

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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
The absolute agony when your mind doesn’t have enough energy to be conscious and process simply being alive and yet you still exist. ———— #mecfs #chronicillness #pwME #LongCovid
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
music sounds like noise, TV/movies look like people doing stuff on a screen, my brain can’t process or feel, but I’m just DYING to do something. Work on something. Make something. Engage with the world. garg! 🤯😶‍🌫️ 2/2 #mecfs #chronicillness #pwME #LongCovid
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
The fidgety “I NEED TO DO SOMETHING” feeling while feeling brain dead and unable to use your mind is the worst combination. I’m too antsy to watch TV or movies (I know I’m lucky to be able to), 1/2
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
…been this sick since the last visit (unable to think at all, nearly incapacitated, considering using a bed pan, etc). What new hell awaits me today? I’m just laying here counting down the hours until I have to leave, feeling the powerlessness of it all, the inevitability, the vulnerability. #mecfs
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
I have to go back to the dentist again for a 3rd (!!) visit in 3 months. it’s so much for my body to take, but unavoidable. I haven’t recovered from my last trip 3 weeks ago. And the feeling I have right now can only be described as fear. Fear for what it will be like afterwards. Especially if I’ve
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Read or listen to the poem on my blog: www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=...
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From Nothingness
This is a poem about living with ME/CFS and the void of any kind of feeling that can strike us during sick days/worse periods and how absolutely devastating and dehuhumanizing it can feel.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
From Nothingness A video of me reading a poem about living with ME/CFS and the void of emotion that can strike us during sick days/worse periods and how absolutely devastating and dehuhumanizing it can feel. ——————————— #mecfs #LongCovid #ChronicIllness #pwME #spoonie
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
From Nothingness ➡️ Scroll images for text slides ➡️ ———— #mecfs #severemecfs #chronicillness #pwME #LongCovid
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
♿️ Accessibility: Audio only version below: www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/audio/...
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
Be sure to watch the full length version of this video on YouTube if you are able! 😊💙 youtu.be/5IKB1BBmCvU?...
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The Compassion Gap
YouTube video by Whitney Dafoe
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
The Compassion Gap In this video I explore the gap in compassion between ME/CFS deaths and suffering and the death and suffering of other people whom the world rallies around, fights for, and supports. And what the root cause might be. ————————————— #MECFS #SevereMECFSawarenessDay #pwME #spoonie
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
Sick Of This BS I’m tired of all of it. I’m tired of being tired and I’m tired of having to use the word tired to describe something so much more profound. Watch for more 🔥🔥🔥💙 I’m never giving up though, I will have freedom!!! 😤💙 ——————————————— #mecfs #LongCovid #ChronicIllness #pwME #spoonie
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
If your health education came from a hallmark card, then don't give out health advice. Period. Facts do exist in this world believe it or not. Facts can be proven wrong, but not by your "feelings".
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
People from the "wellness" dimension judging people with an illness they have not even bothered to google. What the bloody hell. You can’t call that "wellness" anymore it’s so misinformed and uneducated, it’s just "nice sounding nonsense”. Or in many cases, "harmful nonsense”.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Where does it go when you lose it? When you feel as if you’re in a dream watching your life unfold somewhere else? Where is that place? When you can sense yourself but you feel that it is not truly in you? Where has it gone? Where do we go when we are lost to the fog? #MECFS
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
I just woke up and had an idea for a project I desperately want to work on. And I felt this rush of excitement, not even working on it but just being able to be mentally engaged with it for a moment. It’s absurd how excited we are to simply live our lives and yet branded "malingerers" 😡 #MECFS
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Marushka-T @marushka-t.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
Whitney describes the calculus of everyday life when living with #ME-CFS. Able-bodied people probably can't imagine having to make decisions like this to get through an average day. www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=... #disability #chronicillness #PwME
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Smile For ME @smileformeuk.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Share a story by @swastrosarah.bsky.social in memory of Maeve Boothby O’Neill: www.smileforme.org.uk/shareastorymaeve 🩵
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Share a story – Maeve Boothby O’Neill
In memory of Maeve Boothby O’Neill b.1994   ME. 2008   d. 2021 Maeve died too young.  ME did not kill her.  Medical neglect did.  She was born a scholar and, by t…
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
A video exploration of the impossible decisions ME/CFS patients have to make, constantly having to decide between two options that will both make our health worse… ♿️ Watch, Listen or Read on my blog 👇 www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=...
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Impossible Decisions
A video exploration of the impossible decisions ME/CFS patients have to make, constantly having to decide between two options that will both make our health worse. And how much more difficult these d...
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sarah boothby @swastrosarah.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
#pwME, never forget, you are always more than the illness. Even if it kills you, you are much more than it. Your are more than all the medical ignorance and social stigma you endure.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Imagine watching everything you care about in a house that starts to catch fire.  And there’s a firehose one meter from you, but you're tied to a chair and can’t move.  So you have to sit there and watch it all burn.  That is everyday, over and over again, living with #MECFS 💙
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
Add your own line to this poem in the comments below 👇 🙏 💙 #mecfsawarenessday #mecfs #LongCovid #ChronicIllness #Spoonie #pwME #mecfsawarenessday2026
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
Imagining but never doing Dreaming but never experiencing Longing but never feeling Seeing but never touching Believing but never receiving Envisioning but never achieving Driven but never accomplishing ⠀⠀⠀⠀Loving but always being alone. The experience of living with ME/CFS. —————— 💙 Whitney
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
As unexpected as these symptoms arrive, they can leave just as unexpectedly. It’s so important to remember that. It’s really hard, but it’s really important to hold onto that. #mecfs #pwME #LongCovid #videodiary
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
I am really sick today…It’s so important to remember that the way you feel in this moment is fleeting. It’s like a ball that keeps rolling, and you just have no idea where it’s going to wind up or where it’s going to land…
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 22/04/2026
A clarification of my previous video about how cathartic it feels to be treated by the medical system for a condition *other* than #MECFS - a known condition that the medical system knows how to treat, with decades of research and studies and drug trials and very well predictable outcomes.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 21/04/2026
Read or listen to the whole post on my blog: www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=...
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Feeling The Medical System Work
Before leaving the hospital I had some conflicting emotions about going home versus staying there. There’s something deeply cathartic about having a medical issue that’s known. You go to the hospital ...
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 21/04/2026
Before leaving the hospital I had some conflicting emotions about going home versus staying there. There’s something deeply cathartic about having a medical issue that’s known. You go to the hospital and they diagnose you and they have a treatment plan and follow that plan… #mecfs #LongCovid
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
I'm tired of my computer. I want to go outside and play in the dirt. Make something stupid. Show no one. Take it no where. And destroy it afterwards. And then rub the dirt in my face and run around like a madman. #MECFS 2/2
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
When you have #severeMECFS, you can't be very active at all, so if you're lucky and can tolerate a screen (and many or most can't), about the only thing you can work on involves your computer. 1/2
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
In The Hospital In January this year I spent 3 weeks in the hospital for a serious infection and related conditions. My experience there was at once a surprise and a discouraging setback. Read the whole piece and watch the video on my blog 💙 www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=... #mecfs #LongCovid
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In the Hospital
In January this year I spent 3 weeks in the hosptial for a pretty serious infection and related conditions. My experience there was at once a surprise and a discouraging setback that added to my symptom burden. In this post I relate my experience and thoughts on what it means for all of us.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 05/04/2026
I want to venture out into the garden today on Easter, find an egg, open it up, and find my life waiting for me in there.  On pause.  Swallow it whole and then do anything I want.  Anything.  I just want to picture it and go, my body firing into action.  Follow the white rabbit! #mecfs #pwME
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
…crying, cursing, righteous anger, pulling out what’s left of my hair, whatever it takes to get through one more day and closer to that day when we get real treatments and a cure. It breaks my heart every single day, but I can live with a broken heart. I need to feel freedom again.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
Living just one more day with #MECFS is the saddest, most horrifying thing I could imagine. But I’m going to do it. I’m going to wake up tomorrow and let another day slide past me without living it. And I’m going to get up the next day and do it again. Acceptance, letting go, courage…
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traceydooley.bsky.social @traceydooley.bsky.social · 25/02/2026
A quote from 2024, but sadly still urgently relevant today: "Care for ME needs a complete overhaul worldwide if we are to care for ME patients the way we care for patients with any other health condition." — Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #pwME #MECFS
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
I can’t act.  I can think of worlds from simple to profound.  But I can’t act on making any of it.  So I sit and watch it.  And I watch the world pass by without it.  And without me.  This is the torture of #MECFS.  We are HERE and we are ALIVE but we cannot act on LIFE to LIVE.
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Drinking coffee to try to get my mind to work feels like pushing on a cow's butt to try to get it to walk. #MECFS #LongCovid
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 25/02/2026
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
I feel like a war torn soldier, at war with the whole world for the most basic human rights.  But I'm a devastatingly fragile, severely chronically sick person.  Why don’t I feel like I’m being taken care of by a kind and loving society that wants me to thrive again? #mecfs #LongCovid
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 18/02/2026
This waiting game, Waiting for a ride, To that golden land where, Life happens. How long must we wait, We millions?
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 17/02/2026
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 16/02/2026
I had a very serious medical incident happen right after posting my last video about talking again and have been through a lot…I'm ok now, I’m recovering… Read or listen to the whole piece on my blog👇 www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=... #mecfs #chronicillness #pwME #LongCovid #resiliance
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
I started eating again in 2024. After 11 years not eating a crumb of food or a drop of water. In 2025 I have started ‼️ TALKING ‼️ again after 12 years of not saying a word to anyone! What will 2026 bring❓ 👀 Watch, Listen and Read the whole post in my blog: www.whitneydafoe.com/mecfs/?post=...
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Whitney Dafoe @whitneydafoe.bsky.social · 10/12/2025
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