Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Case and point - my tomato and cucumber armies 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 20/09/2026And that is why I live on a small island in the pacific and (try to) grow my own food 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Definitely. Would u suggest a patient works with that level of pain/illness? No. Have the same & also be responsible for (potentially) life altering decisions - sure why not? The culture of medicine runs on the internalised guilt of HCW. If we actually took care of us the system would fall over. 152
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 19/09/2026I have a strong memory of worrying about a patients oral intake and urine output over the course of the day … and then realising that they were probably still doing better than I was 🫣 051
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Ah good point. The repeated disclosures would be horrible. And yes - there are supervisors and then there are supervisors. 020
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 16/09/2026People are afraid of their own mortality. When they see a colleague affected by illness/ disability it becomes obvious what a house of cards things are. And also just ableism. Also not only trainees - seniors have lack of built in support. Trainees (hopefully) have understanding supervisors. 163
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 15/09/2026It’s taken me an awfully long time to get to this point And like a pendulum, I’m sure things will swing again. Acceptance isn’t about giving up. It’s about making a conscious choice about how you want to spend your energy. It’s about focusing on what you can do and not what you can not. 000
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 13/09/2026Yup. It takes some juggling. It took me probably two years before I got them aligned. And even then some things are only dispensed monthly so I still have to fetch from the pharmacy 🤷♀️ 011
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 12/09/2026I remember hearing about it working on the computer in that cupboard of an office across from the lab. We thought they meant tiny plane like a 4 seater private turboprop plane. I think we found a radio to listen to? And then I went home and saw the images on my old school box tv. A lifetime ago. 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 25/08/2026I have a CD of my masters thesis. No CD player in my laptop either 🤷♀️ 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 18/08/2026The world we believe in is the world we live in 000
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 14/08/2026Oh my! And here I was complaining that the plum blossoms were a month early 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 13/08/2026How do you have tomatoes in your garden ALREADY? I haven’t even started my seedlings yet 😱 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 29/07/2026How is it $638 for an ECG? Did they get their own brand new machine? 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 28/07/2026You should stop doing that - the nearly dying bit. You nearly dying was 10/10 not recommend type situation. The automated bp cuff at home is a great idea. I use one too. It’s really hard to take your own BP with a manual one (I have tried for years 😂). 111
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 28/07/2026For the most part (95% and more) the automated cuffs are just great. 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 28/07/2026There’s also some benefit for the use of “old style machines” in certain populations. Just saying 🤷♀️ 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 28/07/2026I probably won’t explain this eloquently enough. Old BP cuffs you measure the SBP and DBP and can calculate the MAP. Automated cuffs measure the MAP and calculate the SBP and DBP using algorithms. So I guess it depends on which value you’d like to be measured or calculated. 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 20/06/2026It’s taken me a long while to get to that point - but I’m not sure I would consider that person a “friend” any longer. They’d be lucky to be considered an acquaintance. Thank you for all your advocacy 020
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 05/06/2026Did you add anything? Or just nuts in a blender? 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 01/06/2026Don’t let your struggle become your identity … something to ponder as I stare into the flames on this chilly winters night 030
Reposted by Deb ChalmersCreate the Ripple @createtheripple.bsky.social · 22/05/2026“Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got.” Janis Joplin Looking after ourselves is not selfish. Rest, boundaries, saying no, choosing what matters, all of it counts. You matter too. 🧡 #SelfCare #kindness Art by anxiety.positive 16213
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 22/05/2026Is it the same arm where you had your angio or recent cardio procedures? I hope you figure it out soon and that it stops being so sore. You need BOTH arms for kitty cuddles 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 20/05/2026There are insufficient boxes! Why are they flat? Do you know nothing, hooman? 020
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 20/05/2026It’s a full time job - I spend at least half a day a week on medical admin 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 20/05/2026The cynic in me thinks “live well” is code for “accept that it won’t be any better”. Maybe that is the key - have realistic expectations so you won’t be disappointed. “Live well” certainly takes on a different meaning as soon as you have x chronic condition to contend with plus the human condition 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 19/05/2026I’m so tire of the “at least it’s not …” comments or “at least you can …”. Yes, it could be more crap than it currently is … doesn’t change the level of crappiness that it is currently. Thank you for sharing. 120
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 09/05/2026They’re probably doing a deep dive into your recent purchases and online reviews. How many treats recently purchased? What’s your weekly tuna supply like? Do you associated with other neighbourhood kitties and share your pats? Do you have a suitable qualification in ear scratches? 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 09/05/2026When do they move into their new palace with their new hooman slave? 110
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 05/05/2026They shouldn’t have to explain their disability to every single person who asks … 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 02/05/2026There would like have been less midnight contemplation though, on a different path. More sleep. More rest. Less trying to manage symptoms I never knew existed before now. Never truely knew. So would I choose- yes. But I would like fair warning & perhaps a few more pillows to prop me up at night 000
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 02/05/2026Would I choose the same path again, knowing what I know now? Probably. I am trying to live my life in a more intentional way. I am trying to be present. A human being not a human doing. None of these things would’ve happened on a different path. 1of2 100
Reposted by Deb ChalmersCreate the Ripple @createtheripple.bsky.social · 02/05/2026“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” Ferris Bueller’s Day Off It’s May already. Life moves and sometimes we forget to pause. Today is a reminder to choose something that looks after you. 🧡 #kindness #SelfCare Art by positively present 08121
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 30/04/2026It’s not only about owning a physical cell phone. It’s also about money - you might not have the credit to phone people that you need to contact to rearrange your life. This is an equity issue. 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 29/04/2026It’s so good to see these every day. Thank you x 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 25/04/2026You don’t realise how ableist the world is until you’re on the other side … #ButYouDontLookSick 000
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 23/04/2026Another productive day learning new things, reconnecting with old friends, making new ones, and getting on with my #conferenceknitting at ANZICS Regional Scientific Meeting, superbly organised by the team at MMH Critical Care Complex. @anzics.bsky.social 000
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 21/04/2026Eek. Commiserations from the future. I hope you get to escape today (tomorrow) and that things are onwards and upwards from here! 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 17/04/2026Sometimes you have to just embrace the insomnia and go for a predawn walk at the river. Refreshing for the soul 🥶 and what a gorgeous sunrise 020
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 16/04/2026Aw honey. Sending loves to you both. She will always exist in your heart and mind x 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 15/04/2026Boundaries don’t cause conflict. They are there to keep you safe. They highlight a conflict that was already brewing under the surface. If you get that uneasy feeling everytime you interact with someone maybe it’s time to start listening to your inner wisdom. Is it time to move on? 000
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 10/04/2026There will be complaints. In triplicate. And there has better be TREATS tomorrow in recompense 010
Deb Chalmers @viridescentfrog.bsky.social · 10/04/2026No feeding zone?! What outrageous situation is this!! 110