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@tryst.link
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Home of the independent escort. An advertising platform made by workers for workers. We aim to include all genders and demographics, provide fair pricing and focus on continual development.

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tryst.link @tryst.link · 21/09/2026
Our support team will be smaller than usual this Friday (Sept 25), as it's a public holiday for some staff. We might take a little longer to respond to your support ticket, or to review profiles and content. We'll keep you updated at tryststatus.link.
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Service status - Current Tryst status | Tryst Status
Official Tryst Status Page - Current system status: Normal wait times and Operational. View the current status of our customer experience queues and platform services.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 19/09/2026
We're here! Come say hi, get your donation matched, or grab a sticker 💜
A black table with hands on it, showing off stickers with a Tryst logo variant. Flyers with QR codes, a clipboard and bilingual signage cover the rest of the table. The lighting is vibrantly pink.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 14/09/2026
NYC: we're proud sponsors of @decrimny.bsky.social's Sept 18 fundraiser! Visit the Tryst.link stall, donate to Decrim NY, and we'll match your donation with TLC. Our standard donation-matching conditions apply, with none of the paperwork. Tickets: bit.ly/whoreprom2026
purple flier with white print that reads, from top to bottom: "Wh*re Prom, a Kink Out & Decrim NY event, WHEN, Sept 18, 8PM TO MIDNIGHT, SPONSORED BY TRYST, CHYRPE. WHERE, JUDSON MEMORIAL CHURCH, WHAT, DIRTY DANCING FUNDRAISER TO BENEFIT DECRIMNY, TICKETS & INFO AT BIT.LY/WHOREPROM2026, BRING CA$H BRING CA$H" the fliers also include the kinkout and decrimny logos and handles, as well as decorative stars, and a qr code that links to the ticketing link. the flier also has a line drawing of legs in red high heels, with a hand with long nails holding dollar bills.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 03/09/2026
Bug fixed: Last month, your location analytics may not have worked correctly. We had issues storing visitor location information. This has been fixed, but August location data was not recorded, and will still be inaccurate. More information here: tryststatus.link/incidents
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Incident History | Tryst Status
Official Tryst Status Page - Current system status: All Systems Operational. View the history of service incidents and maintenance.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 08/04/2026
Hi! We're not super active on here at the moment (though that'll change soon hopefully). Could you email community@tryst.link and mention this post? If you can attach screenshots of the scam emails, I can investigate those as well. —Maya
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 08/04/2026
What’s ahead for Tryst in 2026? Maya writes about responding to changing legislation, addressing platform misuse, and improving our features and systems with your input. tryst.link/blog/whats-a...
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What's Ahead for Tryst in 2026?
Maya Deva gives an update on what's in store for Tryst.link in the coming year, including changes to legislation, platform misuse, wait times, and more.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 02/04/2026
Heads up! Friday and Monday (April 3–6) are public holidays for most of our support team. Urgent issues will be prioritised, but some ticket response and wait times may be longer. More details at [tryststatus.link](tryststatus.link)
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Service status - Current Tryst status | Tryst Status
Official Tryst Status Page - Current system status: No Backlog and All Systems Operational. View the current status of our customer experience queues and platform services.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 16/12/2025
Thanks so much for using Tryst this year! Here’s a few steps we recommend for keeping your profile safe and online this holiday season.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 15/12/2025
⚠️ SCAMMER ALERT ⚠️ Watch out for this scam version of our usual Trystmas TLC email! You don't have to click anything to receive our gift TLC. Make sure you only log in when typing tryst.link into your browser, and avoid clicking on links in emails if you’re unsure.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 25/07/2025
We've made changes to Available Now!
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 18/07/2025
We're hosting an AMA!
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 07/05/2025
"This movie has no business being so underrated. One of the least-known films in Spike Lee’s oeuvre, Girl 6 is a deep cut—and one of his more experimental works." tryst.link/blog/whor...
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Whoreview: Girl 6
Mistress Zoey Belladonna reviews Spike Lee's 1996 film 'Girl 6'.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 06/05/2025
"How would you like to begin? What works best for you? How do you typically take it? Which do you prefer? What is it that you want? Would you like me to do it for you?" tryst.link/blog/hoes...
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Hoes Odes: Songs of a Customer Service Professional
Next in our sex worker poetry series is Gabe Angel's 'Songs of a Customer Service Professional'.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 05/05/2025
"The Available Now feature in the Tryst link Dashboard is a useful way to let clients know that you're accepting work. By turning on Available Now, not only can clients see you’re available on your thumbnail, but you’re given a little boost in search results." tryst.link/blog/trys...
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Tryst Site Updates: Changes to Available Now
Tryst Head of Product, Chris, updates us on the changes to the 'available now' feature.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 05/05/2025
"Things have changed rapidly for Tryst link and the wider community. The world has changed in ways that put pressure on the sex industry, meaning that sex workers, clients, and the people working on Tryst are all navigating a more stressful, complicated world." tryst.link/blog/comm...
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Community Update: Queues, Wait Times and Other Support News
Rory Rumble gives a community update on queues, wait times, and other support news.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 02/05/2025
'Our blog posts about Tryst have changed! Instead of blending product updates and community updates in one post, we've split them into two separate posts. This allows us to give more time and space to these important topics.' tryst.link/blog/trys...
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Tryst Site Updates: Introducing our Head of Product
Tryst site updates for April, 2025: FBSM, Bugfixes, and introducing Chris!
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 02/05/2025
"Once I’m in a session, I feel grounded in being present—my phone isn’t in my hand, I have a plan, I have tools to work with, and a blank canvas to create with for this specific time, this specific person, and this specific place." tryst.link/blog/a-tr...
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A Tryst With New York Dominatrix Micha Malvada
In our sex worker interview series we're joined by New York Dominatrix Micha Malvada to chat about horror movies, the BDSM community, and hardware stores!
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 01/05/2025
"I’ve been the kind of person who has expressed themself through art for as long as I can remember, in any form I gained interest in: drawing, writing poetry, and stories." tryst.link/blog/hobb...
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Hobby Whores with Kane Fawkes
This instalment in our sex worker hobbies series Hobby Whores features Kane Fawkes discussing drawing.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 30/04/2025
"Sex work was very present on his mind in some of his writing—understandably so, as sex work across genders was an open and public fact of African-American urban life in Harlem, New York..." @thepasteldomina.bsky.social on sex work in James Baldwin's writing. tryst.link/blog/sex-...
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Sex Work in James Baldwin's Writing
empress mirage discusses sex work in James Baldwin's novels and short fiction.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 28/04/2025
"Like many others, I always felt called to this sort of work. Like many before me, I’ve always been drawn to the whore in movies, stories, visual art, etc. I’ve always identified as a sacred slut." We take a Tryst with @marinamoonnyc.bsky.social tryst.link/blog/a-tr...
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A Tryst With New York Escort Marina Moonlight
In the latest instalment of our sex worker interview series "A Tryst With" we're chatting with New York Escort Marina Moonlight about tarot, magic, and karaoke.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 28/04/2025
"Laws originally designed to target sex workers have historically always been later applied to all kinds of people, which is why we have always been canaries in the coal mine." tryst.link/blog/old-...
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Old Pros: The American Plan
Kaitlyn Bailey of Old Pros discusses 'The American Plan' and how it harmed women and sex workers alike.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 25/04/2025
"I’m very open about what I do for a living, and try to set the tone from the beginning by making it clear that I’m comfortable talking about it." tryst.link/blog/what...
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What Your Sex Worker Friend Wants You To Stop Doing
Eddy discusses the ins and outs of what your sex worker friends want you to stop doing and saying.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 24/04/2025
"Many people consider that you have to do something radical to transition, but that's not always the case." tryst.link/blog/tran...
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Transitioning and Sex Work: It’s Complicated
Kam discusses transitioning while navigating the sex work industry, medical care, and societal perceptions.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 23/04/2025
"I take pleasure in spending time with my clients. I want everyone to feel special and lusted after. Everyone and every BODY deserves intimacy and pleasure. I like being able to fulfill that need as Talia." tryst.link/blog/a-tr...
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A Tryst With Seattle Escort Talia Dahlia
In this instalment of our sex worker interview series we're joined by Seattle Escort Talia Dahlia to chat about being your own boss, boundaries and making out!
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 21/04/2025
"his journey toward independence and empowerment is often fraught with unique challenges, including financial exclusion, legal hurdles, and social stigma." tryst.link/blog/empo...
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Empowerment and Independence: Financial Freedom in Sex Work
Nayla Thompson discusses how sex workers can gain financial freedom in an industry fraught with unique challenges.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 17/04/2025
~ Public Service (Public Holiday) Announcement ~ Hello sweet community, Throughout April, Australia has a bunch of public holidays. This affects our wonderful Customer Support team, and may mean increased wait times from the 18th April while we work to make up lost time.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 18/04/2025
"Stripper Web first opened its website back in 2002, and operated for over 20 years online as a centralized hub for sex workers from across the globe to communicate with one another via classic early internet forums." tryst.link/blog/rest...
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Rest In Pleasers: Stripper Web
Bunny Disaronno recalls the ultimate sex worker resource site Stripper Web and what it meant to lose it.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 17/04/2025
"My hands look old and the clients keep coming. When I smile you can see all the fine lines and crow's feet around my eyes from many, many years of joy and revelry. I’m starting to see through the lie that these things make me less beautiful." tryst.link/blog/coug...
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Cougar Core
Leely Moore on aging well in sex work.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 17/04/2025
We are working with as much speed and care as possible to progress your support requests; please remember our team are real people, often fellow sex workers, who care deeply about your ability to work and your experience on our platform. Love, The Tryst Team
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 17/04/2025
If you are waiting on a response from our team, please do not submit a new ticket (we beg). New tickets start at the back of the queue. We don’t want you to lose your place.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 17/04/2025
~ Public Service (Public Holiday) Announcement ~ Hello sweet community, Throughout April, Australia has a bunch of public holidays. This affects our wonderful Customer Support team, and may mean increased wait times from the 18th April while we work to make up lost time.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 16/04/2025
"Shortbus is a movie about connection and disconnection with your sexuality, with queerness, with people, with life. It shows the beauty in the ugliness of humanity, of being depressed, obsessed, repressed, in love, alone, etc." tryst.link/blog/whor...
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Whoreview: Shortbus
Kam reviews the depiction of sex work, love, and otherness in the John Cameron Mitchell film 'Shortbus'.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 15/04/2025
"I often see clients who are exploring their sexuality/gender, often very privately. It’s not something they feel comfortable to share with their lovers, partners, friends. I feel grateful to be with them on that journey, it’s an honour and it’s hot." tryst.link/blog/a-tr...
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A Tryst With With San Francisco Escort Theli
In our sex worker interview series we're speaking with San Fransisco Escort Theli, about freestyling, affirmation, and craniosacral therapy!
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 14/04/2025
"SICK was created in 2019 by and for people with chronic illnesses and disabilities. With their voices front and centre, this beautifully designed magazine makes for immersive, illuminating and empathy-expanding reading – that is not always for the faint of heart." tryst.link/blog/scar...
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Scarlett Letters: Sick Magazine
Marin Scarlett reviews Sick Magazine, a publication by and for those living with disabilities and chronic illness.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 11/04/2025
"Married people don’t risk losing their bank account, their child custody, other jobs, or even going to prison and getting deported. Instead of holding onto the transactional aspect of marriage to validate sex work, we should start recognizing sex work as legitimate." tryst.link/blog/sorr...
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Sorry Your Marriage Sucks, But It's Still Not Sex Work
On transactional relationships with men, and how marriage still really can't be compared to sex work, by Edie Montana.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 10/04/2025
"You can have the best promotion, the hottest body, or the most charming attitude, but if the quality of the videos you're trying to sell suck, people aren't going to come back for more..." tryst.link/blog/slut...
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Sluts for Security: Video Production Basics
Ada Hamilton helps sex workers up their video production game.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 09/04/2025
"I did not know Kathleen Hanna was a stripper before I listened to the audiobook of this memoir. Hanna speaks of stripping as ‘Sage’ to pay for college where she studied photography. Stripping was for Hanna a ‘highest return for smallest investment’ job." tryst.link/blog/whor...
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Whoreview: Rebel Girl by Kathleen Hanna
Harley Quinine reviews Kathleen Hanna's memoir 'Rebel Girl' and is surprised to learn that Hanna was once a sex worker.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 08/04/2025
"Now hotel rooms are my favorite workplace. I am a fleeting guest. I stay only an hour, a night, sometimes more, but never forever." tryst.link/blog/hoes...
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Hoe's Odes: An Ode To Hotel Rooms
Our sex worker poetry series features Wood's poem 'An Ode to Hotel Rooms'.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 07/04/2025
"Video games have always been a vital part of my decompression time. As a girl with ADHD, gaming is the form of media that has been most effective at sucking me in and giving my brain the necessary stimulation to let me just have fun and decompress." tryst.link/blog/hobb...
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Hobby Whores: Gaming With Riley Ivy
Riley Ivy describes her love of gaming for our sex worker hobbies series, Hobby Whores.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 04/04/2025
Thanks to @thepasteldomina.bsky.social for this longform piece on the main whores of the bible.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 04/04/2025
Thanks to @thepasteldomina.bsky.social for this review.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 04/04/2025
*Sex workers are virtuosos of companionship, eroticism, and ecstacy. Sex work is regarded as an order of great masters, yet our guild welcomes any dabbler, where the collective courage of the human sensory experience is stewarded by these marvellous entrancers..." tryst.link/blog/hoes...
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Hoe’s Odes: From Distant Void to Cool Grass
This entry in our sex worker poetry series is 'From Distant Void to Cool Grass' by Lena.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 04/04/2025
"Baker’s movies tend to hold a similar plotline around this type of character. The manic-pixie-wild-cussing-sex worker always has a violent, loud outburst scene that is central to the movie." @thepasteldomina.bsky.social on Sean Bakers sex worker saga. tryst.link/blog/whor...
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Whoreview: Sean Baker’s Sex Worker Saga
empress mirage breaks down Sean Baker's sex worker saga films in this longform piece.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 03/04/2025
"Unfortunately most people are not very educated about sex work and are unlikely to have a working knowledge of the number of queer men and non-binary people involved in it, so generalizations about gender are taken as fact." tryst.link/blog/gend...
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Gendered Language in Sex Work
Jack Parker discusses the gendered language around sex work and reveals the disservice done to the whole sex work community because of it.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 02/04/2025
"In the civilian world, a difficult coworker might email you incessantly, not meet their deadlines or produce sloppy work you have to redo. However, in the sex work industry a difficult coworker could put you in very real danger." tryst.link/blog/work...
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Working With Difficult People
Salem Serene explores working with difficult people in the sex work industry.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 01/04/2025
"Sometimes I think about how many sharp edges the world has and how easy it is to get punctured but how lucky I am to have freaks ready with wire, string, lace, leather, zip ties, hardware, blood, and spit to close all the wounds back up." tryst.link/blog/hoes...
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Hoe’s Odes: A Loverboy Slut’s Ode to Sunrises
Enjoy Dagger's poem 'A Loverboy Slut's Ode to Sunrises' for our sex worker poetry series.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 31/03/2025
"My body is a canvas and my wardrobe is out of control. It can’t be contained by my closet. I like to make a scene and confuse the straight boys when I walk down Nebraska Ave." tryst.link/blog/a-tr...
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A Tryst With Tampa Escort Blush
In our sex worker interview series we're joined by Tampa Escort Blush to chat about regulars, worship, and queer family.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 30/03/2025
"Trans sex workers are such a vibrant and vital part of the wider sex working community. Like many marginalised populations, trans providers make up a large part of our sex working community. " tryst.link/blog/tran...
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Trans Day of Visibility 2025
Rory Rumble talks about Trans Day of Visibility and shares a list of articles by trans writers from the blog.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 28/03/2025
"If you know anything about Sydney's old red light district, King's X (King’s Cross), you will likely know that Bada Bing was an infamous stripclub that actually existed on the main strip of the X, named after The Sopranos." tryst.link/blog/whor...
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Whoreview: Bada Bing! The Sopranos
Bunny Disaronno reviews 'The Sopranos' strip club scenes and compares it to working in the real Bada Bing in Sydney's Kings Cross.
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tryst.link @tryst.link · 26/03/2025
"I’ve mostly had sedentary hobbies. I’m a writer, a book reader. I like smoking bowls and watching British dramas. I’d never really known the satisfaction that can come from an active hobby, using my hands." tryst.link/blog/hobb...
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Hobby Whores: Leatherwork with Mia Walsch
Mia Walsch shares about her hobby of leatherwork and how it combined with her sex work career.
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