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Tom, actually

@tomactually.bsky.social

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Yet another homosexual who loves reality tv, music, supporting actresses and Wendy Williams’ performance as Lips on The Masked Singer. 📍AMS, NL

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Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Happy birthday, Melissa!

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

This couple messaged me on the apps, but absolutely left me hanging when it came to making actual plans

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Every day we stray further from the Lorde’s light

A tube of pumpkin spice flavored water based lube

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Travis Kelce should be sent to The Hague for turning Taylor into this...

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Michelle Collins on Las Cultch. Don't think I've laughed this much in years!

000

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Did my first race! I finished! Yay!

Me at the finish

16,1 km run in 1:36

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Ok Tove, Dance Yrself Clean girl!

open.spotify.com

Tove Lo · ESTRUS · Song · 2026

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Don't listen to the haters, the new Carole Radziwill album is very good!

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

hell = the charli xcx ticket queue

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

So I just watched this life changing movie.

the fabulous cast of the fabulous movie Steel Magnolias looking absolutely fabulous

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

BREAKING: Wagner from X Factor has offered to open for Ed Sheeran

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

So Ed Sheeran, how did your choices go?

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Never liked Ed Sheeran to begin with.

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Yes, I'm LGBT: L et's G et B etty Gilpin an EGO T

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Me and my friends showing up to the cinema to watch Nicole and Sandy be witchy.

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Ready for the weekend 💪

Strava screenshot: 7,82 km, 5:42/km, 44m 36s

Me after the run

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

Carrie Coon

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Prepping for my 10m run with a slower 10km today 🙂‍↕️

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Ants when you look at them under a microscope:

Evil Betheny Frankel at Burning Man with stupid ass goggles and a nasty facial expression in the middle of a seemingly sandstorm

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

Binged all of season 2 of Adults today, which made me realize: Being single and gay in your late 30s is practically the same as being single and straight in your mid 20s.

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

diva down with a bad case of man flu 🤧

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Lady Gaga trying to get anothet Best Original Song Oscar nomination:

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

my exes bonding:

Luann saying 'because we've both kind of shared some "Tom trauma".'

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Went to bed Dollyscrolling, woke up Dollyscrolling.

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Fuck fuck fuck 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

I’m sure she has…

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Not me getting an ad from my employer on gr*ndr 💀

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

You're the wall! that I! keep! BANGING MY HEAD AGAINST!!!!

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ma_danni_Lex @glitterstrands.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

stop! policing! women's! bodies!

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

1. Close Call 2. Silver Lining 3. Under The Blacklight 4. The Angles Hung Around 5. Breakin' Up

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Runners, help! How come my iPhone/Strava stats and my Garmin watch stats of the same run are so wildly different? How far did I actually run tonight??? (2 min time difference can be explained by red light stops)

Iphone stats:
13,16 km
5:39/km
1u 14 min

Garmin stats:
12,57 km
5:44/km
1h 12 min

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

it's the most wonderful time of the year

the first pepernoten stand at Albert Heijn of the year

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

Not a single Chanty Beluga video has made me laugh, or even smile.

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

booked a trip to mexico

betty suarez wearing a guadalajara poncho, but i will not be going to guadalajara

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

1. Does He Love You? 2. I Never 3. It's A Hit 4. A Man / Me / Then Jim 5. Love and War - 11/11/46

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

this is a story about a girl named:

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

the more I think about that stupid Sex Purge movie, the angrier I get. *shakes fist*

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

a double bill with mixed results

letterboxd reviews:
one night only: one and a half star
lady bird: four and a half stars

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

Phoebe. Bridgers.

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Ok yeah i get the solar eclipse hype

Me wearing solar eclipse glasses

View of the solar eclipse

Close up of eclipsed sun

People in the park enjoying the eclipse

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

hi i’m new here, how does this work?

Amy Jellicoe tweeting “my first twit.”

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

Now how am I gonna tell the world that I just rewatched Volver and that it was perfect?

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

2,5 weeks of pride: done Recovery mode: on

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

Ohhhh pit crew!!!

Me and Bruno of Drag Race Pit Crew fame

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

had such a gay weekend and now i'm so sleepy

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

i love pride 🥹

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Happy pride babeseses 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Tom, actually @tomactually.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

1. Pictures of Success 2. Always 3. Science vs Romance 4. Wires and Waves 5. Plane Crash in C