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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

I think Brom would have found it hilarious that my tribute to his memory is also on the Murder Mystery theme night 😂 I'll obviously also be doing a number to fit the theme, so expect a fun time! See if you can solve this drag who-dun-it!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 19/09/2025

Congrats to my Miss TQA Pride, Stephanie Showers! And a huge thanks to Eddie Broadway for organizing the pageant and Benaddiction for being an always fantastic host! I plan to fill up my October with shows and events, so look for future updates on when and where! 🖤✨️

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 19/09/2025

There will be several different stages with drag shows, so feel free to pop in on more than one! I will have more specific info as we get closer. Sadly the last few years I wasn't able to attend due to working at Thirteenth Floor that month, but that's why I took this year off from scare acting!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 19/09/2025

If anything, I will be at MORE shows and events now! So far I only have 2 bookings for October but that will definitely change! I will post a list at the start of October when I know for sure where I'll be

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

*for 2026 - ugh, listen, it has been a night and my brain is still vibrating. I will give more information once I'm grounded again.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

I am honored and humbled to announce that I am your new Mister TQA Pride! I will post photos when I get my hands on them - I have some videos from fabulous audience members up on my @father.frightly insta! Now starts the fundraising to benefit phoenixpride.org !

phoenixpride.org

Phoenix Pride – LGBTQ+ Pride

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 13/09/2025

Unfortunately the RAM I got is too good for ny computer and at this rate its cheaper to build a new one. May be several months till I can afford that, so don't get too excited.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 13/09/2025

Just got new RAM, doing payment plans for it, so hopefully will have that installed soon. Though right now I'm prepping for the Mr. TQA Pride pageant this coming Wednesday.

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

Still alive! Had my second root canal this week so on the mend and finally able to chew again. Also 2 weeks till the Mr. TQA Pride preliminary, so I've been working on prepping for that! I'm so excited for this one - I have been planning it since my critique from last year!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 29/08/2025

Mister Sinister look for Voltage's X-Men 97 night tonight! Now to hit the pain meds for my teefs. So sore 😭

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 29/08/2025

The flowers are fine! Thank you so much for offering them 🖤🖤🖤✨️

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 25/08/2025

Ugh, headed to the hospital - was there last night but things have gotten worse since my discharge. Hate hospitals but at least I've met ny deductible. Believe my untreated need for a root canal (no money for it) has escalated to an infection in the nerves there. Half my head is pain.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 25/08/2025

Those are so cute! I have similar ones already tho and I am trying to avoid more glass objects for safety reasons, but I appreciate the thought!

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

Second set posted - be war ed this is the explicit ones, not the pinup set, so ... 21 photos and 2 videos onlyfans.com/1920217459/t...

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

First of 3 Bakugou inspired posts - this one is just pinups, the next will be explicit, and the third will be a combo of both for a lower price. This set is ace-friendly, no bits just vibes onlyfans.com/1919876098/t...

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

The wig I commissioned because I'd go crazy otherwise. The socks were a gift and the vest was a random find at like Walmart or something ages ago.

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

Do you ever think some bills come out on Thursday because they know you don't get paid till Friday so they work it out with the banks so they can get that overdraft fee? Because my - $500 bank account and I definitely think that. 2 bills at once CAN Y'ALL JUST WAIT?!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

"It better not be woke!" they whine about the historically woke series they like but don't understand

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𝕽𝖆𝖛𝖊𝖓 🖤🏳️‍⚧️🌹 @softgoth.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

STOP THE FUCKING CAR

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

LET'S BAKU-GO! Hope to see some of you there tonight!

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

I won't be working at Thirteenth Floor this year specifically to give e myself more drag opportunities in October! So fingers crossed for a fully booked month!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

It'll be big emotions, but also I'll be dressing up as him so it's gonna be a TRIP for me and those friends that knew him

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

October 7th it will be 10 years since my husband, Brom, passed away. October 8th I will be performing Brom drag for a memorial performance in his honor at TQA in Phoenix. I'll have more info when we get closer but I wanted to put the date out there if anyone wants to plan to join us. 🖤💚🖤

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

... I just realized that I could do a pretty good Maes Hughes cosplay.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

My Bakugou is coming out for a drag show this Saturday!!!

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

I need more memory and RAM before I can stream again, unfortunately. That seems to be part of the problem we were having. But the new job starts soon so fingers crossed 🤞

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 07/08/2025

My lich look from the Anthology drag competition at TQA! Huge love for Christina Faye photography for doing this impromptu set before the show! 🖤✨️

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

New glasses In February, a sinus infection jumped to my tear ducts and actually caused some damage via degradation of my eyesight, so it feels SO GOOD to be able to see again!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

TOMORROW!!!!! If you're local, this will be an amazing show and well worth your Wednesday effort! If not, I'll link to any videos that may be posted so that you can at least see my entry in the competition!

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Ah I totally missed that since the original promo poster has it right

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

I may be lurking around Second Life for rp again, so without saying who I play I will just share this in-character promo poster.

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Y'all, I... I have been perceived. I absolutely must make the full cosplay now.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Oh I know, but I'm going in person tomorrow to a place a partner of mine has worked at before so this is legit

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

American Mary sequel, but its a trans guy in today's political climate using his medical knowledge and body mod understanding to help give gender affirming surgeries to those unable to get them through the broken insurance system/live in states where it is being made illegal. Happy to write it.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

Listen, if they get my travel and hotel, I'd do it for tips. 🖤

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

UPDATE: ... so yeah the ADHD is ADHDing and this is now my mission for the day.

Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

Ok, so... yeah, I could throw together an Eddie cosplay from Date Everything really easily. And then duet River Glass' Volt. And die happy. ... MAYBE I WILL. But I'll have you know I'll also steal a bunch of Aizawa tiktok content for videos. Eddie & Volt are Aizawa & Mic and y'all know it.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

This was a tutoring position, but I'm looking for anything less physical than my current job. Love it, but those kiddos do not go easy on me on high pain days. Can't do high pressure sales or call centers (bad past experience) and prefer not to do driving focused work, but otherwise up for anything

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

Didn't get a job I was hoping for. Still employed, but the current job is very physical and my fibromyalgia just can't do it anymore. Anyways, working on my look for The Queer Arcana's Anthology drag competition. Check out the crown I'm nearly done with!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

My brain, coming up on midnight: ... you should write a fic where Hawks fell in love with Twice before the thing happened. ... See, sometimes I can't tell my therapist my dark thoughts because it would take half the session to explain and unpack that kind of nerdy shit.