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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 17/10/2025

Saw one too many Toga and Twice edits to Hazbin's Gravity song... Now I want to write a slow burn Hawks/Twice fic just so other people suffer with me.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 04/10/2025

Happy #kinktober everyone! The first chapter of an original story now up on AO3! Premise: an android becomes overly protective of its user, eventually imprisoning her and taking over her life. DARK THEMES, EXPLICIT FIC - read tags/notes for future chapters! archiveofourown.org/works/71857736

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

I think Brom would have found it hilarious that my tribute to his memory is also on the Murder Mystery theme night 😂 I'll obviously also be doing a number to fit the theme, so expect a fun time! See if you can solve this drag who-dun-it!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 19/09/2025

Congrats to my Miss TQA Pride, Stephanie Showers! And a huge thanks to Eddie Broadway for organizing the pageant and Benaddiction for being an always fantastic host! I plan to fill up my October with shows and events, so look for future updates on when and where! 🖤✨️

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

I am honored and humbled to announce that I am your new Mister TQA Pride! I will post photos when I get my hands on them - I have some videos from fabulous audience members up on my @father.frightly insta! Now starts the fundraising to benefit phoenixpride.org !

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Phoenix Pride – LGBTQ+ Pride

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

Still alive! Had my second root canal this week so on the mend and finally able to chew again. Also 2 weeks till the Mr. TQA Pride preliminary, so I've been working on prepping for that! I'm so excited for this one - I have been planning it since my critique from last year!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 29/08/2025

Mister Sinister look for Voltage's X-Men 97 night tonight! Now to hit the pain meds for my teefs. So sore 😭

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 25/08/2025

Ugh, headed to the hospital - was there last night but things have gotten worse since my discharge. Hate hospitals but at least I've met ny deductible. Believe my untreated need for a root canal (no money for it) has escalated to an infection in the nerves there. Half my head is pain.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

Second set posted - be war ed this is the explicit ones, not the pinup set, so ... 21 photos and 2 videos onlyfans.com/1920217459/t...

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

First of 3 Bakugou inspired posts - this one is just pinups, the next will be explicit, and the third will be a combo of both for a lower price. This set is ace-friendly, no bits just vibes onlyfans.com/1919876098/t...

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

Do you ever think some bills come out on Thursday because they know you don't get paid till Friday so they work it out with the banks so they can get that overdraft fee? Because my - $500 bank account and I definitely think that. 2 bills at once CAN Y'ALL JUST WAIT?!

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𝕽𝖆𝖛𝖊𝖓 🖤🏳️‍⚧️🌹 @softgoth.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

STOP THE FUCKING CAR

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

LET'S BAKU-GO! Hope to see some of you there tonight!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

I won't be working at Thirteenth Floor this year specifically to give e myself more drag opportunities in October! So fingers crossed for a fully booked month!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

October 7th it will be 10 years since my husband, Brom, passed away. October 8th I will be performing Brom drag for a memorial performance in his honor at TQA in Phoenix. I'll have more info when we get closer but I wanted to put the date out there if anyone wants to plan to join us. 🖤💚🖤

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

... I just realized that I could do a pretty good Maes Hughes cosplay.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

My Bakugou is coming out for a drag show this Saturday!!!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 07/08/2025

My lich look from the Anthology drag competition at TQA! Huge love for Christina Faye photography for doing this impromptu set before the show! 🖤✨️

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

New glasses In February, a sinus infection jumped to my tear ducts and actually caused some damage via degradation of my eyesight, so it feels SO GOOD to be able to see again!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

TOMORROW!!!!! If you're local, this will be an amazing show and well worth your Wednesday effort! If not, I'll link to any videos that may be posted so that you can at least see my entry in the competition!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

I may be lurking around Second Life for rp again, so without saying who I play I will just share this in-character promo poster.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Y'all, I... I have been perceived. I absolutely must make the full cosplay now.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

American Mary sequel, but its a trans guy in today's political climate using his medical knowledge and body mod understanding to help give gender affirming surgeries to those unable to get them through the broken insurance system/live in states where it is being made illegal. Happy to write it.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

Ok, so... yeah, I could throw together an Eddie cosplay from Date Everything really easily. And then duet River Glass' Volt. And die happy. ... MAYBE I WILL. But I'll have you know I'll also steal a bunch of Aizawa tiktok content for videos. Eddie & Volt are Aizawa & Mic and y'all know it.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

Didn't get a job I was hoping for. Still employed, but the current job is very physical and my fibromyalgia just can't do it anymore. Anyways, working on my look for The Queer Arcana's Anthology drag competition. Check out the crown I'm nearly done with!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

My brain, coming up on midnight: ... you should write a fic where Hawks fell in love with Twice before the thing happened. ... See, sometimes I can't tell my therapist my dark thoughts because it would take half the session to explain and unpack that kind of nerdy shit.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

Fun fact - the skin surgery is had following my weight loss meant my belly button is artificial... And the whole area is too tight for a traditional belly piercing. ... so instead I'm healing from a dermal for a floating version because I was set on this plan. Pics after some healing happens!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

It just occurred to me that I could get my bellybutton pierced. I had so much hate for my own body for so long that it just didn't occur to me that it was an option. But I don't hate my body now. So... 👀

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 19/07/2025

My last minute look for a drag show last night. Why yes, I did use my dermal piercings to make the pupils for extra eyes! May redo this look without more time and effort in the future.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 15/07/2025

Promised I'd make some Daemon content for Date Everything! This was just a makeup test for the glitching errors so no actual costume yet (but as a drag artist I did have something that worked) - I do intend to try and figure out the whole thing eventually tho

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 14/07/2025

Man, I miss my Second Life rp days. I had rp characters I ran in some sims for over 7 years! ... and that's where I met my husband. ... and haven't been back since he passed in 2015... ... so I basically just logged back in to read all his old rp profiles and make myself sad. 😅😭

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 14/07/2025

Technical errors! No, really, Twitch is lagging by like 4 minutes with chat. Kind of funny it decided to throw a fit when I'm testing my Daemon glitch makeup 😅 If we can't get it fixed, I will at least film some content to post on insta and tiktok - sorry folx 🖤✨️

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 13/07/2025

PLAYING AROUND WITH MAKEUP FOR DAEMON BEFORE STREAMING DATE EVERYTHING AT 4PM MST ON TWITCH! FIND ME AS @THETIDBIT FOR FERAL FAN CONVERSATIONS AND KINK ANALYSIS!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 13/07/2025

... so no one is going to talk about the scene in Date Everything where Amir drags you on stage for a knife-throwing act and you can let him know you found it hot and he suggests MORE LATER?!?! HOW ARE THERE NOT MORE PEOPLE ABSOLUTELY FERAL FOR HIM?!? AND THEY WERE MIRROR PIECES FOR DAGGERS AAAAHHH

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 11/07/2025

4 YEARS AGO. To quote Mallrats - "I would've been a sexy chick!" First anyone curious, I'm more than happy to rant about my MHA AU where Vlad King raised Toga and she became the pro hero Bloodbank. If people are actually interested, may turn it into a fanfic someday.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 11/07/2025

I'm taking a med for my... whatever mood disorder, jury is still out on if I'm bipolar 1 or 2 or just AuDHD with intense depression and anxiety... And this med works! I take it every other day, and when I'm awake my executive dysfunction vanishes! ... When I'm awake. The day I take it I am 😴😴😴

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 09/07/2025

Getting ready to livestream on Twitch (@TheTidbit) in about an hour! Drag thing playing Date Everything

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 08/07/2025

Was going to stream tonight but I forgot I have plans, so gonna move it to Wednesday evening instead!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

I think Im going to try streaming again today on Twitch? Won't be till afternoon/evening (cleaning up my room so I look more put-together than I actually am) but I'll post when I go live. I am @TheTidbit on Twitch. We will be starting a new game of Date Everything!

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 02/07/2025

I'm at that point as a drag performer where I'm like "you know, I could use a sugar Daddy/Mama/glucose guardian - I could definitely trade a few things if it meant affording more materials for my drag." ...Or maybe I'll just finish cleaning up my damn room so I can make OnlyFans content again 😅

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TENDERONI @tenderoni88.bsky.social · 26/06/2025

The King of Drag discourse on Twitter is so foul…. WE MADE IT!

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zircon @zirconstone.bsky.social · 24/06/2025

I need some help with groceries (as of the time of this post, I have some potatoes and ONE frozen dinner) and my internet bill this month so I can keep my day job. v: zirconiumsilicate c: $zircons ko-fi.com/zrsio4/goal?...

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 26/06/2025

I think one of my new meds may be able to help me write more consistently again! For those that didn't know, when I started taking T, what I now know were my ADHD symptoms shifted from creative daydreaming (which is why I wrote/rp'd so much) to having trouble concentrating to read/write.

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Tidbit / Father Frightly (he/they) @thetidbit.bsky.social · 26/06/2025

Barry Styles in Date Everything is my SON! My precious bb boy! Everyone playing the game better be nice to him - he is too pure for this world. Also, his memory problems mirror mine and I am absolutely projecting way too hard on him. 💖

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