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idk @idkman159.swifties.social · 08/12/2025

Me every time I see some queer people in some super online forum try to distinctly define specific elements of queer culture that do not need to be defined

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 09/12/2025

My wife is femme-phobic (initiated things after I had already done my press-on nails and put in my heatless curlers for my event tomorrow)

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Logan @wordswhispered.bsky.social · 04/12/2025

Well that’s suspicious

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 04/12/2025

Tell Apple Music to stop calling me slurs

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 28/11/2025

So my BIL LOVES cooking and also wont accept help which means he made all of this from scratch himself while I got day-drunk and watched sitcoms on his couch, happy thanksgiving y’all

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 27/11/2025

12 hour drive but I am AT my sisters house!! I am full of wine and my BIL is smoking turkey legs and barbacoa for tomorrow and my sister and wife and I are just watching bob’s burgers and I am so happy :-)

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 27/11/2025

I love her so much she got the creature that looks as much like shigella as possible

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 26/11/2025

The Benoit Blanc movies go down SO smooth I would watch 50 of them

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 25/11/2025

I would try acetone or rubbing alcohol—between the two of them they can dissolve most dyes and inks!! Soak a cotton pad in the solvent, lay that over the numbers, and let it soak for 10-15 minutes, then try using the cotton pad to wipe it off

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vi0let 💜🥨 @myeyesviolet.bsky.social · 25/11/2025

this pic is SO GREAT WOW

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 25/11/2025

There are crunchwraps everywhere for those with the eyes to see

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 25/11/2025

The secret is instead of a tostada in the middle you make a big crunchy Parmesan crisp 🤌

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 25/11/2025

Chicken cesar salad crunchwrap because I have free will

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 24/11/2025

Bad methodology creates useless data!! I’m also busybody lmao but imo it should def be called out. Bad data can cause real, material harm!!!

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 24/11/2025

We stan a methodology queen, you’re genuinely doing god’s work when you call out poor research design 🫡

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 24/11/2025

• Sapphic Disco-ween party at my favorite gay bar • Spooky movie marathon at my friend’s house (watched The Descent & Death Drop Gorgeous) • Chappell Roan N2 Pasadena • Renaissance Fair • Valkyries game

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 24/11/2025

introduce yourself with the last 5 concerts you saw!! • Chappell Roan • Carter Vail • Janelle Monae • The Band Camino • Fall Out Boy

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 24/11/2025

In case it’s not known, I am a MASSIVE muppets enthusiast and Muppets Christmas Carol is a post-Christmas decorating tradition in this household

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 22/11/2025

When they switch parts in the harmony for the last chorus!!!! Because they’re carrying parts of each other with them!!!!!!! Because we’re all mosaics made up of the people we’ve loved!!!!!!!

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 22/11/2025

I don’t get a period anymore because I have an IUD (HIGHLY recommend) but I do still get some slight PMS symptoms on a cycle. Anyway I’ve spent the last hour sitting in bed listening to For Good on a loop and sobbing if anyone wants to know how that’s going

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 22/11/2025

And like it’s better than not reading at all! But in the same way that only eating candy is better than not eating at all

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 22/11/2025

This is something that’s stressed me out SO MUCH with the rise of booktok etc. I think there’s a place for candy and fluff and I do hope that books like this entice people to read more challenging works but also oh my god please read something with more nutritional value for your brain

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clover ⛈️ @closureforivy.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

has anyone ever stopped to consider taylor swift gay? i think this is something worth considering. many people are saying we should look into this.

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 22/11/2025

It’s sooo fascinating, like how whenever we have a president who’s hot (or at least hot for a president), culturally we become much more optimistic even if we actually aren’t doing any better

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 21/11/2025

I don’t give a shit about Thanksgiving actually but I do love getting day drunk on a Thursday while watching the westminister dog show and then eating an entire pie so. Looking forward to it

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hope 𓍢໋🕊️ @highashope13.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

ari’s dedication to playing glinda as the high femme comphet lesbian she is means everything to me

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 21/11/2025

“You look exhausted” actually I am just not wearing mascara but thank you that’s what I’m going for

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 21/11/2025

The great (awful) thing about being femme is that if I want to play up how sick I am at the office so I can go home early all I need to do is not wear makeup

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 21/11/2025

This has been the pattern w/ my maternal family as well—the dominoes are falling lmao. My eldest sister & one of my cousin’s kids are the only formal dx’s, but I have strong suspicions about like 8-10 more. Plus my middle sister & I have ADHD dx’s and those disorders are known cousins

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

I’ve been sick since Saturday and my breathing still sounds like crunching up tissue paper and that’s with a strict regiment of DayQuil + my inhaler every 4 hours on the dot. Also did you know if you take a ton of expectorants it can fuck with your discharge bc that’s something I just found out

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Okay but fr y’all apparently one of the flu strains this year mutated and the flu vax isn’t super protective against it and also it blows!! So mask up wash your hands etc etc because this sucks ass. Also still get your flu shot anyway 👍

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Oh!! And if the weather’s okay, try to get a reservation at either Cubita or Kaiyo—both are great rooftop bar/restaurants. Cubita is Cuban food & very fun, lively, casual atmosphere; Kaiyo is Nikkei Peruvian food & a little more upscale but the views can’t be beat

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Oh!! And Señor Sisig on Valencia & 21st, or if you see their food truck around downtown/FiDi. Filipino-CA Mexican fusion and it’s soooo good I’d also recommend Brenda’s on Polk for a brunch place, and Cinderella on 6th & Balboa for a must-try bakery

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

For Vietnamese food in SF, I love Perilla on 10th & Irving—best I’ve had in the city!! You should definitely get a mission-style burrito while in the city. La Taqueria & El Farolito are mainstays For something a little vibe-ier, I LOVE Santeria on Market & 16th

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

La Victoria taqueria is also a SJ staple, but it gets PACKED so may or may not be worth it

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

The BEST Vietnamese food is in SJ!! Around the east side. Thien Long on Silver Creek is so good, but honestly anywhere in this zone is gonna be good

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Around SJ: - The Ritz (drinks are STRONG, fun themed parties most weekends) - Downtown Willow Glen is bougie but cute - Downtown SJ (around 1st street) has cool vibes in general Honestly though, SJ is very suburban—there’s not much for tourists. If you have access to a car, go see the redwoods!

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Activities around SF: - Golden Gate Park - academy of sciences, de young museum, conservatory of flowers, Japanese tea garden, & bison paddock - sutro baths - Dolores park (great place to 🍃) - twin peaks - musée mechanique - antique vibrator museum - clarion alley murals - green apple books

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

El Rio & Mother for queer bars!! They’re my favorites in the whole Bay. Avoid White Horse like the plague. What kind of food do you like?? I have a million recs

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Lows in the upper 40’s, highs in the upper 50’s/low 60’s, cloudy with on and off rain this past week. Bring lots of layers—we have a lot of microclimates here because of all the water and hills. You can travel just a few miles and the weather will change completely so you wanna be able to adapt lol

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Donated and reposted—I wish I could have given more. I’m so sorry you’re going through this ❤️

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W0nderWanderMar00nedW0man @wonderwanderwoman.bsky.social · 20/11/2025

Help or share if you're able... 4hr in and nearing the halfway mark!

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

Oh that sounds like an incredible evening

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Meredith Grey Gardens @therestaurant.swifties.social · 20/11/2025

I’m an avid podcast-listener and the consistency is honestly really important for me!! Of course I want the creators to be able to take their time and produce content they’re proud of, but if the releases are sporadic I will genuinely forget the podcast exists tbh

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