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Working towards a world where healthcare, wider public services, & society are truly there for people affected by ME. Registered Charity in England and Wales: 1218590 www.thereforme.uk

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Tessa Munt MP 🔶 @tessamunt.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Thanks @thereforme.bsky.social! There must be serious review of the government’s inadequate response to #ME, with its cost to us all. Still considering best options to call for including @georgemonbiot.bsky.social proposed public inquiry, Select Committee Inquiry, a Czar or even referral to HSSIB.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
The Guardian has published our letter responding to George Monbiot's article about how people with ME are abandoned, dismissed and gaslighted. We point out the inadequate political attention, and call for action from the Health & Social Care Select Committee. www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
George Monbiot is right to draw attention to the “shocking social crisis playing out behind closed doors” for people living with ME. Not only is ME a devastating condition, but too often those affected are failed by the very systems meant to care for them.

The level of political attention the issue has received is nowhere close to the scale of the problem. The government’s strategy on ME, published over a year ago, lacked both substantive funding and outcome targets. Its key action for those affected by the most severe form of ME – “exploring” whether a specialised service could be commissioned – is now delayed until April 2027. We hope that, as a first step, the health and social care select committee will take up this critical issue as a matter of urgency.
Karen Hargrave and Emma Gore-Lloyd
Co-founders, ThereForME charity
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
However you choose to publicise your event, we’d love to hear about it! As always, thank you for your support. 🙏🩵 ThereForME is a Charitable Incorporated Organisation registered in England & Wales. Registered charity No. 1218590.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
You can download our A3 poster to write details of your event on. drive.google.com/file/d/1l64J... Or, you can use our editable Canva templates to create your poster or social media post: canva.link/6w1jqdl7p9z2... and canva.link/mptm21idb6ig...
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Fundraising for ThereForME A3 poster.pdf
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Planning a charity challenge, event or birthday fundraiser? It just got easier to support us! 🎉 You can now select ThereForME as your chosen cause when setting up your fundraising page on JustGiving.
New! Planning a fundraiser? You can now select ThereForME as your chosen cause on JustGiving! Download an A3 poster to print at home/work. You can also edit & download our fundraising poster and social media templates in Canva.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Are you keen to share your experiences of adult social care? If you’d be interested to write for us (500 words max), let us know 👇
We want to hear from you! Are you keen to share your experiences of adult social care? We’re looking for 1 or 2 contributors for an upcoming post. If you’d be interested to write for us (500 words max), let us know! ThereForME.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
ICYMI - more here👇 bsky.app/profile/ther...
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
We wanted to say a big thank you for all of your support since our charity announcement yesterday! We've had so many kind messages, and we're so grateful for all of the donations we've received so far. A big, big thank you from the team - this community is the best 🫶
A big thank you from us for all your support so far! ThereForME. ThereForME is a CIO registered in England and Wales. Registered Charity No. 1218590.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
The sense of shock George conveys at how people with ME have been failed is exactly why we founded ThereForME. And it’s why we’re so determined to bring the reality of ME directly to the people with the power to act. Who’s with us?
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
George Monbiot was nominated for last year’s ThereForME Advent Calendar for using journalism to shine a light on failings faced by pwME. Today, he writes that too often people with ME are abandoned, while discredited treatments continue to be prescribed. He’s right.
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Jonah Weisz @weiszguy.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
After two years of amazing work, we’re only just getting started!! Please reshare and donate if you can (link in thread)
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
We will never encourage anyone to give beyond their means, and there are ways to support our work other than donating. You can follow our blog, where we'll share updates on how you can help 👇 4/4 www.thereforme.uk/p/thereforme...
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ThereForME is now a registered charity
What it means for our work, and how you can get involved
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
We'd love to ask for your support. For those who are willing & able, it's now possible to donate to ThereForME via the link here 👇 3/4 cafdonate.cafonline.org/31147
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ThereForME - Donate now
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
We have big ambitions to drive forward change for people with ME & we’ve outgrown what a volunteer effort can sustain. Charitable status enables us to work more effectively towards a world where healthcare, public services, & society are truly there for people affected by ME. 2/4
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
We're excited to share something we've been working on for a while. ThereForME is now a registered charity! 🥳 1/4
We’ve got news!

ThereForME is now a registered charity. 

ThereForME is a Charitable Incorporated Organisation
registered in England and Wales. Registered Charity No. 1218590.
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Long Covid UK @longcoviduk.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Last weekend, alongside representatives from @thereforme.bsky.social, @actionforme.bsky.social and the ME Association, our trustee Jo Dainow had the opportunity to visit the Royal Opera House and experience The Mirrorbox on behalf of Long Covid UK.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
In today's update, we share a round-up of what was published to mark Severe ME Day, some of the creative ways people are keeping ME and Long Covid visible year round, and, as ever, a few rays of light. www.thereforme.uk/p/thereforme...
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#ThereForME Update 35: awareness, art and action
Hello to our subscribers old and new.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
You can read their stories here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/rationing-...
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"Rationing care affects lives"
Three contributors with ME and Long Covid share their experiences of navigating social care assessments and support
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
In our work with #ThereForME, we come across many people with ME and Long Covid who face challenges accessing social care support. Today's guest post shares stories from three authors from across the UK. Thank you to Cass, Marianne and our anonymous contributor for sharing your experiences 💙
"My experience of trying to access [social care] support has left me feeling unsafe, excluded from decisions and traumatised. It has also contributed to unnecessary deterioration in my health" Anonymous. New #ThereForME Substack post.
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Lucibee @lucibee.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
"What does the future hold for people with ME — and crucially, where must ME advocacy go next? The political landscape has changed, and if we want different outcomes, our advocacy has to evolve with it." - Karen Hargrave @thereforme.bsky.social www.thereforme.uk/p/the-missio...
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The mission hasn’t changed — but our advocacy must
Looking ahead to year three of #ThereForME
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
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The mission hasn’t changed — but our advocacy must
Looking ahead to year three of #ThereForME
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
"The political landscape has changed, and if we want different outcomes, our advocacy has to evolve with it." In today's update our co-founder @KarenLHargrave shares her reflections going into year 3 of #ThereForME. Link in next post 👇
#ThereForME Update 34. Year three of #ThereForME. The mission hasn't changed - but our advocacy must. New #ThereForME Substack post.
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Karen Hargrave @karenlhargrave.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
📣 We’re looking for someone with ME/a carer to a PwME who would be interested to write a short piece (500 words) for our @thereforme.bsky.social blog about their experiences of/challenges with social care. Ideally looking for someone in Wales or NI - but can be flexible!
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Adam @abrokenbattery.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
Karen is a founding member of the #ThereForME initiative @thereforme.bsky.social www.thereforme.uk Full video (10 mins) youtu.be/10hCNt6ajSE?...
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#ThereForME | Karen Hargrave | Substack
#ThereForME is an initiative founded by Karen & Emma, two carers for partners with very severe ME. We work to improve support, understanding & quality of life for people affected by ME & related condi...
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Adam @abrokenbattery.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
“He has difficulty with chewing and swallowing… it’s a struggle to make sure that we’re getting the right nutrition, the right hydration into him… basically to be keeping him alive.” @karenlhargrave.bsky.social on caring for her husband James, who developed very severe ME following COVID. #MECFS
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Lucibee @lucibee.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
Good blog post from Emma Gore-Lloyd of @thereforme.bsky.social Disease prevalence is important, but it's also very difficult to nail down. Designing effective health services requires accurate data. #MECFS #LongCovid #MEDeliveryPlan www.thereforme.uk/p/how-many-p...
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How many people in the UK are affected by ME?
We have a data problem
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Elke Hausmann @drelke.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
‘We have a data problem’ - how many are there of us? #LongCovid #ME FYI @yvettecooper-mp.bsky.social
So why isn't the 404,000 figure used universally? It's not an actual headcount, but an estimate, which the authors describe as "lower bound" , because even in the best-diagnosing
area there are people still waiting for a diagnosis. It is also based on hospital records, and therefore doesn't include anyone whose code is on GP records only. In addition, Samms and Ponting's study points out that, of the 0.16% who were recorded with ME, most had symptoms before the pandemic, and draws on a DecodeME study to show that those who became ill after Covid are rarely coded as having ME.Charities and campaigners - including Action for ME, the ME Association, Forward ME, and #ThereForME (and Tessa Munt MP) - have instead chosen to use a higher 1.35 million figure. This aims to capture the significant number of people who developed symptoms meeting the diagnostic criteria for ME following Covid-19 infection. It is calculated from the above 404k plus the 50% of the 1.9m people in the UK with Long Covid who reported ME-like symptoms (based on 2023 ONS estimates, the most recent Long Covid estimate that exists for the UK as a whole).
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
More here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/how-many-p...
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How many people in the UK are affected by ME?
We have a data problem
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
You may have noticed there's a new PM in town! Today's post from our co-founder @GoreLloyd on our #ThereForME blog outlines a problem his government will inherit when it comes to ME. Houston, we have a data problem. Link in next post 👇
"Data on ME matters because numbers drive resources and political attention. If the number under-represents the scale of the issue, the response will be insufficient." - Emma Gore-Lloyd, #ThereForME. New #ThereForME Substack post
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Read more here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/thereforme...
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#ThereForME Update #33: All change in Westminster
Hello to our subscribers, old and new.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Today's #ThereForME update unpacks the latest from Westminster. We share what’s been happening, why it matters for our community, and our pick of recent research news. Link in next post 👇
#ThereForME Update 33. All Change in Westminster. What's been happening in Westminster; Research round-up; Recommended listening. New #ThereForME Substack Post.
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Tessa Munt MP 🔶 @tessamunt.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
The NHS Modernisation Bill going through Parliament will set the stall for the NHS for coming years. By tabling amendments I’m looking to address specific issues for #pwME and similar conditions. First target… the Single Patient Record (SPR)… 🙏🏽 @actionforME.bsky.social for sharing its thinking.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
You can read Jemma's post in full here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/why-my-lon...
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Why my Long Covid videos resonated
The power of feeling seen
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
Today's #ThereForME guest blog is from Jemma Bella, a content creator whose posts about living with Long Covid have resonated with hundreds of thousands of followers. Jemma reflects on how she began sharing her experience online & why her content resonated. Link in next post 👇
"A huge part of what I hear now is that my content doesn't just validate and resonate with people themselves, but also helps the people around them understand a little better what they're going through". Jemma Bella, content creator. New #ThereForME Substack post.
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Tessa Munt MP 🔶 @tessamunt.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
Thanks for very helpful roundup of #MEAwarenessMonth activities, announcements, and media appearances - great to see so many initiatives from #ME organisations. I’m very aware of continuing concerns re health & care provisions for severe and v severe ME, & need for substantive investment in research
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
Link here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/thereforme...
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#ThereForME Update 32
A round-up of ME Awareness Month
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
We're back for our first #ThereForME Update in a while! Today we're sharing a roundup from ME Awareness Month (AKA May 📅) - from World ME Day events, to research announcements and ME in the media. Link in next post 👇
#ThereForME Update 32: ME Awareness Month. A round-up of World ME Day events, recent research announcements, and ME in the media. New #ThereForME Substack post.
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Tom Kindlon @tomkindlon.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
Description from @scienceforme.bsky.social weekly update: An interview with Carolyn Leary, the newly appointed chair of Forward ME by Karen Hargrave, #ThereForME. Carolyn Leary is carer for her daughter with ME/CFS. She describes making Forward ME more proactive and inclusive. #MEcfs #PwME
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
Read the interview here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/what-does-...
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What does the future hold for Forward ME?
An interview with Carolyn Leary, the newly appointed chair of Forward ME
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
🙌 Our #ThereForME blog is back from hiatus! In today's post, @karenlhargrave.bsky.social interviews Carolyn Leary, the new chair of Forward ME (a coordinating body for ME orgs). Carolyn explains how she got into ME advocacy, what you need to know about Forward ME and her future plans.
"My personal track for this year is that ForwardME must hold the government to account on the final delivery plan. We must do everything we can to keep challenging them on progress and process." Carolyn Leary, Chair of Forward ME. New #ThereForME Substack post.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
Read the article here 👇 inews.co.uk/inews-lifest...
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My husband's care costs have reached £65,000 - we've had to sell our flat
Karen Hargrave says she and her husband probably have a year before their savings run out
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
“Very severe ME is quite a unique condition in that there is effectively no NHS specialist services that are available for someone in James’ position.” Our co-founder @karenlhargrave.bsky.social speaks to @theipaper.com about the financial cost of supporting a loved one with very severe ME.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
Thanks for flagging! We signed as part of the first wave of signatures 🙂
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Tessa Munt MP 🔶 @tessamunt.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
I’m so aware that #WorldMEDay is painful for many, bringing home how tough it is to have #ME, and the seeming lack of progress. Please be reassured that many of us in Parliament do care, and are working at bringing about meaningful change. Change is inevitably slow, but I’m really encouraged.
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Katie Holten @katieholten.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
Today is World #ME Day. My thoughts and solidarity are with everyone dealing with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, aka ME or MECFS. Like millions of others with long COVID, I suffer from it. Update from @thereforme.bsky.social @emmagl.bsky.social @karenlhargrave.bsky.social 🤍 #MEcfs #MillionsMissing
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World ME Day 2026
Standing with the ME community today and every day.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
Short update from @emmagl.bsky.social and @karenlhargrave.bsky.social here 👇 www.thereforme.uk/p/world-me-d...
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World ME Day 2026
Standing with the ME community today and every day.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
We aren't running a campaign this year for World ME Day - but people affected by ME, and the immense suffering faced every day, are on our mind today as much as ever. We’ll be looking at how we can make the most of opportunities when we're back from hiatus later this month 💙
World ME Day 2026. #ThereForME
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Patient Safety Learning @patientsafetylearning.org · 11/05/2026
This week is #MEAwarenessWeek. Featured on the hub, a briefing paper produced by @thereforme.bsky.social on delays to establishing NHS care for very severe ME. www.pslhub.org/learn/improv... #patientsafety
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Delays to establishing NHS care for very severe ME (a briefing paper by #ThereForMe, March 2026)
It is estimated that around 1 in 4 people with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME) are severely or very severely affected. In this briefing paper (attached), campaign group #ThereForMe explain that due to…
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Tom Kindlon @tomkindlon.bsky.social · 31/03/2026
The UK Department of Health and Social Care now expect that work will begin in April 2027 to start the process of commissioning a service for those with very severe ME/CFS ugc.production.linktr.ee/8dd80874-c0a... Screenshot from Science for ME update #MEcfs #PwME #SevereME @thereforme.bsky.social
UK DHSC delays commissioning of services for the most severely affected
The Department of Health and Social Care now expect that work will begin in April 2027 to start the process of commissioning a service for those with very severe ME/CFS. This is said to be due to wider organisational changes within the NHS. #ThereForME have produced a PDF briefing on the topic.
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ThereForME @thereforme.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
Hi Carole - the info we received stated that the decision was made due to the impact of changes to ICBs, abolishing NHSE. As we mention in the briefing, the previous minister did commit in parliament that NHSE being dismantled wouldn’t impact this work. We’ve relayed our concern about this to DHSC.
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