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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S.

@therealnc2.bsky.social
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When life breaks open, I help you find solid ground. Board Certified (SCA), Clinical Spiritual Care Certified in Thanatology, ADEC Creator of "Loving Yourself Through Grief" follow my insta: @spiritualsoulcaresupport

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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON CPR IS NOT A RESET BUTTON Make grandma in the ICU a DNR Damn.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Opposing this law on religious grounds is precisely why it should be passed. If your religion forbids you, then don’t. But not a single thing should be denied the public by coercing people to submit to your religion
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
This whole thread captured my feeling too. I have friends who ask why I don’t go to a liberal congregation, and I’m like just cuz a woman is preaching and they have rainbow flags doesn’t mean the institutional/congregational bullshit isn’t there.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
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Garrett M. Graff @vermontgmg.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
One way you know Dolly Parton lived life the right way: I don’t think anyone’s going to get fired for accurately quoting Dolly Parton today.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
“The supernatural is not a domain of reality. It is a misclassification of experience.” #nonreligious #spirituality open.substack.com/pub/jimpalme...
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The Supernatural Is a Construct
Why Post-Religion Spirituality Requires a Different Foundation
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
There Is A Soul, But Not A Transcendent One www.noemamag.com/there-is-a-s...
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There Is A Soul, But Not A Transcendent One | NOEMA
Consciousness is not the “hard problem” that philosophers say it is.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 18/04/2026
Purpose is the best you’ve been given so that you can give to others. -Joseph Cope #soulsignals #wisdom #purpose
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 18/04/2026
It’s from the novel “under the net”. It’s a dialogue from the book that the character Jack wrote that he cribbed from his friend Hugo
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
Yo @daviddark.bsky.social
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 19/03/2026
“The way is not in the sky The way is in the heart “ -Buddha #soulsignals #wisdom #spiritualcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
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Human Nature (Michael Jackson) - Jazz Neo-Soul LIVE Cover
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Lucky, Heroic, Profane: The Story of N.Y.P.D. Shield No. 13558 www.nytimes.com/2026/03/08/n...
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Lucky, Heroic, Profane: The Story of N.Y.P.D. Shield No. 13558
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 07/03/2026
“To be a good human being is to have a kind of openness to the world, an ability to trust uncertain things beyond your own control.” -Martha Nussbaum #soulsignals #humanist #spiritualcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 21/02/2026
The roles of chaplains in dispelling cancer myths in Nigeria: A narrative review - Salami - 2023 - Health Science Reports - Wiley Online Library onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/...
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The roles of chaplains in dispelling cancer myths in Nigeria: A narrative review
Background and Aims The epidemiological burden of cancer in Africa, and Nigeria in particular, has been increasing significantly over the past few decades due to exposure to numerous risk factors as...
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 09/02/2026
When you are aware of how your inner world interacts with another’s story, you are better able to remain grounded, avoid reactivity, and offer care that is both compassionate and clinically wise. -Scott A. Fleming 3/3 #medsky #spiritualcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 09/02/2026
Drawing on insights from #psychology, #sociology, and #neuroscience, practice calm presence, attuned listening, and appropriate self-disclosure to create a sense of safety and trust. 2/x #medsky #spiritualcare #chaplaincy #healthcare #hospital #chaplain
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 09/02/2026
Effective #spiritualcare begins with the use of self as a disciplined instrument, informed by the behavioral sciences and shaped by reflective practice. Notice your emotional responses, body language, and assumptions in each encounter, these often communicate more than your words. 1/x #medsky
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 09/02/2026
This is why the salvation of the Universe is also our salvation, why solidarity among humans is no longer a tenderhearted luxury but a deep necessity and self-preservation the salvation of your fellow person. - Nikos Kazantzakis #soulsignals #wisdom #spiritualcare
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Rick Bauer (he/him/él) @nvrflycoach.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
#spiritualcare
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David Roberts @volts.wtf · 30/01/2026
Today on Volts: I'm joined by the great @michaelhobbes.bsky.social to discuss "reactionary centrism," an intellectual tendency that's come to dominate US public life. You know the type: would never view themselves as conservative, yet finds voluntary pronoun use vastly more aggravating than fascism.
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All about "reactionary centrism"
Michael Hobbes joins me to diagnose the pundit class's obsession with scolding the left while the right burns down the house.
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David Dark @daviddark.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
*nods* It’s wearying. I don’t see much distance b/w Moore & Mohler. The former brands himself differently.
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Doug @dougincanberra.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
They should be asked as an additional question to explain how their interpretation of Romans 13 relates to Revelation 13 and for double bonus marks to comment on William Stringfellow's discussion of these passages. Asking Baptists to discuss an Episcopalian's theology I know is a stretch
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
The “we” is Moore opposing Mohler and their respective constituents. Two streams contesting the meaning/application of Rom 13
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
I am not a suspended, rootless thing in the world. I am earth of its earth and breath of its breath. I am not alone in my fear, nor alone in my hope, nor alone in my shouting. A tremendous host, an onrush of the Universe fears, hopes, and shouts with me. -Nikos Kazantzakis #soulsignals #human
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Nikos Kazantzakis writing on The Ego in his work, The Saviors of God, has left me speechless. #soulsignals #wisdom #spiritualcare #ego #humanism #spirituality
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Why are we contesting the out of context meaning of other people's mail from 2000 years ago? Both Moore and Mohler hold beliefs that violate basic human rights as the will of God. Both want to impose their religion on others as a condition of their "religious freedom". @daviddark.bsky.social
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
PostScript: #Faith should liberate, not endanger. Protection requires both material resources AND cultural transformation. #medsky #spiritualcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
True #spiritualcare means building communities where: All people have inherent dignity Safety supersedes institutional preservation Accountability is sacred work Leaving violence is supported, not shamed Religious freedom never means violating human rights #medsky
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
When sacred texts are weaponized to enforce control, forgiveness is mandated w/out accountability, divorce is stigmatized regardless of danger, basic human rights are opposed—these teachings remove protective factors rather than strengthening them. Spiritual harm compounds physical harm. 7/8 #medsky
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
The Critical Caveat However, religious communities that teach rigid gender hierarchy, unconditional submission, or "preservation of family at all costs" actually increase vulnerability to violence. #Theology has consequences. Bad theology kills. 6/8 #medsky #spiritualcare #exvangelical
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Faith Communities: A Complex Factor Belonging to #faith or cultural communities that ACTIVELY PROMOTE NONVIOLENCE AND EQUALITY can be profoundly protective. These communities model healthy relationships, provide material support, and create cultures of accountability. 5/8 #medsky #spiritualcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Skills for Navigating Crisis Good #coping and problem-solving skills function as internal resources when external circumstances become dangerous. #Education and #employment opportunities don't just provide income—they build self-efficacy, social networks, and pathways out. 4/8 #medsky
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Economic Stability = Safety Options Access to stable #housing and income isn't just about comfort—it's about survival. Financial dependence traps people in dangerous situations. When individuals have economic resources and housing security, they have the power to leave and rebuild. 3/8 #medsky
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Social Support Matters Profoundly Strong connections with friends, family, and #community create accountability and refuge. When someone has people who notice changes, ask questions, and offer sanctuary without judgment, isolation—a primary tactic of abuse—becomes harder to maintain. #medsky
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
As a Board Certified Chaplain in clinical spiritual care, I witness daily how certain protective factors can reduce vulnerability to domestic violence, family violence, and intimate partner violence. Let me share what evidence and practice teach us. 🧵 #medsky #spiritualcare #healthcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
It’s also very disheartening that this is where we are. Hospice workers have to be prepared for abusers disrupting end of life care. Nothing is sacred.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
Please tell me he hasn’t come up from under whatever rock he’s been under.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
My employer just uploaded a training module to prepare us for ICE encounters in healthcare settings. #medsky
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Jon Cooper @joncooper-us.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
Y’all moral seriousness amidst historical fracture is the work. Read Iris Murdoch, friends. @daviddark.bsky.social
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David Dark @daviddark.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
I’m sold. Organized kindness. What there is.
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David Dark @daviddark.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Y’all. Watch all three. #SystemicKindness
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Saganism @sagan.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
“I promise to question everything my leaders tell me. I promise to use my critical faculties. I promise to develop my independence of thought. I promise to educate myself so I can make my own judgements.” ― Carl Sagan
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Hi @daviddark.bsky.social would you be willing to watch these 3 clips? I get so lost in the shadows but I’m trying to find a way to “live in hope”.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Here’s the last bit, had to split it to make Bluesky work…#love can work, it’s not a pipe dream. Basic #decency is possible. We don’t have to lose our #humanity
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Here’s part 2, we need systemic #kindness we need #compassion as a driver of #policy, we need a #politics of love and an ethic of care to permeate our human relating.
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Hi everyone, some thoughts I wanted to share after my overnight shift at the #hospital. #compassion and #kindness are key. The existence of a fellow #human creates ethical demands. We owe each other human support. #medsky #humanist #spiritualcare
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NC Clair, BCC, CT, M.S. @therealnc2.bsky.social · 12/12/2025
#Grief and #loss during the #holidays means grief fatigue. You need to rest. #spiritualcare #medsky #humanist #connection #hope #growth
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