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Steph Ressort

@thelastressort.bsky.social
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Writer of A Life Quixotic on substack Advertising strategist for hire. Lives in London with Louis and Pip. In remission incurable Still editing that novel... sigh She/her.

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Stephanie Ressort @thelastressort.wsocial.eu · 01/10/2026
I've been thinking a lot about regret recently. stephanieressort.substack.com/p/the-troubl...
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The trouble with regret
The insanity of trying to track the threads of the choices we didn’t make
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
My sweet, grumpy boy is 18 today. I can't believe it has been 17.5 years since I adopted him. He looked after me during chemo, his soothing purrs calming me during the worst of the side effects. Now I get to look after him through his collection of ailments. Happy birthday, Louis
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
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The space between cancer and death
What living with an incurable cancer has taught me (so far, I’m not dead yet)
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
My latest article is dedicated to everyone living with incurable cancer. stephanieressort.substack.com/p/the-space-...
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The space between cancer and death
What living with an incurable cancer has taught me (so far, I’m not dead yet)
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
I just can't. She had so much more she wanted to do. My heart hurts.
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MrC Careens Haphazardly Through Time & Space @oldmisterc.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
Financial shame and the dangers of social withdrawal. I'm fighting the embarrassment and sharing my experiences anyway. Why is this harder than talking about cancer? open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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Don't mention the M word
The shame spiral of losing your financial independence
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James Ball @jamesrball.com · 13/08/2026
Remember, no teen will see your A-Level results post here, but your middle-aged friend who got straight As and went on to a crashingly disappointing career anyway will. #bekind
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Bopeep-Burton 💙🐓🏝🐈🏡🏖 🦋🇺🇦🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈🇫🇷🇵🇸🏳️‍⚧️🌎 @bopeep-burton.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
A role can be redundant. A person can’t. You can not let a company restructure define your worth. Just framing it like that makes the idea of redundancy shame ridiculous. Perspective is everything. open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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No one is redundant
A company restructure does not define your self worth
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Rob Bignell, Editor/Author @inventingreality.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
#writer #writerslife #authorsky #amwriting #writingcommunity
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Big Green Books @biggreenbooks.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
SCHOOLS! Would you like £500 of FREE books?! I do a thing called "The Big Green Books 500 Club" Lovely people donate £1 each week & when I get £500, I send a school a load of books. We have £500, so if you'd like some books, get in touch! www.biggreenbookshop.com/big-green-bo...
two photos of different schools showing off the £500 of books that I sent them.
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SlenderSherbet @slendersherbet.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
Please take a moment out of your day to marvel at the balletic poise, calm elegance and graceful athleticism of the panda.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
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Life is not a race
We're all on different journeys, we need to stop comparing apples with pears.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
In my latest article inspired by my ongoing quest to live a happier life, I explore opting out of the trauma Olympics, embracing the benefits of showing off and resisting the fear of being left behind open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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Life is not a race
We're all on different journeys, we need to stop comparing apples with pears.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
I feel seen. Except for the spouse bit
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
I'm going offline for 3 days. Sat-Mon are dedicated to outlining and detailing my novel edits. I need some clear focused time to nail it down. Wish me luck 🙏 #writing #editing #digitaldetox
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
I've had the most joyous time explaining Count Binface to the very politically engaged 94 year old lady I speak to for Age UK. Oh how she laughed. She hates Farage and everything he stands for.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
With the weekend upon us, a reminder to rest.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
"If you keep us busy enough, it is so much easier to tell us what to do and what to think. We need to reclaim a healthy relationship with rest and embrace the increased ability to think critically that comes with it." My latest A Life Quixotic article is live! open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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The Demonisation of Rest
The anxiety of living in a world that loathes "laziness".
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Peter Jukes @peterjukes.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
In politics, we’re torn between ideals and practicalities, aspirations and realities, the world as we want it, and as we find it But one day a manifesto comes along that reconciles both in every pledge. A rare moment of clarity and hope
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GeorgeAtomic⚛️RadioActive☢️ @georgeatomic.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
If the whole planet went to complete solar & wind energy we could stop global warming in 5 years. 5 years,folks. The oil & gas industry would be relegated to machinery only.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Binface, Binface, Binface!!! Come on Clacton, you know nothing makes sense anymore. He can't be worse than the No-Show Grifter 5-mill Farage
In a riff on batman, Count Binface is standing in dark silhouette looking at a Binface light symbol projected onto the sky- ready to answer the call.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Existing in my post cancer treatment body means taking painkillers before leaving the house. It also means delaying departure because I had a coffee, and I need to be sure I'm not about to have an adverse reaction. Fortunately, this conference is running for 3 days... 😆
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
My younger self would be shocked to discover that I am now someone who prefers smooth peanut butter.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
"We are living in times when too many people behave as if humans exist to feed the system, rather than the system existing to support humanity. This upside-down thinking explains so many of the challenges that we face today, as well as the coordinated attacks on our sense of self-worth."
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
If it was really about the cost to taxpayers, wouldn't the hatriots be rioting in front of the houses of the rich opportunists ripping us off with the inflated cost of their not fit for human occupancy asylum hotels?
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Mike Galsworthy @mikegalsworthy.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
As Britain swelters through another heatwave, few people will have heard that ministers have quietly dropped plans for solar carports. Cars cooler in summer. Shelter from the rain in winter. Clean electricity all year round. A missed opportunity?
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As Britain bakes, ministers quietly park plans for solar carports
Ministers have quietly shelved plans that could have transformed Britain's biggest car parks into shaded power stations
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Dr. Jack Brown @drjackbrown.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
33% of the World's population does not have access to clean drinking water. Eff the data centers.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
Have you ever noticed how some people are so distracted arguing about the pedantic details of history that they fail to learn its lessons? Pedantry as a torpedo to truth. I'm starting to suspect it might be deliberate.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
I'm not sure if it's the heat, but I think we are overdue a self-worth revolution ... open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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Measuring Our Self-Worth
Humans are not commodities, our worth is not measured in money or likes
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
I rest my case.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
Have you ever been to a party where you know a few people, but they're busy mingling. So you try to join other conversations. People are friendly but distant. So you're edged out to the wall. Maybe you loiter by the food. Plaster a smile on and feel sad. BlueSky is like that party for me.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
It is after midnight and my door bell just rang. I opened the front door, heart pounding. Why would someone be at my door so late? So many scenarios - none good. My cat Louis strolls into the house. My neighbour, clearly on her way home explained that he was crying at the front door.
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Big Green Books @biggreenbooks.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
Hey gang. It's #buyastrangerabook day! @laurabrennan.bsky.social sent me a tenner to buy someone a book with. How lovely is that? So, there are millions of ace books for you to ask for. So just ask if there's a particular book you want! UK only
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
This old fella loves his cat mint. Make no mistake, it is his cat mint. He is only willing to share it with the bees and butterflies
A ginger cat is standing guard over a thick cat mint bush.
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Best for Britain @bestforbritain.org · 16/06/2026
Today, we remember Jo Cox, who was murdered ten years ago. In her maiden speech, Jo famously said: “We are far more united and have far more in common than that which divides us.” Ten years on, those words are a powerful reminder to us all: We have far more in common than that which divides us.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Living with incurable cancer, I've learned a lot about hope. I'm still learning, truth be told. Here are my learnings so far.. A mix of myth, psychology, poetry, and cats. The chaos of my brain = the antithesis of AI 😂 open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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Hope is a Muscle
Passive Hope Atrophies
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BladeoftheSun @bladeofthes.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
The first thing Nigel Farage will introduce if he is elected is Health Insurance. The NHS correctly costs £200bn a year. In the USA Health Insurance is £14,000 a year per person £14,000 x 50m adults is £700bn a year. £500bn a year profit If you can't afford that you are dying
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Anne Louise Avery @annelouiseavery.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
If you like my stories, then please support my writing & buy me a chocolate over on Kofi ko-fi.com/annelouiseav.... I can't work full-time, because of ongoing cancer treatment, which gives me lots of awful side effects like severe fatigue & joint pain, so every little bit really does help!
Image by Susan Jeffers of a tiny girl in a Victorian pink gown hugging an enormous blue bird.
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Wrighty @wrightsnake.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Nice thing to see on my way home.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Living with incurable cancer, I've learned a lot about hope. I'm still learning, truth be told. Here are my learnings so far.. A mix of myth, psychology, poetry, and cats. The chaos of my brain = the antithesis of AI 😂 open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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Hope is a Muscle
Passive Hope Atrophies
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Ben Phillips @benphillips76.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
Huge fan of this graphic
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
I have shared a chapter of my WIP novel in my latest substack article. First time I've put this much of my book out there. Feels safe sharing here,as no one reads or reacts to my posts 😆 open.substack.com/pub/stephani...
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A Change of Frequency
Testing learning and doing something that makes me queasy
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
That thing when you do something that is seismic to you but causes nary a ripple in the world. Perfect moment to put the kettle on, make a cup of tea, and watch a TV quiz show.
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Iron Spike @ironspike.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
Damn. RIP to a real one.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
The new neighbours have moved in, and they seem very nice so far. They're Ukrainian and have a baby who was delighted to meet me. I am not someone who generally delights babies. It is a pleasant sensation. But I'm not sure we'll be as close as I was with one of the previous neighbours.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
I struggle to keep up with the gardening (stupid chronic illness), so I carefully curate the photos I share to leave out the mess. I am honest enough to admit this, but I am still too ashamed to stop doing it. My garden is full of bees and butterflies, and they are my main audience 🐝🦋
Yellow roses, purple flowered big busy cat mint, a glorious plant with abundant Bell shaped purple flowersPretty purple flowers on a low to ground creeping plant, running across pebblesLarge bushy jasmine, blue skies above it
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BladeoftheSun @bladeofthes.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
There is something that people don't like to hear, but it is undeniably true. You cannot wage increase or Universal Basic Income your way out of our nightmare. Because the billionaires who own everything will simply increase their prices. You must stop the billionaires.
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Steph Ressort @thelastressort.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
Floppy hot floof
A small black and white cat is sleeping halfway up a staircase. The carpet is beige. The cat's paw is hanging off the side of the step. She is sound asleep
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