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The HOJ Project

@theheartofjacks.com

The Heart of Jacks is conversations about sex. HOJ is science, culture, opinion, art, history, and more than anything, being IRL humans. Host Paul Rosenberg is founder of Rain City Jacks, a jack-off club in Seattle. patreon.com/theheartofjacks

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 18/06/2026

🧵 Warning: pedantic sex nerdery ahead. Occasionally I see profiles on spicy accounts that describe themselves as "demisexual." (1 of 5)

A still from the movie, "The Princess Bride" with the text, "YOU KEEP USING THAT WORD. I DO NOT THINK IT MEANS WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS."

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 14/12/2024

I set the afternoon aside for recording voice overs so of course Seattle is experiencing a windstorm and my neighbors left their windchimes up.

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 08/12/2024

Discussion for a possible future episode: Does the commercial DIY porn phenomenon of fan sites—where content creators monetize, promote, and sell access to self-porn—repeat and amplify unrealistic and harmful beauty standards for men and women alike?

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 30/11/2024

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 29/11/2024

Sex at Dawn was transformative for how I think about sexuality, both my species’ and my own. It’s one of the most influential books of my life. Almost 15 years after its publication, I still think everyone should read and study it. It’s an antidote to the poison of moral disinformation.

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 27/11/2024

I just received my copy of Kink Is, in which I’m featured… as one of the very few contributors using their full name lol. In any case, pretty cool! I’m not entirely satisfied with the quote, and wish I could re-edit it, but sometimes, just showing up without shame is enough. KINK IS

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The HOJ Project @theheartofjacks.com · 04/11/2024

#introduction I'm Paul Rosenberg, devout homosexualist in Seattle. Creator of The Heart of Jacks Podcast Leader of Rain City Jacks (a jack-off club) Husband Production designer Writer Singer Mаsturbation rabble-rouser Staunchly secular the-heart-of-jacks-podcast.simplecast.com raincityjacks.org

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