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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

tonight! Chida House Comedy, 7pm, Casa Chida in Silver Lake. Byron Bowers, Jamie Loftus, Rob Michael Hugel, Mary Huth, Isa Quiros. no cover, $10 margaritas, I'm hosting. RSVP: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

Letterboard sign listing the September 6 Chida House Comedy lineup at Casa Chida, every Sunday at 7PM, no cover, $10 margaritas

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

reminder that Sunday you could be on a patio in Silver Lake watching Byron Bowers, Jamie Loftus, Rob Michael Hugel, Mary Huth and Isa Quiros for free. 7pm, Casa Chida. RSVP: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

Headshots of comedians Byron Bowers, Jamie Loftus, Rob Michael Hugel, Mary Huth and Isa Quiros on a purple Chida House Comedy flyer for Sunday September 6th at Casa Chida

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

this Sunday I'm hosting Chida House Comedy with Byron Bowers, Jamie Loftus, Rob Michael Hugel, Mary Huth + Isa Quiros. 7pm, Casa Chida in Silver Lake, no cover, $10 margaritas. and Nicole Byer next week. RSVP: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

Tonight — Chida House Comedy at Casa Chida in Silverlake, 7pm. Kyle Ayers, Will Weldon, Amanda Cohen, Jason Kaye, Kate Strobel & Fumi Abe. Free, no cover, $10 margaritas. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

Tomorrow — free comedy at Casa Chida in Silverlake, 7pm. Kyle Ayers, Will Weldon, Amanda Cohen, Jason Kaye, Kate Strobel & Fumi Abe. No cover, $10 margaritas. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

This Sunday at Chida House Comedy: Kyle Ayers, Will Weldon, Amanda Cohen, Jason Kaye, Kate Strobel & Fumi Abe. 7pm at Casa Chida in Silverlake. Free, no cover, $10 margaritas. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

you listen to some songs by the beatles and it's like...yeah, damn i get it, they kinda did deserve all that noise

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Free comedy this Sunday, Aug 16 — 7pm at Casa Chida in Silverlake. Kyle Ayers, Will Weldon, Amanda Cohen, Jason Kaye, Kate Strobel & Fumi Abe, hosted by me, Babs & Carly. No cover, $10 margs. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

i love being a coworker. yeah i have an owala, yeah i've seen friends

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

john early; you're the oh mary i'm waiting for babe, kate as lincoln obviously

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

Tonight !! Chida House Comedy at Casa Chida in Silverlake, 7pm. Cameron Esposito, Nate Craig, Ellory Smith, Allyson Vastano & Ari Mostow. Free, no cover, $10 margaritas. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

Tomorrow ! free comedy at Casa Chida in Silverlake, 7pm. Cameron Esposito, Nate Craig, Ellory Smith, Allyson Vastano & Ari Mostow. No cover, $10 margaritas. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

This Sunday at Chida House Comedy: Cameron Esposito, Nate Craig, Ellory Smith, Allyson Vastano & Ari Mostow. 7pm at Casa Chida in Silverlake. Free, no cover, $10 margaritas. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

Free comedy this Sunday, Aug 9, 7pm at Casa Chida in Silverlake. Cameron Esposito, Nate Craig, Ellory Smith, Allyson Vastano & Ari Mostow, hosted by me, Babs & Carly. No cover, $10 margs. RSVP on Eventbrite: chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

still making stickers, phone cases and other crafts for good causes. donating all proceeds to Fundana, a children's home impacted by the Venezuela earthquakes. golden girls stuff, satc, READ stickers, get some fun stuff for a good thing! theashleyray.com/ashleyraycra...

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

FREE COMEDY + $10 MARGARITAS IN SILVER LAKE rsvp chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 07/06/2026

LOS ANGELES !! FREE COMEDY SHOW TONIGHT i will be doing jokes i wrote for hannah berner that are actually funny RSVP chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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PolyAmateur Hour @polyamateurhour.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

OMG Yes, run Paula, run!

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

theee FIRST your poly big sister column is UP! is this lady helping her partner cheat on their spouse? is it ok to break up if you want an abortion but he wants to raise the kid with his wife? my answer might surprise you! www.deeptrouble.net/p/am-i-helpi...

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 17/05/2026

TONIGHT at CASA CHIDA in silver lake, it's your favorite weekly comedy show! 7pm. $10 margaritas. FREE. rsvp www.eventbrite.com/e/chida-hous...

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 08/05/2026

did you LOVE last night's episode of HACKS?!?! well we have co-writer @guybranum over at Chida House Comedy THIS SUNDAY! what a damn line up! chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

want more local comedy?? we have some of the best every Sunday at @casachidala! we even have a few of your Funny AF favorites dropping in for some surprises! FREE. EVERY SUNDAY! chidahouse.eventbrite.com

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

I'm hosting a few comedy shows in May if you are looking for some that are NOT in the netflix fest www.eventbrite.com/e/chida-hous...

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

more 5 star reviews! 50% off all orders over $15 on my craft site right now. im not allowed to make new crafts until this stuff is gone, please help theashleyray.com/ashleyraycra...

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

if you watched euphoria last night i have already reported you to the authorities for breaking the Ashley's Nieces Are Sweet Innocent Children Even As Adults law

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Shivvy 🎃 @shivvy.blacksky.app · 09/04/2026

this is it, this is the one cc @phoeberoi.bsky.social

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 12/04/2026

same! i was so shocked by the vulture book gossip piece, i checked how it did on amazon/nytimes. it never made the ny times list and never went higher than #7000 on amazon non-fiction sales. truly niche discourse

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 07/04/2026

adult braces only sold 3000 copies. not a damn one of you who was arguing with me about it actually read it

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 07/04/2026

came to see if @netflix.com is here cuz they announced the show im on, but theyre not so ill do it for them: Funny AF with Kevin Hart, a new competition series where Kevin and a team of comedy legends are searching for the next comic star and YOUR vote will crown the winner. Starting April 20.

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Angela @redwhimsy.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

As someone else wrote, Ashley is imminently fair to Lindy. I've been glued to Ashley's perspective on ADULT BRACES because of her own background as a solo poly and comedian. The relationship sounded godawful to me (and I have a solo poly partner), so I wanted to hear someone cut through the noise.

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 03/04/2026

tune into comics unleashed this season to see if i convince byron allen to try polyamory

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Billie Cassin @billiecassin.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

Ashley does it again!

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Kayleigh Donaldson @ceilidhann.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

I really appreciate this Lindy West deep dive from Ashley: dense, fair, empathetic to Lindy, and proportionate about the context of her work (seriously, it feels like every other write-up of her book was from some smarmy loser who never got over Jezebel calling them a TERF in 2015.)

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

lindy west can't kill millennial feminism but she can show us how little we gain from making the personal political when the personal is driven by social media engagement

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

now updated with my thoughts on Aham's film that Lindy co-wrote, Thin Skin

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

don't think i shared my full lindy west deep dive on here, so here ya go! www.deeptrouble.net/p/the-lindy-...

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The Lindy West Deep Dive

-From Your Poly Big Sister

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

and remember we are NOT watching the new season of euphoria. why? because it is illegal to watch my niece play a stripper even if she is 25. i talked to the supreme court. she is on the lifetime cutie patootie baby registry and sam levinson is going to PRISON

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 29/03/2026

after watching his movie, i can say this is true

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 27/03/2026

i will keep talking about adult braces actually because i see the bigger picture now. we get this book to go viral, to sell. it makes so much money, she can afford to pay 4 years of alimony. it's a long way out but we can get her there.

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 27/03/2026

in the nytimes interview lindy said she wanted to have a baby and grow old with aham and by the end of adult braces she is the baby to her husband and his gf as they all grow old together in her house, kinda beautiful if you don't think about it

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 27/03/2026

and if they dont respond to my application by 4/15 theyre gonna have to do it for me too

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

can anyone tell me if idris elba ended up jackin' that train off the tracks

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ashley ray @theashleyray.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

the best summary of adult braces is aham’s bday posts for them truly. it’s her bday if we’re gonna do a jokey joke can she at least be in focus

aham giving lindy the finger in a photo where she’s out of focus even tho it’s her bday

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Anoosh, organizer @anoosh100.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

I finally read this, after bookmarking it. Getting a poly perspective on Lindy’s book is so necessary, given that poly relationships are still generally regarded as “fuckin’ around.” (I have been both monogamous and non-.) If you want a clear-eyed, no-nonsense, no-BS analysis, this is a good one.

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Skeletons, But Swole @untimelygamer.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

OK I read this, which everybody seems to agree is the one good take on Lindy West, and now I’m done.

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