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Wendy✨

@thearest.bsky.social
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Crim defense atty; here for #goodtrouble; BLM; ❤️🏳️‍🌈; GenX with readers; shamelessly nerdy; TN-NOLA-NYC-TN; INFP-T (rare) 😉; “cottage gardener”; books; junk shopping; PBS; outdoor birds; cooking; magical thinking, doing, being—and MANIFESTATION; 🙅‍♀️ dm’s; @ 👍

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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I love okra so much! Fried (in the South), pickled in a Bloody Mary, pickled on a charcuterie board! I’ve never grown it, myself. Never seen the blooms before Bluesky showed me! I’d love to try to grow it next year!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Exactly what I’ve been thinking!!! 🧚
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darren32359.bsky.social @darren32359.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I agree! He was such a perfect surprise!!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Great point! Happy Sunday, Wu!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Oooh! I love this too!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Very auspicious little fella for tonight’s 🌕. I believe he may be keeping warm by the patio lights!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
This might sound insanely needy—but, what kinds of pots do you use for indoors? My big fern was left in its original container and a black garbage bag. Not an attractive look—but it worked! Also, I feel like I need to hit Habitat for Humanity’s ReStore for more plant stands. 🤷‍♀️
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Thank you! 🙏 also, I just cut back all the dead fronds—basically all—and am soaking. Next, I’ll get the 10-10-10 on it!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
You can get screens to cover your potted bulbs. They’ve worked well for me this year. Otherwise, I’ve surrendered to the thug squirrels. I will only be planting daffodil bulbs this year. The thugs ate tulips, 2 bare root roses, and otherwise dug up or trampled everything else.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I’m so glad you let her stay! I love all spiders!! (Except the 2: brown recluse and black widow). Even the messy spiders are welcome here!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Remarkable and so special!! 🥰. How did they meet? (Asking for a friend…)
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
🌱. What do you all do with Boston Ferns at the end of season when they’re really creating the “haunted house” (dying) vibe? Last year, I was able to save one and we made it through the winter! At one point this summer, it flourished. I’ll bring IT back inside. The others look too far gone.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I’ve needed both of these for a long time. I’ve feel like: if it’s such that there’s a meme abt it—it’s important and real. And then I pre-forgive myself for whatever I’m abt to do.
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Peggy Brava Radical Left Scum @peggybrava.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
I wish I had a fox!! 🦊
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
*spring! lol 🤦‍♀️
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
I’m addicted to this now!! Thank you for sharing with me! I began with the fireplace saga. And the baby has just been born! On to the next installment!!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Thank you! 🙏 And exactly a perfect base!!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Thank you so much!! I’d love a sprint and fall bloom!!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
I thought so too!! And there are others!! Just fantabulous!!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Gorgeous!!! And one of my fave color roses! Is it scented and where could I purchase?
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
One of the best parts of our England tour is: we didn’t know the news! It was divine….to simply be unaware.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Bc yall know how I feel abt thug squirrels!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I’m sorry for you too!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
If you feel like sharing—I would really love to see their renovation journey.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I know—my tomatoes and peppers are long gone and hard to find. I wonder: what will come up next year? I was just getting hollyhocks.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Thank you so much! I feel like all the places are suffering. And it breaks my heart! 💔
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I’m glad to know you got some rain, though.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I’m sorry for all of us!!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
This is the insane weather. I didn’t want to leave the Cotswolds. 😔
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Isn’t it the worst?! My garden has been gone.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
🌱everything here in Nashville is so crunchy. It’s sad. We’re having an incredibly long summer with temps 95°
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
🤦‍♀️. Downton Abbey!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I couldn’t distinguish. Some people said: aw, they’re all grouse! But I wanted them to be pheasant!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
The “common” pheasant. He seemed pretty awesome to me!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
🌱. I can finally post to “thick trunk” Tuesday! I don’t know where to begin abt the Cotswolds adventure. But thank you, Joe Seals for suggesting we visit! It was everything I wanted to feel, know, see, touch, hear! More to come…
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
My fave hare sculpture—but the shop wouldn’t sell it!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
It was such an amazing place! Will post gardens and pheasants! And interior! Incredible!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
One of my fave signs on the promenade in Cheltanham.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Can confirm!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
It feels like a very personal kind of Downtown Abbey. It has a rich history which I can hardly wait to share! But sleep now bc we have to be at Heathrow at 8:00 am!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
And now I have thick trunk trees to show; pheasants and grouse; driving the speed limits!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
We have had the best time in the Cotswolds! I’m trying to think whether I should curate my posts or just blab it all with no theme! First—our home base:
Dumbleton Hall in Evesham.  This pic includes the orangery.Dumbleton Hall.  In Evesham.  Side view of orangery.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I need a hawk so bad! And now, I’m needing a pet pheasant.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I like to believe we are usually good tourists—and our location in London was ideal. It was hot and we were lazy. The Cotswolds—another story! Maybe we simply needed the Cotswolds right now in our lives. We’ve made friends here whom I’m certain we’ll see again. I love that!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
The truth is—our hotel was AMAZING! In every way. Incredibly accommodating my husband’s birthday. We took a 4-hr driving tour with a sharp, down to earth fellow, in a vintage mini cooper! And saw so much! He was a wonderful guide! All to say, I’m unfair to judge London based on our 1 day out.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Thankfully, neither of us ever drinks Starbucks and in England have enjoyed varieties of coffees, and teas!
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
This is very good to know. We will definitely include in our next visit.
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Wendy✨ @thearest.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Mmm…..it was very crowded and heated and perhaps, too busy for what we were hoping. We have been in the Cotswolds since Wednesday and have had a lovely time. I have so many pics!
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