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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 14h
Living and Dying Without Fear with RamDev Dale Borglum — Learn from one of the founders of the conscious dying movement how to live with awareness so that fear doesn’t interfere with spiritual growth. eolupodcast.com/2026/10/05/e...
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Living Without Fear: Insights from RamDev Dale Borglum
Discover how to live mindfully and overcome fear of death with insights from RamDev Dale Borglum, pioneer of the conscious dying movement.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Good palliative care and assisted dying can go hand in hand www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
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Good palliative care and assisted dying can go hand in hand | Letters
Letters: Readers respond to an article on the urgent need for palliative care reform
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
How to Plan Your Own Death – Director Sophie Deraspe wants her new documentary “The Final Act” to change how we think about dying. www.truthdig.com/articles/how...
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"The Final Act" Director Interview: How to Plan Your Own Death
Director Sophie Deraspe wants her new documentary “The Final Act” to change how we think about dying.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
New Book ‘I Don’t Have Leprosy, I’m Just Grieving’ Takes a Blunt Look at How Society Treats the Bereaved www.stardem.com/ap/nation/ne...
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New Book ‘I Don’t Have Leprosy, I’m Just Grieving’ Takes a Blunt Look at How Society Treats the Bereaved
- In a raw and deeply personal account of life after loss, author Regina Collier challenges the clichés, expectations and uncomfortable silence that often surround grief -
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Mediation as a Tool for Conflict at the End of Life with Molly Darsow — Learn how a professional mediator can help families manage conflict and disruption at the end of life and why it’s important. eolupodcast.com/2026/09/28/e...
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Mediation for End-of-Life Conflicts: Insights from Molly Darsow
Discover how mediation aids families in resolving end-of-life conflicts with expert Molly Darsow on our latest podcast episode.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
How Caregivers Can Prepare for a Loved One’s Final Days www.aarp.org/caregiving/b...
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How to Prepare for a Loved One’s Final Days
Knowing what to expect can help you prepare and provide care
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Death is certain but few of us are really prepared medicalxpress.com/news/2026-09...
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Death is certain but few of us are really prepared
Death may well come for us all, but new research has found that few Australians are prepared for it or know how to help family members at the end of their lives.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I’m Haunted by My Mom’s Death. So I Gave My Son the Talk I Wish She’d Given Me www.newsweek.com/haunted-by-m...
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I'm haunted by what I did when my mom died. So I made my son a promise
I had to make sure my son won't be caught in a cloud of guilt after I die, like I have been since my mom's death.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Illinois becomes first Midwest state to allow medically assisted death as "Deb's law" goes into effect www.cbsnews.com/chicago/news...
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Illinois becomes first Midwest state to allow medically assisted death as "Deb's law" goes into effect
A new Illinois law lets terminally ill patients request a lethal prescription to end their lives, making the state the 13th in the U.S. — and the first in the Midwest — to permit it.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
We asked people with dementia about voluntary assisted dying. Here’s what they said theconversation.com/we-asked-peo...
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We asked people with dementia about voluntary assisted dying. Here’s what they said
New research shares the stories of Australians with dementia who want a choice in how they live and die.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Talking about death is healthy, ignoring it isn’t www.disabilitysupportguide.com.au/talking-disa...
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Talking about death is healthy, ignoring it isn’t | Disability Support Guide
We need to journey towards death together. Collaboration is key. Being able to talk about death has been found to be one...
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Grief in the Aftermath of Suicide with Laura Jaye Cramer — Learn how a beautiful magazine about grief was inspired by the devastating loss of two loved ones to suicide. eolupodcast.com/2026/09/21/e...
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Candlelight Magazine: Navigating Grief After Suicide Loss
Explore how Laura Jaye Cramer turned personal grief into art with Candlelight Magazine, supporting those navigating loss and healing.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
‘I feel like I’m cancelling out her life’: the wrenching work of clearing out a parent’s home www.theguardian.com/society/ng-i...
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‘I feel like I’m cancelling out her life’: the wrenching work of clearing out a parent’s home
From old love letters to pieces of string, our homes are stuffed with stuff. When it comes time to empty a parent’s home, sorting the junk from the memory can be overwhelming
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
'People forget we exist': Why older LGBTQ+ people fear losing identity www.bbc.com/news/article...
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Why growing older LGBTQ+ community in Britain fears losing identity
A report suggests older LGBTQ+ people experience more social isolation than their heterosexual peers.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I've been a hospice nurse for 4 decades. Here's what people get wrong about death and dying ca.style.yahoo.com/ive-been-a-h...
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I've been a hospice nurse for 4 decades. Here's what people get wrong about death and dying
End-of-life care includes plenty of laughter, Kath Murray — who's been a hospice nurse and educator for more than 40 years — says.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Illinois residents who are terminally ill can now end their lives. Here’s how it works. chicago.suntimes.com/health/2026/...
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Illinois residents who are terminally ill can now end their lives. Here’s how it works.
The medical aid in dying law is facing court challenges, but the law still stands.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
8 Books About Grief and Healing vocal.media/bookclub/8-b...
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8 Books About Grief and Healing
Discover 8 Books About Grief and Healing
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Do whales grieve? Rare footage of humpback alongside stillborn calf suggests they might www.theguardian.com/environment/...
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Do whales grieve? Rare footage of humpback alongside stillborn calf suggests they might | Olaf Meynecke for the Conversation
The behaviours we observed could represent grief, but they could also reflect maternal attachment, confusion or instinctive caregiving
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Terminal lucidity: when dying dementia patients regain awareness psyche.co/ideas/termin...
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Terminal lucidity: when dying dementia patients regain awareness | Psyche Ideas
The reports span centuries and cultures. If they’re real, memory and identity might be far more recoverable than we thought
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
The Life We Leave filmthreat.com/reviews/the-...
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The Life We Leave | Film Threat
VASHON ISLAND FILM FESTIVAL 2026 REVIEW! In our ever-changing society, about how we should live, The Life We Leave offers a different perspective. This well-executed…
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Yoga for Living with Loss with Sheena Nancy Sarles — Learn how grief shows up in the body and how simple yoga techniques can help us recognize and embody grief in a healthy way. eolupodcast.com/2026/09/14/e...
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Discover How Yoga Helps Embrace Grief in the Body
Explore how grief manifests in the body and discover yoga techniques to process it healthily with expert Sheena Nancy Sarles.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
‘The Final Act’ offers an intimate look at death through people who chose MAID vancouver.citynews.ca/2026/09/12/t...
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'The Final Act' offers an intimate look at death through people who chose MAID
After filming 69-year-old Céline Carpentier take her final breaths before a medically assisted death, Sophie Deraspe couldn't help but notice, in sharp focus, all the life around her.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
What We Get Wrong About Death, According To End-Of-Life Workers www.huffpost.com/entry/death-...
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What We Get Wrong About Death, According To End-Of-Life Workers
Palliative care and hospice professionals discuss what the process is like — and their insights may challenge what you think about dying.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
After Facing Death, Is There Any Hope for Sex? — Losing loved ones is part of aging, but it doesn't have to mean the end of one's sex life. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/no-n...
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After Facing Death, Is There Any Hope for Sex?
The intersection of death and sex is complex and can be hard to navigate, especially as we age. But there are ways forward.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Shared memories of losing a parent www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
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Shared memories of losing a parent | Letters
Letters: Gaby Hinsliff’s moving piece about the death of her mother brought back memories for Bob Dawson, John Lovell and Patrick Thomas
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Long live death’s dark humour spectator.com/article/long...
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Long live death’s dark humour
One of the things people don’t tell you about grief is the humorous side of it. Many will warn that grief can erupt at strange times and that memories of those who have died spring upon you in unusual...
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Pet loss stigma 'makes owners downplay their grief' www.bbc.com/news/article...
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RSPCA research shows owners 'downplay their grief' due to stigma
An owner said her grief was overwhelming when her cat died last year.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Grieving lost body function: What psychology teaches us about our chronic illness journeys theconversation.com/grieving-los...
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Grieving lost body function: What psychology teaches us about our chronic illness journeys
For many people, coming to terms with chronic illness feels impossible. What if psychology could make meaning of the loss?
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
5 realities about navigating loss with little ones epgn.com/2026/09/09/5...
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5 realities about navigating loss with little ones - Philadelphia Gay News
From a young age, I remember recognizing that death was a thing that happened. I knew that my mom’s parents both passed when she was a child, and I lost my paternal grandparents by age 7. What I don’t...
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Giving Words to Grief: Unexpected Support Through AI with Tom Lehmann — Surveys show that millions of people are turning to AI to talk about their grief. Learn how one man began a conversation with AI about his devastating grief and what happened after that. eolupodcast.com/2026/09/07/e...
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Ep. 564 Giving Words to Grief: Unexpected Support Through AI with Tom Lehmann
Surveys show that millions of people are turning to AI to talk about their grief. Learn how one man began a conversation with AI about his devastating grief and what happened after that. About the …
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Starting conversations about dying www.localmatters.co.nz/hibiscus-new...
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Starting conversations about dying - Local Matters
Death is something every family eventually encounters, yet it remains one of the subjects many of us find hardest to talk about. Dying Matters Week,..
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
How to help your teen cope with a young person’s suicide aleteia.org/2026/09/08/h...
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How to help your teen cope with a young person's suicide
A young person's suicide can shake even teens who barely knew them, raising difficult questions about death, friendship and their own vulnerability.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Losing a parent is a bewildering, lonely experience. Here are the things I wish I had known before www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...
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Losing a parent is a bewildering, lonely experience. Here are the things I wish I had known before | Gaby Hinsliff
There’ll be exhaustion, love tinged with occasional rage, even moments of black humour. But my mum would want me to tell you: don’t be afraid, says Guardian columnist Gaby Hinsliff
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Talking About Suicide With Kids coloradoparent.com/talking-abou...
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Talking About Suicide With Kids - Colorado Parent
There may be no conversation a parent fears more than asking, “Are you thinking about hurting yourself?” It’s a question many parents hope they will never have to ask—but mental health experts say ask...
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
We need to get better at talking about death and grief www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
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We need to get better at talking about death and grief | Letters
Letters: Readers respond to Polly Hudson’s article about the things people said to her (or didn’t) after her mother died
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Death Wings Project: Art and Storytelling for Loss and Grief with Bess Welden and Laura Cleminson — Learn how a creative art project can help foster conversations about loss and grief and how a playwright and an end-of-life doula collaborated to develop it. eolupodcast.com/2026/08/31/e...
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Ep. 563 Death Wings Project: Art and Storytelling for Loss and Grief with Bess Welden and Laura Cleminson
Learn how a creative art project can help foster conversations about loss and grief and how a playwright and an end-of-life doula collaborated to develop it. About the guests: My guests this week a…
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Life after loss: Re-entering the dating world and finding your spark again iol.co.za/saturday-sta...
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Life after loss: Re-entering the dating world and finding your spark again
Restarting your romantic life after losing a partner is no small feat. Transitioning from a season of deep loss back into the world of flirting, first dates, and intimacy can feel equal parts daunting...
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Washington dad’s family writes viral heartfelt obituary that internet declares as ‘best ever’ nypost.com/2026/08/29/u...
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Washington dad’s family writes viral heartfelt obituary that internet declares as ‘best ever’
“Michael is, again, very sad to bring this news to you. It wasn’t much fun to receive.”
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
There can be huge comfort in end-of-life preparation www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
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There can be huge comfort in end-of-life preparation | Letter
Letter: Gill Empson says her husband wanted to make sure that the family would not have a mess to sort out after his death from a terminal illness
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
How to Navigate Complicated Relationships With Older Parents www.theflowspace.com/interpersona...
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How to Navigate Complicated Relationships With Older Parents
Complicated relationships with older parents can will often make you balance between saying what needs to be said versus protecting boundaries.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Is It Normal for a Grieving Person to Feel Happiness? Personal Perspective — Sadness was expected, but happiness showed up, too. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/chan...
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Is It Normal for a Grieving Person to Feel Happiness?
Personal Perspective: Happiness can be a normal part of the grief process, along with feelings of loss and sadness.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Even death is unaffordable in America now www.nbcnews.com/business/per...
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Even death is unaffordable in America now
Funeral credit cards, rented caskets, Amazon urns: Here’s how Americans are coping with the rising cost of dying.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
In 2018 a female orca off the coast of Washington gave birth to a calf that died within half an hour, and rather than let the body sink she carried it with her, pushing it through the water on her head for 17 days spacedaily.com/k-in-2018-a-...
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In 2018 a female orca off the coast of Washington gave birth to a calf that died within half an hour, and rather than let the body sink she carried it with her, pushing it through the water on her hea...
A grieving orca has now twice refused to let her dead calves sink, carrying them across vast distances in what scientists struggle to explain as anything but profound mourning.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Reimagining What it Means to Die Well with Christin Ament — Learn how a former ICU nurse is transforming the end of life for the people she serves by creating a home for the dying, honoring grief with sacred tea ceremonies, and hosting Death Cafés. eolupodcast.com/2026/08/24/e...
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Ep. 562 Reimagining What it Means to Die Well with Christin Ament
Learn how a former ICU nurse is transforming the end of life for the people she serves by creating a home for the dying, honoring grief with sacred tea ceremonies, and hosting Death Cafés. About th…
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
'Second Grief' – Why Death Breaks So Many Friendships Apart www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/death-...
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'Second Grief' – Why Death Breaks So Many Friendships Apart
“Discovering that some of your friendships cannot survive your grief can become another loss that has to be grieved.”
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
How to navigate sex and intimacy when dementia changes a relationship www.scmp.com/lifestyle/he...
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Sex and intimacy change when a partner has dementia. How to manage it
Dementia often alters relationships beyond the sufferer’s urges. Experts share tips on dealing with this part of the condition few discuss.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
I’m here to talk about death (you’re welcome) www.moneymarketing.co.uk/features/wee...
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Weekend Essay: I’m here to talk about death (you’re welcome)
Weekend Essays are supposed to be a bit of light-hearted reading. I'm here to completely rip up the rule book and talking about death.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
Chris Farina's last film www.wvtf.org/news/2026-08...
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Chris Farina's last film
Chris Farina has made more than a dozen documentary films here in Virginia, from the sobering stories of kids in juvenile detention to the inspiring tale of men overcoming addiction. He made people la...
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
“Anticipatory Grief” Isn’t Just About Death—Here’s What Else Can Trigger It www.realsimple.com/what-is-anticipatory-grief-12061059
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“Anticipatory Grief” Isn’t Just About Death—Here’s What Else Can Trigger It
Anticipatory grief can happen before everyday endings, not just death. Mental health experts explain what it feels like and how to cope with these transitions.
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
How Talking About Death Helps Us Live a Fuller Life lithub.com/how-talking-...
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How Talking About Death Helps Us Live a Fuller Life
The first time I realized I was going to die I was cutting out an obituary for a project for my 6th grade class. I was working on the living room floor, as my father slouched nearby on the brown co…
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