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I’m a Clinical Sexologist in private practice here in WA. I’ve been a practitioner of Sex Therapy and Relationship Counseling for over 40 years. Sex therapist and sex advice columnist. Books: tinyurl.com/bs3vsf2, tinyurl.com/bdhz8, tinyurl.com/4rw8wvyy

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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
After the Cornell Allegations — How Do We Raise Boys Who Respect Women? dearmome.com/raising-boys...
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After the Cornell Allegations: How Do We Raise Boys Who Respect Women? — Momé
The allegations involving seven former Cornell fraternity members raise a bigger question for parents: what are we teaching our sons? Kelly O’Lone on consent, peer pressure, “boys will be boys,” and t...
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Lasting Longer: What "Sexspan" Is and Why It Matters — Prolonging our sex lives improves health and well-being. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insi...
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Lasting Longer: What "Sexspan" Is and Why It Matters
Good sex is good for your health, over the short- and long-term. Here's how prolonging your sex life could improve your health and well-being.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
National Get Tested Day — What Everyone Should Know About STI Screening www.beebehealthcare.org/health-hub/w...
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National Get Tested Day: What Everyone Should Know About STI Screening
National Get Tested Day: What Everyone Should Know About STI Screening. About one in five U.S. adults has a sexually transmitted infection (STI) because many STIs cause few or no symptoms. That’s why ...
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Wait, They’re Teaching Kids WHAT About Sex?! www.nyclu.org/commentary/w...
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How New York’s Sex Ed Fails Students
In the NYCLU’s new report, Stereotypes, Stigma, and Silence: How New York Fails Students on Sex Ed, we uncover and dissect what New York school districts are actually teaching students. The results sh...
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
The Truth About MDMA and Sex — MDMA can turn the volume on experiences up to 100. But there’s a lot more going on when it comes to being intimate. www.clevescene.com/ask-a-clevel...
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Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: The Truth About MDMA and Sex
Ask a Cleveland Sex Therapist: The Truth About MDMA and Sex - Cleveland Scene
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Ed. Dept. Officially Kills Biden Rule That Added LGBTQ+ Protections to Title IX www.edweek.org/policy-polit...
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Ed. Dept. Officially Kills Biden Rule That Added LGBTQ+ Protections to Title IX
The Education Department reinstates 2020 Title IX regulations effectively in place since early 2025.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Is Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan Gay? — Erdoğan’s Seeming Obsession with Homosexuality Is Not Unlike Closeted Homosexuals Who Are Among the Most Self-Hating www.meforum.org/mef-observer...
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Is Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan Gay?
Erdoğan’s Seeming Obsession with Homosexuality Is Not Unlike Closeted Homosexuals Who Are Among the Most Self-Hating
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
5 Vagina Changes That Are Perfectly Normal As You Get Older—and 3 That Could Be Serious www.prevention.com/sex/a7392486...
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Yes, Your Vagina Changes As You Get Older—Here’s What’s Perfectly Normal to Notice
OB/GYNs break it down.
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JeffTrnka @jefftrnka.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Before Sex, There Is Sensuality — Building deeper connection through shared sensory experiences. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-...
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Before Sex, There Is Sensuality
After kids, couples often struggle meeting in the erotic. Sensuality is the bridge back to lovers. Focusing on the senses equalizes the dynamic and widens the sexual.
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Shooti @bambooshooti.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
#ResistanceRoots bell hooks was born on this day in 1952 in Hopkinsville, Ky. She was an author, educator, feminist and social critic whose work transformed contemporary discussions on gender, race and class. She pioneered the concept that these systems intersect to sustain social oppression. /1
bell hooks. hooks changed how the world understands power, education and human connection. Rather than confining her revolutionary ideas to the walls of academia, she dedicated her life to building a public philosophy that made radical critique accessible. She laid the foundation for theories of intersectionality, transforming modern understanding of race, gender and class. She argued that racism, sexism and class exploitation operate together, and highlighted the overlooked struggles of Black women. Her system of “engaged pedagogy” treated education as a practice of freedom and empowerment, while her politics of affection framed love as a transformative, public practice necessary to dismantle systemic oppression and encourage the healthy emotional growth of men. She wrote without academic jargon so her ideas could reach everyday people, serving as a voice for liberation, love and community. Photo credit: UC Santa Cruz.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
LGBTQ Rights and Resilience — How do Karel Bouley and Scott Douglas Jacobsen examine LGBTQ rights, military compensation, and resilience against discrimination? goodmenproject.com/featured-con...
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This Gay Week 36: LGBTQ Rights and Resilience
“In a society that treated people equally, you wouldn't have to take precautions simply because of your sexuality.” Scott Douglas Jacobsen
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
More women are taking testosterone to treat menopause symptoms. Does science support that? www.cbc.ca/news/health/...
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More women are taking testosterone to treat menopause symptoms. Does science back it up? | CBC News
Testosterone is touted as a cure-all for menopause symptoms on social media, and more women are now taking it off-label. Scientists want more research.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Your Sexual Prime Is Not About Testosterone www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a7...
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Think Your Performance Issues Are Due to Low Testosterone? Think Again
New research suggests that even as your hormone levels decline, you can still hit your sexual prime.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Sex Dreams: What Your Unconscious Is Trying To Tell You — Erotic dreams can be a window into how we're doing sexually, relationally, and psychologically. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/navi...
psychologytoday.com
Sex Dreams: What Your Unconscious Is Trying To Tell You
Far from being random noise, erotic dreams can be a window into how we're doing sexually, relationally, and psychologically.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
For Lesbian Victims of Domestic Violence, Competent Care Is Scarce — Heteronormative assumptions about intimate-partner violence and cuts to research funding are contributing to a lack of resources for survivors. www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/for-lesbia...
unclosetedmedia.com
For Lesbian Victims of Domestic Violence, Competent Care Is Scarce
Heteronormative assumptions about intimate-partner violence and cuts to research funding are contributing to a lack of resources for survivors.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Why I Say "Consensual Nonmonogamy" Instead of "Ethical Nonmonogamy" — There are subtle differences between "consensual nonmonogamy" and "ethical nonmonogamy." www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rela...
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Why I Say "Consensual Nonmonogamy" Instead of "Ethical Nonmonogamy"
Exploring some nuances for the use of "ethical nonmonogamy" versus "consensual nonmonogamy."
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Teenage girls may know how to prevent pregnancy – that doesn’t mean they have the power to do it theconversation.com/teenage-girl...
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Teenage girls may know how to prevent pregnancy – that doesn’t mean they have the power to do it
Teenage pregnancy makes visible the pressures, relationships and reproductive conditions that shape young people’s lives across southern Africa.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Women turn to testosterone for low sex drive as doctors confront treatment ‘experimentation’ www.wfmd.com/2026/09/19/w...
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Women turn to testosterone for low sex drive as doctors confront treatment ‘experimentation’
Dr. Kudzai Dombo reveals the insurance denials and dosing guesswork women face seeking testosterone therapy as FDA regulators weigh new access.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
'People forget we exist': Why older LGBTQ+ people fear losing identity www.bbc.com/news/article...
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Why growing older LGBTQ+ community in Britain fears losing identity
A report suggests older LGBTQ+ people experience more social isolation than their heterosexual peers.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
The Sexual Evolution: What 500 Million Years of Life Tells Us About Sex, Gender, and Mating goodmenproject.com/featured-con...
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The Sexual Evolution: What 500 Million Years of Life Tells Us About Sex, Gender, and Mating
Exploring how evolution, biology, and nature's diversity shape human sexuality, relationships, and modern society.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
How Romance Novels Filled in the Gaps Left by Sex Ed lithub.com/how-romance-...
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How Romance Novels Filled in the Gaps Left by Sex Ed
Chewed up gum, unraveled yarn, a flower stripped of its petals. Like so many in my generation, my introduction to sex was in pro-abstinence talks with my church youth group and in my sterile health…
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
This Week’s Sex Diary: The Guy Cruising All Over New York www.thecut.com/article/new-...
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The Guy Cruising All Over New York
In this week’s story, a 31-year-old hits the club, the steam room, and the subway platform.
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Bill Madden @maddenifico.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
If the cult of MAGA were ever able to step back and take a deep breath, this is what they'd realize. 👇
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
The Relationship Advice We Should Steal From ‘Couples Therapy’ www.cosmopolitan.com/relationship...
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The Best Relationship Advice From ‘Couples Therapy’ That You’ll Want to Steal Immediately
Everyone say ‘thank you Dr. Orna!’
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Innovation Is Sex — What can Esther Perel's work teach us about our organizations? www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lead...
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Innovation Is Sex
What can Esther Perel's work on desire teach us about how new ideas emerge in organizations?
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
New maps reveal massive gaps in access to affordable birth control across the U.S www.northcountrypublicradio.org/news/npr/nx-...
northcountrypublicradio.org
New maps reveal massive gaps in access to affordable birth control across the U.S
Because of a data lag, the current reality of access may be even worse.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Erotic Fan Fiction Competition makes space for sex ed and queer joy epgn.com/2026/09/16/e...
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Erotic Fan Fiction Competition makes space for sex ed and queer joy - Philadelphia Gay News
The Erotic Fan Fiction Competition (EFFC) is a semi-regular open-mic-style reading and fundraising event for sex ed.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Talking to your children about sexual health: When should the conversation start? www.unr.edu/nevada-today...
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When to start talking to your kids about sexual health
University of Nevada professor Thompson shares when and how to talk with children about sexual health, including bodies, boundaries, puberty, consent and healthy relationships.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Is Trump's Adoption of 19th Century Purity to Combat Teen Pregnancy Just a Cynical Nod to the Base? religiondispatches.org/2026/09/15/t...
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Is Trump's Adoption of 19th Century Purity to Combat Teen Pregnancy Just a Cynical Nod to the Base?
AccessMatters, a Philadelphia non-profit that participated in the Teen Pregnancy Prevention program (TPP), was defunded after the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) issued new requirements ...
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
The Executive Binge: Alcohol, Cocaine, and Sex — How alcohol can trigger a hidden cycle of cocaine, sex, binges, and remorse. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/harm...
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The Executive Binge: Alcohol, Cocaine, and Sex
A hidden cycle of drinking, cocaine, and sex is resurfacing among some high-functioning men. This cycle can be interrupted.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Men and women are turning to genital fillers for pleasure and size – here’s what can go wrong theconversation.com/men-and-wome...
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Men and women are turning to genital fillers for pleasure and size – here’s what can go wrong
Men are turning to fillers to increase penis size. But the evidence is limited, the effects fade and complications can be serious.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Sex and the Seniors: Older Adults Turn to Social Media — Older creators challenge ageism, start a conversation on sexuality and health www.newser.com/story/396201...
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Sex and the Seniors: Older Adults Turn to Social Media
Older creators challenge ageism, start a conversation on sexuality and health
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The Amateur's Guide @the-amateurs-guide.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
After Facing Death, Is There Any Hope for Sex? — Losing loved ones is part of aging, but it doesn't have to mean the end of one's sex life. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/no-n...
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After Facing Death, Is There Any Hope for Sex?
The intersection of death and sex is complex and can be hard to navigate, especially as we age. But there are ways forward.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Is ‘mercy sex’ happening in your relationship? www.stuff.co.nz/wellbeing/36...
stuff.co.nz
Is ‘mercy sex’ happening in your relationship?
And is that really a bad thing?
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🍁Justin Case @icu-b4-uc-me.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
These Nazi loving fascists are fighting culture wars while ordinary Americans can't afford healthcare, can't afford to put gas in their cars, diesel in their tractors, or food on their table. Just a reminder that trans people are not responsible for any of this fascist cult's failures.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
What No One Tells You About Life After Treatment www.pcf.org/what-no-one-...
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What No One Tells You About Life After Treatment
A prostate cancer diagnosis goes beyond physical health, it touches sexual health too. Talking to your doctor about a PSA test, a simple blood test, is the only way to catch prostate cancer in its ear...
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
How to talk to your kids about edgy or violent porn in an age‑appropriate way theconversation.com/how-to-talk-...
theconversation.com
How to talk to your kids about edgy or violent porn in an age-appropriate way
Parents play a vital role in educating young people about sex, sexuality and pornography. But where do you start?
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Guys Are Literally Shocking Their Penises to Get Hard www.menshealth.com/health/a7364...
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Men Are Ditching Viagra for a Shocking ED Treatment. Should You Try It?
The noninvasive method is being marketed as a more ‘natural’ and ‘restorative’ alternative.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Every Body — Rethinking Sexual Health Education observatory.tec.mx/edu-news/ret...
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Every Body: Rethinking Sexual Health Education
Explore how comprehensive sexuality education, social determinants, digital literacy, and sexual justice can help promote dignity, autonomy, and well-being for every body.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
These 16 Historical Figures Were Lowkey Freakyyyyy, And Their Unexpected Kinks Will Have You Spitting Out Your Tea www.buzzfeed.com/arsheenkaur4...
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These 16 Historical Figures Were Lowkey Freakyyyyy, And Their Unexpected Kinks Will Have You Spitting Out Your Tea
One man on this list fathered 1,042 children. ONE THOUSAND AND FORTY-TWO.
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TommasinaResist⚜️🦋🐈‍⬛ @tommasinaresist.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Yes. I want them to OWN it and reply here, for all to see. Did you listen to it?
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CoCo ✌🏼💛🕊️ @coco.sheshed.rocks · 08/09/2026
#Mamdani released over 170,000 pages detailing NYC's 9/11 response & settled two 9/11 Health Watch lawsuits ending a years-long fight for air-quality & health records. #JonStewart joined survivors and victims’ families in support. #SheShed #ViVaHerAlliance #911
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Ethical non-monogamy: What to know about these often misunderstood relationships www.rappler.com/culture-desk...
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Ethical non-monogamy: What to know about these often misunderstood relationships
Ethical non-monogamy can take many forms, including polyamory, open relationships, and swinging
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Gender Ideology: 3 myths, 3 facts adfinternational.org/resource/gen...
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Gender Ideology: 3 myths, 3 facts
Gender Ideology urges the law, medicine and society to treat gender as a subjective feeling, separate from biological reality. This comes with serious consequences for free speech, the protection of c...
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 05/09/2026
THE PROBLEM WITH
"GOOD WOMEN"
IS HOW OFTEN
GOODNESS IS
DEFINED BY OBEDIENCE.
www.matriarchy.now
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
World Sexual Health Day 2026: Sexual Health Facts, Myths And Tips For Better Well-Being www.netmeds.com/c/health-lib...
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Want your kids to make safer choices about sex? — Here’s when you should have ‘The Talk’ www.stuff.co.nz/culture/3610...
stuff.co.nz
Want your kids to make safer choices about sex? Here’s when you should have ‘The Talk’
If the thought of talking to your kids about sex makes you want to run and hide, you’re far from alone, Sofie Louise writes.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Every Body: Sexuality Doesn’t End at 50 — Women over 50 are redefining desire, pleasure, dating, and sexual freedom. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-...
psychologytoday.com
Every Body: Sexuality Doesn’t End at 50
Research challenges sexual ageism, showing women over 50 continue to experience desire, pleasure, intimacy, and new sexual freedom well into midlife and beyond.
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dr dick @drdick.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
These are the best sex and relationships podcasts to subscribe to RN www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/...
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The sex and relationships podcasts you need to listen to RN
Here to get your fix of love and dating goss? We’ve gotcha
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