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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

No, I'm not ok. I didn't even cry like this when my mom died even (my mom sort of sucked tho) Dolly was such a gem of a human. She taught me how to not give a fuck.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Im never gonna get to sing with the greatest of all time. Don't talk to me for at least a week. RIP Dolly.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Great job using your "I feel" statement, babe.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Find you a man who knows how to express his feelings.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

Sobbing bc birthright is now constitutionally protected. Terrible blows for the Trans rulings, but I was terrified they'd do the worst thing at the worst time with birthright. We will keep fighting for Trans rights. Don't give up.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 19/06/2026

If you can understand wearing shorts under a micro dress, then you can understand disability accommodation.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 16/06/2026

Jesus isnt real to me, but the idea of him was so formative that he is real in me (and many people I know who sit firmly like myself outside of religious faith.) My jesus is a himbo who paints his nails and hangs out with strippers. That makes the right people mad. ❤️🧡💛

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 16/06/2026

It was bad enough surviving the cult. It was worse escaping and learning that cult sort of runs this country. It was soul rending to figure out that in spite not being a Christian, I am christ concious and locked in.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 16/06/2026

Quantum physics dont scare me because I don't fully understand them (and to be clear I don't). They scare me bc I am smart enough to understand what is learned there is communicated (with media literacy) through nearly every religious presence on earth in documented history, but I deconstructed.🥲

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

It logged me out of messenger entirely and will not log in, errors out. I had all my local friends on there and I am now just bored and unable to pester them lol

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

And Instagram won't let me comment. So. Uh. This seems sort of widespread.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

Is fb shitting the bed for anyone else?

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 04/06/2026

Indeed. I gained a new fan of my music tho. Recruiter messaged me trying to get tyler to play for his team. I played him my music and recruited him as a fan. Tyler is chopped liver.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

Guy said "he's alright but clearly not very smart" btw

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

Update: Tyler corrected his phone number. My life resumes as normal now lol.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

Update: three more recruiters have texted me. (I am gathering so much stand-up material from this.)

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

I just got another text from another school. Tyler. They want you. They want you bad. Tyler. Please. Please. Why? Buddy, isn't it weird you aren't getting any bites? Tyler rn:

static.klipy.com

Peeking at the Phone

ALT: Peeking at the Phone

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

The plot thickens. Apparently Tyler has my phone number listed on his public Twitter profile and has his dms closed. 🤣 Hey Tyler, if you take my phone number off the internet I'll give you your recruitment texts.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

Tyler has one skill, and it's not giving people the right phone number. Lmao

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

If you ever feel sad, just go observe that Trevor Noah sounds like Kermit the frog with a fun accent. This isn't a roast. Merely an observation I find delightful.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 31/05/2026

Asked for an adult lunchable and @carterforva.bsky.social did not let me down. 47/10

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 27/05/2026

Being right about ai: The American Pope 🤝 Violet As a former catholic this has me cackling.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 12/05/2026

Had a blast last night @ bunni house for my friend Lola's bday show. I apparently did a fantastic job on my set, too! ❤️ Guess I gotta keep doing this forever now.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 11/05/2026

Its funnier bc im doing an indie rnb set.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 11/05/2026

If I dont fall on my face, there will be video. I may or may not end up with cheeks out, its a punk house show.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 11/05/2026

So. I'm playing songs I wrote in front of real people at a show for the first time tonight. It is never to late to live out the plot to Coyote Ugly.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 02/05/2026

Instead of killing human spirit, they killed spirit airlines.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 02/05/2026

A little over dressed for the train station last night.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

Hahaha I just wanted to tease you for "tow". I typo so much I barely correct it anymore.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

I would rather be around people who aren't afraid to hold me to the morals I hold for myself. I don't benefit or grow from yes men, or reply guys. I grow when I learn, and its been my experience social media is not for learning. Its for mass public abuse. So if you wonder where I am? I'm outside.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

But also that can act as a built in filter for how you feel. Want to change things? Fuck you, you aren't educated/don't know enough. Want to call in abusive behavior? No! Why do that when DISCOURSE? Healthy social circles don't work that way. Ive said it before, I'll say it again. Get in community.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

Just, if you find yourself deeply depressed, pulled in all directions, no privacy, and glued to a device, you'd probably feel pretty isolated too. And I think on some level thats the point. To cultivate individualism and empty parasocial connections that influence you to act a certain way for attn.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

I have been mostly offline for a few years now, and majorly offline for about 6 or so months. In that time, I made a TON of quality friends, who I actually mutually respect and enjoy their company, and it occurs to me thats how my life was BEFORE I was using social media ALL the time. Not shaming.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

And none of us can type without typos. Facts

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Linda Tirado @killermartinis.bsky.social · 27/04/2026

This is what I’ve been up to while I wasn’t hanging out with you fine people. I do have an ask, and it’s just for me: have to replace the phone I lost. Sigh. Art is yours of course, but if you liked it feel free to drop a few bucks to Linda-Tirado-3 on Venmo or bootstrapindustries@gmail on PayPal

Have you heard about this dude who is in charge of the department of defense? Anyway he’s determined it’s the department of war and fuck what Congress says because we are that kind of secure in our national masculinity. If you can’t see it, it’s just quotes from him. What most sighted people will miss is that one of the caricatures is him in a suit holding a bible which I’ve named the Sam Jackson translation, so if you wanted to ever hear how Tarantino was ever relevant, this is it. Otherwise fuck these Nazi punks. Hope you’re quite well and have either chocolate or cheese according to your preference.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 27/04/2026

Enjoy him and send him back in one piece. Thems the rules. I sort of need him lol

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 23/04/2026

Taken this friendship across 3 states now. Love you Jason!

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

I dont have deeper commentary. This is insane news, and my thoughts are with the teenage children who will now need therapy and support amid what will be a media frenzy. Jesus christ.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

Hahaha maybe they will figure out what is wrong with men.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

Down with patriarchy. Let us make the bread and eat it too, damn.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

They say boys are dropping in academic performance. Why? Its not because they are. Its because THE ENTIRE TIME they've been comparing them to girls, and girls are on the rise. We become doctors and lawyers more now. And honestly? Good.

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ThatFuckingFlower @thateffinflower.bsky.social · 10/04/2026

I love this town, and these people. ❤️❤️❤️

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