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@tastedestroyer.bsky.social
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im nicky; I make weirdly specific playlists + teach social skills car based + fundraising for EDS treatment genderfluid and brain injured 🏳️‍⚧️♿️😷

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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
does anyone actually enjoy ube matcha? I’ve never had one that doesn’t totally overpower the matcha
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Ham Kevina @kriskenard.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT HANG THEMSELVES
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
not mad at chuk bc I know if I was stuck in a house for weeks I’d also be yapping to keep myself entertained #bb28
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
It pisses me off that BB put themselves in this situation. Their casting formula is stuck in the dark ages like what did yall think would happen when you overrepresent Christian conservative HOMOPHOBIC ppl and then only have 1 gay person that has to fit in “messy bitch” or “inspo porn” #bb28
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Ham Kevina @kriskenard.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
I WANT TO GET ONE MILLION DOLLARS JUST TO SEE HOW FAST I COULD SPEND IT ON FOLKS WHO JUST WANT THEIR BALANCE TO COME OUT OF THE RED
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
I am homeless and still have my 2 books in their pouch behind my drivers seat, I have refused to get rid of them bc of this quote !!
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
my brain is learning new things!!! I love this experience even tho it physically hurts in the noggin
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Tom Cox @dj-acid-reflux.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
Someone said to me, "I'm sorry but I got your book from a library." Nobody should ever apologise for that. You read my book! That's brilliant! I grew up hanging out in libraries and the idea of a world without them fills me with dread. Without libraries, authors, like readers, will only suffer.
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
I am one week away and still $300 from being able to afford my next prolo shot. Additionally needing $1000 for recovery costs. sharing greatly appreciated <3 Recent shot recovery going well, looking to tackle my neck + more of first rib, which will be brutal recovery wise
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conniving transsexual @voredere.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
this is primarily a disability term, but i also think it applies really well to situations like weight, substance use, body modification, transition, and just about any other bodily autonomy topic people handwring about. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dignity...
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Dignity of risk - Wikipedia
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
I got a huge work goal accomplished today and also it’s been a week since losing my nintendo switch….. unfortunately I don’t think that’s a coincidence /:
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Dravenheart @dravenheart.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
Every single day this is not met puts KS in even greater danger. Monied people step up. NOW.
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
I have so much of feeds to catch up on 😩😩 basically haven’t seen anything since HOH comp
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
7/18 update: need $1300 by 7/30. My most recent prolo results are most likely ruined because I’ve been going between staying at friends houses and sleeping in my car. It’s too tough on my body while healing. I need to be able to cover a place to stay for the entire 6weeks after my next appt
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Emily Nevins @alpacawax.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
#mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2026 💕 💸 Juniper needs urgent help!
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gwen howerton @kissphoria.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
i always think about my friend brooke's old story about how greg abbott made a bunch of money suing the homeowner whose tree fell on him and paralyzed him and then passed laws that made it impossible for a regular person to do that www.chron.com/politics/art...
chron.com
How Greg Abbott won millions and stopped Texans from doing the same
'It would be next to impossible to get the kind of settlement we got,' Abbott's lawyer Don Riddle said.
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NyoooOOOOOomfist @nyoomfist.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
Just a quick PSA for Americans who do posts regarding mutual aid. A lot of the time, you guys will include things like cashapp, which are US only, and not include something like PayPal, which is open to many countries. This gives more people an opportunity to help you.
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heather @heatherfeather.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
does anyone know how to get less disabled
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hell yea depression is pumpkin flavored now @liminalclown-e.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Part two 2️⃣ Still need $77, $2088 to stay temporarily sheltered on Saturday, & general funds (need 🌊 asap!). ⚠️ I’m so wiped I can hardly type. Pls send support. Sharing helps! Linktr.ee/hiitsbritt #mutualaid #bipocmutualaid #disabilitycrowdfund #mutualaidrequest #mutualaidvoid #homelesssky
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Help a Black Femme *Live* | Linktree
Unhoused, marginalized, and chronically ill household will not survive or thrive without help. Please care.💔
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Ye Olde Punk @nehoc.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
The punks were always right but you can't discount the soul and funk of the 60's and 70's. It wasn't all dance and love songs. Maybe listen to Marvin Gaye for starters but also find the black artists that didn't make it to radio. THEY spoke the truth.
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
can’t believe I missed party hats on the feeds tonight
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
7/14 update: $1300 to goal for prolo shots and recovery, $300 left needed for the shots themselves!
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
finally watching ep 3 (wasn't showing up on paramount until now? is that normal?) #bb28
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
can't believe #bb28 made changes w casting and twists and editing that are actually an improvement!!!! I was planning on not watching this year if we were getting another season of slop and watered down "family friendly" vibes as an excuse to pander to conservatives
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
i feel like i've been living inside a cave just trying to keep myself alive but it's time for me to come out and be visible again lol
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LanguageNerd24601 (Can’t donate) @languagenerd24601.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
Please help Mem! #MutualAid #HelpSky linktr.ee/torqu111
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Black Disabled Life Support Official: TikTok, Instagram, X, Threads | Linktree
Chronically ill black friends, homeless 2019-2021. I’ve crowdfunded for us since
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Emily Nevins @alpacawax.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
Day 29 of Pride! autumnalpaca.carrd.co Escaped homelessness, working to help myself but gov works at the speed of erosion. Anything helps with gas, meds, true essentials! Tysm!
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Pengu Pudgy's Monday Mood
Alt: Pengu Pudgy's Monday Mood
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mori (sep goal $0/$668) @kookysnell.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
hey, still trying to get help. I will probably be more active in my posting now. I would appreciate your continued support. I'll probably have to handle the coming hearing by myself. I can't do federal court alone in my state, though. I absolutely need a lawyer for that. gofund.me/a959ae54b
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Donate to Help Moriende Fight for ADA Rights in Idaho, organized by Mori Villome
Hi, guys. I'm a bedbound Medicaid recipient in Idaho. Since October 2025,… Mori Villome needs your support for Help Moriende Fight for ADA Rights in Idaho
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Nyssa of the D 🏳️‍⚧️🔞 @artbynyssad.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
Thanks to a kind person we're down to needing $569 for food and meds but again even if we can raise 150ish I can worry about meds later and make it work.. please it's been over a week since we've had any real food in the house Cashapp/Venmo AkiDoughNa PayPal comicartofmh@gmail.com
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
big thank you to everyone sharing,, unfortunately I’m not making progress on my goal. Getting the next prolotherapy treatment and having a place to stay for recovery after is soooo crucial to helping me get back to work + reduce life threatening EDS symptoms!!!
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
I haven’t been on this app for months and also I forgot how to be social so like …..
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Emily Nevins @alpacawax.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
autumnalpaca.carrd.co #fundfriday #mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2026💸💕 Day 25 of Pride and no where near anything. Meds, phone, survival. Disabled enby elder escaped homelessness and needs help while fighting to help themselves! Anything helps, everything appreciated!!
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Sad Cat Resting
Alt: Sad Cat Resting
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Emily Nevins @alpacawax.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
autumnalpaca.carrd.co #mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2026💕💸 Day 24 of Pride, phone past due, meds almost gone, help needed badly. Can't think of what to say or better ways to explain but disability hitting hard. Anything helps, needed soon!
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Panda Riding Rocking Horse
Alt: Panda Riding Rocking Horse
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Dravenheart @dravenheart.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
🚨JULY HELP NEEDED🚨 0/1500 JULY 0/300 NEEDED BEFORE 7/2 FOR WEEKLY NEEDS New month. New woes. Goals not met for 3 months in a row. We do not have anything to survive on after bills. We need to catch up on needs. dravenheart.carrd.co #mutualaid #helpsky #helpfolkslive2026 💞💸
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
I’m fundraising for 3 prolotherapy rounds+ recovery costs! ~$2000 each current goal: $1600 by 7/30 my next injections appt! (currently have 400/2000) I also don’t have housing plans for the next 2 injections which is stressie... More info to help or hire me!
Soft beach background graphics with text that reads: 

DIRECT AID REQUEST (queer, disabled, car based) for Nicky’s lifesaving medical costs + housing. 

PayPal: @refriedbrains
Venmo: @refriedbrains
Cashapp: $refriedbrains
Ko-fi: @tastedestroyerSoft beach graphics with a go fund me we code and text that reads:

I have been living in my car and pet sitting since March 2024 after losing my teaching job to EDS related disabilities. My goal in 2026 is to get housing and lifesaving PRP/prolotherapy injections. 

This treatment will prevent/postpone spinal fusion surgery due to craniocervical instability. 

Living in my car has significantly worsened my subluxes and spine instability. I need to stay nomadic to keep my independence so I’m also saving for a van with space for full time living.
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
comfort misogyny songs.... pls send more recs plzzz
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 22/05/2026
instead of a weirdly specific music playlist, these are the bands/artists I care about promoting, i'm glad they're taking up space and continuing to put out music <3 
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Recently added songs May 17th to "making waves 2026" a playlist by taste destroyer on youtube, soundcloud, tidal, and spotify. ((alt text in thread)) rock music - charli xcx  u know - nightlife  fake designer b*tch - miss bashful + christ dillinger + luca eck  tusi - judith and...
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
consider sad but **NOT** sexy as inspo for your next ugly cry. if you've heard of my playlist "sad but make it sexy," this is like the opposite of that. 
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
this is what indie sleaze actually was. before tumblr, we had justice and mstrkrft and soulwax remixes. electroclash, dancepunk, and electro house were the cooliest of cool music. 
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
bro idek how to use this website like i actually don't know where anything is
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
new witchhouse sweg just dropped spiritshrine.bandcamp.com/track/some1e...
spiritshrine.bandcamp.com
some1else, by SPIRIT SHRINE
track by SPIRIT SHRINE
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LanguageNerd24601 (Can’t donate) @languagenerd24601.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
Britt needs your help to keep a roof over their head!! #MutualAid #HelpSky linktr.ee/hiitsbritt
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We’d like to survive | Linktree
Two beings trying to survive long enough to thrive. 🌈
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
and like 15% nerd rap mixed in bc the only difference between nerd rap and frat rap is aesthetics. this is my guiltiest of pleasures, not my pleasurest of pleasures. named asher rothcore after the father of frat rap.
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
willow smith FEATURING TUNEYARDS !!!!!!! ((the entire album is so good omg plzzz)) youtu.be/V4hGwe3-_wY?...
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WILLOW - omnipotent feat. tune-yards (Official Visualizer)
YouTube video by willowsmith
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hell yea depression is pumpkin flavored now @liminalclown-e.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
This remains stalled as well It’s day 395 of being unhoused Reiterating that nothing will improve unless by miracle and serious intervention Thank you for sends and shares 🌿 tiny.cc/p2b2101 🪻 #mutualaid #helpsky #bipocma #fundsky #disabilitycrowdfund #SOS
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Help Britt Reenter Housing!
Thanks to your support, Britt and Topaz were able to relocate to California; a much safer environment for them.
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 22/04/2026
have u ever cried bc life is too much but u know ur too sexy to give up? i made a soundtrack for those moments ur welcome girlie <3 as always send recs if u have them!! 
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[85/500] Ms. Luci/Plush @anplushie.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
SNAP exhausted! Disability flaring! Out of meds, food low! Help! Kofi: shorturl.at/Z3mfJ CA: $LuciNevins Vnmo: @ Harland-Nevins PP: shorturl.at/S694j #ko-fi #helpfolkslive #PleaseShare #discover #MutualAidRequest #KeepFolksAlive #urgent #help #Fundraiser #HelpFolksLive2026 #HelpSky #mutualaid 💸♥️
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Support Luci Nevins
Support Luci Nevins
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refried brains @tastedestroyer.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
posting for a friend - if you’re able to contribute $2-$10 to help with rent it is very much appreciated 🖤🖤🫶🏼
3 pale yellow textboxes lay against a background of a blue sky with clouds interpersed as if they were post-it notes. The first one reads “mutual aid request” in a bold letters. The second one reads “support an unemployed comrade navigating the aftermath of domestic violence and assault.” The third reads “venmo: leftforthread // cashapp: leftforthread // paypal: leftforthread” where double forward slashes are line breaks. All text is in a black sans serif font.
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