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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

they don't tell you about the part of moving back home where you take a pair of pants you need hemmed to the same tiny old woman who hemmed all your pairs of pants in elementary school

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

i love having a gay doctor, who is so far the only medical professional i've interacted with this year who i haven't had to explain what prep is to and who basically just went "sure which one do you want" when i said i really needed to get back on adhd medication

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

google killing my beautiful wife google assistant and letting gemini shamble around in her corpse has ruined my night

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

is troye sivan a particularly talented lyricist no is he gay and insane yes and that is simply good enough

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

the delicatessen is not a place for your large dog!!! keep it the fuck away from my bagel!!!!

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

a doxycycline and iced coffee for breakfast kind of morning 🥰

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

god i hate WordPress and wish it were more feasible to just hand code client websites, but alas, other people at my work need to be able to edit them

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

why is my boss texting me work things at 10 pm 🔪🔪🔪

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

not the point but imo it's adorable when people who aren't gay men post about Grindr and think it's one of those nice apps where you match with people instead of a meat market where anyone you haven't actively blocked has full, feral access to you

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

tumblr is an incredible place where you can flirt with award-winning fantasy author j**** p******* and they don't even shoot you in the street for it

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

i should get a stipend just for being able to visit my friends in other cities more often :/

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 17/07/2026

left work early to meet a friend and that friend is now 45 minutes late so basically gonna scream

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

bit my cheek while snacking on fritos :(

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

random modern greek people with no training love to log onto the internet and act like whatever their elementary school teacher told them about ancient greek is more authoritative than what generations of actual academic study have produced

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

i'm eating strawberry ice cream 👍

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

it's insane how much is happening right now in my life

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

ABSOLUTE WHALE OF A THUNDERCLAP JUST NOW, WOWEE

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

dad put on rise of skywalker and it's crazy how it's not only the worst star war but maybe one of the worst movies ever made

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 02/07/2026

mom came over and brought us a bunch of ice cream and pudding 👍

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

last night was a good time :) happy pride :)

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

first day back on ADHD medication since high school and holy shit why was I so stupid, why have I been white knuckling this for years, i never knew i could just... want to do a thing and then do it like i've been able to do all morning

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

I love my friends but sometimes they give me so much anxiety

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 23/06/2026

why is nobody talking about the eating ass > eating an ice cream sandwich pipeline

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 22/06/2026

fucking miserable at my in-laws' house sequestered inside all evening while they ate outside bc my f.i.l. wanted to do a seafood boil and now it's like 9 pm and there's no sign of anybody coming in from the pool and I'm not gonna get home until after 10 and I fucking hate this

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 17/06/2026

in spite of all the bs coming out of the world cup (us fascism, fifa destroying priceless murals, etc etc etc) it is nonetheless heartwarming to see kansans rooting for algerians, to see germans experiencing waffle house, to see a japanese man become enamored with bottomless chips and salsa

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Raleigh is not a perfect city but it is a place where I can take the bus to go out to dinner, randomly run into my parents, and then catch the outbound bus home and that is genuinely really nice

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

jesus christ it's so fucking hot out i'm going to melt

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 10/06/2026

probably gonna talk with my pcp later this month about getting back onto adhd medication

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

c*lifornians are the weakest people on the planet i fear

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

neighborhood children outside our window playing soccer and scream singing die with a smile lady gaga & bruno mars??

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 27/05/2026

bluesky is a lovely site with great people but unfortunately every single person who has ever replied to a political fundraising text under the mistaken impression that the candidate texted them directly from their personal cell phone is Also Here

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

the thing about beef tallow is not only is it terrible for you, it also makes things taste like shit compared to other kinds of oils

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

yes yes yes your fish has renounced water, now how does it respond when one points out to it that it is nonetheless still wet

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

yes let's throw out the entire fucking bowl of soup because there was one (1) single macaroni noodle that must have gotten mixed into the wrong packet at the factory

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

OSAMA BIN-LADEN IS DEAD AND THE CAROLINA HURRICANES ARE ALIVE 🚨🚨🚨

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 21/05/2026

HATE getting on a vendor call for work and the vendor contact has the most beautiful blue eyes and brown hair and a little scruff, like whatever u say sure thing babygirl

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 21/05/2026

ken fartin you will not see heaven

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 21/05/2026

getting slightly tipsy and writing about Roman lesbians is the right call.on a Wednesday night

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quo usque tandem @tandemabutere.bsky.social · 20/05/2026

hot neighbor who is, like me, functionally a 30-year-old man keeps messaging me on snapchat in the middle of the day to ask "wyd" and it's like... girl i'm working! what do you think i'm doing at 1pm on a tuesday!

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