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Tamalito Canario
@tamalitocanario.bsky.social
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She/They✨/He Disabled & autistic The poet can only yearn to one day be the muse. TTRPGs, baking, videogames, doggies, and art, in its many shapes, keep me alive.🫀 Learning pixel and digital art. 🎨🤓
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tumblr trans men will make "ew cis people" jokes all day long and even write essays on why this is okay be while marginalized cis people exist it's about an oppressed class complaining about their oppressors in general accessible terms and even if it hurts the feelings of individuals trans people have that right but the second a woman complains about men it's all "this site hates men!" "what about marginalized men???" "this harms me as a trans person!" "this is terf behavior!" "trans men are targeted by terfs too!" and eventually escalates to like "women / wlw dni" or beliefs that women have a unique ability to perpetuate transphobia and homophobia against men as if gay and trans women don't exist and aren't even more marginalized for this. and it's ridiculous, embarrassing, but worst of all harmful in the sense that it does perpetuate the belief that women just aren't oppressed and are lying about their oppression which is far more harmful to trans women
anyways i know we as trans men have to fight to be recognized and respected as men but like if a woman complaining about her oppressing class (which includes you!) hurts your feelings that bad just like... git gud Imao
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i also hate when trans men respond to criticism by saying "trans men don't have full access to male privilege" because while i technically agree by ending the conversation there it elevates trans men to this unique position when like okay, but disabled men don't have full access to male privilege either, gay men don't have full access to male privilege, black men definitely don't have full access to male privilege, but what matters is that within our own communities we hold power over women who are similarly marginalized (in our case trans women) and it is our responsibility to recognize that and utilize the privilege we do have to protect and elevate those who experience the intersection of being a woman and also insert other oppressed class]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:fn7gmsrozrf54vvm2ivgkqbb/bafkreiay6l7imesykf3y4vduxo4b6ryhylp4f6hvojhf6lgltib45htsqe)
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Every few months or so someone makes a post condescendingly explaining to autistic people/the arfid affected that if you don't eat vegetables you will die. And EVERY time it pisses me off because oh my god girl. We already know 😂🔫
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[person who is about to offer no actual advice on how to meet nutritional goals with a sensory processing/eating disorder] you autistics need to stop making excuses not to eat your grown up foods. If you go on a boat you couldn't use sensory issues as an excuse not to wear a life vest, could you? I know you guys aren't typically receptive to demands and social pressure, but lowkey this isn't about helping you I just think you're annoying.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:fn7gmsrozrf54vvm2ivgkqbb/bafkreiffr56zoxwyf37royhior5qkvgfhvmrihrcgldklr43xfu5d76lf4)
