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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 7h

perimenopause is a dry, directionless nightmare and no one cares, but god forbid a dick won't get all the way hard. doctors will fall all over themselves to "fix" that, but people in peri are "just dramatic" or "withholding sex" nothing makes me see red like the phrase "withholding sex" GROW UP

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 7h

sex =/= intimacy, but more importantly, intimacy =/= equal sex. men are capable of receiving intimacy without having to suck it out of your pussy through their dick-straw furthermore, commenters who suggest "how about anal?" to a woman whose vagina is shredding like paper can go eat a lot of glass

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 7h

the amount of content out there "for husbands of wives in perimenopause" is fucking offensive there's no medical literature for the woman who is actually struggling, but there are unlimited "tips" for men to "deal with" their menopausal spouse oh no! did you not get your peener wet? fucking tragic

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 8h

not for nothing, if a meal is 99% food and only 1% strychnine, I'm still not going to want to eat it

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

oh my god this author has at least FOUR different books named "The Haunting of [Name] House" no wonder

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

there's gotta be a better way to switch pov than this

a dizzying sensation rolled through me. my awareness was tugged for my body as though my soul were being split from my flesh. my stomach dropped, and I gasped, trying not to lose my mind, as physical and mental were torn apart. Then i was in [redacted]'s consciousness.

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

currently reading a gothic novel that's clearly written with the goal of becoming a netflix original it is irritating. not every scene needs a climactic moment the way an episode of tv would. it's distracting (from the weak plot) i'm gonna finish it but only out of spite

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K.B. Spangler @kbspangler.com · 08/10/2026

Touching grass is no longer enough, I need to bury my body from the neck down in the living soil.

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

small pleasure: getting your side shave touched up (and an eyebrow wax)

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

just for kicks, consider when that style of velocipede was popular, and also where that other guy's bottom half may have gone, and furthermore Susan, why are those three people in b/w while everything else is sepia fun on the internet

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

everybody using the self checkouts three employees standing around on their phones outstanding

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

No one could ever convince kid-me to watch anything that could have been called "Japanimation." I let my friends & boyfriends show me their fave animes (Vampire Hunter D and Death Note) and I disappointed ALL OF THEM. I will disappoint you Don't ask me why The Last Unicorn doesn't count; it should

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Unico, aka The Reason I Can't Stand Anime I was too young to understand cruelty. I was so little, and I was so scared for this helpless baby unicorn who was abandoned and then abused by some shitty little demon. It's scary to be a little kid and see another little kid-type person being tormented

Unico is a young, innocent male unicorn who possesses a special ability to bring happiness to anyone near him. The story begins in ancient Greece with a young mortal girl named Psyche. She is the first friend to Unico, and is apparently so beautiful that the goddess Venus becomes jealous. The goddess attributes Psyche's beauty to her happiness and decides to separate the two. After kidnapping Unico in a pet contest, she calls upon the second star, Zephyrus, also known as the West Wind. The West Wind is commanded to take Unico through space and time, to the Hill of Oblivion with no memories of Psyche where he will wander forever. The West Wind takes pity on Unico, and decides to pass over the Hill of Oblivion and send him to different places in different time periods. Unico befriends the people he meets there and helps them achieve happiness, before the West Wind takes him away once more to avoid detection from Venus, wiping his memories in the process.

In the 1981 film adaptation The Fantastic Adventures of Unico, the gods believe that only they should have the ability to control others' emotions and decide that Unico must die. However, the gods feel that punishment may be too harsh and instead choose to send the West Wind to capture Unico and take him to the Hill of Oblivion. Upon learning of the West Wind's defiance, they send the Night Wind to capture Unico.

Unico (voiced by Katsue Miwa) gets sent into a place out of sight from the gods, leaving him all alone. He discovers the Demon of Solitude inside a temple, and angered by his presence, destroys the temple, revealing his son and successor, Beezle (voiced by Junko Hori). He takes advantage of his friendship with Unico, taking his horn and playing dangerous games, eventually leading to Unico falling into the sea.

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

they are 😭 River is sleek & smooth like an otter, a slinky satin guy Remy has thicker fur like a baby bear, little velvet shadow man and both of them throw off an unimaginable amount of heat while they sleep, it's great, little living hot water bottles

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

why is there an eyeball in my bed? why is there a "dead" yarn bat in my bed!? ...what did the kitties get into

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Spouse also gave me a Laura Jane Grace record, which is truly the way to my heart it's Adventure Club on pink vinyl 💜🩷

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Laura Jane Grace - I Love To Get High [OFFICIAL AUDIO]

YouTube video by Laura Jane Grace

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

he gave me an Arnold Schwarzenegger prayer candle! 😭 I'm gonna put it with my Trixie Mattel candle Next up, Dolly Parton

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Today's oracle card is The Rooster & Sunflower: Communication Spouse was at the store when I pulled it. He had no way of knowing. But he brought home a gold-accented puzzle of Van Gogh's Sunflowers for us to put together, together Listen to the call when your hobby says "remember me now"

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Hasn't the weather been strange lately @thefallingdream.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

The amount of work you can do in a given waking period is not morally enriched by the time of day it starts.

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I pulled an oracle card for the day today, the first time I've felt called to it in at least a year. Had an immediate jumper: The Chipmunk & Laurel, signifying success I took a load of laundry down to the basement and while I was admiring my pink cosmos in the yard on the way back, I saw a chipmunk

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Weltschmerz, The Musical 🧿 @weltschmerz.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Yes. I use "people" instead of men on occasion to make the medicine go down better? I am going to stop doing that. If that upsets men I care for..that's fine. Also I would hope that you know I am not addressing you if you are not the one doing the bad shit.

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

spouse told me a story last night that went from A-B-C-D instead of A-🧁-#-🥴 who is this person in my house

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

dreamed last night that my sweet, sleek River baby severed half his tail I'm not usually happy to wake up in this world, but-- he's fine, tail intact, bringing me his spring toys bc he's a sweetie pie and wants to share his favorite things

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

tfw your spouse finally gets real adhd meds i feel like i'm going to meet him for the first time, again maybe things will be better

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Marisa Kabas @marisakabas.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

do men understand the extent to which women are ready to burn it all down right now

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

do not ever call the cops, ever, for anything i did it when a guy was trying to kill his gf out front and when i said i had video, the cop tried to come into my apt 'to get your ID.' when i said my husband would bring it out, he declined. DECLINED. never again... fucking creeps, all of them

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

i'll read this post in front of a judge, i don't give a fuck, every word is true, cops are evil and they like being evil and they like killing pets and if that weren't true then they wouldn't be killing pets for sport oubliette for every single cop

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

i can't be on the internet anymore bc i can't stand any more stories about how cruel and evil cops are that poor baby donkey was just being friendly and they straight up murdered it for being a sweetie pie the absolute worst kind of dogshit people

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

"your voice gives me asmr" is probably the hottest thing anyone's ever said to me

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

i may have nothing to bring to the table, but arriving empty-handed is better than showing up with a handful of dogshit i'd rather be a lonely middle aged cat lady than settle for less-than-nothing

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I desperately need to talk with someone about something I can't talk about this seems suboptimal

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

next book in the queue: You Can't Go Home Again, by Thomas Wolfe my mother always used to say that to me

the cover to Thomas Wolfe's novel You Can't Go Home Again

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Ohhhh it's meant to look holographic, too! I need this in my life.

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

oh yeah, that was a bad goddamn omen, just for the record

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

this aligns with my interpretation that if I were Juliet in that moment I would be freaked out and furious and not in the mood to understand what names (& associated baggage) are even worth, like WHY, WHO EVEN CARES, CHANGE IT, and I'd probably be a pretty pissed off teenager about it

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Romeo? "Romeo?" Wherefore art thou fucking "Romeo?" oh shit I love bitchy juliet

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Fuckly Fucktcake popular at adult holiday parties

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

and then the car threw an error on the way to work fucksake

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Coming out to the car to go to work (late), a hawk flew precisely over my head, flanked with two little birds, who were not agitated like prey would be Feels important

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

i picked the wrong time to get back online, i don't have the patience to deal with people coming for t. kingfisher like it's fine to Like a Thing but if you don't like one of the available peripheral materials, it's also fine to just disregard that material rather than coming for the author's neck

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

it's so fucked up that i keep having these rotten nightmares anyway, I'm gonna go watch 90 minutes of Scary Interesting before bed

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

apparently the boss is in a nightmare mood today and we're supposed to be quiet and not chat

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Pearly Sweetgrave @sugarblind.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

the correct number of nightmares to have every night is ZERO cc: my brain & body

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