Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 24/09/2026The last 8-12 weeks have been a fun experiment with subclub but it’s clear there’s basically zero appetite for a kink focused app/site anymore. Even among early adopters there’s a sharp drop-off. Most people (64%) never made a profile even if they signed up. I’m not pulling the plug on it though. 150
Reposted by Subspaced BoySubspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 19/08/2026If a bunch of NYC men could go sign up for subjugated.club so I could flirt during the day I would greatly appreciate it. Or tell me where you’re all hanging out! Doesn’t have to be my spot 🤣 0392
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 14/09/2026If you have the opportunity to see Buddy in a theater, I strongly recommend it. Holy shit. 040
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 09/09/2026I don’t dress up (or down, really) for kink events. Without fail, one or more person(s) will use an incredibly condescending tone to welcome me to the space and let me know “everyone starts somewhere.” Once a twink looked me up head to toe and said “are you sure you’re into this?” 130
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 08/09/2026I become irrationally angry when people say “you can have fun without drinking” when I decline to go to a loud bar. Like, no shit… That’s why I’m choosing to do something *else*. 0130
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 06/09/2026Even the NYT crossword agrees with me on this one. 060
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 04/09/2026“So we were making post-hookup chit chat and I asked him what he did. He said he was an influencer. Honestly, I would have preferred he just be a Republican.” 🤣🤣🤣 150
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 23/08/2026Talking to folks it sounds like the space between hookups and LTRs has basically collapsed/is collapsing. The apps are relegated to pic perusal and “Right Now” and everything beyond moved to social media. I def have no counter evidence…. Enjoy my current fave club outfit. 1210
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 23/08/2026There is well and truly a place in hell for DJs that interrupt dancers 😆 020
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 19/08/2026For realsies though, wtf happened to “online dating” as a category? Grindr is now useless at all their tier levels. Paid, free, doesn’t matter. Scruff is tripping over itself to do the same and costs as much. Sniffies interactions are so low quality all interactions might be as well bot driven. 3210
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 19/08/2026If a bunch of NYC men could go sign up for subjugated.club so I could flirt during the day I would greatly appreciate it. Or tell me where you’re all hanging out! Doesn’t have to be my spot 🤣 0392
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 12/08/2026Back in NYC! Positive feedback continues on subjugated.club. 1) it’s basically open access now, 2) I have enjoyed more quality chats there in the last two weeks than the last 6 months on all other (dating?) platforms combined. So already calling this a win 😎 3453
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 11/08/2026Just sayin', Bluesky launched publicly Feb. 6th of '24. That was 917 days ago. Accounts with north of 20K posts, assuming they were there day 1, would have AVERAGED 22+ posts/responses EVERY single day since. 070
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 10/08/2026Working my way back home to NYC so it’s going to be a travel day. Crawl into my DMs or AMA to help me pass the time 😇😇 anyone playing anything good? 3340
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 08/08/2026Happy Saturday projects! Taking a break from rewiring a (bullshit) half-rack. 0562
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 08/08/2026Every music service seriously needs a “I wanna listen to this on the DL.” 1221
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 07/08/2026It’s been a long week. Am I going to go drive myself to get an extra large coconut water? Yes. Yes I am. 150
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 06/08/2026PSA: if you ignore someone’s boundaries to pay them a compliment you’re still an asshole 😘 1212
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 05/08/2026It is what it is 🥹. Making some intentional space for cage time cause I’ve been busy and trying to be hornier 🤣 314620
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 04/08/2026I want more gamers (especially indies) and tinkerers on my timeline. I’m playing Mina the Hollower, just finished Sea of Stars, and I keep meaning to buy Star Ocean Second Story R. 🎮👾 and of course if you’ve got a hardware project. 2110
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 02/08/2026When the used bookstore bathroom has the right light 🤣 1400
Reposted by Subspaced Boyasymptote @asympmaso.bsky.social · 01/08/2026I've been having fun getting myself set up on @subspacedboy.subjugated.club's #subclub app. You can tell a lot of thought has gone into security and ux already and I'm excited to see how it develops! Hopefully there'll be some more UK peeps around soon! Find me here: subjugated.club/@asymptotesubjugated.clubSubClub 241
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 01/08/2026To all the straight men I danced with tonight: it’s a shame we didn’t make out 🤣. Oh well. Next time! 😂 0120
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 01/08/2026Ive been a busy little bee. Two major #subclub updates today. 1) public profiles -> subjugated.club/@subspacedboy turn yours on in the profile editor. 2) advanced search -> full query language and complex logical predicates. Be as specific as you want. 3250
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 29/07/2026#subclub subjugated.club It’s so fucking cool seeing people use my projects. It’s so gratifying. Thanks everyone for taking a look 😇 if you were looking for an alt way to find local kinksters in a private, no ads way, check out subclub. Where my Phx guys at??? 0532
Reposted by Subspaced BoySubspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 25/07/2026Today’s #subclub update. Subjugated.club Big one: moving from invite codes to a general signup pool. You can just make accounts now but there’s a daily limit. If you have an invite code you can make one regardless. The limit reset at midnight GMT. Also added verified BSky links 😇 51498
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 27/07/2026The reset happened if you were looking to join 😇 2282
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 25/07/2026Today’s #subclub update. Subjugated.club Big one: moving from invite codes to a general signup pool. You can just make accounts now but there’s a daily limit. If you have an invite code you can make one regardless. The limit reset at midnight GMT. Also added verified BSky links 😇 51498
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 25/07/2026Played a board game that suggested “the most humble player goes first.” After much laughing I went last. 🤣 0120
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 24/07/2026Hey-o PHX! It’s hot! Haircut acquired! But also go signup for #subclub 😘 testing is going really well. And if you’ve never heard of it: subjugated.club/faq FJR6YFXGWF W7HYMVJMY2 TWSJCN85R5 (And if you don’t wanna hear about it block the hashtag. I’ll try and use it consistently.) 1211
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 24/07/2026My Bluesky account in a single picture 😂 0230
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 23/07/2026Today is a travel day for me. As is my want when traveling… AMA for the next several hours. I enjoy passing the time chit chatting with folks. We can talk subclub, something I’ve posted, or video games. Hit me up here, on subclub, or discord. 1211
Reposted by Subspaced BoyLocked Exec @lockedexec.bsky.social · 23/07/2026A few more invite codes. Check it out - one of the better kink apps! 629YXXF37A 51076K6RGE W04H4X1KV0 011
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 22/07/2026Hump day! Dropping 3 more invites. Privacy-first, no advertising, pure utility. subjugated.club 1EBS74DA2G SXXXEEKZY5 63W46N6JHSsubjugated.clubSubClub 020
Reposted by Subspaced BoySubspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 19/07/2026Those went fast. So I'm not above shameless self-promotion. Post a jockstrap selfie with either #subclub or tag me and I'll put 2 codes in the replies. 061
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 20/07/2026“AI slop” writes local man who can barely form a sentence. 030
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 20/07/2026Let’s talk privacy and security. One of the boldest choices I made on subclub was we aren’t taking email addresses. The only authentication system we’re using is called “webauthn”. It means my domain can ask your device to make a passkey (held in the secure module of your phone) and sign a challenge 2100
Reposted by Subspaced BoyLocked Himbo in Training @domsubhybrid.bsky.social · 19/07/2026Been using the #subclub app from @subspacedboy.subjugated.club and have 3 codes to share for others wanting to join! Its a nice alternative to other apps and gives a lot of flexibility for expressing interests etc. Use my codes before they are gone! 7KM2KMYRX6 81EQ4M6C66 QQGSBX3MY5 371
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 19/07/2026Those went fast. So I'm not above shameless self-promotion. Post a jockstrap selfie with either #subclub or tag me and I'll put 2 codes in the replies. 061
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 19/07/2026Milestone on #subclub! I’ve moved the beta to the actual root domain subjugated.club and calling this part the invite beta. The features are stable enough that all current users have 3 invite codes to share. It’s not perfect but I want to start opening up and make sure it holds up (it should). 1867
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 18/07/2026So. Much. Software. Taking a quiet Friday night to play video games and relax. Resume project #subclub in the morning 😮💨😤 1190
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 17/07/2026#subclub updates. Daily patching/fixes are becoming less frequent so things are stabilizing. * if you want to join for now DM me to see the sandbox. * reminder: not super chatty but I do still run a discord server if you want to ask questions or see what else I’m up to: discord.gg/hqBaDXsQ 1763
Reposted by Subspaced BoySubspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 15/07/2026#subclub update (my kinky alt to recon/grindr/whatever). Closed(-ish) beta is going well. Things are solidifying rapidly. A few more days and I’ll start opening the flood gates. Reminder: if you want to join early and play around (and help find bugs) shoot me a DM. 1687
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 15/07/2026#subclub update (my kinky alt to recon/grindr/whatever). Closed(-ish) beta is going well. Things are solidifying rapidly. A few more days and I’ll start opening the flood gates. Reminder: if you want to join early and play around (and help find bugs) shoot me a DM. 1687
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 14/07/2026Dear wonderful beta testers, please go click buttons, and try to message me. A bunch of stuff changed and I probably broke things 😇 040
Reposted by Subspaced BoySubspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 10/07/2026Alright! Put up or shut up time. I’ve got my app SubClub running a closed beta for the next few days. Maybe a week. TBD. Either way, if you want to try it out on bleeding edge and offer feedback DM me and I’ll send you a link. Initial comments have been very positive. 3698
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 10/07/2026Alright! Put up or shut up time. I’ve got my app SubClub running a closed beta for the next few days. Maybe a week. TBD. Either way, if you want to try it out on bleeding edge and offer feedback DM me and I’ll send you a link. Initial comments have been very positive. 3698
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 07/07/2026Things to celebrate: 1) I spent the first half of the year fixing a thoracic mobility issue. I can now overhead squat like a champ. Tons of adjacent things are unlocking. 2) I’m hoping to have a public alpha (maybe beta) of my own kinky dating app thingy this week. A few things to iron out but 🚀🚀 1411
Subspaced Boy @subspacedboy.subjugated.club · 01/07/2026FYI Smartlock and tartarus users, I'm mucking with subjugated.club DNS today. No outage expected, but that's the magic of DNS.subjugated.clubSubjugated Club 020