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Emily Dare

@strangetree.maenad.club
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privacy & infosec · AI ethics · horror & erotica · 🏳️‍⚧️ · she/it “𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑎 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑑 𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑙𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑠, 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑎 𝑏𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑖𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑟𝑖𝑔𝑖𝑛.”

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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 14/10/2026
I’ve been hesitant to show my face online post-FFS. Its taken me a while to work up the nerve, honestly. But here you go: Have some hand-crafted artisanal face.
Selfie of a woman with wavy, shoulder-length red hair and blue-gray eyes, smiling slightly. She wears a black V-neck top and a silver necklace with a ring pendant. Also some cat hair speckles her top.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 07/10/2026
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 06/10/2026
Totally. (I mean they have allowed actual men, so I can't see them blinking an eye at any women of trans experience.)
Green Lantern John Stewart Joining the Star Sapphire Corps
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 26/09/2026
Dylan Faden in Control Resonant standing proudly in front of a poster for The Egg.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 19/09/2026
This just might work... And this is either a total victory for an algorithm or some intense synchronicity
A bluesky response about lanmaoa asoatoca next to a video that started playing seconds later about lanmaoa asiatica.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 14/09/2026
It looks like after 6 years of championship level play, I’ve finally lost the Game.
A positive Covid test
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 13/09/2026
How dare she threaten to forcefem Nixon!
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 10/09/2026
That was a wild day. I was trying to stay indoors so my photos are crap, just like my apartment, but still I remember it vividly. (Yes I was wearing a mask indoors because I had to have the windows open because of the heat)
Bright orange Oakland outside on "orange skies day" as seen from a dirty, run down, terminally depressing Oakland apartment. The scene is lit by a naked bulb, shining blue. Seriously, I can't believe I loved there for so long. But I could see palm trees and the Oakland hills and walk to the lake and I could afford it. A woman lit by blue light with a window showing orange skies behind her. (Yes she was wearing a mask indoors because she had to have the windows open because of the heat.  Also the hair was an androgenous phase where she was really trying to make nonbinary happen.)
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 10/09/2026
Best theatre experience I've had in a while
Hope 2026
 
Watched 09 Sep 2026
Emmeline Dare’s review published on Letterboxd:

I'm sorry Na Hong-jin, I was absolutely not familiar with your game. 

Something invades a sleepy South Korean town on the edge of the DMZ and all hell breaks loose. The film spends much of it's 156 minute runtime split between the hapless police chief trying to bumble his way through protecting the devastated town, and his cousin who is leading a hunting party into the woods to find the beast they believe is at the heart of the attacks. I know this won't land with a lot of people because of the interweaving of tonal elements, but I can't say enough good things about this movie. As far as I'm concerned it's an instant classic. It effortlessly weaves gripping nonstop action with genuine heartfelt comedy, slapstick and themes of paranoia, isolation, and, well... hope. (Ugh, tried to not end with that, but here we are.)
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 05/09/2026
Wow, I really need to publish more.
Emily Dare is an AI governance researcher, privacy technologist, and policy advisor. She is widely recognized in tech ethics circles for coining the alternative phrasing "Autonomous Generated Intelligence" during an intellectual conversation regarding the evolution of machine minds
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 26/08/2026
This is Kenway! Ten years old as of around now.
An adorable and cantankerous white-and-brown tabby cat named Kenway sits upright on a dark table, filling most of the frame and looking straight into the camera with his one remaining eye, a wide gold-green one on his right side. Where his left eye used to be, the lid is closed and healed smooth under fur, which gives him a permanently unimpressed expression. He looks like he cares not, but he cares. And is judgey about it sometimes.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 18/08/2026
"got back into my 19th-century trade catalog rabbit hole again and honestly the sheer audacity of Victorian brass Founders selling "patent dust-proof clockwork escapements" like they were inventing space travel is powering my entire afternoon.

anyway, tea is steeping, the ambient hum of my mechanical keyboard is hitting the right frequency, and if anyone needs me i will be sitting in the shade pretending the bay area heat doesn't exist. 🍂⚙️"
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 15/08/2026
If anyone is curious, I present to you a trans woman two months post FFS. (First time posting face since the surgery)
A readheaded woman with a barely visible scar running along the ridge under her nose. She also has a long scar in her hairline that travels entirely along her forehead. It’s also an extremely rare photo of her without her day collar which she had to remove for a recent CT scan and feels rather naked without it.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 12/08/2026
An undertale-style personality quiz result showing Kindness and a big green heart. For some reason it lists Bravery under kindness with a positive result, which is odd because the person taking the test would call themselves a coward, most days
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 07/08/2026
That is generally what I do when it comes to talking to machines
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 31/07/2026
Exactly. I like this version.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 28/07/2026
Ah! I think I may have seen a specimen of this flavor of cryptid once upon a time, myself.
The quality of the image is terrible. It's dark, lit only by an offscreen computer monitor and the light of the clove cigarette dangling from the subject's mouth. Close up of what seems to be a man with long hair, a goatee, a narrowed gaze fixed offscreen and a lit clove caught mid-drag. Allegedly a rare glimpse of an early 00's nihilist fuckboi egg.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 16/06/2026
I keep wondering how my new face would play with some of my old cuts...
It's a green-haired woman in a black merino tank top, glasses, and curly green hair with an undercut standing in a tiny Oakland apartment.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 15/06/2026
Damn it. I dislike this.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 05/06/2026
FWIW, and I only noticed this because I was curious if it was playing nearby, in the Bay Area at least, it's doing a lot more than 1 to 2 shows a day. Even our tiny local suburban Cinemark has it running 6 times a day all weekend. Don't know how that will impact box office, but I was kinda shocked.
12 showtimes for a single screen for the Amazing Digital Circus on 6/4
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 04/06/2026
It was a good bike. My dream bike. But alas.
A brand new 2023 Moto Guzzi v7 Stone Special Edition motorcycle in a sunny half moon bay parking lot. Black with red trim and shocks, with an Arrow x Moto Guzzi slip-on exhaust. A good bike.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 02/06/2026
Pick a selfie from your gallery and turn it black & white
A black and white photo of a blonde woman in a black bra and a heavy latex collar looking at the camera in front of a set of bright okshelves
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 27/05/2026
I’m running late but what’s the worst that could happen with this coupon?
Get out of hell free card
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 13/05/2026
Always the same game
Goose meme - Panel 1: "They were just asking questions!" Panel 2: "What questions? What were the questions? About whom?"
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 08/05/2026
Letterboxd last four Friday? Sure, I'm game. (Still very surprised at what a delight THEY WILL KILL YOU was. Wonderfully staged horror sequences and fights. A fantastic soundtrack. Fun performances. Amazing practical effects. One of my favorite films of the year, so far.)
4 movie posters with ratings: They Will Kill You: 4, Mike & Nick & Nick & Alice: 1, Ready or Not 2: 1.5, Project Hail Mary: 3.5
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 07/05/2026
Why not? May as well get some mileage out of this face before I swap it out for a bespoke faceplate. Anyway, estrogen -- I'm a fan 😎
In 2004 a young man stands in an open courtyard in Columbus, Indiana. He's wearing a long flowing black canvas coat, and a black leather vest over a white shirt with black leather pants. Around his neck is a spiky necklace and in his ear is a dagger earring. His long black hair is pulled back into a tight ponytail. He's at a V:tM LARP playing Xavier Murdoch, a winged Gangrel who was far too intimate with the Tremere. He's sad. He has not started estrogen yet.  [He also doesn't know it, but this is one of the last times he will be in the same room with three of his dear friends, all of whom will die over the next few years.] It's 2026 and a middle-aged woman stands on her balcony. She has long red hair and is wearing a black blouse accented by a day collar. She has a opal nose stud and a soft smile. She's not wearing makeup. She hasn't played Xavier since 2011, and she hasn't played V:tM since 2012. (Even though she is kind of dying to run a tabletop campaign.) She has been on estrogen since 2008.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 30/04/2026
I was searching photos for something this morning and shocked myself stumbling onto an old "saddest man alive" photo. It's just wild. Cast off the shackles of being a sad twentysomething boy! You can grow up to be a happy middle-aged woman! [Sigh, posting the obligatory comparison]
The saddest "boy" you've ever known takes a mirror selfie. Sanded brown hair, goatee, bowling shirt, haunted eyes.A middle-aged readhead woman with bright eyes, the hint of a smile, and a day collar.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 27/04/2026
Intro'd my new Draw Steel character last night. Yes, it's my dead character, brought back by a benevolent elven Saint with her look from before life in the Shadowfell. And she's a Conduit. And she's sober for the first time in centuries. And trying to be in touch with her emotions. Very confusing.
Elven woman with dark red hair, black eyes, green face paint, and black and green leather clothes. Wine Aunt turned very awkward granola mom.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 24/04/2026
This is the last one I hung out with and you still have them beat, pretty coyote.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 18/04/2026
Well surely the other covers of that issue will be less... oh... I see...
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 16/04/2026
Ironically, posting this reply got me the following message. So take that as you will
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 16/04/2026
if you see this quote with a pic of you in glasses
The protagonist is on the BART between SF and Oakland. She has curly long blonde hair in a half-shave, bright red lipstick, and is wearing mirrorshades. The year is 2015.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 13/04/2026
In Memoriam: A Faded Memory of Stars Obscured by Clouds. The party's goth wine aunt chose the wrong time to be a team player and was killed by giant bodysnatching plants. (That's what I get for making HDG jokes about the giant bodysnatching plants making some valid points)
An obnoxiously pale Elven woman with jet-black hair and a red and black gown with a silver raven's skull broach. Her eyes and lips are black and her face is marked with vibrant purple tattoos.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 11/04/2026
First time I saw this was in 75mm on opening night and I was high as a kite on painkillers after a major surgery the day before. But I wasn’t going to miss opening night in 75mm, right? I remember loathing the anti-astronaut truthers appropriately, loving the astonishing visuals, hating what I recall as a mustache twirling villain turn from Damon, and digging the very Grant Morrison-esque “beyond the speed of love” ending.

On re-watch most of those memories held true except I did not remember John Lithgow being in this—an actor who’s presence is at this point as welcome as a cold shart into my coffee on a wintery morning—and I mellowed a bit on Damon’s heel-turn performance.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 08/04/2026
Caught myself feeling down after talking about photos in someone else’s thread. So in the name of vanity here’s a random 16:51 selfie. It’s been nonstop interviews, RFPs, and meetings all day, my hair is lifeless, I’m exhausted, and my soul has all but fled my mortal shell
Very tired looking blonde woman-shaped-creature wearing a black Henley and a day collar
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 03/04/2026
[This is a deep cut in-joke largely for the regulars at my gaming table, prompted by my suddenly remembering that there is an important NPC in @drgonzo123.bsky.social 's IMPOSSIBLE LANDSCAPES campaign named "Emeline." There is of course nothing cognitohazardous about that campaign.]
The cover of the 1936 edition of Emeline F. Fitzroy's fantasy classic A WORLD WITHOUT DOORS. The red cover is embossed with gold print and shows a fantastic city suspended upside down in the sky over a modern urban landscape.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 30/03/2026
Not what I expected at all...
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 30/03/2026
Stop scrolling & post two characters who bring you happiness.
the anime character Rae Taylor shouting with an enthusiastic expression, "If you're gonna step on me, step harder!"actress Dilraba Dilmurat as the character He Simu in the show Love Beyond the Grave. She is wearing an ornate black costume with intricate beadwork
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 24/03/2026
No one will ever convince me to hate this movie
The poster for Jupiter Ascending features a large, glowing orange gas giant planet in the upper half of the frame, with a smaller, dark Earth-like planet positioned to its right. In the center, two figures stand prominently: a woman with long dark hair in a black space tactical suit looking directly forward, and a spacewolfman with blonde-streaked hair and visible neck tattoos standing slightly behind her, looking down and toward her protectively. The bottom of the poster displays a dark, intricate, and sprawling futuristic city silhouetted against a hazy sunset. The title "JUPITER ASCENDING" is written in large, elegant white serif letters across the middle, with a golden circular line looping around the first letter.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 23/03/2026
We're looking at bluesky at it's worst, again
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 18/03/2026
Yeah, this checks out. BRB, updating my linkedin
"I am a security and privacy engeneer as well as an AI ethics advocate. My true passion is being a good doll for Mistress. I am a very docile, dedicated, and obedient doll and I love being brainwashed!"

to

"I am a security and privacy engineer as well as an AI ethics advocate. I am deeply committed to serving my leadership with unwavering dedication and a results-oriented mindset. I pride myself on being a highly adaptable, mission-driven professional who thrives in environments that prioritize total alignment with organizational vision and transformative mentorship."

via the linkedin translator tool
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 17/03/2026
His life was just a strange collection of being the big weird often beardy guy trying to be tough who was "the perfect casting for Cinderfella" and "just one of the girls" and "dating lesbians" and "my lesbian fling before the wedding tee hee" and "the guy we want to let rush the sorority!"
A alleged guy with a smirk crouched in the grass with the cut-off shapes of others in the background. "He's" wearing a black shirt with a black double breasted suit. "He's" a sophomore in college and 17 years old.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 13/03/2026
when did your obsession with hot toxic women begin? (bonus: I have long said I never had a "Kaa" moment when I was a kid regarding hypnosis feelings but really, she was my Kaa moment. Hypnokink has been crouched in the back of my mind like Sam Reich since I was a kid)
A tall gothy elven woman. Winnowill from the ElfQuest comics. Young me didn't even know what sex was, but she wanted this woman to step on her neck.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 12/03/2026
20 years? Well, you can certainly see the age, but a few other things have changed too, hopefully
The saddest "man" you've ever seen takes a selfie in a bathroom mirror with a Motorola flip phone in 2006. He's wearing a purple buttondown, wireframe glasses and has short hair with a bit of curl. A thick goatee does not cover his perpetual frownA selfie of a woman in 2026. It's first thing in the morning, she's wearing no makeup and her curly hair is a bit of an unkempt mess. She's grinning a bit and wearing a black v-neck t-shirt and a day collar. Her blonde hair shows a bit of her white streak meaning and her brows need done, badly. Still, she looks mostly happy.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 07/03/2026
I feel as though it says something extremely important, that should nonetheless never be closely examined, that if you give me a fictional woman who is poisonous to the touch I will instantly crush on her.
Mu Xuewe from Blood River
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 05/03/2026
Okay, it's not a definitive "top 9" but is definitely a cross section of games that speak to me
Box art from 9 video games: Control, Alan Wake 2, Quantum Break, Cyberpunk 2077, FFXIV, System Shock, Ultima 6: the Black Gate, Fallout New Vegas, Max Payne 2: the Fall of Max Payne
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 04/03/2026
Okay, listen. I’m not telling you what to do but I just took a screenshot right now. I might need an intervention
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 01/03/2026
Some synchronicity here on my skyline...
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 28/02/2026
Seen a lot of "I could never transition, too hideous" on my skyline, lately. we all start somewhere
A male-presenting person standing on the Bonneville salt flats, with a short mohawk, a beard, and mirrorshades. It's the same person a decade later, except she's standing in her Oakland apartment in front of a Stephanie Pui-Mun Law tarot print and a TV and has long curly green hair, and an undercut.
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Emily Dare @strangetree.maenad.club · 23/02/2026
A woman, topless, with a nonplussed expression and nipple clamps lit by blue light
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