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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Your rose photos are always incredible

Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Your point was “your story changed” Mine was “no it hasn’t” That’s not really a valid response to this part of the conversation. You’ve already argued that my definition is wrong. I’ve already responded to that argument, too.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Also my story didn’t change, I’ve been trying to convince you of that definition this entire time.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Language is often based of vibes, anyway. Someone looked at a seahorse and thought “that’s giving horse vibes” and that’s why we call them seahorses.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Nazis have a label because it’s a significant part of their identity. Being a nazi affects how they act and talk and think.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

He doesn’t need a specific label for himself, the same way a horse doesn’t need a label like “sea horse” because learning how to swim to shore is far more productive than complaining about being a sea horse and creating a podcast about it.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

The meaning of incel can change because if a guy just happens to be celibate, he wouldn’t use that word to refer to himself. He hasn’t built an identity or ideology or joined a community revolving around that. It’s not a significant part of his identity.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

And that is why people shouldn’t use the word nazi to refer to people who don’t have nazi ideologies. If we did, then yes, the meaning of the word would change over time. That’s just a bad idea for that word.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

If I called you a donkey rn I wouldn’t literally mean “you are a member of the Equus asinus species, you have 4 legs, eat grass, and carry stuff on your back” I’d be calling you an idiot. Context changes the meaning, and so does time, especially on the internet.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Nah mate, it’s called language. Meanings change over time, or with context. For example, this article is using the word incel in a context where it clearly means the definition I’ve tried to explain to you.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

It’s probably quite difficult to hate women if you want to truly fall in love with one of them. It’s quite a lot easier if all you are about is sex, but if that’s the case, I doubt you’ll ever get any.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Any normal person who’s sad about being single would be more upset about not being able to share their life, hold someone at night, talk endlessly about the things that interest them with, have inside jokes with, and a bunch of other stuff.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Also, side note… if you’re so focused on the literal meaning, anyone who identifies as “involuntarily celibate” is automatically gross. Why is sex the first thing they want? Not love? Sex is fun, sure, but only because it’s one of many forms of expressing love.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Like I said bro Seahorses aren’t literally horses. And horses that happen to be in the sea aren’t seahorses.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

A guy who just happens to be “involuntarily celibate” is just a virgin. He knows working on being a good partner and being patient will help him find a gf. An incel is someone who’s decided they’re gonna blame everyone else for their virginity, and has joined that specific subculture.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

You can choose to be part of an internet subculture or not. They’re choosing to blame women. They’re choosing to have extremist views. You can be involuntarily celibate without being an incel.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

when in reality it’s a combination of a shitty economy, bad luck, and (after they enter that community) being really unlikeable.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

I’m not sure you get my point. “Incel” doesn’t just mean “involuntarily celibate”. It usually means fans of Andrew Tate or that genre of influencer. Men who hate women because they think we are the reason they’re broke and can’t get a gf,

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

A horse that happens to be in the sea isn’t a seahorse

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

You know a seahorse isn’t an actual horse, right?

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

If I offered you 5 apples but told you one of them is poisoned, would you eat one? Or would you rather eat an orange instead?

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

The annoying thing about the degree I’m studying is that sometimes we have lectures on forestry in a forest and I get distracted by the trees when I’m supposed to be listening to someone talk about the trees.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

It’s just swimming through them, not using a drone.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Yeah we need a new pesticide just for them

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

If I lived closer I’d probably join a volunteer group to help clear up the place a bit more, if there is one.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

People say Birmingham is a shithole, but I think it’s still lovable. She wears flower pots like jewellery and street art makeup. Today she was dressed in a clear blue sky. Blue really brings out her architecture and makes her low-flying planes pop.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Amazing. The colours on this one are absolutely gorgeous.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Pretty spider. I wonder ever happened to her legs?

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

He’s all pretty in his spotty coat

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

Found this beautiful little one on the floor of the greenhouse. I don’t think it’ll live very long, one (or 2?) or its legs are missing, and I think one of its eyes are damaged? But I hope it’s at least a bit happier on this flower…

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

Ah alright, makes sense, thanks

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Man I wish libraries had library vibes but sadly it’s white walls, cartoon characters with too-bright colours on the windows, and the whirring of ceiling lights. I’d spend all day in a library if it felt like a library instead of a children’s hospital lol.

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

That is a beautiful work of art. Makes you feel warm and calm. The fox reminds me of one of my friends, and the snow leopard is adorable

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Starlight @starlightdisaster.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

He talks like Chris Chan and it pisses me off so much.

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