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The treatment of AMAB survivors of childhood sexual abuse (inc. non-genital forms of incest) IS PROOF enough that there are MANY issues on which EVIL patriarchy and PRISTINE cisfeminism not only work hand-in-hand together, but actually gleefully so. A reminder that we JUDGE systems at what they do.

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All downstream from the sacred alliance between patriarchy and cisfeminism 🤍 🤍 🤍 Aren't you SATISFIED? Isn't this world WONDERFUL? Punching down on AMABs survivors of sexual abuse is proof that we can all work together sooooo weeeeell! (To bad for you but F*** YOU signed AFAB-loving cisfeminists)

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🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 If someone accuses you of having said something misogynistic I will personally punch them in the face. AFABs survivors of childhood sexual abuse can say all of the most insane shit they want when publicly unpacking their trauma, but suddenly the same standard shouldn't apply here? Fuck them.

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But sExUaL pReDaToRs ArE oNlY mEn 😢🤯 Women’s in innocence (especially female’s) must DIE for justice to be made for ALL survivors. You 1000% deserved better.

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Catherine Reprobate 🪤 @catherine.baeddel.institute · 01/10/2026

I concur a lot with Piper 🙌

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it was a woman who violated me as a child and it was older girls who forced themselves on me growing up and it was other women who groped me w/o consent when I started HRT and it was a woman who tried to rape me. this is one of those weeks where i'm reminded that I live in another universe

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Du coup, il y a fort à parier que si on fait l'effort de déminer le vocabulaire, on trouvera plein de points communs en-dessous du masque des mots. Ca vous parle tout ca ? Ou je parle toute-seule comme une girouette sans vent ? 🌬️🐦‍⬛ Quoiqu'il en soit, une belle journée qu'on se rejoigne ou non ✨️ 🙂

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Oups, me suis trompée de thread (et supprimé le message addressé à tort) My bad 😅 ma question plus tôt demeure cela dit

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C'est bien possible alors que la faute se trouve d'abord dans les logiques partisanes, dans la puissante logique du cistème et celle de la machine académico-médiatique, et—fondamentalement—dans le vocabulaire restreint qui nous contraint de choisir les mêmes mots pour parler de choses différentes…

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Y'a un truc à se taper la tête contre le murs. Après, je viens aussi de visionner votre conférence "Représentations médiatiques des trans" sur Youtube, et ca me parait évident qu'on parle de positions différentes en utilisant des mêmes signifiants qui se réfèrent à des signifiés bien différents.

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… et ceci alors que l'essentiel des productions théoriques anglophones (communautaire et / ou académiques) sont réalisées par des femmes trans—dont une importante minorité est contrainte à la réclusion en ligne) à partir de vécus d'exclusion et de transmisogynie dans les milieux féministes & queers.

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J'ai vraiment ici l'impression d'une pathologisation à l'envers et d'un conservatisme d'apparence libéral, où la réalité matérielle du terrain est évacuée au profit d'une compatibilité politique & sociale avec un système cissexiste, cisféministe & queer-centré (comme identité, PAS position sociale)

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Évidemment, j'ai été été consulter votre chapitre "Transgenres et transsexuel•les"… Alors, j'ai été pas dégoutée—juste à nouveau décue et lasse par ce qui est de facto une *reductio ad hitleriam* dans la présentation de la réappropriation croissante des labels 'transsexuel·le' & 'transmédicalisme'.

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Après, malaise pour être franche car je viens de parcourir votre ouvrage récent avec Maud-Yeuse Thomas ("Transidentités et transitudes") et mon impression est celle d'un divorce de réalités qui reflètent probablement un divorce générationnel d'une part, mais aussi paradigmatique d'autre part.

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Je déterre les plat-bandes après une recherche sur Pauline Clochec. Du coup, je vois Namaste et ça a fait monter ma curiosité : c’est quel aspect que tu as cité ? (Si c’est pas déjà trop loin dans le passé) 🙂

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Mais c’est TELLEMENT ÇA ! Ah diantre QU’EST-CE QUE ÇA FAIT DU BIEN D‘ENTENDRE QUELQU’UN LE DIRE !!!! (Déso pour les majuscules, c’est juste mon cri cathartique 🫣🙃) Merci. Merci vraiment ! 🪷

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Pardon pour déterrer ça @mitildide.bsky.social, mais c’est cool de faire exister le transféminisme matérialisme francophone sur bluesky! Maintenant—près de trois ans après—est-ce que tu as observé des changements en France ? Te pose la question car chu pas française et fuis les médias francophones.

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rita hatesville @ritatreats.bsky.social · 08/05/2026

Coup de poignard de ma gorge à mes entrailles en lisant ça. Mais ça reflète une réalité bien réelle contre laquelle je souhaite me dresser. Après, chu pas conne et j’observe bien l’énormité des obstacles, surtout auprès des cisféministes non-terfistes… Sensation d’abîme. Oserais-je te contacter ?

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> No account is suspended or removed without human oversight. there you have it. every trans woman banned by staff was manual and not automated. someone on the team decided that a woman complaining about being harassed for her rape was worth being banned for and sent that out as an email

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Sofie @sofleuri.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

*Speaking in an old and tired male voice*: ‘The ADHD is strong in this one’ 😜

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Sofie @sofleuri.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

You are incorrigible 😆

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hyperlexuality @baphomet.male.manipulat.org · 29/09/2026

Sadly, it's actually far more likely that most egregious harm on this planet stems from ignorance (whether willful or unintentional), self-referenced insouciance, the structural incapacity to decenter oneself—all of which end up down the line fueling the bystander effect & reactive antagonism.

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like being real the only actual solid predictor of transition success is money. being an obstinate little bitch that locks in really hard will get you far for sure but that doesn't and can't make up for material reality. if you are loaded you can speedrun passing in 3-4 years. that's just true

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Fran Amery @franamery.bsky.social · 28/04/2025

I have a new article out in Sexualities on cisfeminism, or feminist transphobia that is not straightforwardly 'TERF'. Honestly, I feel a bit weird promoting this article in the middle of all this horror. But I do think the section on epistemic practice touches (cont) doi.org/10.1177/1363...

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Pear Smoothie🍐🥤 @pearsmoothie.bsky.social · 21/06/2026

Exactly but also, people who draw "manly" trans women want to claim subversiveness for themselves, they just don't want to be seen as AMAB cos they have conflicting cisfeminist thoughts abt it. So they do self inserts on fictional trans women, like how cishet women use BL for relationship fantasies

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What else is there, than ostracizing the accused? Organization. The very thing we’re bad at. Proactively protect the members of your community, including the accused. Negotiate apologies, restitution, and boundaries to prevent further abuse. Resolve the issue, and then let it lie. 16/

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Do you know what happens, when a person who’s deeply terrified of being an abuser gets put in a position of power? Often, abuse happens. Not because the person was right about their nature; but because their fear blinds them to their own actions. Every error is a potential ego threat. 11/

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I actually did find myself arguing from the Not All Men side more than once. I was a closeted trans woman at the time, and harbored quite a lot of shame over the impulses of my body, being raised in a patriarchal purity culture. It was deeply important to me to not be seen as an innate abuser. 8/

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I think this is what the most principled of the Not All Men folks think they’re saying: many people still subscribe to the penis = evil model of gender, and that’s harms everyone. We need to make sure we’re modeling the conflict at the material and structural level, not at the ontological level. 6/

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Obviously, the truth is that gender qua gender has nothing to do with it. The modal rapist is a cis man because patriarchy ensures cis men have structural power over everyone else. Cis men are not “naturally” or “biologically” predisposed to rape. Rather, they are inducted into a rape culture. 5/

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Pear Smoothie🍐🥤 @pearsmoothie.bsky.social · 21/02/2026

As far as the queers went, we of course allied on the “not cis men” side, as was right and proper. :3 But because MeToo was predominantly a cis movement, its effects broadly reinforced cisgenderism. If you think gender is immutable, and you think men are rapists, then manhood itself is poisonous.

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So in essence: this argument only works if you are perpetually stuck in a loop where you are pointing out how cishet relationships suck for women but never beyond it. They cannot imagine people outside of their cisheterosexual misery, whether by social conditioning or not, can exist in a viable way.

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Pear Smoothie🍐🥤 @pearsmoothie.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

"I didn't want to transition at first because I was the only short haired tomboy-butch lesbian etc and I wanted to be an example of progressive and powerful women" Too many trans men say this. Cishets are fucking lazy. They are piggybacking off trans people even in their own cishet gender wars.

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Pear Smoothie🍐🥤 @pearsmoothie.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

Challenging the very cishet ASAB standards is a revolutionary act in itself. Trans women who want to pass accidentally having standards that match the society's standards for cis women, and not wanting to be seen with fucking beards is not an attack on GNC ppl. I hope ppl are less daft about this.

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Lisa Diedrich @lisadiedrich.bsky.social · 28/04/2025

Cis-ness as wounded attachment is an incisive take: “In a politics of woundedness, mobilisation against an apparently threatening ‘other’ can seem like justice, even when that ‘other’ is another, perhaps even more, marginalised group.”

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Txs for clarifying that. But picrel-wise, I am unsure if the situation described involves transphobia (if yes, how then?) or if is it just the terrible reality of being isolated and being a structural minority 😥 It's however clear that impact-wise, there can be a lot of overlap between the two.

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Imagine that this a take that will get you cancelled in many supposedly ' 'queer', 'queer-friendly', 'feminist' & 'progressive' spaces. It really shows how much neoliberal culture destroyed critical thinking skills and obliterated most class consciousness organized around shared material realities.

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If you aren't aware, Turkey is going through a terrifying authoritarian anti-LGBT crackdown at the hands of Erdogan's ruling party. Turkish trans people have already been seeking asylum elsewhere and need our support ❤️‍🩹

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Sofie @sofleuri.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

We live in a batshit crazy world. And of all the crazy things I can think about right now, tribalism is the one that terrifies the most. Yes, it speaks of my experiences. Yes, it speaks of my biases too. Yes, it’s perhaps not the most dangerous. I am honestly more and more scared by this world. Ugh.

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It wasn't my intention, as they GC don't see themselves as trans 'allies' to say the least. But ty for asking!

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I mean, people would pay for the memeable content and cultural archival value of these folders. Epic 😳 I applaud your dedication (unironic)

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So, it looks like its a *chicken or the egg* problem. I probably will have to completely rethink how to broach the topic before looking for testimonies. Would you know where to start? And what's your take on the problems I highlighted above? But perhaps I am overcomplicating things. Idk 😕

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Discussing the subject can be quite difficult—esp. openly. Because most us transsex ppl (trans femmes in particular): ⒈ Are socialized NEVER to never say or even think anything bad about our supposed progressive & queer 'allies' ⒉ Lack a general idea of what we are talking about in the first place

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I really appreciate your clear & straightforward feedback, which highlights the structural problems of compression for social media. So thing is, I am looking for all kind of feedback at this phase. It's kind of exploratory. But the wording might be miscalibrated at this stage. Let me explain.

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🎯 Gather testimonies to get a finer understanding of this kind of transphobia 👩 I am a transsex woman who also experienced it & found almost nothing on the topic :( 📧 DMs open if you feel more comfortable sharing so 🔁 Please repost the post above so it may reach people who experienced this 🙏

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I don't suffer from it but I commiserate a lot with people suffering from chronic and especially 'invisible' illnesses 🫂 ❤️‍🩹

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