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Rugrat Apparel @rugratapparel.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
🎉 GIVEAWAY! 🎉 To celebrate the release of my FIFTH COLLECTION, I’m giving FIVE lucky Rugrats 2 pairs of their choice from the new collection! 🥳 ❤️ Like 👀 Follow 🔁 Repost Winners announced 1 Sept! Five collections in and it’s all thanks to you! Thank you for your support 🙏😘
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River (Rourkie) Danyals @rourkie.bsky.social · 29/12/2025
Loving Someone with Anxiety Means Remembering This:

They're not overthinking to be difficult - their brain is scanning for danger even when none is there.

Their worries aren't pointless - it is a learned self-protection pattern attempting to keep them safe.

When they ask for reassurance, it isn't to doubt you - it's a coping strategy their nervous system uses to feel safe, seen, and loved.

They're not trying to be negative - anxiety makes every "what if" feel like a real possibility.

If they take longer to decide, it's not indecision - it's weighing 47 outcomes you don't even see.

When they cancel plans last-minute, it's not flakiness - it's their nervous system saying, "I'm overwhelmed" or "This feels too scary."

They're not consciously trying to control everything - unpredictability just feels scary

They're not being "too sensitive" - their system feels things deeply and notices what others overlook.

They really don't want to worry this much - but, their nervous system has become habituated to being on constant alert

DR. KELLY VINCENT
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