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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them)

@sgthotpants.bsky.social
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Growing plants in a famous haunted house. Queer antiracist stoner. I do the Sunday crossword in pen.

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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
I love the views when waiting to vote at the library
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
So when I get a reference request for my formerly 19-year old lil baby of the restaurant TO BECOME A WHOLE ASS LAWYER, I cry. A lot. 🥹
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
I'm proud of all of them like they're my own babies.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
A lot of those young folks, finally having a bit of employment security, were able to take a breath and figure out what they wanted to do with their life.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
In a past life, I was a manager for some of the most amazing people I'll ever meet. Lots of young folks that needed a safe place to land in the industry. Lots of queer, trans and/or NB kids, many of whom weren't out when they started working there.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Learn all the lyrics to 30 Point Buck
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Win the butter sculpture contest at the county fair ffs
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Go full stereotype and give some tax breaks to dairy farmers and football teams then you're set wtf
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Imagine: You think you're the king of the world, then you can't even buy a judicial seat in fucking Wisconsin
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Lolol the guy that Musk did an entire dog and pony show over lost in Wisconsin
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
Day two of being unable to function due to the pain bc I *Checks notes* Wore very low heels for a few hours Saturday evening
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
No idea how this ends, except that keeping things the way they are isn't an acceptable outcome.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
My husband is...not a very emotional human. I am a hyper emotional person. It's not working out well right now.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
And surprise! I'm desperately fucking lonely.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
I stopped working after VDay weekend 2020 to poop out a baby. When I was ready to go back to work, the entire world was upended and I had no work to go back to. And tbh I've spent the last five years in that lockdown mentality. Leaving the house stopped being fun.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
Trying to creep back into social media after a teeny lil menty b is rough. Hi. I'm a fucking mess.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
We found that using any browser other than Chrome helps fwiw
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
Stand up for your trans friends like William Keating, holy shit www.nytimes.com/2025/03/11/u...
nytimes.com
Republican Refers to Sarah McBride, Transgender Congress Member, as a Man (Gift Article)
Representative Keith Self of Texas insisted on calling Representative Sarah McBride, the first openly transgender member of Congress, “Mr. McBride,” and adjourned the session when challenged about it.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
I don't know if we can recover from this. I may be too far gone. Which makes it worse when he's finally listening for the first time.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
I'm so shattered about the lack of birthday planning bc of this. It was the final straw in a pattern of ignoring my (admittedly strong) feelings.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
This article was the first time he really listened, bc it's basically a list of all the things I've talked about before.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
My PTSD and history of abuse has been amplifying these feelings in my head for years. I literally do not have the ability to stop thinking about it, ever
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
You ever find an article that describes what you're feeling exactly? Here's mine. www.marriage.com/advice/relat...
marriage.com
What is Emotional Neglect in Marriage? Signs & How to Deal
Emotional neglect in a marriage happens when emotional needs are unmet, causing loneliness and disconnection. Discover the key signs to watch for.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
I wish I was lovable. Or appreciated for who I am, not what I can do for other people
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
It's okay. I know my value now.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
I asked my husband to plan something big for my 40th birthday, and he didn't. He fucked up my birthday last year, too. I'm not enough. I'm not enough for anything.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
It feels like I did a trust fall and nobody caught me
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
What even is the point of vocalizing needs if nobody listens
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
I'm so glad you two were able to get out of the house! We should definitely get together more often!
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
I only exist inside this house. Maybe I'm the real ghost.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
What do you want to do for your birthday? Go out to eat, hang at my favorite bar, have a big gay dance party Okay, but how about being too sick to eat, a party almost nobody could attend, and never having a chance to get away from your kids? Oh...I guess that's cool, too
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/03/2025
Gotta say, my last minute outfit switch did some fantastic work for my back end
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 02/03/2025
YOU ARE SO HOT 🔥
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
Birthday party viiiiibe
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
My baby boy is pure fucking joy and it was awesome to get stabbed by him, livin his dream Also omg our hair together is a whole ass mood
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
Two tattoos so far: A praying mantis getting ready to fight my other praying mantis The moon tarot, which largely is a reference to the funniest three seconds of Orange is the New Black and I can't stop giggling about it
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
Having a birthday weekend redo since I was sick last week and IT'S FUCKING GREAT
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
Heyyyyyyyy frienz who have fully exited Meta, here's some copypasta, sorry I'm lazy I'm old
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 27/02/2025
50 Shades of The Answer Is Still No
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
Oh yikes. What a crock of nonsense.
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
Happy to add this though!
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
Darn! I already have the translate app on my phone, maybe that's the difference!
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Me and a small nugget of love. 🇸🇪♥️🇺🇦 @mnotme.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
How to change a swastika that cant be removed
How to change a swastika into a message of love
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
If on Android, long press to highlight text then select "translate"
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
Hey hotpants, why is your kitchen floor covered in dog food? Did someone knock over his bowl? Shadow at literally every meal:
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
I'm having a hard time finding journalists with ko-fi or similar and would like to keep this going, who can I give some joy to?
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Karen Attiah @karenattiah.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
Exactly why I've been writing, podcasting, and damn near screaming about using the right language. The mainstream media is failing us SO badly right now. Stop. Calling. This. Shit. DEI. This is (re)segregation. This is racial purging. Cleansing Black people from positions of power.
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Hell Frasier: Bloodline @babadooknukem.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
the way to stop people doing nazi shit is to create an environment where doing nazi shit immediately gets you jumped by six guys, do not pass go, ass kicking first and ask questions later. every goth & punk bar on god's gay earth already figured this out in the 90s
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
I asked folks on my FB feed to send me five bucks to tip indie journalists and SWers for my bday, and holy shit folks turned out
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Sgt. Goddamn Hotpants (they/them) @sgthotpants.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
Completely off topic but: That is my FAVORITE every day use pen!
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