Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 27/08/2026“Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow.” - Mary Anne Radmacher Give yourself a little grace today. You're doing great. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 26/08/2026This guide explains the process for getting a protection order, what filing puts on the record, and why service is important. It names the terms you need at the courthouse, covers evidence and enforcement, and says plainly what the order can or cannot do. safeescape.org/a-practical-... #DomesticVisafeescape.orgA Practical Guide to Protection Orders - Operation Safe EscapeA protection order is a court order, not a security system. This guide explains how the process works, what filing puts on the record, and why service is a warning to the other person. It names the terms you need at the courthouse, covers evidence and enforcement, and says plainly what the order can or cannot do. 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 24/08/2026Spies and survivors share one challenge: communicating when someone may be watching. This article explores how code words, backup channels, compartmentalization, identity checks, safer devices, and careful message planning can help survivors stay connected. safeescape.org/tradecraft-f... #spycrafsafeescape.orgTradecraft for Safety: What Real-World Spies Can Teach Survivors About Communicating Under Surveillance - Operation Safe EscapeSpies and survivors share one challenge: communicating when someone may be watching. This article explores how code words, backup channels, compartmentalization, identity checks, safer devices, and careful message planning can help survivors stay connected. The key lesson is simple: there’s no perfect secret channel, only a plan built for the survivor’s situation and support system. 021
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 20/08/2026A healthy relationship leaves room for friends, family, privacy, interests, & a life of your own. If you have noticed your world getting smaller, you don't have to immediately decide what it means. Start by recognizing the pattern. safeescape.org/isolation/ #CoerciveControl #abuse #relationships 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 19/08/2026Recent breakup? Ending a relationship used to mean returning keys and picking up boxes. Today it also means passwords, shared streaming profiles, location sharing you both forgot was on, a thermostat account in their name, and a phone plan you're both still on. A "digital breakup" is the process ofsafeescape.orgToolkit - Digital Breakup Guide - Operation Safe EscapeOPERATION SAFE ESCAPE Home » Toolkits » Digital Breakup Recovery Playbook The Digital Breakup: Securing Your Accounts, Devices & Privacy A step-by-step guide to untangling your digital life after a relationship ends: passwords, location sharing, shared accounts, smart home tech, and everything in between. Sharing your digital life with a partner was an act of… 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 18/08/2026OSE supports the SAFE for Survivors Act, which would give survivors up to 40 workdays of safe leave, plus workplace accommodations, unemployment eligibility, and insurance and privacy protections. We urge Congress to advance the bill and strengthen its provisions. safeescape.org/why-operatio...safeescape.orgWhy Operation Safe Escape Supports the SAFE for Survivors Act of 2026 - Operation Safe EscapeOperation Safe Escape supports the SAFE for Survivors Act of 2026 (S. 4635 and H.R. 8965), which would give survivors up to 40 workdays of safe leave, 10 of them paid, plus workplace accommodations, unemployment eligibility, and insurance and privacy protections. We urge Congress to advance the bill and further strengthen its technology-facilitated abuse provisions. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 17/08/2026A Georgia woman finally learned how her ex always knew where she was: he was a police chief, and he had run her plate roughly 600 times. At least 50 officers have been accused of the same thing. Flock's new safeguards catch misuse after the fact. Survivors are still never told they were searched.safeescape.orgFlock Cameras: Public Safety or Stalking Tool? - Operation Safe EscapeA Georgia woman finally learned how her ex always knew where she was: he was a police chief, and he had run her plate roughly 600 times. At least 50 officers have been accused of the same thing. Flock's new safeguards catch misuse after the fact. Survivors are still never told they were searched. 021
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 15/08/2026A Georgia woman finally learned how her ex always knew where she was: he was a police chief, and he had run her plate roughly 600 times. At least 50 officers have been accused of the same thing. Flock's new safeguards catch misuse after the fact. Survivors are still never told they were searched.safeescape.orgFlock Cameras: Public Safety or Stalking Tool? - Operation Safe EscapeA Georgia woman finally learned how her ex always knew where she was: he was a police chief, and he had run her plate roughly 600 times. At least 50 officers have been accused of the same thing. Flock's new safeguards catch misuse after the fact. Survivors are still never told they were searched. 041
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 10/08/2026Children learn what love looks like by watching us. What will they see? safeescape.org/breakthecycle/ 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 06/08/2026An employee walks into your office and tells you their partner might be monitoring their devices and tracking their location. How do you respond? How do you help keep all your employees safe? This guide helps answer those questions before a crisis happens. safeescape.org/your-employe...safeescape.orgYour Employee Says Their Partner Is Monitoring Them. What Should You Do Next? - Operation Safe EscapeYour Employee Says Their Partner Is Monitoring Them. What Should You Do Next? A guide for managers, HR, and organizational leaders. 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 05/08/2026There's red flags in relationships, but what about the green flags? Green flags are the signs of a healthy, supportive relationship. What are yours? 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 30/07/2026When was the last time you checked your social media privacy settings? Have you ever? Sometimes privacy settings can change, potentially exposing your private information in ways you don't expect. Periodically review your settings and make sure only people you trust know what you're up to. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 29/07/2026In 2024, a redditor made a post titled "My bf asked for the banana & now I've got the ick." To some, it sounded like a joke or a minor relationship hiccup. Others saw it for what it was. Two years later, she returned and shared how serious it actually was. safeescape.org/it-wasnt-abo...safeescape.orgIt wasn't about the banana - Operation Safe EscapeIn 2024, a redditor made a post titled "My bf asked for the banana & now I've got the ick." At first, it almost sounded like a joke or a minor relationship hiccup. But two years later, she returned and shared how serious it actually was. 011
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 28/07/2026That feeling when your first computer is in a Smithsonian 🫠 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 28/07/2026Recent breakup? Ending a relationship used to mean returning keys and picking up boxes. Today it also means passwords, shared streaming profiles, location sharing you both forgot was on, a thermostat account in their name, and a phone plan you're both still on. A "digital breakup" is the process ofsafeescape.orgToolkit - Digital Breakup Guide - Operation Safe EscapeOPERATION SAFE ESCAPE Home » Toolkits » Digital Breakup Recovery Playbook The Digital Breakup: Securing Your Accounts, Devices & Privacy A step-by-step guide to untangling your digital life after a relationship ends: passwords, location sharing, shared accounts, smart home tech, and everything in between. Sharing your digital life with a partner was an act of… 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 27/07/2026For many survivors of abuse, navigating the justice system can feel overwhelming. Criminal, Civil, and Family Courts all have different roles and processes. We've developed a toolkit to help you understand what to expect, what happens next, and how to get the legal help you deserve.safeescape.orgToolkit: Navigating the Legal System - Operation Safe EscapeOPERATION SAFE ESCAPE Home » Toolkits » Legal System Recovery Playbook Navigating the Legal System A survivor’s map to courts, protective orders, and legal help: what each part of the system can do for you, how the pieces fit together, and how to protect yourself along the way. You don’t have to become a lawyer… 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 25/07/2026The question is not whether survivors are strong enough. They already are. The question is whether communities, systems, workplaces, and support networks are willing to become safe enough. 020
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 24/07/2026You do not have to explain your survival to people committed to misunderstanding it. 011
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 23/07/2026You are not weak because someone hurt you. You are not foolish because you hoped things would get better. You are not broken because survival changed you. You are still here. That matters. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 22/07/2026Survivors are not defined by what someone did to them. They are parents, students, workers, friends, leaders, advocates, artists, caregivers, and community members. Recovery is about giving people room to live again. See the survivor. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 21/07/2026You don't need to have all the answers today. You just need the next safest step. And sometimes that step is simply telling one safe person, “I need help.” 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 20/07/2026On this day in 1969, humanity reached new heights when we walked on the moon. Engineers, astronauts, and countless others overcame challenges and adversity to accomplish what we once thought was impossible. It's amazing what we can accomplish when we work together. This post isn't about the moon. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 18/07/2026You are allowed to miss someone who hurt you. You are allowed to feel grief, anger, love, fear, relief, confusion, and hope all at once. Complicated feelings don't mean you made the wrong choice. They mean you are human. #HealingAfterAbuse #TraumaRecovery 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 17/07/2026“Why didn’t they just leave?” is the wrong question. A better question is: What barriers did they face, and how can we help remove them? Housing, money, transportation, custody, immigration status, disability, pets, threats, and fear are real barriers. Survivors need options, not judgment. 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 16/07/2026Leaving is not a single moment. It is often a process of planning, protecting, hiding, documenting, surviving, and trying again when the first plan becomes unsafe. When someone stays, it does not mean they are choosing abuse. It may mean they are choosing the safest option available today. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 16/07/2026This article breaks down key laws (ADA, VAWA, Fair Housing Act), what accessible services can look like, and how to find shelter, coordinate caregiving, and get help when a program says no. safeescape.org/safety-acces...safeescape.orgSafety, Accessibility, and Support: Getting Domestic Violence Services as a Person with a Disability - Operation Safe EscapePeople with disabilities who face abuse have real legal protections and options. This article breaks down key laws (ADA, VAWA, Fair Housing Act), what accessible services can look like, and how to find shelter, coordinate caregiving, and get help when a program says no. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 15/07/2026Can you spot the warning signs in this real phishing message? The messages aren't always this obvious, but remember to think before you click! 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 15/07/2026It wasn't about the banana. In 2024, a redditor made a post titled "My bf asked for the banana & now I've got the ick." At first, it almost sounded like a joke or a minor relationship hiccup. But two years later, she returned and shared how serious it actually was.safeescape.orgIt wasn't about the banana - Operation Safe EscapeIn 2024, a redditor made a post titled "My bf asked for the banana & now I've got the ick." At first, it almost sounded like a joke or a minor relationship hiccup. But two years later, she returned and shared how serious it actually was. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 15/07/2026“No one would believe me” is one of the most powerful and deceitful tools an abuser can use. When survivors speak, our first response matters. Learn more:safeescape.orgRecognizing and Responding to Abuse - Operation Safe EscapeRecognizing Abuse Abuse rarely looks like what people expect. It’s not always physical, and it doesn’t always leave visible marks. It can show up as control, isolation, fear, or manipulation, patterns that build slowly enough that they’re hard to name even when you’re the one living through them. Whether you’re worried about your own relationship… 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 14/07/2026Leaving can be hard. Leaving and thriving can be even harder. Take a look at our quick guide for rebuilding your financial independence after leaving.safeescape.orgRebuilding Financial Independence After Leaving Domestic Violence - Operation Safe EscapeLearn practical steps to rebuild financial independence after domestic violence, including safe job searching, employment resources, housing support, and financial recovery. 021
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 14/07/2026Give yourself the same patience you give tacos. When tacos fall apart, we pick up the pieces and they're still delicious. When you fall apart, you're still amazing, too. Happy #tacotuesday 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 13/07/2026Ending a relationship used to mean returning keys and picking up boxes. Today it also means passwords, shared streaming, smart thermostats, and phone plans. A "digital breakup" is deciding, on your terms, which doors to close. Check out our digital breakup guide here: safeescape.org/toolkit-digi...safeescape.orgToolkit - Digital Breakup Guide - Operation Safe EscapeOPERATION SAFE ESCAPE Home » Toolkits » Digital Breakup Recovery Playbook The Digital Breakup: Securing Your Accounts, Devices & Privacy A step-by-step guide to untangling your digital life after a relationship ends: passwords, location sharing, shared accounts, smart home tech, and everything in between. Sharing your digital life with a partner was an act of… 012
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 13/07/2026You matter. That's it, that's the post. You. Matter. 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 12/07/2026Abuse doesn't always "look like" violence. Sometimes it looks like isolation, surveillance, financial control, threats, humiliation, or making someone feel like they have no safe way out. Listen to your friends and loved ones, they may be saying more than what they're saying. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 10/07/2026July 10 is National Kitten Day. Take a mental break, enjoy these kittens. 010
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 10/07/2026Don't forget: You're allowed to set boundaries without apology. You're allowed to protect your peace. You're allowed to choose distance, silence, privacy, and safety. You're allowed to take care of you. 022
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 09/07/2026Some of the most dangerous moments happen after a survivor tries to leave. That is why “just leave” may sometimes be dangerous advice. Survivors need careful planning, trusted support, and resources that understand escalation risk. Learn more:safeescape.orgRecognizing and Responding to Abuse - Operation Safe EscapeRecognizing Abuse Abuse rarely looks like what people expect. It’s not always physical, and it doesn’t always leave visible marks. It can show up as control, isolation, fear, or manipulation, patterns that build slowly enough that they’re hard to name even when you’re the one living through them. Whether you’re worried about your own relationship… 032
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 09/07/2026Do what you love, and you'll never work a day in your life. 021
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 08/02/2026We just hope both teams have fun. ESPECIALLY... well, we all know which one <3 #superbowl #SuperBowl60 #havefun 021
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 05/12/2025You've done a lot this week. Please accept this picture of a sleeping baby bunny. 030
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 04/12/2025Most people know about fight or flight responses, but did you know fawn and freeze are also responses to stressful, traumatic, or frightening events? Understanding your own reactions can help make sense of your feelings when something happens around you. 020
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 03/12/2025Hope grows even in the darkest places. Find your light. 000
Operation Safe Escape @safeescape.org · 02/12/2025Operation Safe Escape has an important mission- to help survivors of abuse and trafficking escape and stay safe. But we can't do it alone. This Giving Tuesday, be the hero someone need right now. 100% of donations support survivor safety. safeescape.org/help/donate/ 012