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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit

@ruetha.bsky.social
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0 days since I called re: trans rights.(27JAN) ME/CFS bedbound victim, hypnotic pagan pan polysaturated geek domme Gen X 50smth Mom of two (1 cis 1 trans). BLM. Fat≠immoral. Working on being an ally. Union supporter. ACAB. Wear masks! Timbit=ES Pomeranian

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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 5h
My doomcairn. I am largely bedbound, but I have had doomcairns all my life. This is a doomcairn built with experience. Sorry for the naked pillow on bed laundry day.
Teal deer: man that’s a lot of stuff next to the bed.

In this doom cairn, made up of two shelves and a IKEA pegboard plus the floor. Dog treat for Timbit plus her nighttime cbd treats because I didn’t put them away last night, a ball of fur from Timbit’s grooming last night, my phone, a pen, and some earbuds, trash cup formerly used for V8, my hot flash emergency fan, water bottle and hand sanitizer, paperwork, a games magazine, a short story anthology by Bluesky’s own Tom Cox, melatonin, my cpap, my iPad rest, my watch charger, my Home speaker, my ancient AirPods, an IKEA pegboard shelf, one of my USB hubs, and a power strip. 
Not pictured: any of the three below bed drawers which are themselves separate doomcairns of socks and washcloths and craft stuff; hygiene supplies and medication; and pet grooming supplies. Also not shown: the rest of the pegboard which is more USB cabling, my eye mask, a paperwork bin, a glasses shelf, pride flags, and my Emotional Support Rush Hat (for places Timbit can’t go).
For people on the edge about alt text: this is wildly over the top. The first line would work. But I love alt text.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Pet tax, taken last night as she enjoyed a treat, showing her coat.
Timbit is a white and brown Pomeranian. Her brown heart mark between her shoulder blades shows clearly. Her fur is plush and soft. She is utterly focused on the treat between her front paws out of view.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Two tortoiseshell cats rest cozily on a bed. They are the shade of tortie that looks like a black cat had an accident with a five pound bag of cinnamon sugar.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Six years ago today. My sweet puppy girl.
I swear this is a not a peeled potato. A small white and brown puppy with wee triangular ears and the tiniest paws is resting in a bunch of fake autumn leaves. I swear this is a not a peeled potato. A small white and brown puppy with wee triangular ears and the tiniest paws is resting in a bunch of fake autumn leaves. A ripple by her eyes makes her look like she has an angry expression, but her ears are perked up, not swept back. She is looking to her left. I swear this is a not a peeled potato. A small white and brown puppy with wee triangular ears and the tiniest paws is resting in a bunch of fake autumn leaves. She is looking forward and up, sniffing.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Dinner just got here, and Timbit levitated off the bed to alert the house. I swear she had hang time and did a vertical takeoff. She’s back now and very proud of herself.
A small white fluffy dog is sitting flopped out at the foot of a bed. Her posture is just on the proud side of relaxed. Soft pointed ears are merrily pricked up. She is almost glowing white after a grooming on Thursday.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
This story has been a huge blessing in my life. When ME/CFS gets me down, your telling of events in a country I’ll never see reminds me that goofiness is and has always been a global thing. I always laugh! Also, my dog was being born while this was going on. She’s six today. Dog tax.
A floofy white Pomeranian dog is sitting next to various toys. She is blepping and her eyes are closed. Her ears are perked and alert, her tail is tightly curled, and she looks very happy.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
A piece of Black Land art with a man offering items to the gods.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
That was my wise voice. This is how I feel:
A woman is ugly crying. Her eyes are red and puffy, her lower lip is sticking out as she tries to hold in, and unshed tears are sparkling in the flash.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Have a Timbit.
A small, white dog is sitting on a bed. She is resting on blue sheets while her plaid dog bed is behind her. She is alert with perked ears and her brown eyes looking directly at the camera. A small doggy grin is on her face.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
I’m officially in deeper PEM from dental work than I was after the Rush concert. I credit the work my family did to help me rest for part of the difference. Still in good spirits. And, of course, I have a Timbit. Resting now.
A white woman in a purple nightgown is sitting on her bed, lower body covered by soft sheets and a handmade afghan made by her godmother. Two tattoos are visible on her arm (a semicolon and purple text reading “Nevertheless, she persisted”) and a third on the back of her right shoulder. Some of the photo is out of focus in the way candids tend to be, especially the woman’s hair. In front of the woman a small white dog with brown splotches sits on the afghan. The dog is looking at the woman in love and affection. Not pictured: the face slurp from about a second and a half after the shutter clicked.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Or insane. You be the judge!
I have my head leaned against the wall over my bed. My dark hair is growing out, so how thin it is doesn’t show. White hair does, and I like it. My eyes look closed because I am looking down at our tortie moggie River. I have a little half smile on my face and it makes me look vaguely mad.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
A Klingon with his knife leers at the viewer. Text reads “Your meme has been taken for the glory of the Klingon Empire.”
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
Today is Severe ME Awareness Day. Pics of me before and after getting sick. Left to right: a year before, shortly before, bad pain day now, normal day now. I have higher QoL than most because I have four adults in the house who make sure I have what I need. I can’t stress enough: I am lucky!#MECFS
A middle aged white woman with long hair, sunglasses, and a chunky pentacle necklace is centered in the frame. She has a purple shirt with white accents and over that a jean jacket. She is looking off to the camera’s left and smiling. A middle aged white woman is looking off to the camera’s left. She is smiling happily. It seems to be a frequent expression as the lines at the corners of her eyes and mouth are most apparent. Behind her is a wall of books, the most legible title reads “Whoniverse.” A little bit of silver is creeping into her dark, pulled back hair.A fluffy white dog is resting on a blue cased pillow. She is curled around the head of a dark haired woman. You can scarcely see the woman at all. She is wearing a Cpap mask and a sleep mask that covers her face down to her cheeks. A blanket is pulled up past her chin. A fluffy white dog looks at the camera as a balding shaven-headed woman buries her face in the dog’s thick fur. Her eyes are closed and she appears to be in bed.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Here, have a Timbit.
A white fluffy Pomeranian dog is looking off to the right of the camera. She has been brushed but not had a full groom for a few weeks so her ruff and paws are extra long. She is a smart girl and looks curious and happy.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
We have a pair of littermate sister torties, and the cobby body one chirps and the oriental shorthair body type yowls like a full on Siamese. They were born in a foster home. Mom was a black queen.
Two littermates on the couch, both torties. Both of them look like black cats who got caught in a cinnamon sugar explosion. River is on the left. She has a cobby body type and a chirping voice. Kaylee is on the right. She has the oriental shorthair body and yowls like a banshee.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
Timbit plus what she did to my door while I was at Rush and my husband was at work. She didn’t injure herself, and to be fair she is a Covid baby and has literally never been alone in her life. Treats and chews were insufficient to calm her. She also remembers how to get out of her crate…
A small white dog with a brown splotch on her back is stretched out on a bedroom floor. The door is painted in some weird brown color the guy who owned the house before us liked, and now there are strips of paint and some of the plywood stripped off by two determined forepaws. The image is slightly out of focus because the photographer has shaky hands.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
Younger Spawn’s first concert. My 95% probably last concert. And the Muses sang Rush into being. And Apollon and Dionysis stayed their struggle, mystified. Sing and play, revered ones!
Rush’s pre-concert banner for the 50something tour. It has a lot of the number 50 on it.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
These two have been life goals for me.
Two elves are next to a tree in full leaf in this picture. The male coded one is standing with arms spread and palm up. He has a branch before him, still attached to the tree, and the branch is curling in at each end. It is haloed, indicating some form of magic. His hair is red and long, with a braid in front of each pointed ear. He wears a green vest and brown pants with lighter boots. He is smiling. The female coded elf is kneeling at the base of the tree trunk. She is holding three fletched arrows. Auburn hair spills out from beneath a green head kerchief. She is also smiling. She wears tight fitting brown pants and what’s best described as a green bikini top without shoulder straps. They look happy together. Above his head a scroll reads Redlance, and below her a similar scroll reads Nightfall.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
White text on black background:

I'm gonna steal your memes, but before I do, I'm gonna hit the like button.
I got manners and shit.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
Ingredients and customer star ratings:
Blue text on a white screen:

Bright and effervescent, marro's Blueberry Lemonade gives you the nostalgic taste of a classic favorite, elevated with a sparkling twist. Packed with feel-good vibes and functional benefits, this refreshing blend of blueberries and citrus is your go-to pick-me-up for hydration with purpose.
INGREDIENTS: Water, Concentrated Beef Bone Broth, Citric Acid, Natural Flavors, Added Electrolytes: (Potassium Citrate, Magnesium Glycinate), Stevia Leaf Extract, Methylcobalamin (B-12)

Below that, in black and blue text on the white background:

Customer Reviews
5.00 stars out of 5
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
If I have to be stuck in bed, at least we’re having a pack/clowder hangout.
We are looking towards the foot of a bed. To the left a tiny white dog is napping. She has her back turned to the pair of tortie cats on the right side of the bed, who also have their backs turned to her.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
Surf’s up in MSP area!
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
A small potato, scrubbed and ready to be cooked, sits on a white surface. You now have a small potato who believes you can do the thing!

At the bottom of the, white text on black:
I stole your post. 
I leave you this potato.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
@klobuchar.senate.gov just asked me to put a sign on my lawn for her, as I have indeed done in the past. I can’t post the request because it had PI in it, but here’s my response:
White text on a green background: 

Depends. Is she going to keep approving Trump appointments for the remainder of her Senate term? Is she going to fight for our neighbors? I don't know that I can count on her to give me the time of day, let alone protect my rights.
As of now, she isn't getting my vote, much less space on my lawn.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Comfy cat!
An out of focus shot of a tortie cat sitting in a Chewy box. She has alert ears because the dog is yelling at the neighbor mowing the lawn.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
Four comfy beings, two of whom are cats. Keep the comfy cat thread going!
A relaxed and somewhat disheveled looking woman is using an iPad and resting sideways in a queen sized bed. At her knees, a dark tortie cat is grooming her shoulder. On the bottom center of the bed a white Pomeranian dog is sprawled looking toward the camera. At the same distance from the foot of the bed but against the wall the also tortie littermate of the other cat is flopped out and relaxed. Two comfy cats and a bonus comfy dog.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
This is a cat checkpoint. Please relinquish your most recent cat pic on your device.
This is my new grandson, obtained from the Cat Distribution System by my Elder Spawn. He is a former lost kitten now about six weeks old. He’s black with huge eyes, enormous ears and he’s very thin. In this picture he’s sitting on her shoulder, eating his dinner from a plate she’s holding for him. 
He joins my not pictured feline adult granddaughters in my daughter’s household.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 23/05/2026
A picture of a clean, oval shaped potato. The text below reads “I stole your post. I leave you this potato.” The corollary is not shown in the image: you have a smol potato! You can do the thing!
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 22/05/2026
Thank you for your work! Me wearing one of your shirts:
A white older woman with dark hair and dark circles under her eyes wears a purple Tshirt. White text is crossed out with red scratches: special needs, invalid, differently abled. There’s more below, but they’re not visible in this picture.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
Iiiaaaaa?
A John Kovalic designed Santa Cthulhu (I am so sorry, screen readers!) stuffie sits on top of a shelf next to a Pikachu and bear. The Evil One has huge eyes, a sweet smile under his tentacles, and a silver snowflake on his chest. His wings are silvery and he is wearing a red and white Santa hat. He is reaching out to hug you. Really.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
I don’t know how many people were saved by Stevie Wonder’s Don’t Drive Drunk campaign. Happy Birthday, man. Thank you for saving lives.
Stevie Wonder - Don't Drive Drunk 7" single cover. Stevie is behind a microphone, a hugely smiling black man in black glasses. He’s wearing a white dress shirt under a sparkly possibly blue vest. 

Text:
ZB 69286
STEVIE WONDER
DON'T DRIVE
DRUNK
From the original soundtrack “The Lady in Red”
album
ZL 72285
• 1985 MOTOWN RECORD CORPORATION
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
A black and white cat has found his way up to the top of a pantry shelf. What he really wanted was a bed there, so what better place to rest than an (unplugged) roaster that lives on the top shelf when not in use? The cat is looking down at the camera, one white paw on the roaster’s rim. He looks like he’s in a bathtub.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
Credit Bored Panda for pic. This is a quill-less hedgehog. I did my best with the alt text, but hopefully my disabled readers will forgive me if I failed here.
Imagine a pinkish grey droplet of water. Now put it on its side while retaining its shape. Add two nostrils to the tapered tip, two black eyes around halfway down the tip, and two roughly triangular ears where the droplet widens out and rounds, and a little foot designed for digging with big nails sticking out at the bottom. Its skin is wrinkled and loose. It is a bald hedgehog. His name is Nelson and he was taken in by a rescue. If this is hard to imagine, I am sorry. Spineless hedgehogs are difficult to describe.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 09/05/2026
Prince onstage from Purple Rain. He’s pointing accusingly offstage. Text reads: “See that? That nonsense right there?” Then at the bottom, in all caps, “That is why doves cry!”
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
White text on a black field reads: 

I'm gonna steal your memes, but before I do, I'm gonna hit the like button.
I got manners and shit.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Logs in… Scrolls two screens or so worth… Hey, it’s a social media break day!
A grey and white tabby kitten is sitting on a couple of pillows. Its eyes are narrowed and its ears, while not back in anger, are flattened. It stares grumpily, sleepily, or both into the camera. Black all lowercase text reads I am seriously at my fucking limit.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
A drawing of a small bunny, facing left, sitting upright in a meadow. He is holding a walkie-talkie in his paws, but the style is more realistic than cartoonish. A word balloon rises above him and reads “WTF, over.”
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
Timbit, my Pomeranian dog, has a huge name. But it starts with Timbit von Fizzgig, because that critter is a Pom. Pet tax:
HRH Duchess Timbit von Fizzgig is grinning at the camera. She is a white ball of fur with dark eyes and her coat is amazingly soft. Her ears are perked, her tongue is relaxed and visible.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
CW: dog play growls, motion sickness possible because I am not good at filming.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 15/04/2026
Echo.
Echo is a tuxedo cat. She is elderly and cranky but she loves us and we love her right back. She is looking away from the camera while she is happily loafing in a desk drawer.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 14/04/2026
If you come into my room when Timbit is doing her job, this is what you see.
In the foreground: a white dog, ears back to protect but body language soft, , is turned towards the woman behind her. The woman’s eyes are closed to protect them as Timbit slurps the woman’s face.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 14/04/2026
Doggo is sleeping. She is secure and snoring peacefully. She is beautiful and I am so glad wolves allowed themselves to be domesticated.
A white dog is resting on a grey dog bed, ears relaxed. She is dozing with half of her body obscured by an empty laundry bag. Her black muzzle stretches out towards a moon-shaped stuffed dog toy. Above and behind her, a sling (also hers) hangs from the closet door knob. Not pictured: her fucking adorable little snores.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
Your answer is “He’s a throwback.” 😄 (Pet tax since this showed up on the Pom feed:)
Timbit is a white Pomeranian smiling into the camera. Her doggy grin is relaxed, her left front paw is on a toy, and her brown splotched ears show her happiness as clearly as her eyes. She is fluffy and soft and looks like she’s planning to lick your face.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 05/04/2026
I don’t live in an apartment, but I have said these exact words with my tortie Kaylee. Pet tax! Apologies for the focus issues; my hands shake from my chronic illness.
Kaylee is in the middle of a trio of pets: Timbit on the left and Kaylee’s littermate River on the right. Timbit is a white Pomeranian and is still nervous about the cats. Kaylee is a dark tortie with a bright orange streak down the middle of her nose. Her sister has the same coloring. They look rather like burnt toast. Not pictured: River squeaks and trills and has a more american shorthair body, while Kaylee yowls and has a very oriental frame and tail.Kaylee is out of focus here, but her nose streak is really visible and so is a same colored splotch on her left neck and chest.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Pet tax! Have a fluffnugget and her human.
A small white dog smiles at the camera. Her eyes, lips, and nose leather are black. She is Timbit, emotional support dog for the lady who is gently leaning her face against Timbit’s super-soft, fluffy body. The woman is white, resting her chin on her hand, with round cheeks and loving smile. Two white locks of hair tell the tale: she is older than she looks. It’s clear they love each other, the dog and her human.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
I don’t know if you can. But I can vouch for you to anyone who says “… no, they don’t, dogs don’t sound like that.” Because they do. Pet tax:
Timbit is a white and tan Pomeranian. She is resting on the end of a bed, her dog bed and toy bag together out of the way of the vacuum from earlier cleaning. She is waiting for dinner. Don’t let her try to guilt trip you into feeding her, though. You don’t get a big fluffy ruff like that when starving.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
Parenthetically, this is why I have never read a single Master PC story. I am solidly in the trance as story camp, and I knew Master PC wasn’t my thing. Wank fuel is fantastic, it’s just not my thing.
A noir-style picture of a doorway. It’s lit by lamps on either side. Above the door a sign reads Police Station. Below that the meme text reads Tonight’s episode: The Writer’s Barely-Disguised Fetish.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
Tuesday night I looked at my face and noticed swelling on my left jawline. Other Oikos members saw it too. I couldn’t eat because it hurt too much to open my mouth. Drinking was also unpleasant. It was worse on Wednesday. I decided I couldn’t wait for next Tuesday. Today I look like this:
A middle aged woman looking into the camera. It’s clear that one side of her jaw is swollen. It’s also clear there is more swelling in the center of her chins than is normal for her face.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
J stood up and said “Ok.” This is the signal for Evening Foodtime. A flash of herding behavior lit up a corner of Timbit’s brain, and she nosed Kaylee’s butt to get the cat off the bed. No doubt about it, it worked. Silly little girl. How she looks right now.
A slightly blurry image of a white floofy dog. She hasn’t been groomed in a bit, so her ruff looks enormous. She is lying at the end of a bed as is her sacred routine during Evening Food Times.
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Lady Ru’etha & Timbit @ruetha.bsky.social · 07/03/2026
I gotta say, as the mom of both a trans kid and the “mom” of a Pomeranian- you got this PERFECT. And the maned wolf variant is shy but regal. Pet tax:
Timbit the white Pomeranian is sitting and looking away from the camera. She is surrounded by toys, some orange and some pink. The brown splotches in the back of her ears are clearly visible, and the back splotches is forming a perfect valentine heart.
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