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shapeshifting void creature || 22 || mentally+physically disabled ||💜 @arsononymous.bsky.social 💜||pornographic art: @roomforavoid.bsky.social || Ⓐ they/he/it roomwithavoid.carrd.co
![How to signal you're not into a kink (when asked - doing this sorta stuff unprompted can also come across as hostile/unwelcoming)
creature 1: "just not my thing, sorry ^^ maybe we have some other kink in common?" - Shows openness
creature 2: "heh, some friends already tried to get me into that ^^ I'll forward it to them if that's ok" - displays friendly attitude towards kinksters
creature 3: "Could you tag or spoiler that please? I'd really appreciate it, I love all your other stuff" - shows ability to use the tag blacklist feature
How NOT to signal you're not into a kink:
Jerk: "I fuuuuckin' despise apples, instant turn-off. They just make me really really uncomfortable, I cannot fucking stand em! how the fuck is anyone into apples bro??? did U know there's cyanide in the seeds??! as in, the literal poison??! shit's fuckin H O R R I F Y I N G I just don't get how people can like- [fundamental misunderstanding of how people actually eat apples]
lowkey if people are into apples, they should kinda die
not judging tho ofc"
The person they are speaking to: <-contemplating whether or not to just leave this server (might never truly feel welcome here again)](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:txqs2yygniqb5casdpxuvbbh/bafkreigycbsgypcb3iu5clbaulec4ygxqovw6eeaewatwj5kf2lzsx3n6y)
