Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 07/10/2026(same on the parental shapes, solidarity) If you've ever had an abusive parent, the issendai site is enormously valuable and I strongly recommend checking it out. You don't have to let people treat you poorly, even if they say they love you - and you believe it. issendai.com/psychology/e...issendai.comDown the Rabbit Hole: The World of Estranged Parents’ Forums – Issendai 020
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 07/10/2026Misogyny is the foundation of all human oppression. 000
Reposted by Ravel GlossmothHannah Alexander Artwork @hannahartwork.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Moth 🔦 first picture in my October series! 3292542835
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Guess I know a plan I'm going to have to make, too! That's so cool, I love excuses to go to the museum~ 010
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 06/10/2026From someone making up the most vile shit whole cloth to harass trans women on social media, and crying when someone calls him out on his behavior. 010
Reposted by Ravel GlossmothSkybox @skyboxcritics.com · 04/10/2026Consider The Woodchipper by @edgarallanbro.bsky.social CW: sexual assault, rape "Let me be clear: you are not a victim of what Geller did." Read on:skyboxcritics.comConsider The WoodchipperA response to "What Do We Do With Jacob Gellar?" 15719229
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 06/10/2026@shedvolans.bsky.social You're fucking disgusting. Fix yourself. @floramerigold.bsky.social These are the people you defend. These are the people whose posts you like. Fix yourself. 100
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 05/10/2026The gall of you to say this while your article is still up is absolutely incredible. You're still making it about YOU. Is this a solidarity thing? Do you see something in Geller that you share? Is that why you seem to be taking all of this so very personally? What is *wrong* with you? 0260
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 05/10/2026I'm still struggling to develop a relationship with anger that's not deeply toxic and dysfunctional, but as furious as I am at most of life all the time, everything around me in life keeps indicating that *I am still not nearly angry enough* about everything that keeps happening. 020
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 04/10/2026Every individual person gets to make their own choices about who to spend time on when they learn someone they looked up to is a rapist. Those are still consequences of the rapist's own actions, and it is right that he suffer those consequences. Every time it comes up. Because he did it. 120
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026Holy shit what a disgusting thing to say in these circumstances. To fucking rape victims. You need to log off and examine your entire life, because you have completely lost the plot. This is inexcusable and you absolutely know it. 0390
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026Hi, sorry, rapists aren't part of my group, and if they're part of yours you need to reconsider your life. 060
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026'boys will be boys' 'don't ruin his life, he has such a bright future ahead of him' You're just laying out all the rape apologia hits in this one. You should stop. 050
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026This is a *flagrant* lie from the writer of that rape apologia article! I know because I'm one of many who specifically cited passages to call her out, and she hasn't engaged with me or any of the rest of them. She's hiding comments. She knows what she's doing, and this is a purposeful lie. 1387
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026I read your entire article and quoted a specific passage! So have many others! You didn't engage with me any more than you engaged with anyone else when you started hiding comments critical of your rape apologia. This is deeply disingenuous of you, and you know it. You know what you're doing. 1270
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026I think it's pretty clear that lots of people *do*, which is why constructing hypotheticals that look like defenses seemed...an odd choice in the circumstances. I've seen comments very similar to yours that genuinely were trying to say that was *okay*, hence being a little jumpy. 000
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026Okay, fair enough, my bad. Does not...look like that, but it's clearly time for me to step away from the topic. My apologies. 200
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 03/10/2026Yeah, you desperately need to read this, and then delete this entire thread, this is gross. He faced no punishment under the law. He didn't cooperate for shit. He talked her into making him breakfast. medium.com/the-nib/trig...medium.comTrigger Warning: BreakfastThe morning after I was raped, I thought I could create another story 0133
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026I'm deeply uncomfortable with the level of rape apologia shown in this. This article is exactly the kind of thing that makes rape culture work. But he's such a 'good guy', look at him 'make up' for *permanently scarring a life*. This is a much simpler situation than this article wants to face. 29011
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026If it comes up that he did it, guess what? *He did it.* If that means people drop him because of that every time they learn it, too bad. Consequences of his own actions. He should have *not fucking raped someone*. 000
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Trying to ignore that reality to excuse a rapist is exactly the reason why rapists keep A) doing it and B) getting away with it. You want him to get to go on and have POWER AND AUTHORITY after he ruined someone's life. Fuck that. 210
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026You definitely are. And if it helps, here's a very clear and direct response: No, a rapist should not hold authority over anyone, ever. They have already shown what they will do when they have power over someone else. They have already used exactly that to be as despicable as possible. 110
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026This is, frankly, disgusting. No, he fucking did NOT 'serve his time', he got suspended for a semester. That's not even a slap on the wrist, it's barely an acknowledgement that it happened. This is rape apologia bullshit, and you should know that. 0813
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026He did it. He earned it, and this is the MILDEST of consequences already, but it is the consequences of his own actions coming back to bite him. If it keeps coming back and biting him for the rest of his life, *who fucking cares?* Because it's already doing that to the victim. 110
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026That's the thing about all this. By concerning yourself with the rapist's rehabilitation *at all* the way you are, you are already ignoring and trampling over the existence of the survivor here, because you're ignoring that the *victim's life has already been scarred*. 120
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026If this ruins the life of a rapist, who fucking cares? If this ruins the life of every rapist, *WHO FUCKING CARES?!* They are already ruining the lives of their victims in a permanent way. I do not think their own lives being ruined as a result of their own actions is excessive. 120
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Actions have consequences. The victims have to live with the consequences of the perpetrators actions for the rest of the *victim's* life. Any consequences the perp suffers as a result of this are valid, *for the rest of the perp's life*, because that is the scale we are operating on 1 whole life 120
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 01/10/2026A lot of cis women literally do not know this. I have been educating a new partner on the degree to which *sex toys are a thing and strapons are available*. She is regularly being stunned and is intimidated by my toy bag. Alongside the myriad options for what dildos look like and do these days. 140
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 30/09/2026It's funny that you admit this is 100% a hit piece throughout, but that still makes it a hit piece. This is a gross excuse for 'journalism'. This is you going out of your way to smear trans journalists you don't like, and *this is not the first time*. Stop this. 0521
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 19/08/2026Zach here is conflating LLMs, Machine Learning, and Sapient AI, in the most hilariously bad and wrong way possible, and not even trying to hide it. He's just that bad at this. Zach. Stop it. Delete all this and stop it. Stop talking about AI forever. You're not equipped for this conversation. 041
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 14/08/2026Introduce yourself as what almost killed you. "Hi, I'm Cord! No, not Electrical, that's my sister, I'm Umbilical, great to meet you!" 010
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 18/07/2026Motherfuckers will see transhumanism before trans people. 100
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 14/07/2026I think this is a really bad apology, and I'm *really* bothered by the way everyone's letting it slide just because it's nicer to us than most bad apologies are. A nice-but-bad apology is still a bad apology, and still leaves the same underlying problems remaining afterwards. 030
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 14/07/2026I'm still very concerned that this 'apology' doesn't show that the lesson has been understood and learned, here. This is very, "Sorry you felt bad about the thing we did", and doesn't acknowledge what you did that was so blatantly wrong, or what you'll do to avoid this in the future. 120
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 14/07/2026I'm glad they're trying, but this is a pisspoor excuse for an apology. 030
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 14/07/2026This is better masked than most(it does actually include 'I apologize' a couple times), but this is still an un-apology, @jolyon.goodlawproject.org, and you need to understand *why* This doesn't show that you understand where/why you messed up. It barely shows that you understand THAT you messed up 020
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 14/07/2026'...and the team that worked on it included a number of trans people.' Is doing a LOT of heavy lifting. Are the trans people on the team performing functions that have absolutely nothing to do with the content of the ad, thus including us by technicality while still silencing our voices in action? 140
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 11/07/2026This is hardly even criticism, but you may want to investigate how often you use the word 'quickly', just as a stylistic consideration. 000
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 09/07/2026Okay, that's fine, you have my blessing! I don't think it is *at all* an accurate description of the things comphet is discussing, which means I don't think this is a good use of the word. It is not usefully communicative. It being pithier doesn't make it *better for the purpose*. 010
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 09/07/2026I would not conflate the two, because they're describing and discussing very different, if ultimately related, things. 100
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 08/07/2026The timing isn't suspicious at all. She talked to journalists MONTHS earlier, and they made her story a bare footnote that was massively pared down. If you think this came out of nowhere, or came up just now, *you have not been paying attention*. 010
Reposted by Ravel GlossmothRien Gray @riengray.bsky.social · 08/07/2026So I couldn't find the original thread, and therefore have written my own analysis and put it on my website (to avoid censorship for bluntly discussing sexual content). There's also an indecent amount of food metaphors. Enjoy? www.riengray.com/blog/the-perpetual-disappointment-of-if-only-eroticismriengray.comThe Perpetual Disappointment of “If Only” Eroticism — Rien GrayI can handle the heat, so why is this kitchen so cold? 21370166
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 07/07/2026To expand a bit- Being some cis guy's shameful sex secret, being CALLED a sex object that must kept shamefully secret, is not a positive thing. Being fetishized by getting called a trap isn't a positive thing, even if it got you laid and NOT hurt. The gay/trans panic defense predates 4chan. 020
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 07/07/2026A trans woman was literally fucking thrown in jail LAST YEAR for giving her a boyfriend a blowjob, and he freaked out and threw her under the bus when his buddies found out she was trans. I think you should delete this post, all versions of it you've made. This is ignorant and disrespectful. 0181
Ravel Glossmoth @raveltglossmoth.bsky.social · 07/07/2026I'm super uncomfortable with this rewriting of history, because the whole 'this FAKE WOMAN is deceiving you to trick you into GAY SEX' was a massive and problematic trope even BEFORE 'trap' came in as terminology to codify in that social sphere. I've *never* seen it used the way they're claiming. 1312
