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People on bluesky - follow @ap.brid.gy if you want me to be able to follow you back. ​:magus:​ I'm just a silly weirdo with way too many hobbies. I make creepy music […] 🌉 bridged from ⁂ thecave.social/@pinkboi, follow @ap.brid.gy to interact

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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 01/10/2026
The original English version of Chrono Trigger changed Frog's personality in the translation. In the original Japanese he's very brash because of course he's mad at the world. But in the original English SNES cartridge, they made him very chivalrous and perhaps a little pompous. They later […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 20/09/2026
Mary Peltola is saying she doesn't "want men in women's bathrooms." It used to be that GOP governors would veto anti-trans bathroom bills. Just last week maga Democrats were telling trans people to calm down and suggesting that anyone who would say that Democrats will make things worse is "not […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 16/09/2026
[boring hrt stuff] Somehow my T levels shot up considerably since switching from E patches to gel. It should be at least equivalent to when I started patches. My E levels are roughly equivalent to when I started patches and before doubling the amount, as expected. But somehow my T was really […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 08/09/2026
Those nearly universal dreams people have of suddenly being naked in a public place have gotten so much _weirder_ for me. While asleep, I don't forget the fact that I pass as a cis man as long as I'm clothed, and my subconscious decides many nights to say "yeah but what if you weren't clothed?" […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 05/09/2026
All of the major businesses and organizations in my hometown use generative AI for their ads and it’s depressing because the town is beautiful, so they’re replacing photos of what the place actually looks like with generic mountain-looking drawings. This is a town that is full of photographers […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 23/08/2026
Just overheard an American tourist use the Spanish word for something (I'm in Germany) and it's like... the German word for it is basically the English word, pronounced slightly differently. And I can't laugh too much at them because I once said "nani?" when speaking Dutch with someone even […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 18/08/2026
A small Mexican restaurant chain that has a location in my hometown just posted an AI-generated ad that's so nonsensical. The coffee looked good but the egg was cracked onto a grill mark pan (?!) and the omelette just looked bizarre with the sausage slices having that weird AI texture. I don't […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 13/08/2026
The dreams are often not even all that creepy. This time it was just my maternal grandma visiting us at the dinner table, looking obviously like a ghost. Even though I was a little creeped out, I made a point to hug her when passing her to get stuff for my plate, not knowing if other people saw […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 06/08/2026
It's not necessarily hypocritical so say "the soup was terrible and there wasn't enough" because poorly executed food can be better than starving. And one can certainly not like capitalism and also miss the things capitalism used to produce but is starting to phase out, like malls. I've always […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 03/08/2026
Emoji is a funny thing. As an elder millennial, I use to languish under the tyranny of mojibake in the early days of the internet. Sometimes even Roman-based non-ASCII such as ö and æ would prove difficult for me to e-mail or post. When it was my own website, I could carefully ensure the right […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 31/07/2026
Darkwave act local to me just put this up on youtube. Good shit! www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXq5DumuZZw #goth #darkwave #reno
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 30/07/2026
Definitely one of my favorite contemporary acts is Yama Uba, who I got to see in Kyoto (though they are based in the bay area). Here is a video they just released of their show in Tokyo. It includes this song I love that's on their new album! www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdRu3dWwCX8 You can […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 13/07/2026
oh shit I think I fucked up I'm doing more and more stuff using my chosen name (Thommy) but I might actually have to provide an ID, in a country that might not recognize that as a nickname of my legal name. Hmmm...
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 08/07/2026
I think all told, our international marriage gives our kids a rich life that most people don't get to have, between different cultures and continents. But one downside is the kids being really, really sad every time we have to go home from visiting their grandparents in another country. There's […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 08/07/2026
It's funny watching women doing everything but face their own bisexuality when trying to explain why Anne Hathaway showing insufficient skin makes them sad. Bitch, you're just horny for her whatever join the club.
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 04/07/2026
My weird, probably unpopular trans opinion is that it's a bad idea to change your legal name, whatever the reasoning. Don't change your name because you're getting married. I now wish my wife didn't change her last name when marrying me. We have extra annoyances when traveling because of that […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 04/07/2026
We plan on moving to Japan eventually, particularly in this rural area my wife grew up. The two big concerns I have are weather and food. I love Japanese food, but I need to have my food as well and that is going to mean having to make things from scratch even more often. It's handy how if I […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 03/06/2026
The main motivating factor for white people complaining about the very much precedented choice of having a black actress play Helen of Troy, a fictional character (who isn't even a normal human in the canon), is of course just racism. But it also irks me how people don't treat people from the […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 24/05/2026
_drinks leg fattening juice_ oof ouch my thighs are rubbing against each other
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 22/05/2026
It's world goth day tomorrow. Just a reminder that you don't have to buy shit from fast fashion brands that try to capitalize on every "alt" community with sweatshop-produced threadslop that will fall apart after 3 wears. The thing doesn't have to be labeled "goth" we make it so. And also, if […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 19/05/2026
Trans women: I love making my skirt go spinny, and knitting whimsical patterns, and singing, and taking photos of shiny bugs Mediocre men: and for that, I shall kill you
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No Escape from the Tyranny of Virtue 🏴🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸 @noescapevg.com · 14/05/2026
There will never be a "right" time to agitate for this industry to be better than it is. There will never be perfect conditions to change things. There will always be stakes to getting in the way of capital and its accumulation. But fuck, why are we here if not to do that?
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 12/05/2026
I understand "united we stand, divided we fall" but if the only vegan option at a cupcakery is also gluten-free (and vice versa) maybe I don't trust your average baker to pull that off. And maybe my aversion to weird-textured pastries is bad for society and will mean we get neither vegan, nor […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 10/05/2026
Sometimes (lol) I'm too much of a hater. So it's good to look back and ask myself how many of the things I hated on in the past were really as bad as to warrant the trashing I gave them, or perhaps even good. Here are some that pop into my head: **90's Political Correctness** Yeah I was fucking […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 09/05/2026
This instance has been having random downtime and it appears to be due to _sigh_ AI crawlers. I added a line in the nginx config that should ban the bot that apparently likes to cause issues with Sharkey, as well as a number of others. derg.social/notes/ak8h67xome
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Maybe important information for Sharkey (Probably Misskey in general) Fedi Admins: Starting about a week ago I noticed my instance crashing due to some uncaught websocket exceptions like "Invalid WebSocket frame: RSV1 must be clear" Turns out the Applebot crawler has been attempting to connect to the streaming endpoint of my instance, repeatedly, sometimes multiple times within the same minute. So if you have something similar going on, you might wanna block that from accessing the streaming endpoint / your instance entirely. They at least nicely identify themselves as "Applebot" in the user-agent so its not too hard. #sharkey #fediadmin
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 06/05/2026
I went through endless cycles of seriously considering medical transition, then talking myself out of it throughout my life starting in my teens. Some of my hangups came from hypochondria and of course how much it could complicate my life. The way that trans content had a very binary […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 13/04/2026
Let me defend "local bands" just a little. With some caveats. Just think about it mathematically. There's a new, up and coming artist you adore or maybe there's a legendary old artist you still have a chance to see. You might like this artist more than something else along those lines who is […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 11/04/2026
I understand the impulse to immediately try to distance oneself from someone who may be a fetishizer (Bryon Noem), but this is leading to a lot of truscum shit coming out of the woodwork. The impulse comes from wanting to debunk common pseudoscience falsehoods about transness being a fetish, or […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 19/03/2026
> This life > Waiting for peace > This life > A moment of grace > This life > Night after night > Day after day > I don’t want to kms but I don’t want to live this way www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHxj50oUZMo
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 06/03/2026
Now that there are a lot more people who just know me as Thommy (met me very recently), I can notice a subtle difference between how people who just see me as a cis dude say it vs. people who know I'm something else. Anyway, I'm a fan of how _Thommy_ ⚧️ sounds.
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 27/02/2026
[boring trans stuff, fundraising for me] I've been spending the past couple of months trying to get my insurance from a California-based employer to pay for laser & electro. I'm not having any luck even getting laser places to provide me with the means to seek reimbursement. But one thing I […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 25/02/2026
Google claims this problem was caused due to a failure of their content filtering 🤦 Unmonitored automation made the racist link. More automation doesn't solve the fundamental problem. It's also amazing that they had filters, and of all the things to not include in their filters, didn't include […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 23/02/2026
There's a fine line between trying not to look like a man and trying not to look like my mom. If it's about dysphoria, that's one thing. When it's beauty standards invented by racist pedophiles, then fuck that shit.
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 21/01/2026
Our friends (also Japanese x American though in their case, the American is Puerto Rican) are moving to Japan, for many of the same reasons we are. The American's going to open a Puerto Rican and Mexican food truck in Osaka and legit, this can really make a difference in terms of how livable […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 18/01/2026
Haha I saw some obvious shill/bot/troll claim a huge "backlash" to bandcamp's anti-AI rule. Lmfao. Bandcamp users overwhelmingly don't want it to turn into Spotify (or a better comparison might be DeviantArt, which got flooded with AI slop). There was also misinformation about the rule itself […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 06/01/2026
> Declare independence > Don't let them do that to you > Declare independence > Don't let them do that to you > > Damn colonists > Ignore their patronizing > Tear off their blindfolds > Open their eyes www.youtube.com/watch?v=4P5xSntVWQE
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 05/01/2026
My goal is to get 3-5 pieces ready to perform on stage by the end of this month, as well as drafts of as many noise/dark ambient pieces as I can make to hand over to Meika to play with. Let's see if I can do it!
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 02/01/2026
Shameful confession as a goth - I _just now_ got around to listening to the new Cure album. I am a huge fan of this. Just what I needed this time of the year. I also hung out with Clint (of An Identity), who apparently lives down the street from me. Awesome! […] [Original post on thecave.social]
A series of stickers on a white table. All contain the An Identity logo, which looks like a ghost surrounded by a circle. The big one in the middle-left is glow in the dark. There's also a square sticker on the upper-right which is a negative image of a child with the logo small in the upper right
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 24/12/2025
“What if they made a fucked up hybrid of yuri and yaoi where it’s a girl and a boy 😳” is a funny meme because that sounds at first like a typical heteronormative couple but, per the rules of yuri and yaoi, it’s probably a tomboyish bisexual girl and her gay best friend who’s actually minsexual […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 21/12/2025
Merry Winter Solstice ​:black_nails:​
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 11/12/2025
I'm a very ritualistic person in some ways. Might have something to do with my OCD or might just be my personality. But I'm also not a religious person. But it does mean that holidays, some of which religious, are a big part of how I mark the change in seasons. I love to make holiday things like […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 28/11/2025
Wild rice (not a rice, but a different, darker grain native to N. America) has such an enchanting aroma. I seldom get it because it's expensive though. At least anywhere I've lived in America, you can get it by itself or as part of mixes where it's mixed with long grain rice. The flavor mixes […]
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No Escape from the Tyranny of Virtue 🏴🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸 @noescapevg.com · 10/11/2025
Everyone seems to hate you. You’re blamed for shit you couldn’t possibly have been responsible for. People make up conspiracies about you and your friends constantly, say the most heinous shit about you with impunity. In many places, someone freaking out so bad they kill you is a legal defense.
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 07/11/2025
My main response when I see goons romanticizing a mythical past of workplaces that are just a huddle of indistinguishable men in suits smoking their cigarettes, no women in sight, is that this person is evil, ignorant and fucking booooring. But I also sincerely feel sorry for people like this […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 03/11/2025
> Without your consent, no destiny is determined, the most ingenious solution finds no favour. > To run fast, to slip away, to calm, to pacify are yours, Inanna, > To dart aimlessly, to go too fast, to fall, to get up, to sustain a comrade are yours, Inanna. > To open high road and byroad, safe […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 21/10/2025
> I don't want to be in the same class as him > I don't want to be in the same school as him > I don't want to be in the same planet as him > I don't want to be in the same solar system as him > I don't want to be in the same galaxy as him > I don't want to be in the same galactic cluster as him […]
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 20/10/2025
T4C couple costume idea: a witch and a pumpkin 🎃
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 19/10/2025
__and on soft beds delicate you have satisfied desire__
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Thommy March15 :pink_knife: 🏴 🏳️‍⚧️ @pinkboi.thecave.social · 18/10/2025
I love history because I love humans, and like history is full of evil, people often frustrate me with just how bad or how complicated they are. Knowing history inspires me to carry forward us being the weird, petty talking monkeys we are but with hopefully better morals that will free us to […]
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