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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 28/08/2025

I think it’s time to output some thoughts on here again. Conjure up some resonance in my mental space. Hey y’all

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 01/02/2025

Absolutely! I want to hear about positioning, water breaks, sensory breaks, non penetrative encounters, body worship, access in K*nk. So needed

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 01/02/2025

Hey skeezers! If you live somewhere snowy pls practice save shovelling! Prevent unnecessary cardiac emergencies 🚑

Camera roll pic of two dogs in winter jackets stand on a snowy ground. One dog, a black and tan mix, looks directly at the camera with snow on its nose, while the other, wearing a colorful full-body outfit, appears to be mid-bark. A wintery landscape with trees, rocks, and a winding road is in the background

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 25/01/2025

The value of the ones I’ve tried really isn’t there, it’s either mostly beans or super small and either way, generally way overpriced.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

Getting burned by a safe food is such a distressing experience. Drive thru breakfast wraps have started to taste like griddle cleaning chemicals. It’s totally off-putting but I stomach it cause we not wasting $ in these trying times. Meal prep takes too many spoons even on good days 🫠 #disability

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

Them: “Just assign everything a home where it naturally belongs for ease of access” *staring at the shit- heap of dog accoutrements by the front door, technically corralled* Me: but what if it hurts my eyes? #actuallyautistic #audhd

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

Me, while the #adhd meds, 300mgs of caffeine and sugar are swirling in my system

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

When the clutter in your own spaces just melds into general visual landscape but going into other cluttered spaces stresses you out 😩🫠🫠

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Wait I can’t haha! It was a link to this fb group. If you join u can see her posts

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Eek! 😍 Idk if you can see this but pls go look at the story albums by a fellow calico lover! I’m so obsessed shorturl.at/pvIXl

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Very difficult even at the best of times! Ps- one of my fave comfort shows is Still Game - that or Two Doors Down. Got me through some rough times

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Anyone have a gift link of this article with no paywall?

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Try not to be too hard on yourself, under capitalism rest and comfort are seen as luxuries rather than inherent human rights!! Balancing survival with well-being is truly a massive challenge 😞

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

In combination with loads of regulation with my angel, I feel pretty good after this break. I managed to make 4 meals without burning the house down! What are some ways that you’ve been regulating your nervous system? #actuallyautistic

A Black person sitting on a carpeted floor, leaning against a bed, and holding a dog closely in their arms. They are wearing glasses and a black hoodie, with a soft, calm expression. The room features warm lighting, a wooden dresser, framed artwork on the wall, and a quilted blanket in the foreground. A small floral-patterned bag is visible on the floor

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Incorporating neurodrills like the ones below has unlocked some deeep states of calm and relaxation. I can do them virtually anywhere and they help recenter me. Here’s one:

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I’m on new meds now and my nerve pain has reduced significantly (shout out to low dose naltrexone). But the cognitive struggles remain.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I pretty much survived on takeout and misc snacks. Burning a hole through my wallet and confidence in the process.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I also started experiencing increased fibro flares affecting my hands. Chopping, using heavy cast iron pans and scrubbing caked on food would make my hands ache for hours. My finger joints would scream at me and my splints didn’t help.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I was burning toast, pots were bubbling over, food was over cooked. I even baked food without seasoning it, once. This chipped away at my confidence and the cleanup was a nightmare.

A kitchen scene showing a stovetop in use. A frying pan with sautéed food and a red spatula sits on one burner, while a pot of boiling liquid with a wooden spoon rests on another. Steam rises from the pot, and the stovetop shows signs of recent spills. Above the stove, a decorative tile with an illustration of a woman holding scales and the word “BALANÇA” hangs on the wall. Surrounding items include jars of spices, a bottle of olive oil, and a dish towel hanging on the oven handle.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Next, when I’d eventually get the spoons (and courage) to try and cook it was as if I’d never done it before. I struggle with #timeblindness but “kitchen time” was one of the few spaces that always made sense to me. I’d enter hyperfocus and flow state relatively easily. All that vanished.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I would open the fridge and be awash with a wave of anxiety so strong I’d often tear up and feel dizzy. The same started to happen when I looked in the pantry.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

It can be stressful and upsetting to realize you aren’t able to access skills you had prior. It wasn’t a sudden process either. It was a slow, gradual decline that began strangely, with a growing aversion to my fridge.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

With enough time spent in a #lowdemands lifestyle I am able to do things like shop for, prepare and cook food! I thought I was in true regression as I haven’t been able to do that in any sustainable way for the past year and half

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

My body is acutely aware of the difference between rest and recuperation. Rest gets me back to baseline, recuperating on the other hand has the ability to expand my functional bandwidth.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Morning y’all! Back to work today after a 12 day vacation. Some reflections in a 🧵 :

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

Pro tip: look hot and leave early. In an effort to reduce the effects of PEM we ditched our dinner date early. Pacing isn’t easy but gone are the days of borrowing from tomorrow. The limit does in fact exist! #chronicillness #migraineur #fibro

A Black person standing on a brick-paved walkway at night, wearing glasses, a striped shirt, a black tulle vest, cropped black pants, and shiny black boots. They are looking down and adjusting their shirt sleeve. The background features a lit tree wrapped in string lights, a modern building facade, and a bike rack

The same Black person standing outdoors at night near a post with string lights hanging above. In the same outfit. This time the background includes a fenced yard, greenery, and neighboring houses illuminated by outdoor lights

A meme showing a box of disposable spoons labeled “Nice! Spoons {Heavy Duty}” with 48 spoons inside. The caption above reads, “When you finally have the energy to do stuff.”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

Yesss 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

Toss your phone across the room onto a soft surface! Wriggle in the warm bed, say brb and go get ur phone! Tada now you’re up, might as well throw some socks on and start ur task- or stay in bed and be cozy. Either way you got this

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

Don’t know where the new followers are coming from but hey skeeters! #dogsofbluesky

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

Here’s the before and after of my nails 😅

Close-up shot of a hand adorned with silver, reflective nails shaped into a long almond form. The background includes a tan woven purse, a floral-print garment, and parts of a car interior

A camera roll close-up of a Black person wearing a black hoodie, with their hand resting on their chest. Their nails are painted the same shimmery silver but appear much shorter, now with a more rounded shape. The person is wearing silver rings, and faint tattoos are visible on their fingers. Part of their face, including lips, is also visible

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

Don’t question the icks or push thru them, being #actuallyautistic means that sensory overload is experienced as somatic distress. Anyways

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

I fantasized about bursting into the salon and yelling this while flapping my hands at them. Im reality I snapped and hacked them off with the dogs clippers. Y’all. The relief I felt was overwhelming and immediate.

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Alt: a GIF from Greys Anatomy. A character Christina is crying and screaming “somebody sedate me!”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

The actually autistic urge to rip your skin off when the overstimulation station starts blaring. I got my Nails done for the first time in a long time and got the acrylic set too long… the way I’ve been filled with rage and dread the last few days!

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

Time to liquidate those puzzle pieces hahahha

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

Panik begets more panik 😔 titrating up my #antianxiety meds rn cause this fall season is ROUGH

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 17/12/2024

Hi hi skeeters! Kipo eagerly watching the juncos this morning. #catsofbluesky.

A Black person in a pastel robe poses with their black-and-white cat. The person, wearing glasses and a soft expression, holds the cat close. The cat, with its yellow eyes and long whiskers, appears curious and alert

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 13/12/2024

Morning skeeties, todays listening

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/12/2024

Y’all probably already have a lil pile of books sitting somewhere in your space or on ya phone, just waiting for you to show it some love. It’s time 😊

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/12/2024

I mean I’m all in or all out! If I’m not overdoing it I’m not doing it, period 😂

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/12/2024

AuDHDrs seem to have a higher likelihood of also having connective tissue disorders, low muscle tone, chronic pain, sensitization etc. combined with hypersensitivity it might explain why tired muscles feel extra tired or sore

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Cats of Yore @catsofyore.bsky.social · 10/12/2024

Black and white photo of a fluffy long haired tabby kitten - I think it is orange but could be grey. He is sitting 3/4 profiled to the left but looking straight at the camera with a teeny little blep poking out.

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