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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 28/08/2025

I think it’s time to output some thoughts on here again. Conjure up some resonance in my mental space. Hey y’all

Close up camera roll picture of a cluster of red stemmed, pink and white flowers against an out of focus background of foliage

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 01/02/2025

Hey skeezers! If you live somewhere snowy pls practice save shovelling! Prevent unnecessary cardiac emergencies 🚑

Camera roll pic of two dogs in winter jackets stand on a snowy ground. One dog, a black and tan mix, looks directly at the camera with snow on its nose, while the other, wearing a colorful full-body outfit, appears to be mid-bark. A wintery landscape with trees, rocks, and a winding road is in the background

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

Them: “Just assign everything a home where it naturally belongs for ease of access” *staring at the shit- heap of dog accoutrements by the front door, technically corralled* Me: but what if it hurts my eyes? #actuallyautistic #audhd

A multi-tiered storage caddy filled with a mix of dog gear, including collars, leashes, and harnesses in a variety of colors and materials. The top tier appears disorganized, with items overlapping and intertwined

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 24/01/2025

Me, while the #adhd meds, 300mgs of caffeine and sugar are swirling in my system

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Wait I can’t haha! It was a link to this fb group. If you join u can see her posts

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

In combination with loads of regulation with my angel, I feel pretty good after this break. I managed to make 4 meals without burning the house down! What are some ways that you’ve been regulating your nervous system? #actuallyautistic

A Black person sitting on a carpeted floor, leaning against a bed, and holding a dog closely in their arms. They are wearing glasses and a black hoodie, with a soft, calm expression. The room features warm lighting, a wooden dresser, framed artwork on the wall, and a quilted blanket in the foreground. A small floral-patterned bag is visible on the floor

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Incorporating neurodrills like the ones below has unlocked some deeep states of calm and relaxation. I can do them virtually anywhere and they help recenter me. Here’s one:

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I also started experiencing increased fibro flares affecting my hands. Chopping, using heavy cast iron pans and scrubbing caked on food would make my hands ache for hours. My finger joints would scream at me and my splints didn’t help.

A mirror selfie of a Black person wearing glasses, a face mask, and a black jacket. Their hair is styled in two puffed sections, and they are holding a phone with one hand while making a peace sign with the other. Their fingers have several silver ring splints on them. The mirror is framed in black and mounted on a wooden wall, with part of a fire alarm and a posted document visible in the background.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

I was burning toast, pots were bubbling over, food was over cooked. I even baked food without seasoning it, once. This chipped away at my confidence and the cleanup was a nightmare.

A kitchen scene showing a stovetop in use. A frying pan with sautéed food and a red spatula sits on one burner, while a pot of boiling liquid with a wooden spoon rests on another. Steam rises from the pot, and the stovetop shows signs of recent spills. Above the stove, a decorative tile with an illustration of a woman holding scales and the word “BALANÇA” hangs on the wall. Surrounding items include jars of spices, a bottle of olive oil, and a dish towel hanging on the oven handle.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 10/01/2025

Pro tip: look hot and leave early. In an effort to reduce the effects of PEM we ditched our dinner date early. Pacing isn’t easy but gone are the days of borrowing from tomorrow. The limit does in fact exist! #chronicillness #migraineur #fibro

A Black person standing on a brick-paved walkway at night, wearing glasses, a striped shirt, a black tulle vest, cropped black pants, and shiny black boots. They are looking down and adjusting their shirt sleeve. The background features a lit tree wrapped in string lights, a modern building facade, and a bike rack

The same Black person standing outdoors at night near a post with string lights hanging above. In the same outfit. This time the background includes a fenced yard, greenery, and neighboring houses illuminated by outdoor lights

A meme showing a box of disposable spoons labeled “Nice! Spoons {Heavy Duty}” with 48 spoons inside. The caption above reads, “When you finally have the energy to do stuff.”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

Don’t know where the new followers are coming from but hey skeeters! #dogsofbluesky

A Black person wearing glasses and a black top leans on a plush pink cushion, holding a dog close. The dog, a medium-sized breed with a black and brown coat, rests its head affectionately on the person’s chest. The background features framed artwork, a decorative fan, and shelving with various items.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

Here’s the before and after of my nails 😅

Close-up shot of a hand adorned with silver, reflective nails shaped into a long almond form. The background includes a tan woven purse, a floral-print garment, and parts of a car interior

A camera roll close-up of a Black person wearing a black hoodie, with their hand resting on their chest. Their nails are painted the same shimmery silver but appear much shorter, now with a more rounded shape. The person is wearing silver rings, and faint tattoos are visible on their fingers. Part of their face, including lips, is also visible

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

Panik begets more panik 😔 titrating up my #antianxiety meds rn cause this fall season is ROUGH

A humorous meme showing a person in a hoodie holding a small dog inside a purple Crown Royal bag. They are casually holding a cigarette. The overlaid text reads “me” above the person and describes the dog as “a subtle yet persistent feeling of dread that follows me everywhere”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 17/12/2024

Hi hi skeeters! Kipo eagerly watching the juncos this morning. #catsofbluesky.

A Black person in a pastel robe poses with their black-and-white cat. The person, wearing glasses and a soft expression, holds the cat close. The cat, with its yellow eyes and long whiskers, appears curious and alert

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 13/12/2024

Morning skeeties, todays listening

Screenshot of an audiobook player app displaying ‘Disaster Nationalism: The Downfall of Liberal Civilization’ by Richard Seymour. Below the title is the book’s cover, featuring an orange and red fiery background with bold yellow text. Buttons for bookmarking, playback, and other controls are visible.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

Jelly bean is drinking her London fog this morning, hbu?

A black plush teddy bear is seated on a computer keyboard, holding a small red Tim Hortons cup with a white lid. The background features a computer monitor displaying a blue screen, along with a portion of a desk setup. The bear’s textured fur and ear tag with a red ribbon are visible

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

Holla skeezers, how we doing today? After leaving work early with a #migraine yesterday, im still feeling a bit wobbly but up to try again today. Will be taking today more slowly, trying my best to #pace and take breaks when needed.

A close-up of a brown hand resting on a light yellow textured fabric, holding a green fidget toy. The hand is adorned with a silver ring and orange beaded bracelets. The background shows the interior of a car, including the glove compartment and part of an air vent.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

Hey #actuallyautistic folks! Pls show me ur emotional support stuffies, special focus on ones you leave the house with ty! Here is jelly bean (baby of Jelly)

A hand holding a small, plush black teddy bear with textured fur. The bear has a tag in its ear with a red ribbon attached. In the background, there is a computer monitor displaying a blue and purple gradient screen, along with a keyboard and desk setup.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

Morning skeezers! Kipo has taken residence inside the fruit bowl! #catsofbluesky #nekko #tuxedocat

A black-and-white cat curled up snugly inside a decorative wooden bowl on a wooden table. The background features a wooden chair and a woven basket, with various decorative plants in the foreground.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 05/12/2024

I was struggling today, fighting that panic that comes when I swim too hard before my body is fully ready. Tried to slow right down just focus on the water (not the cold) and shaved 1.5 off my time unintentionally. #blackswimmers #ymca #nonprofit #mentalhealth

A screenshot of a fitness app displaying swimming workout statistics. The workout took place on Thursday, Dec 5, with an open goal. Swim types include backstroke (75m), breaststroke (150m), kickboard (275m), and freestyle (775m). The workout lasted 39 minutes and 43 seconds, covering 1,275 meters. The user burned 468 active calories and 560 total calories, with an average heart rate of 131 BPM. The average pace was 3 minutes and 7 seconds per 100 meters, completing 51 laps in a 25-meter pool.

A close-up, slightly low-angle selfie of a Black person wearing glasses and a dark hoodie, standing in front of a building with a sign partially visible that reads “Ford Athletic Centre” and “YMCA.” The sky is overcast, and a streetlamp is visible to the right.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 05/12/2024

Dis how I know winter is almost here. When I start bargaining with girlie for just a pee 🤣 #dogsofbluesky #winter #composting #cachcorro #permaculture

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 04/12/2024

If you are like me and will move hotel room furniture to relax pls know that I see you. The holidays are hard enough. Here are two versions of a scape I made in a room that otherwise fried my brain. No spoons to iron the tablecloth. 😔

A dining table with a green textured tablecloth. The centerpiece features two brass candlesticks surrounded by pinecones, dried fruit, glittery red and gold ornaments, and a small red woven reindeer figure. In the background, part of a dark fireplace with red hanging decorations is visible

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 02/12/2024

The true test of any #relationship; try any kind of build together. Easy or complex. It’ll teach you a lot about yourself and your capacity. I am extremely tenacious even while easily frustrated. Bae is locked in but the second there’s any perceived time pressure it’s over. We are a great #team!

A table with partially assembled parts of a pink utility cart laid out, including tubular frame pieces, caster wheels, and an instruction sheet. Two people are visible assembling the cart, with their hands working on different components. The table has a rustic wooden surface, and the background includes a box showing the cart’s assembled design and a decorative centerpiece with autumnal decorations.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 02/12/2024

Morning skeezers, In no particular order, here is a list of locations I have found my breath strips the morning after using them: Stuck to the floor Stuck to my cheek Stuck on my pillowcase Stuck on my ass Every morning is a mystery. But they work so imma keep using them 😂

Packaging for Breathe Right Clear Nasal Strips, featuring a blue and teal design. The box highlights that the product contains 30 large clear strips designed to open nasal passages for relief from congestion. Text emphasizes benefits for sleep, exercise, and travel, with a note about easy removal for sensitive skin. A nasal strip is displayed next to the box

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

So ready to hug my girl when I get home I miss ha!!! #dogsofbkuesky

A four-panel comic featuring a person in a hoodie and a dog wearing sunglasses. In the first panel, the person asks, ‘Did you bring endorphine?’ The dog responds in the second panel, ‘Yes. Did you bring oxytocin?’ In the third panel, the person enthusiastically replies, ‘Yes!’ and the dog responds, ‘Good!’ In the final panel, the person and the dog share a heartfelt hug, conveying a sense of emotional bonding and mutual support. The comic is credited to ‘einsteinsmama’ in small text in the second panel

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

Anyways, I try and bring some humor to the space when I can 🥹

A black-and-white printed image captioned “1 year later… Never forget the Great Chili Fiasco of 2023.” The image features the overturned utility cart and bins from the second image, commemorating the event humorously

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 30/11/2024

One of these has to go, which one are you picking? Animals, chicken nuggets, mossy forest or squishes?

An AI generated meme with four quadrants labeled ‘One has to go.’ The top-left quadrant shows a cute baby puppy with the text ‘Animals’ The top-right quadrant displays chicken nuggets on a plate, with a blob of ketchup not touching the nuggets. The bottom-left quadrant features a lush, mossy forest. The bottom-right quadrant shows a cozy bed setup adorned with colorful squishmallow type stuffed animals

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

I definitely don’t have patience for games with tons of dialogue but do love games that have rich detailed worlds that I can explore! Have you seen these birds around yet? They should be heading your way soon 😍

A yellow-rumped warbler perches on the branch of an evergreen tree, surrounded by small buds and cones. The bird features gray and black plumage with bright yellow patches on its head, sides, and rump. The background is a soft blur of green. Image credit: coleswildbird

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

Good morning skeeters! Today is the start of my work week (I work weekends) 3 10s then 4 off. Woohoo! #anthrophomorphise #paredolia #actuallyautistic

A screenshot of two humorous tweets. The first, by Stevie Martin, says, “kept a broken backpack for 3 years because when I went to put it in the bin my partner said in a small voice ‘oh! Am I going on holiday? When will I be back?’ impossible to deal with.” The second, by Beth McColl, reads, “the thing about me is I can’t anthropomorphise or it’s game over. I’m throwing away a little pedal bin so I put it beside my regular bin. Then I thought about if they were father & son bins spending some time together before the little b…”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 28/11/2024

Post a pic YOU took (no description) to bring some zen to the timeline

A tall, majestic tree with sprawling branches and dense clusters of dark green leaves silhouetted against a clear blue sky. The trunk and branches are illuminated by warm sunlight, highlighting their textured bark and creating a striking contrast with the background. The composition emphasizes the tree’s organic, natural form and its connection to the open sky

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 28/11/2024

Every time I trick girlie into taking her meds, our bond strengthens I have the thought, “It’s only us gonna rewire those neural pathways bbg, I got u!” #reactivity #counterconditioning #dogtraining #dogsofbluesky #pillpocket #anxiety #snoot

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

This was taken earlier this summer near me!!

A striking image from fb group of Vancouver island. It’s of an orca surfacing vertically from the water near a rocky shoreline. Behind the rocks, a grassy field is visible, populated by a small flock of geese walking in the distance.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

FR FR 🤤 🤤 they are one of my favourites

A plate of four Portuguese custard tarts, or Pastéis de Nata, beautifully presented on a black serving dish with a handle. The tarts have a flaky golden crust and caramelized tops with a glossy finish. Next to the plate are two bronze-colored spoons and a couple of cinnamon sticks on a wooden board. The background is a textured light gray surface with a white cloth partially visible.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

I don’t think allistic folks recognize the amount of processing power that #actuallyautistic folks dedicate to translating our experiences.

A simple diagram composed of four nested circles.The largest circle is labeled “What I think.” Inside it, a smaller circle is labeled “What I can put into words.” Within that circle, an even smaller one is labeled “What I say to other people.” Finally, the smallest circle, barely visible, is labeled “What people actually understand.”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

Blowing off sarcastic remarks bc they are often illogical was just my go to #actuallyautistic child move. Bc obviously I didn’t eat enough to feed an entire army that doesn’t make any sense

A screenshot of a Tumblr post by user “olofahere” with the title “Do not punish the behaviour you want to see.” The post discusses how families and individuals often respond negatively when someone makes an effort to change, such as an introverted sibling socializing or someone attempting a task they’ve struggled with. Examples include sarcastic comments like “So, you’ve decided to join us?” or “Why can’t you do that all the time?”

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

Today ‘s #emotionalsupport toy is the single winter sock I flung off my left foot yesterday evening. I may not reunite it with its mate. Only time will tell but I know it’s in good paws. #dogsofbluesky

A photo of a black and tan dog holding a purple sock in its mouth, looking up with wide, expressive eyes. The dog is standing on a gray carpeted floor, with a black swivel chair, yellow cord, and scattered clothing visible in the background.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

Hit another swim tonight, was so out of it going in but by lap 25 hit a flow state that was sooo worthwhile. How’s your week?

A screenshot of a swimming workout summary from a fitness tracker app. The workout is labeled as “Pool Swim” with an “Open Goal” and included 50m of backstroke, 150m of breaststroke, 225m of kickboard, and 850m of freestyle, totaling 1,275m. The session lasted 40 minutes and 42 seconds, from 7:33 PM to 8:14 PM. Active calories burned are 461, with a total of 556 calories burned. The average pace is 3 minutes and 11 seconds per 100m, and the average heart rate is 125 BPM. The swimmer completed 51 laps in a 25m pool, and the effort is rated as “Moderate” with a score of 6

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

#danessamyricks can have alll my Christmas money, you hear me 🩵🩷 this eyeshadow is splendid #trans

A selfie of a black person taken from a low angle in a dimly lit environment. They are wearing a pastel pink, blue, and white hoodie, with shimmering light blue and pink duochrome eyeshadow and have a calm, confident expression. The background is dark, featuring industrial-style ceiling beams and faint string lights.

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petitefun.bsky.social @petitefun.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

Not the controller dying mid fight smh. Gotta restart the deck now

A cozy indoor scene showing a dog resting its head on a bed next to a person’s hand, with a video game playing on a mounted TV in the background. The game features a character wielding a lightsaber in a sci-fi setting. A gaming controller is partially visible on the bed in the foreground. The room is dimly lit, with a wall-mounted TV, hanging towels, and various items on a shelf near the wall.

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