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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 14/02/2026

I really need someone to tell me my anxieties are wrong. Are the XposicoreX Youth Crew dorks from the 90s all doing real estate and bitcoin now?

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 18/01/2026

A big ugly fuck you to Google and shit American standards for scientific information. I got a kid here who cannot use a search engine to start research for a simple pH science fair experiment because results are all polluted with bullshit diet scams. Protect your libraries, gang.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 21/09/2025

Trying not to waste too much time thinking about all the places I can never go back to.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 06/09/2025

Rotating door of disposable labor. Workers die faster, breed faster, and no need to perform any maintenance.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 06/09/2025

I moved so many fucking times in my life that I forget what I sold and what I kept. But look who was hiding in storage since 2003 #thrash #vinyl #murderofrosaluxemburg #punk #posthardcore

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 28/08/2025

" oh right, this is an existential theme and you don't escape, you just endure and enjoy the small wins..." is usually the vibe I go with.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

That's big central PA speak. In Philly we say "a minute"

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

My world culture's teacher in high school introduced me to how fucked up it is. I could only imagine being fucked up was the point.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

That's your fantasy narrative that you will beat to death to make the world cater to your weird damage about children in public. Go to therapy, weirdo.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

You are making shit up again. Your hang up is about children in public life, not objective instances of neglect. You have to fabricate dramatic scenarios to be taken seriously cause you know your knee jerk reaction to children is wrong. 🤷 Get off the internet and develop coping skills.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

"Hello? Police? Can you send someone to olive garden? I think i heard a child make sounds and I'm so disturbed 😭. Please send someone to tear this family apart😭"

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

It's cute how you came here to act out the entire thesis of this article. Thank you for the demonstration.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

Kids will go to restaurants and if you don't like it, stay home. 👍

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

Again, you just invented that all by yourself. You are out here reaching for excuses. All of that exists in your head. It isn't any one else's problem but yours.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

See, this is the level of ridiculousness people have to go to create the 'bad parent' narrative. You invented all of that and expect people to also invented defenses for it. Your narrative is bullshit.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

I don't entertain the 'bad parenting' excuse in this context. Children making noise and having age appropriate, but inconvenient, responses to stimuli in public is not abuse or neglect. People have to make up exaggerated hypotheticals to blame someone for what is just a normal part of public life.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

Oh I am absolutely looking all the way down in people who "don't like kids". People who don't know how to interact with kids? People who don't want to have kids? Don't want to babysit kids? Etc That is not the same as insisting the world bend to shelter grown adults from children existing.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

It absolutely did. And I don't buy the "it's all just hormones " excuse. Bitch, you erased 90% of my identity and ostracized me, alone, with a baby for years without support or community cause it was not convenient for you. That's real psychological torture kinda shit. Not hormones.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

I was told, by people who otherwise fancied themselves proud social justice advocates, that I should put my head in an oven before I bring a child out to eat. And was told that I was triggering people with childhood trauma by not respecting boundaries and bringing a child to adult spaces. 🙃

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

But it was more than five. My kid was a calm and agreeable toddler. Didn't matter. The possibility that the toddler might toddler in public was already breach of peace and people preemptively lost their shit before the toddler ever had a chance to.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

I did not count how many self identified "liberal" or "radical" acquaintances that went full Alex Jones on me for saying that, in my own experience, I faced more hostility in my life for being a mother than for being queer. I was not making a broad comparison. I was making a personal report.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

Cool. I can dissociate and depersonalize when I'm in pain and continue with whatever I'm doing. MAYBE I SHOULD NOT BE WALKING ON A BROKEN ANKLE THO.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

"I mustn't fear. Fear is the mind killer..." Dope. I am now not afraid of swarms of hornets. HOW IN THE FUCK DOES THAT LEAD TO ANYTHING GOOD?!?!

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/08/2025

The litanies about will power in Dune absolutely played a huge role on my stupid ability to endure shit I should not be subjected to.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 16/08/2025

Fast lanes at amusement parks have killed amusement parks. Not worth shit now. Fuck this shit. Support public pools.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

Philly. Car batteries. No it's not culinary but we have traditions.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 13/08/2025

My home will be stupid as shit. Nothing "smart" in it. Physical knobs and buttons. Nothing will sing. The fridge? No mother board. The lights? No wifi. The stove? No error codes. Just rawdog beepboop dumbitch garbage. Even the people. #luddite

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

Quote this with a book you read way too young that explains why you are the way you are. I sat on the floor of my school library and poured over decades worth of National Geographics all thru grade school. And My moms medical anomaly textbooks. I also really loved this book way too much.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

That one dude you knew from 20 years ago? who used to challenge you to name 15 songs from an obscure punk bands with names like "The American Heritage Death Cult"? To prove you are not a poser? Yeah, that guy. Anyway, he is upset that music is too political right now.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Re: ai slop You know you are a real artist when you agonize for hours over a creative endeavor that everyone will like but you will hate. If it's the other way around, you aren't a creator. You are a shit slinger.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

I was one of those 80s kids who weren't told they were loved as a child. At the memorial for a long time friend, I was told I was loved too many times by too many people in too little time. My nervous system is still overwhelmed by it. This must be growth. I'll be a normal person, any day now.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

Liquid tv, 120 mins, Sifl and Olly, the Maxx, Beavis and Butthead,

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

Evry morning iy wake up to a world w/o Timmy hits me in the face like a bag of bricks. I'm so lucky to have been close w/this gentle manic weirdo who got into your head like a new song. Kick a few over to Gorham bros, keep the next gen of musicians playing. www.gorhambrothersmusic.com/tlmf

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

I've been chasing that high for 35 years

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

My grandparents had cable and were heavy sleepers. I watched a lot of late night movies looking for the real fucked up shit. Watching The Thing, alone, after midnight, in the attic? I dunno. Might have done something to my brain.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 01/08/2025

This shit has been soothing my nerves, like the nerds with asmr shit, since I was in preschool.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 24/07/2025

The worst part of my job is when a customer shows me a room in their house and says ".... But there's been no activity in there" Because if I reply "What a crime....." i could lose my job.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

The females are gnarly little dudes that drag cicadas back to their solitary burrow and eggs into them. The males bumble like assholes over the burrows hoping to score. Otherwise, they are less than half as harmful as they look.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

These are cicada killers and they are fighting for their right to fuck.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

I like to misremember this on purpose as something Roxy declared in the middle of the Cafe I was working in at the time. And west Philly argued with itself about it for a whole summer.

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

In my day, emo came out of the DC scene & post-hxc. We had plain tees, jeans & needed haircuts. Some started wearing sweatervests & backpacks. we don't talk about that. Now we just call it 'midwest'. We'd tie a onion to our wallet chains-which was the style at the time. what did you need help with?

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 06/07/2025

You totally missed out on 1990s hardcore

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 06/07/2025

Yall ever zone out while reading and catch yourself asking an empty room if anyone remembers Zao? And does it take a minute to realize that the silence is the empty room and not other 40 year Olds drawing blank?

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 21/06/2025

Old folk music album covers that go hard

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Patchie Deth @patchiedeth.bsky.social · 21/06/2025

I had an elderly bedbound client who could not afford to pay someone to remove a hornet nest from her room because her SocSecurity became not-so-secure and her rent went up. Anyway, here is what the rich are doing with her money, and the money of millions of other Americans like her.

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