Reposted by Ozzy the DL
I feel like more people should be talking about this part
Ozzy the DL
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![Consensual Non-Consent In Real Life
A 3 panel comic
Panel 1: Kink Negotiation
Blushing Person: I was thinking maybe we could try out some CNC play...
Person #2: Yeah, we can totally try that out, sweetie! We should plan out what we're willing to do!
Panel 2: "The Scene"
Person #2: The sex pollen.... it's... taking over. I... I can't...Hnngg....
Blushing Person: Noo! Please, you have to snap out of it!
Panel 3: Aftercare
Blushing Person: Thanks so much, that was fun. Let's do it again sometime.
[end of comic]
"The Scene" is the fantasy within a CNC framework.
Some fictional works tell a story depicting two (or more) characters following the process of doing CNC kink, just as they would in real life: Consent discussion, Kink negotiation, “The Scene", and Aftercare.
[image of a blushing person reading the above comic]
Some fictional works focus on “The Scene only. A framing device is not required, as the fantasy is contained fully within the story. This lets the reader engage in the kink the same way as if they were engaging in “The Scene" portion of the CNC play.
[image of a blushing person reading only “The Scene” panel from the above comic]
CNC play, and both sorts of fiction are normal and healthy!](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:e6upvlddlsc3tvmgdci5nmop/bafkreidwbark7hackmvu3yqr5hmyhqhbn6y7dnjxq444naoypfg3qmhei4)
![Tumblr post by user kalira , dated Oct 20, 2024:
I say this very gently and with much love, and I say it not only as a writer myself but as someone who has been privy to many 'but how can they not know that work is amazing! 1 love it! I gushed about it to every friend I have and recced in x, y, z servers and [...]'
The writer or artist doesn't know this.
They have no way of knowing that you found their work beautiful and lifechanging or even just a bright spot on a bad day or that you think about it every day or that you told all your friends about it, and those things are great but we have no way of knowing them! You may not be doing it intentionally, but you're excluding the writer or artist from the community feeling of fandom that you are carrying on (that is so great! fandom is a community! continue to talk and play!) even with their work.
Please, please just drop a line even that is "oh gosh I absolutely love this work, I screamed to every one of my
friends about it when I first read/saw it!" even if you don't
have the spoons to share more of the specifics that made you flail at your friends or what you said in private. (Though if you do, we will love you forever for it.)](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:avvpb4ypfttlslmobsjqt7qq/bafkreibc6zd4nfz77j3teab5leeumgh3dttk5j7vv33e3agrspts7n23pe)
