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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

lol seriously just pissing me off

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Omg same! Never finished it lol.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

I don’t enjoy watching anything where the characters are making bad choices without comedic relief l. For example, Always Sunny is just plain old stupid and hilarious. Scary movies with dumbass teenagers who can’t leave shit alone puts me on edge lol. I had to turn Talk to Me off.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 18/07/2025

It’s rare because I don’t make or take anything personal. If something doesn’t go the way I expect, I check in to make sure all is well. There’s a chance that there’s not and I would hate to make things about myself in those circumstances. It’s truly that simple imo.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 18/07/2025

My abilities in pattern recognition allow me to move with compassionate empathy. If I feel there is a gap in reciprocity and I feel strongly enough, which is rare, I will speak on it in the moment, prioritizing resolution rather than harboring resent.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 18/07/2025

A practice I’ll always carry with me: “assume all are well intended”. I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.

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Omfg It’s Bunsz ! @copaceticbunsz.com · 18/06/2025

Highly recommended reading, in this order

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Ma$on @masonfromtwitter.bsky.social · 07/06/2025

Eid Mubarak to the homies.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 02/06/2025

It is not “petty” to stop serving relationships that do not serve you. It’s sustainability. Life is hard for everyone. Everything isn’t about you. Literally nothing is about you.

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🪐 @sassmyne.blacksky.app · 17/05/2025

“We the only race that…” Please shut the fuck up.

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Phil @philiptejon.bsky.social · 16/05/2025

We were never supposed to have this much access to stupid people’s thoughts

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/05/2025

I love how my brain decides “yeah that’s enough sleep for you” two hours early every morning. I’m not absolutely exhausted or anything.

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Go Birds!💚🦅 @okoyessmile.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

From the 2024 election season: Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller… Telling her “That’s a kid.”

Photo white woman leans over to scream at child in a strolling. Black woman nearby is stunned and reaches to hold her back

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Johnathan Perkins @johnathanperk.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

Dr. Toni Morrison on white women - a whole damn read:

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 04/05/2025

Yall letting yall husband bite you? (Sinners) as soon as Bo came to the door I looked at my man and said “you wouldn’t even have to say anything” lol tf don’t leave me here

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

I’m pretty sure anyway. I did the math.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

32 years around the sun today 💐♉️💚

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

I do not be fixing silly typos lol. Use context clues seriously don’t piss me off.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/04/2025

Once something that should be simple is made to be difficult I am no longer interested. Thanks anyway.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

I’m eating kix playing the sims. Anita baker is blasting. My house plants are back out in the sun. I don’t have random you’re a 30+ women belly ache. Never mind I felt a cramp as I was typing this. Life is still really good.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/04/2025

Two piece shorty got me over here all giddy. We should all punch someone in the face at least once a quarter.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/03/2025

Pittsburgh had hail, thunderstorms, and 70° weather today

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/03/2025

Such a productive morning and afternoon. I love being responsible so I can be irresponsible. Balance.

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IYKYK 🌮 @nisslbody.blacksky.app · 27/01/2025

I don't want my appliances to be connected to the internet. I don't want them to have blinky lights or touch screen controls or be accessible by phone. All I want is for them to do the one thing they are supposed to do, and to beep less. Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 05/03/2025

Bobby Womack really said if you think you’re lonely now get a load of this bitch

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/02/2025

White people will try to police you minding your business. You just gotta pretend you can’t hear or see them. Literally pretend they are not there.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/02/2025

My man’s birthday trip is booked. Now I can relax a bit. Planning group trips is a recipe for anxiety lol.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/02/2025

Do your own research. Just about anything they can sell you, you can get from the earth.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

I’ve been w the school district for 4 years and I’m already getting “Ms. … idk if you remember me but” teams chats like omg of course I remember you!!

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 29/01/2025

I have to get on students about this daily smh

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VaJenell Hugh-Briss @finalgirlboss.bsky.social · 28/01/2025

If what you mean is greedy or gluttonous, say that. Those adjectives describe BEHAVIOR, not body type. Asking if it’s “big backed” to eat dessert is a red flag for disordered eating & body shaming, and I don’t wanna hear or see that bullshit. Eat the damn cake & stfu.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 27/01/2025

No one prepares you for the grief that comes with leaving your hometown, loving, and losing your people from a distance. So hard to process.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 25/01/2025

Good morning. I am unfortunately sharing the unexpected passing of my god sister on Thursday, Jan 23rd. We are devastated, shocked, and overwhelmed. Cherish every moment. Please consider donating to or sharing this link. She deserves a beautiful home going service. www.gofundme.com/f/help-cover...

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Nneka O @playm8z.bsky.social · 23/01/2025

Deciding not to have kids is the most selfless thing I’ve ever done.

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steakum dress @twrksumn.blacksky.app · 22/01/2025

The last several years in this country (but especially these last 3 months) have been nothing but doom & gloom, yet I'm choosing joy because what else can you do when you tried to tell them? Your flabbers should have been gasted long before this week.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

lol I agree! Those are top priority topics.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

It’s getting real. All night I thought about how one travels overseas with 4 pets. All I think about.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

I’ve always had dreams of leaving this country, buying land, and nurturing my community with a community I’ve helped to build. As the years go by, more people I actually know are on board. Ima really build my compound.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

Haters are never funny in their jokes. Just an unfunny bitch scared to be bold.

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Ginger Turmeric Please @freeroo.blacksky.app · 21/01/2025

I like that there are still angles I haven’t quite seen

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

Elon could have mooned everyone for all I care

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

I need some mullein and a cold walk

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