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Smalls

@notyourdestiny.bsky.social
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Educational leadership and child development psychology for work. Urban farmer, writer, crocheter, nature enthusiast, stylist, and world traveler for fun.

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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 02/08/2025
I don’t enjoy watching anything where the characters are making bad choices without comedic relief l. For example, Always Sunny is just plain old stupid and hilarious. Scary movies with dumbass teenagers who can’t leave shit alone puts me on edge lol. I had to turn Talk to Me off.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 18/07/2025
A practice I’ll always carry with me: “assume all are well intended”. I believe in my capabilities to practice discernment and trust that the relationships I build are rooted in genuine love and compassion. I do not center myself or my own personal feelings; I choose grace and ultimately peace.
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Omfg It’s Bunsz ! @copaceticbunsz.com · 18/06/2025
Highly recommended reading, in this order
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Ma$on @masonfromtwitter.bsky.social · 07/06/2025
Eid Mubarak to the homies.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 02/06/2025
It is not “petty” to stop serving relationships that do not serve you. It’s sustainability. Life is hard for everyone. Everything isn’t about you. Literally nothing is about you.
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🪐 @sassmyne.blacksky.app · 17/05/2025
“We the only race that…” Please shut the fuck up.
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Phil @philiptejon.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
We were never supposed to have this much access to stupid people’s thoughts
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
I love how my brain decides “yeah that’s enough sleep for you” two hours early every morning. I’m not absolutely exhausted or anything.
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Go Birds!💚🦅 @okoyessmile.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
From the 2024 election season: Y’all remember that Black woman that stopped the white woman from screaming in the kid’s face… in the stroller… Telling her “That’s a kid.”
Photo white woman leans over to scream at child in a strolling. Black woman nearby is stunned and reaches to hold her back
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Johnathan Perkins @johnathanperk.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
Dr. Toni Morrison on white women - a whole damn read:
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 04/05/2025
Yall letting yall husband bite you? (Sinners) as soon as Bo came to the door I looked at my man and said “you wouldn’t even have to say anything” lol tf don’t leave me here
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 30/04/2025
32 years around the sun today 💐♉️💚
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 24/04/2025
I do not be fixing silly typos lol. Use context clues seriously don’t piss me off.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/04/2025
Once something that should be simple is made to be difficult I am no longer interested. Thanks anyway.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 13/04/2025
I’m eating kix playing the sims. Anita baker is blasting. My house plants are back out in the sun. I don’t have random you’re a 30+ women belly ache. Never mind I felt a cramp as I was typing this. Life is still really good.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
Two piece shorty got me over here all giddy. We should all punch someone in the face at least once a quarter.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/03/2025
Pittsburgh had hail, thunderstorms, and 70° weather today
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 16/03/2025
Such a productive morning and afternoon. I love being responsible so I can be irresponsible. Balance.
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IYKYK 🌮 @nisslbody.blacksky.app · 27/01/2025
I don't want my appliances to be connected to the internet. I don't want them to have blinky lights or touch screen controls or be accessible by phone. All I want is for them to do the one thing they are supposed to do, and to beep less. Hear that, manufacturers? Less beeping.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 05/03/2025
Bobby Womack really said if you think you’re lonely now get a load of this bitch
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
White people will try to police you minding your business. You just gotta pretend you can’t hear or see them. Literally pretend they are not there.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
My man’s birthday trip is booked. Now I can relax a bit. Planning group trips is a recipe for anxiety lol.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
Do your own research. Just about anything they can sell you, you can get from the earth.
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Alovelydai™️ 🌵🏜️ @alovelydai.blacksky.app · 01/02/2025
Good morning and happy February! Happy Saturday! Happy BHM! ✊🏾✊🏽✊🏿
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a group of people are standing in a kitchen and one of them is wearing a purple sweater
Alt: a group of people are standing in a kitchen and one of them is wearing a purple sweater
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
I’ve been w the school district for 4 years and I’m already getting “Ms. … idk if you remember me but” teams chats like omg of course I remember you!!
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VaJenell Hugh-Briss @finalgirlboss.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
If what you mean is greedy or gluttonous, say that. Those adjectives describe BEHAVIOR, not body type. Asking if it’s “big backed” to eat dessert is a red flag for disordered eating & body shaming, and I don’t wanna hear or see that bullshit. Eat the damn cake & stfu.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
No one prepares you for the grief that comes with leaving your hometown, loving, and losing your people from a distance. So hard to process.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
Good morning. I am unfortunately sharing the unexpected passing of my god sister on Thursday, Jan 23rd. We are devastated, shocked, and overwhelmed. Cherish every moment. Please consider donating to or sharing this link. She deserves a beautiful home going service. www.gofundme.com/f/help-cover...
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Donate to Help Cover Cynthia Brandon's Funeral Costs, organized by Deranna Brandon
My name is Deranna Brandon. On Thursday, January 23, 2025, my sister, Cynt… Deranna Brandon needs your support for Help Cover Cynthia Brandon's Funeral Costs
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Nneka O @playm8z.bsky.social · 23/01/2025
Deciding not to have kids is the most selfless thing I’ve ever done.
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steakum dress @twrksumn.blacksky.app · 22/01/2025
The last several years in this country (but especially these last 3 months) have been nothing but doom & gloom, yet I'm choosing joy because what else can you do when you tried to tell them? Your flabbers should have been gasted long before this week.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 22/01/2025
I’ve always had dreams of leaving this country, buying land, and nurturing my community with a community I’ve helped to build. As the years go by, more people I actually know are on board. Ima really build my compound.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 22/01/2025
Haters are never funny in their jokes. Just an unfunny bitch scared to be bold.
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Ginger Turmeric Please @freeroo.blacksky.app · 21/01/2025
I like that there are still angles I haven’t quite seen
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
Elon could have mooned everyone for all I care
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
I need some mullein and a cold walk
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
I made Pasta e Fagioli last night. Very yum.
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Wurzelmann (Herbst era) @wurzelmann.at · 20/01/2025
We're going to need a bigger Luigi.
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Dr Abolish ICE @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
Dear Black people, American fascism is a white people problem. We are at risk obviously I'm not saying none of it matters. But white people need to fix themselves. We don't have to fix a thing. Day 2 of 1461 days of remembering that Black self and community care is resistance.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
I need to grow my own herbs already this is getting out of hand.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
I try so hard to just be pleasant but I am always pissed off! lol
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K 🫧 @thetinyk.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
To be informed is to be irritated 99.9% of the time.
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💕Cerebral Hussy💕💕 @sweetarreitlove.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
Morning 💕 Breaking my morning social media fast to share links to help donate to some family and community members of a colleague of mine. They have been severely Impacted by the fires in CA. If you can’t donate it would be great if you could share the links. I’ll have two more down below. Thanks
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Donate to Support the Lansdown Family Following the Eaton Fire Tragedy, organized by Erin Lansdown
Hi, my name is Erin Lansdown, and I never thought I’d be crea… Erin Lansdown needs your support for Support the Lansdown Family Following the Eaton Fire Tragedy
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The Neighborhood Publicist @nhoodpublicist.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
I will not be letting this administration stress me out. Will simply just do the work I need to do and help those that I can.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
Almost forgot today was a gym day.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
I made shepherds pie last night and it was so good. I want it now. Let me make some ginger tea first so I feel okay about my choices later lol.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
I made peace with winter last year. Like I accepted the cold. This year I’m embracing it. Cold air therapy and layering are my highlights. I be putting everything on and it looks fun/great lol.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
If you’re not using MAC.BID you should be. I got a $400 juicer for $35. Missing parts? Register your product for the warranty on the official site. We got a $600 bidet for $100 and I cannot believe I ever lived without one lol.
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Smalls @notyourdestiny.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
Spirit guides and protects me. I am grateful.
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GoatLadyGardens @shayllou.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
Yes, I need to be alone sometimes (often)
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