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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 16h

being honest with somebody about something that might hurt them is the least hurtful thing you can do about it. you empower them to react on their terms.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 17h

I enjoyed having fun on bluesky but I think there was a period of time I was simply too online. I touched grass and I like it. I value all the connections I made on here and the Birdsite. Reach out if you wanna keep in touch off app.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 17h

sorry I don't post on here much anymore. that will probably continue. :/

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

it's definitely better for me now but I kinda lowkey miss being a gooner

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing > learning > growing

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

nothing like a boston creampie in your armpit.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

Lost Boys never grow up never go home

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

What you feel is what you are and what you are is beautiful.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Call him Mister Raider Call him Mister Wrong Call him Mister Vain I know what I want and I want it now. I want you Cause I'm Mr. Vain.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

A year can be a mighty long time.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

I have a friend whose college girlfriend broke up with him because his dick is too big.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

I actually love crying in the grocery store

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

"oh they put a mozzarella stick in here. okay."

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

tried stuffed crust pizza for the first time tonight and I was NOT impressed

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

so here I am growing older all the time looking older all the time feeling younger in my mind

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

JFK! BLOWN AWAY! WHAT ELSE DO I HAVE TO SAY! *several more verses occur*

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

I am "California sober" but I also smoke SO much less weed than I used to. I'm not afraid to admit now that I had a dependency on cannabis. I feel that I've overcome that as well.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

choosing intentional sobriety is one of the best things I've done in my adult life. it opened many doors and also helped me to start understanding a lot of personal issues I had been avoiding. I'm still working on me, but I don't know if that would have even been possible without sobriety.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

lots of things not going great in life but I'm two and a half years sober from alcohol :)

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

My heart is drenched in wine But you'll be on my mind Forever

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

Be quiet. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 09/06/2026

It's never too late to be young and in love.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

and the talking leads to touching and the touching leads to sex and then there is no mystery left and it's bad news, baby I'm bad news

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 09/06/2026

"monitoring web pages for updates" they've invented the RSS feed!!!

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Luke Ontario @coolhand.bsky.social · 09/06/2026

Being alive is like soccer. My mom signed me up without asking and it sucks

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 09/06/2026

All in good time, and that's what it was.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

Life is a mystery. Everyone must stand alone.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

being a fascist is easy. being anti-fascist is hard. it will always be hard. and it will always be worthwhile.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 04/06/2026

Don't say what you are, just be it.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 18/05/2026

vulnerability time I'd been losing weight and slimming down and then my diet boomeranged and I'm right back where I was :(

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

Be quiet. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry. Big boys don't cry.

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Blue sky nice ghost @rajandelman.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

Every time I have to get up and be productive in the morning: This is the worst feeling in the world. I can't believe how hostile the world is to me because I prefer to get up later. I should walk into a damn lake

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

everyone thought Hillary had it in the bag. they shouldn't have thought that, but they did. who cares if they block nominations for a year, Hillary will get hers in 2017

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

I will get a new job. I will get back to streaming. I will find a new place to live. I will be happy.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

well I feel so broke up I wanna go home

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

I'm still doing my best to do better. I don't always succeed.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 05/05/2026

passive suicidality is really wild like what do you mean I wasn't envisioning success for myself because I didn't even want to be alive

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 27/04/2026

I'm sorry that I hurt you It's something I must live with every day And all the pain I put you through I wish that I could take it all away

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 27/04/2026

tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

Baby when you wake up and it wasn't a dream And you’re tired of crying, you're too broken to scream Shake your fist at the city, let it rip at the seams Be human

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

thinking about the three weeks I was on Lexapro and blew up my life

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 20/04/2026

melatonin so good wdym I can't just take this every night

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

I hope you get the life you want I really hope you get the life you want.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

I hope you get the life you want I really hope you get the life you want.

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 06/04/2026

my cat gives me reason to keep going 🥲

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

and the talking leads to touching and the touching leads to sex and then there is no mystery left and it's bad news, baby I'm bad news

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Sober Marsh (2YR) @notthemarsh.bsky.social · 28/03/2026

Standin' on your mama's porch You told me that you'd wait forever Oh, and when you held my hand I knew that it was now or never Those were the best days of my life

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