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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 7m

Lol I'm not off, for the first time in years. Not doing no work except these meetings but I'm not off

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 1h

So. They celebrate Columbus Day in Spain. They call it Spanish National Day. But it's Columbus Day.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 2h

On the train from Paris to Barcelona... Bitch.... This shit is beautiful

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 7h

Sri Lanka and Mauritius taking it but France and England and Canada were lazy as hell. The tailoring on England didn't even look right.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 17h

Last night in Paris. Let's see a show.

A Black woman in green with green earrings and a red lip posing for the camera.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 18h

There are MANY spots in Charlotte that only took card and... I would be walking around with $200 in one in my bag, ready to pay and tip generously. But no.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 19h

I'll be in Barcelona again for a couple hours tomorrow.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 22h

Sigh. My card for the metro stopped working. Gonna be an Uber to the station tomorrow since the machines won't take my card

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 22h

Sigh....idk why they thought that was a good idea.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 22h

Tonight is a can can show and then I am off to Valencia early tomorrow. I am REALLY EXCITED.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 10/10/2026

Sending voice notes of the audio >>>

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 09/10/2026

YAAAAAAYY I loved Lorem Ipsum. I was so sad when it closed.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 09/10/2026

"Roll a blunt in Jesus' name" "Pussy taste like cake straight out the oven." J Bambii

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

That was the worst pizza I have ever had.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

Ooo. How did you become an abortion doula? I had looked into it some time ago, right after the acknowledged portion of the pandemic, and couldn't at the time....

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

Conversations. Romance. Special trips and shit.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

You somewhere calling me your lady and I'm calling you my little yeah to my homegirls. Please don't play yourself.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

I feel like I make it very clear to everybody. I'm romantically involved with that. Unless we have a conversation stating exactly what we are, then they should not assume that we are that thing. I am not your girlfriend.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

The amount of hubris one must have to think that just because I talk to you everyday and I like you, and we go on dates that makes you my man. You can be one of my men.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

And if not downright asking me then a conversation saying "hey you know we go together right? You my girlfriend. you know that right?"

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 08/10/2026

It's really interesting because every woman I've been in a relationship with has asked me to be her girlfriend. Every single one.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 07/10/2026

Me and my mama can barely be in that house 3 days before things start to grate on my nerves. If she would go talk to the lady I can stay in that house forever. I like that house

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Supernova Momma @supernovaparenting.org · 07/10/2026

What about multigenerational living and caretaking repels you?

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 07/10/2026

I unenrolled from my company's retirement plan after I moved out. That extra whatever percent? I needed it in my bank account. I'm back on it now but who gives a damn about retirement if you need the money right now? And it's better to never put it in there than have to pull it out early later

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 07/10/2026

And that folks, is why ENM is the term you should use. and enm and polyam are not synonymous.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

One day I will inform my mother that I was predestined to be Queer because of what she named me and watch her face crack. YOU NAMED YOUR DAUGHTER AN INTIMATE MEAL LOL

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

My sweet potato somewhere watching sports

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

Maybe I'll bump into somebody while I'm out and about in Paris in a couple of days... because it's not happening where I am. 😭

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

I said "ew, no" to many a man directly in his face.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

Speaking of which When I was in Barcelona, one high fives me while I am walking around in my tiara. He says "You from Senegal?" I got one Senegalese ancestor but they must be popping through.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

I need to find where the Black people are in Valencia quickly. I need to locate the LOS NIGGAS

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

WHEW BABY in Charlotte the only man I was dating was the one I was married to.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

I'm. Trying. To be respectful. My cycle ended yesterday. And I want to be a WHOAR.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

Listen. I'm doing a lot just to visit. I'm going to be up there like two or three times in the next couple of months

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

I have been named to get ATE. My God there are so many white people here. What I would not give for a queer Black moment

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

Because my name being an intimate meal is QWITE on the nose.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

Now. If I was surrounded by hot #WLW this would be a win win.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

They hear my name and think an intimate meal. Which is also probably why I've not had any issues with pronunciation except from the people whose first language is English.

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A Winking Woman @nettawitdahoops.blacksky.app · 04/10/2026

I forgot briefly that my name... In certain languages over here....is dinner Cenetta is dinner in Italian. Specifically a nice dinner for two. A diminutive of cena. So. A small dinner.

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