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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

This was expertly done... Drain him fast and efficiently, deny him most of the orgasmic pleasure and lock him up again. Do this every 10 days and you'll reduce the chance of him being able to cheat your chastity regime.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

People keep asking me why. Well, I truly love him with all my heart, but to be honest his penis is so small I can barely feel him inside me, and he always ejaculates within a minute. Thus, in terms of sexual gratification by intercourse he is totally useless. His tongue though...OMG!

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

I'm proud to say that my husband now is #prostate only when locked, and 2026 will be the first year since we married where he'll be 100% #pussyfree. We'll have a lot of sex during our "love weekends" but he won't have access to my pussy. Male #chastity is the key to a successful #FLR.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 20/05/2026

#Pegging has become one of my favorite #femdom activities. I really love the power exchange and the role reversal. I either peg my my husband until he reaches his #prostateorgasm, or sometimes (during love weekends) after his #orgasm, to strengthen our #FLR dynamic. Using his cum as lube is fun.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 23/04/2026

Why haven't I heard about @zveotec.bsky.social before? This neat toy is now at the top of my wish list. I'd love to hear from women who have tried it. Does it really work as promised? If it does, my husband @rohosub.bsky.social will receive even more #pegging in future.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

All I want for christmas.... Is a man who knows his place and obeys without question! #Femdom #FLR #FemaleLedRelationship

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 18/11/2025

I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 16/11/2025

The perfect way to to make chaste and submissive men servile and obedient.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 15/11/2025

Happiness is; A female-led relationship! I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 15/11/2025

Last night was absolutely wonderful. I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

The #edgeomatic was a success but a bit more difficult tu use and calibrate than I thought. I'll write my review of the device in a later post.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

Yes it it ended up being a pussyfree weekend. I've been thinking of removing the privilege since our summer weekend. It's definitely not permanent, but I want my cunt to be even more of a rare treat. He came in SO many other ways, though. He was completely dry when I locked his cage again last night

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

This last period is only 48 days. The 4th "love weekend" this year will be Dec 28-31. In 2026 there will be only 3.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

The car is packed and ready. We take off early tomorrow morning. Just unlocking his cage and giving him his first quick "reward" 🤣 before leaving.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

#7: On Sunday he will be well spent and not very eager 😈. It will be a nice time for me to restrain him to the bed again and bring out "The Sucker". He is going to be completely dry and begging for mercy before I lock him back into #chastity for the last 50 days of the year. Video by The Shackler.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 04/11/2025

#6: Throughout the weekend there will be a lot of dirty talk and #SPH #humiliation. Simply because my husband gets so turned on by it. Comparing his tiny penis to my 10" Mr. perfect dildo, mocking his stamina, real hung men vs his #pussyfree lifestyle, making him suck and orally worship my dildos...

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends? A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

This was a very good piece on prostate play. Understanding how the prostate work is the key to understanding the male orgasm, and once you do it's way easier to get started with male #chastity.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

Yesterday was just maintenance, but it had to be proper because there won't be any next weekend.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

I tried uploading a photo of his bruised behind, but it turned out as all black. Is that some kind of Bsky censorship?

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

My husband was unable to sit down at work today after yesterday's rather harsh maintenance #spanking. It's a good thing his office building is equipped with standing desks 🤣. He got to taste both the bath brush and my Delrin cane before finishing up with 30 mins of #cornertime.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

#5: Only a few more days to go 🤩. After two whole reward days with 100% focus on my husband, next Saturday will be mine. We've never done RL #cuckolding, but my husband is no stranger to seeing me orgasm on "Mr Perfect", my wonderful 10" dark brown dildo powered by my Stallion #fuckingmachine.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

I just received a question regarding our "love wekends" and how I deal with his refractory periods. To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

#4: I know he has been dreaming about access to my divine cunt and to make love to me like a normal man. He has been 100% #pussyfree for 100 days. I will MAYBE grant him access! On Thursday when we've arrived at our holiday home. He'll be SO eager, but his tiny #prejac peanut won't last long 😈.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea? I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

I just love the #SPH and #Cuckolding comics by @burdieowo.bsky.social. They are super cute. I'd love to see some with #FLR and #Chastity theme as well 😉.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

#3: Next Friday will be MY day 😈, but he is going to love it. He'll spend most of the day in tight inescapable bondage and the sensory deprivation hood he loves so much. Hopefully I'll be able frustrate him and to keep him on the edge of orgasm for hours using my #Edgeomatic and various tools.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

#2: At least once during the weekend I'll give him his absolute favorite. I'll eat his ass as I make him cum. He'll be in heaven!

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

For a dominant woman it is important to have a comprehensive collection of quality toys. And the most important toys must have proper names. I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL). There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

#1: I'll give him the early morning blowjob he has been dreaming of since July, but I'm 100% certain it will be over before I get started. From earlier posts you'll know that he is a total #prejac the first two-three orgasms after his release from #chastity.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

Today I'll start the countdown towards the unlocking my husband's #chastitycage which will happen the morning of Thursday November 6th at 06:00. There are only 7 days left of this chastity period of 100 days.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

God I love my husband's tongue! He was amazing yesterday.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

I was just down at the post office. Picked up a new toy which will be a big surprise for my husband. It was a quite heavy box 😆. I'm SO looking forward to next weekend 😈.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

I love my husband with all my heart. We make magic together! ..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock. Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Please contact me, @flrreality.bsky.social if you're interested in exploring the subject further 😉.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Just the tight grip of a condom may be enough to make him cum right after I've unlocked his #chastitycage. To his defense I have to add that his stamina improves quite a lot during the love weekend.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Q: How bad really, is your husband's #prematureejaculation problem? A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Yesterday I wrote a short recommendation for the Obedient Love" podcast. If you're a woman and curious about female-led relationships #FLR and long term male #chastity you definitely should listen to episode #20. obedientlove.podbean.com/e/obedient-l...

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Obedient Love 20 | Obedient Love Podcast

Ms. Viola talks about the many aspects of long term chastity. Custom devices: https://www.maturemetal.com/ https://www.evotionwearables.com/ Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika: https://www.lulu.com/en/us/sho...

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

The kneeling position itself is quite painful if you're forced to sit like that for an hour or two. Add a 6,5cm wide rectal dilator (with for instance Tiger Balm as lube) and everything gets very interesting 😈. My husband needs to be thoroughly gagged. I'll supply a photo my "Boybreaker" later.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

After my husband's post earlier today I've received two questions asking me what my "Boybreaker" is. Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

I just received a different kind of question: Can a woman have a #ruinedorgasm? Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

In my continuous search for other strong women leading high protocol female-led relationships, I came across Ms. Viola Strepsata Voltairine and her awesome Obedient Love Podcast. If you want to know more about the #FLR lifestyle, her episodes are highly recommended. obedientlove.podbean.com

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