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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

This was expertly done... Drain him fast and efficiently, deny him most of the orgasmic pleasure and lock him up again. Do this every 10 days and you'll reduce the chance of him being able to cheat your chastity regime.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

I'm proud to say that my husband now is #prostate only when locked, and 2026 will be the first year since we married where he'll be 100% #pussyfree. We'll have a lot of sex during our "love weekends" but he won't have access to my pussy. Male #chastity is the key to a successful #FLR.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 20/05/2026

#Pegging has become one of my favorite #femdom activities. I really love the power exchange and the role reversal. I either peg my my husband until he reaches his #prostateorgasm, or sometimes (during love weekends) after his #orgasm, to strengthen our #FLR dynamic. Using his cum as lube is fun.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 23/04/2026

Why haven't I heard about @zveotec.bsky.social before? This neat toy is now at the top of my wish list. I'd love to hear from women who have tried it. Does it really work as promised? If it does, my husband @rohosub.bsky.social will receive even more #pegging in future.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

All I want for christmas.... Is a man who knows his place and obeys without question! #Femdom #FLR #FemaleLedRelationship

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 18/11/2025

I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 16/11/2025

The perfect way to to make chaste and submissive men servile and obedient.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 15/11/2025

Happiness is; A female-led relationship! I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 15/11/2025

Last night was absolutely wonderful. I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 10/11/2025

We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

The car is packed and ready. We take off early tomorrow morning. Just unlocking his cage and giving him his first quick "reward" 🤣 before leaving.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends? A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

This was a very good piece on prostate play. Understanding how the prostate work is the key to understanding the male orgasm, and once you do it's way easier to get started with male #chastity.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

My husband was unable to sit down at work today after yesterday's rather harsh maintenance #spanking. It's a good thing his office building is equipped with standing desks 🤣. He got to taste both the bath brush and my Delrin cane before finishing up with 30 mins of #cornertime.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

I just received a question regarding our "love wekends" and how I deal with his refractory periods. To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea? I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

I just love the #SPH and #Cuckolding comics by @burdieowo.bsky.social. They are super cute. I'd love to see some with #FLR and #Chastity theme as well 😉.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

For a dominant woman it is important to have a comprehensive collection of quality toys. And the most important toys must have proper names. I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL). There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

Today I'll start the countdown towards the unlocking my husband's #chastitycage which will happen the morning of Thursday November 6th at 06:00. There are only 7 days left of this chastity period of 100 days.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

God I love my husband's tongue! He was amazing yesterday.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

I love my husband with all my heart. We make magic together! ..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock. Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Q: How bad really, is your husband's #prematureejaculation problem? A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

Yesterday I wrote a short recommendation for the Obedient Love" podcast. If you're a woman and curious about female-led relationships #FLR and long term male #chastity you definitely should listen to episode #20. obedientlove.podbean.com/e/obedient-l...

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Obedient Love 20 | Obedient Love Podcast

Ms. Viola talks about the many aspects of long term chastity. Custom devices: https://www.maturemetal.com/ https://www.evotionwearables.com/ Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika: https://www.lulu.com/en/us/sho...

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

After my husband's post earlier today I've received two questions asking me what my "Boybreaker" is. Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

I just received a different kind of question: Can a woman have a #ruinedorgasm? Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

In my continuous search for other strong women leading high protocol female-led relationships, I came across Ms. Viola Strepsata Voltairine and her awesome Obedient Love Podcast. If you want to know more about the #FLR lifestyle, her episodes are highly recommended. obedientlove.podbean.com

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

Throughout a year, my husband stays 100% chaste for approximately 350 of 365 days. He does so for me. I hold the keys to his inescapable steel #chastitycage. His reward? Being constantly horny, having a very happy wife and getting 3-4 love weekends each year with unlimited sex and orgasms. #Femdom

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

Tip to other dominant women! Don't shave your Venus mound. Pheromones released from the area arouses the male and with your bush intact, your pheromones will be more concentrated. If used together with #chastity, you can use your scents to condition the male brain. Just like Pavlov's dogs.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 23/10/2025

A few years ago when I had my Tumblr blog, I tried to reach out in search of other dominant women whom might be interested in "loaning" my husband or exchanging husbands for a shorter period. I was close to settling a deal with Miss M of the famous BDSM-couple, but I chickened out at the last minute

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

This afternoon I feel the need to speak up for the everyday Dominas around the world. I sincerely wish more women would step up, embrace their inner urge for more structure and take control of their relationships. Our men (partners) needs it and the world needs it.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

Got another question related to me: There doesn't seem to be any photos of you here, Mistress. Someone said you're old, what do you really look like? There won't be any photos of me. I just cant risk being recognized because of my position at work. I'm sorry.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

There has been a couple of weeks now where my husband has been on his best behavior and there has been no need for "corrections". Something to do with the upcoming "love weekend"? 😈. However, last night when he returned from his trip he started questioning my Bsky posts. That earned him a spanking!

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

I just received a question I honestly don't know how to respond to 😭; How can a woman as old as you be that kinky? Not worthy of an answer tbh.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

This Thursday there will be two weeks until our 3rd love weekend this year. My husband, @rohosub.bsky.social, has been 100% chaste and pussy free for 100 days. As a build up to our weekend I'll up the game further. The coming 2 weeks he won't even be allowed to see my divine cunt.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

Someone just asked me: Do you ever peg your husband? Yes I do. Both my husband and I love #pegging. There is something about the role reversal and the power exchange that does wonders for our #FLR.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 20/10/2025

Last night my husband told me that he feels this chastity period (ca 100 days) has been the toughest one for years. He seems to be afraid of the changes I've planned regarding his "reward", our 4 day love weekend with unlimited sex and pleasure. I'm 100% certain he'll love the changes... 😈

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 20/10/2025

This was super cute! I love being greeted this way by my submissive husband.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 19/10/2025

Yesterday I blabbered about my husband's penis being too small, and his stamina too poor, to satisfy me sexually. I've received several PMs supporting my husband. I really appreciate that, but at some point I needed a more rewarding sex-life and #malechastity has given me that.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 18/10/2025

There is an aspect of our #FLR that I haven't been equally open about before. Through post here I've talked about me being a "size queen", owning a Stallion #fuckingmachine, a Sybian vibrator etc. There is a reason for this other than the male #chastity being necessary for our relationship to work.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 18/10/2025

Received a question again: What exactly is a #FLR? A #FLR (female-led relationship) is simply a relationship where the woman is in charge of most things, her word is final, the man does more than a fair share of the household chores and treats his wife the respect she deserves.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 17/10/2025

A lot of men don't know that 50% of their sex-organ resides inside their body in the form of their #prostate gland. If they're homophobic as well and never play with their butt, they probably miss out on all the prostate pleasure.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 17/10/2025

I must admit that I feel quite alone here as a dominant woman. Most other women are either promoting themselves/their brand or trying to make lonely guys pay for their luxurious habits. I receive many sweet DMs from nice submissive men, asking me questions etc but I miss discussions with other Doms.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 16/10/2025

Yesterday evening my husband and I were discussing a few specifics within our #FLR protocol and house rules. As a result of this I'm now disallowing use of the words "pussy" and "vagina" (Norwegian equivalents) when my husband addresses my divine body-part.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 16/10/2025

A while ago I purchased an Edge-O-Matic davice from Maustec. So far I've only prepared it by attaching to sensor tube to the inflatable buttplug and installed latest FW. Does anyone know what sensitivity settings works best? Or is it a 100% individual calibration?

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 12/10/2025

OK, I have a confession to make. Someone asked me where I get the photos and videos from. Only a few of the photos are our own (some of @rohosub.bsky.social, none of me). The rest of the material is from around the Internet and used to illustrate what I'm talking about.

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