iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Happy Yorkshire day! Remember,it's not a place, it's a state of mind!

Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

This time last year I was drifting into a really unsettled place with myself, but a year on, I am absolutely putting in the work and so much better. Better at standing up for my needs, holding my own boundaries and respecting others. Knowing my self worth and dealing with the past. I am thankful.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 01/07/2026

Thank you! It really is! I just hate the fact that for so long I didn't remotely have a clue that I had these things wrong with me and didn't put them together. I guess you don't know what you don't know, it certainly was a weird year and I'm glad I'm on the mend.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

So it's obvious that starting roughly this time last year I was suffering with sleep apnea & hormonal depletion, it got much worse around last autumn. I have definitely pulled around these last 6 months. The two pronged approach of TRT and a cpap machine is working wonders physically and mentally.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

Not even two weeks into TRT and it's showing signs of improvement. Somewhere between a quickie and fucking for as long as I'd like to, and @suzu1982.bsky.social was out like a light for the best part of 12 hours!

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John Wick: Yeah, I'm Thinking I'm Back

ALT: John Wick: Yeah, I'm Thinking I'm Back

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

Not too sure if there's much point me being here anymore. My focus has shifted immensely over the last six months On to bigger and better things, still not exactly ideal, but life is better than it was in march.

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Princess Suz birthday month 21/10 😘💜 @suzu1982.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

Something a little different for your consideration... My favourite necklace 😏 @mrgrimm99.bsky.social #ManHand #VeinsPopping

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 17/05/2026

Artificial intelligence can't be all bad, I mean it's gaYve us poetry like this "What is grief if not love persevering." Have a good Sunday

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 16/05/2026

Well, I might be on the mend. Got a very important hospital appointment this week, and hopefully a very stressful task that is my duty but someone else's responsibility might be fixed later on this week, And then hopefully things might just come together nicely with people I really care about.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

I don't know if I am ready to return. I don't know if I decide to update things here about what is going on in my life if I'm going to hurt people further or if I am giving too much credit. I certainly believe in the theory of "let them" now, I just want to be able to express myself without upset.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

youtube.com/shorts/5yfDw... This is a really good definition of how I feel when I express my confidence, and how I utterly despise arrogant people. I can spot them a mile off, and it's worse when they project their insecurities on me.

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Confidence VS Arrogance

YouTube video by Celastrina Calea

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 01/03/2026

youtube.com/shorts/MUcIY... Take note people. This works for voice chat as well. Be careful who you choose to let in.

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NEVER Ignore This Feeling After a Conversation! | Chase Hughes

YouTube video by Marc The Beginning

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 25/02/2026

I made some solid plans for next month! Actually going further with this kinky stuff than I have been so far. Changes are on the cards at home as much as anywhere else, and I am definitely going to see a lot more people really soon!

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

It's hard enough getting comfortable with your own self expression, so we really should be careful in our language when someone has given themselves a shiny badge of courage to help themselves, so be a good friend and help them find others if they want to.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

So to that end, I really don't find it helpful when people "just" someone in conversation, "oh pleasure Dom's are just service tops" "a princess is just a brat who likes everything their own way.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

I get that labels help people figure out their kinky selves, but I think it's only the ones you pick for yourself, and you change them when you are happy to.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 23/02/2026

I don't appreciate that negativity

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

Well keep on smiling! The world needs it!

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

So nice to see a smile on your face!

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

The beginning part of the year has been tough, but I am definitely going forward, with an open mind, better for the experiences. But this time I'm not abandoning myself and trusting my gut when something needs to be said. I know what I can give. I just need the right dance partners.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 17/02/2026

Beyond the shadow you settle for, there is a miracle illuminated.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 16/02/2026

One thing I can't deal with is men being jealous of me. I know that this might sound like a humble brag, but it's not. I've met many people like this, who just seem threatened by my honesty, confidence & self awareness, they just can't help belittle me for it. I'm calling them out going forward.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 15/02/2026

Things I will do for people close to me Listen Respect Be honest Grow Accommodate Nurture Give space Compromise Give chances Learn Apologise and mean it Things I wont do for anyone Lie Make myself less than Question my self respect Suffer manipulation Stay where I'm not respected

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 15/02/2026

Had a really good night last night, some really good chat with good people, even though I didn't think I was going out until literally 30 minutes before I did! I think things are getting there for me, and life isn't too bad really.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 14/02/2026

Well, let's see what the evening brings! Be rude not to!

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 14/02/2026

Well, happy valentine's day! Be careful, but be bold. Take a chance, and if it doesn't work, then make sure you give it your best and move on with a clear conscience, as well as you can. Then learn and do better for yourself next time. The only way to get good at relationships is to have them.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

For everyone struggling this valentine's weekend Just remember what Hop said to Mike You can suffer or Find a way to accept what happened Accept Thier choice It doesn't mean you have to like it or understand it Or never think about it You just accept it & live the best god damn life you can

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

So, I had my consultation with the ENT surgeon. The takeaway of it all is I need to continue to loose weight, use the CPAP machine & in 6 months time he will arrange to see me again, and it can be done through the NHS, so I just paid to be given advice quicker and get a bit further on sooner.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 12/02/2026

Fuck Valentines day Read that however you want to

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

youtu.be/cY5Hlg_N0JQ?... A hard lesson learned this week. Just be kind and understanding as well.

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#foryou #emotional #emotionalintelligence

YouTube video by Love & Light

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

BBC News - We had sex in a Chinese hotel, then found we had been broadcast to thousands - BBC News www.bbc.co.uk/news/article... So I don't think they realise this is an advertisement

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We had sex in a Chinese hotel, then found we had been broadcast to thousands

A couple who stayed in Shenzhen discovered their intimate moments were filmed as spy-cam porn.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 05/02/2026

I honestly believe everyone who is in your life, is there for a reason Some you learn with, some you learn from, as well as having fun and heartbreak along the way. It's been a crazy year, and it's only going to change more. I just hope I can keep those I'm close with here for as long as possible

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 05/02/2026

You keep showing up. Never underestimate the power of being present.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

One of the end results I've noticed from going through the changes with me in the past six months, is that j don't stand for people's crap anymore, and can pretty much see through any falsehood going, j do it with tact and am far from judgemental, but I stand up for myself and will pull people up.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

Well I appreciate seeing what you shared.

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

You are more than welcome! I don't do face pics on the internet to a really wide audience. So well done to you!

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

Cute story to go with a cute face!

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Mr. Grimm @mrgrimm99.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

I don't know you well enough to say good girl yet.

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