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I'm n'otter bear

@modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social
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Mainly here to post music and musings. Maybe admire some big hot dads.

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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
As a middle aged man, I've just tried my first iced pumpkin spice latte. Not something that needs repeating. 🥴
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
My Instagram has been awash with a lot of content recently from bears/dads who are "gay NOT queer". Is this a big deal for some people? I'm a bit oblivious to it.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
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Player One 🔥 Into The Darkness (2001) @breakbeatologia
YouTube video by Breakbeatología - Break Beat Retro & Actual
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I wonder how long it will take for Growlr to get paygated within an inch of its already abysmal existence?
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EXCLUSIVE: Scruff owners buy Growlr - Bear World Magazine
Perry Street Software, the company behind SCRUFF and Jack'd, has acquired the bear community's most popular app from The Meet Group.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Text meme
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
We decide to start again. Wipe the slate clean. Start fresh. Little carbon copies we can turn to and say you can do what I could not. You will succeed where I have failed, because we want someone to get it right this time. Not me. Personally speaking, I can't wait to watch life tear you apart.
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Trudge - страсть [10PILLS010]
YouTube video by KANDE
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
confused but impressed
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011668 - burial-sade (Full Album)
YouTube video by John Doe
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Outlook Origins festival lineup for 2027 just came out and it has me contemplating a trip to Croatia.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
TOMFOOLERY!!!! SILLY MODE!!!! BUFFOONERY!!!! CLOWNING!!!! NONSENSE!!!!
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
dormancy
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
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uon - Superbath [anòmia]
YouTube video by Habib
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Happy Friday.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
mowalola really got the white boys buying 14s huh
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I think a return to the moustache might on the cards with warmer weather.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Channeling that sleazy electro bloghouse sound. I love it.
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Best in The Class (Soulwax Remix)
YouTube video by Late of the Pier - Topic
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
New Maxime Denuc album.
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Hallucinogen
YouTube video by Maxime Denuc - Topic
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Songs I *need* to hear on a Funktion-One - a series of ongoing posts:
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Off The Meds - Belter (Joy O Belly Mix) [Studio Barnhus]
YouTube video by Mixmag
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
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Bicep @TheLotRadio 09-15-2026
YouTube video by The Lot Radio
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Playground Japan make some of the nicest tech-ier styles of footwear I've seen in a while. It is such a shame they only go up to US 11.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Me: Me when I see you:
SelfieSelfie
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
You're sending me pics that are timestamped and dated from a digital camera in... 2005? You keep those on your profile? Have I missed something? Is this a thing?
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Seven years in and he hasn't scarpered (yet). Tiny dad, big heart. Happy anniversary @surrenderdotty.bsky.social 🦦❤️🐻
Andrew at dinner.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
It is (was?) World Beard Day.
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Haus of Decline @hausofdecline.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
God says to a man "you have died. Prepare for judgement. You will now confront your best self. The version of you that lived up to all your potential." An exact duplicate of the man pops into existence and says "hi, it's me! Your best self! I'm exactly like you!" He continues "turns out youa ctually did live up to all of your potential!" The original man puts his hands on his head and says "Jesus, that's depressing."
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Sometimes, no matter how hard you work, no matter how much effort, routine, and discipline you put in, you'll never get to the point you want to be at. Financially, physically, emotionally. That is life.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
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TURNSTILE - LOOK OUT FOR ME: FOUR TET VERSION
YouTube video by Turnstile
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
WINTER IS OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SPRING IS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TELL YOUR DAD TO WEAR HIS LITTLE SHORTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
give me your hand ill give you my mind it's a fair exchange if you're deaf, dumb and blind
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Life has been a bit flat as of late. Work is shitful. Early bed time all week. Exhausted.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
I've hit a point on my phone where if I type 'daddy' my auto-prediction will give me 'bear' as the next word every time. Finally, some recognition.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
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Leon Vynehall @TheLotRadio 08-25-2026
YouTube video by The Lot Radio
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Discovering!
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Mo Wax - Nike Air Promotional
View credits, reviews, tracks and shop for the 1997 CD release of "Nike Air Promotional" on Discogs.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
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Labi Siffre - Cannock Chase (Official Lyric Video)
YouTube video by Labi Siffre
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
Here we go again.
out.com
Gay bear culture survived body fascism. It can survive Ozempic
As more people turn to GLP-1 weight-loss medications, a subculture rooted in rejecting narrow beauty standards faces its latest evolution.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
@realfollowers.bsky.social
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
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Volcano (James Massiah Version) - Damos Room
YouTube video by James Massiah
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
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Podcast 117: Shlohmo
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
Every day I do my silly little chess puzzles and make my silly little mistakes.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
Two olives in my martini? Don't piss me off man, come on.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
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DAPHNI - 5 hours DJ set at Corsica Studios (London)
YouTube video by Caribou
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
Big Walk is out. HOORAY. Time to download it and then go to bed. Lots of walking tomorrow!
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
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The Bears Are on Ozempic (Gift Article)
An annual celebration of bears — gay men on the bigger and hairier side — feels different in the age of GLP-1s.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 03/08/2026
Big Walk comes out in one day and I'm about to fucking LOSE IT.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
No. Absolutely not. Are you joking?
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
Back to my vascular surgeon. Another scan, another follow up. Based on what I'm feeling, I'm not expecting good news.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
Went to chess club for the first time tonight. Played 3 games. Lost 3 games. Played against someone working for the Human Rights Comission. OTB is definitely quite different and more challenging than online chess. Enjoyed myself none the less.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
SoundCloud snuck a little AI generated track into my playlist this morning. Yuck.
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
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Ethel Cain - Punish (Official Video)
YouTube video by Ethel Cain
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
There's no hate like Christian love. 😒
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I'm n'otter bear @modernsocialcrisis.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
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Bonobo | Mixmag Lab London
YouTube video by Mixmag
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