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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

Boys, if you are struggling to think of an innovative gift for your partner tomorrow, here is a suggestion that might just change your lives forever..... #FLR #FLRFriday #keyholder

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

He may not have been all of those things when we started but he is now. Want your partner to be the same? #chastity and #FLR can do that for your relationship. ***A public service message on #FLRFriday***

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 23/01/2026

I've mentioned hubby in a few posts recently. Just to be clear.... Maybe without the comment about the butt plugs😈 There's nothing incompatible with a strong and proud man being #submissive I'm really glad I found one. #FLR #chastity #keyholder

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 23/01/2026

This was the big turning point for me. The day I didn't feel any pressure to reciprocate or even unlock him for a little tease That was when it became about me. I stopped being a wife playing at #chastity because hubby had asked me to and became a #dominant Our #FLR evolved from there #FLRFriday

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 21/01/2026

My entry in the @literotica.com Valentine's Day story contest has been published. www.literotica.com/s/valentines...

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 20/01/2026

Just leaving this here in case hubby does ever join Bluesky! 🤫

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 16/01/2026

Ladies, #chastity changes everything. It's not just that his focus is 100% on you. The fact you don't have to worry about pleasing him (unless YOU want to), holding that power, makes every orgasm you have as a #keyholder more intense. Try it. You won't be disappointed. #FLR #FLRFriday

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 14/01/2026

The perfect day to start your #malechastity journey. Who knows where it will lead. #chastity #keyholder #flr

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

One day I really hope #FLR and #malechastity will be mainstream. Both empower women. And the beauty is they are self-fulfilling. Once your man has experienced either, he will crave more. #FLRFriday #chastity #wifedomme

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 07/01/2026

Mood. Right now. I don't believe in regrets but I do wish my short time with kitten had lasted longer. On the plus side though, it inspired me to write my first story on @literotica.com. So every cloud etc etc

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 02/01/2026

#FLRFriday - I almost missed it with the holiday period. New year, new start. Ladies, remember how considerate your man was when you first started dating? The compliments, the hugs, the tender moments. They faded away with familiarity but you can get them back. All it takes is a #chastity cage!

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 26/12/2025

Almost forgot it's #FLRFriday Christmas always reminds me of how our lives have changed. Pre #FLR it was always such a stressful time with food to prepare and kids to entertain. Now, hubby does most of the work and I can relax. #wifedomme #chastity

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 23/12/2025

Not one to blow my own trumpet often, but just read this wonderful review of one of my @literotica.com stories: 'One of the most entrancing and moving love stories I have ever read. And so full of powerful eroticism.' I'd better get writing the next installment if that's what people think.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 23/12/2025

Spooky coincidence. I've just been to visit my @literotica.com profile and saw I had 420 followers. Wondered how that compared to Bluesky and, you guessed, 420! Not quite the 25,000 of X but something tells me all of the 420 are real people which is much more rewarding. Thank you one and all!

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 15/12/2025

1/2 A recent post saw @jamiejulia.bsky.social counting their days in #chastity. It reminded me of the time I made hubby cum after 99 days chaste. He was so desperate to make it to three figures. It's funny how #chastity works. Not only does he enjoy your orgasms, but you can enjoy his.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12/12/2025

Boys, be careful what you wish for Hubby set us off on our journey and I'm sure when we started he thought it would be a bit of fun Seven years later, our lives have changed out of all recognition It's still fun, but not quite the fun he had in mind #FLR #femdom #wifedom #chastity #malechastity

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12/12/2025

Ladies, there is no right or wrong when it comes to your #FLR. What it looks like is up to you. It doesn't even have to be 24x7, though something tells me if you don't start that way it won't be long until it is. #FLR can become addictive. #FLRFriday #chastity

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

I can't think of a single negative about locking hubby in #chastity. It was essential in establishing our #FLR. Now #indefinitechastity is part of our lives. I'm sure hubby would agree. #keyholder #femdom #FLRFriday

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Let the future be female @forafemalefuture.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

You maybe didn’t wait for this explanation to make him sniff your panties, playfully. But now you know why you like to do that. :-) Take care to do it always from a position of strength. It’s okay to make it a bit humiliating for him. As a matter of fact, it absolutely should be.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

Ladies, #chastity can serve many purposes. By far the most important imho is that it creates the platform from which an #FLR can be established. By denying your man his orgasms he will seek a better use of his time. What better alternative than to make your life easier? #FLRFriday

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12/11/2025

I used to have this pinned on X. A nice way to sum up my relationship with my hubby. #FLR #femaleledrelationship #chastity #malechastity #keyholder #femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 08/11/2025

For those who continued their #chastity experiment into #NOvember, you will be close to this stage now. There will come a point where your #chaste male will happily forego an unlock to share in the fulfilment of his #keyholder enjoying a climax. It's a watershed moment in your #FLR journey.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

This is so true. Hopefully more women have experienced it for themselves during #Locktober. It's the cornerstone of your #FLR. Having a man more attuned to YOUR needs. The #keyholder may decide to continue into #NOvember but by the end, you'll both want it to continue. Trust me. #FLRFriday

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FLR/Chastity Advocate @flradvocate.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

If your guy is on the...uh, smaller side and you want bigger dick but you don't want to fuck other men, there is a simple solution. Lock the little one up and have him wear a strap-on with a dildo the size you need to have that inner slut fulfilled. He's still fucking you, but now it fits you.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

Time for a little break. I'm going to try and devote some time to writing. I have a couple of ideas for stories inspired by real life events. I have encouraged @allythemaid.bsky.social to think about publishing. The story he wrote for me was excellent. Keep 👀 on @literotica.com And remember...

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

And just like that #Locktober is over. For some. Not for hubby. He has spent the last few years in #indefinitechastity. So while all those people for whom #Locktober was a bit of fun enjoy their day of relief, hubby just wonders when I will next unlock him. #FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

Ladies, as #Locktober ends it's time to ask yourself the question - has your locked man behaved better towards you? Answer honestly. If you'd like to see things continue this way, with his attention to your needs growing, now is the time to speak up You decide what's next. Your #FLR starts here!

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

It may be the 31st but #Locktober ends at midnight so your #keyholder is still in charge If she is anything like me, she will need some sleep after such an exhausting month So as the clock ticks into NOvember I'll be fast asleep and my locked boys will have to wait for permission to unlock #FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

Almost the end of #locktober. @allythemaid.bsky.social and my mystery man are in line to earn their rewards if they make it to the end. Hubby. Well living with me is his reward and he gets to enjoy it every day. 😈 #chastity #FLR #femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

#Locktober started with a picture of hubby's locked nub. It seems right as we draw to a close that I share a picture of the other nub I've kept locked. @allythemaid.bsky.social has been a very well behaved boy. It's just a shame he wasn't excited enough to fill the cage. #chastity #keyholder

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 30/10/2025

Well I don't know about you but #locktober has lived up to all my expectations and then some. Having 3 boys under my control has been hard work but well worth the effort. It's almost a shame it has to end. Oh, wait..... #keyholder #chastity #malechastity #FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

As #locktober draws to a close, questions for all the locked boys. Have you enjoyed your time in #chastity? Has your #keyholder supported you? Do you feel closer to your #keyholder? Is your overriding desire to unlock or to please your #keyholder? Would you do it again, for longer?

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 28/10/2025

I'm sure he's started dropping hints as #locktober draws to a close, but never forget ladies it's all about YOU now. Don't forget the advantages of making him wear a dildo in a harness You choose the size He lasts as long as you want There's no mess Why unlock at all? #keyholder #chastity #FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

Bluesky has put lots of female nudes in my timeline today. I'm not complaining, I'm in that sort of mood.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

A #Locktober update Mystery man is recovering and is starting to receive tasks again. Hubby is hubby. Breakfast in bed has just been served! @allythemaid.bsky.social is struggling with that most challenging of tasks. Not because of a lack of commitment but due to UK public transport failings!

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

I wonder how many new members there will be when #Locktober comes to an end.... #chastity #keyholder #femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

It's been remiss of me not to mention this aspect of #chastity before now in your #Locktober journey. But just because his c0ck is locked, it doesn't mean the #keyholder has to go without. An important part of #indefinitechastity and a #FLR is making his tongue his primary sex organ. #FLRFriday

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

Just one week to go. What will be your overriding emotion when #locktober comes to an end? #chastity #malechastity

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 23/10/2025

There's a huge amount of trust involved with first timers to #locktober - not least the man having this nagging doubt over whether his #keyholder will release him Trust me, by the time you get to #NOvember anyone who has stayed the course won't be worried at all #malechastity #chastity #femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

Ladies, I'm sure you've experienced this by now but the great thing about #locktober should be that it increases his focus on your pleasure. Which should make those nights even better for you. #chastity #keyholder #malechastity #femdom #flr

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

3 weeks of #locktober done. Is it starting to feel normal or are you longing for the end of the month? This is where it gets interesting. If your #keyholder has enjoyed the extra attention maybe she won't want it to end with the end of the month. #chastity #indefinitechastity #FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 20/10/2025

It starts with #Locktober. When it ends is entirely up to your #keyholder now. If you're both enjoying the experience, why not make #chastity part of your life? It doesn't have to be just for #Locktober. #indefinitechastity #FLR #femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 19/10/2025

1/ As promised, and prompted by a post from @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social yesterday, our #cuckolding journey. Firstly, we discussed it for a long time. The idea of involving a third person is not a small step. We agreed it was important to find someone we would both be comfortable with. #FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 18/10/2025

Ladies you need to be firm here. If your partner has his birthday in #locktober you should not feel any pressure to unlock him. He gets unlocked when YOU want and what YOU choose to do with the contents of YOUR cage is up to YOU. #chastity #malechastity #keyholder

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