MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 18h> Girlfriend makes me a Martini > Me: "oh so you're trying to make me drunk so you can have your way with me later? 🥰" > Her: "As if I needed to make you drunk for that... 😐" Outch... I mean, she's not wrong, but she didn't need to say it... 😖 021
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 21hWent to a party meetup yesterday, we sat around a campfire, they started asking questions about trans stuff... My anxiety went through the roof, but it turned out they were completely normal about it... ^____^ 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Honestly, I think the reason this "lesbians can be interested in sex with men" thing actually kinda upsets me is because it does feel like its main purpose is to validate self-hating bisexual women's internalized biphobia... 020
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 02/10/2026There are no vegetarians who occasionally eat meat... People who sometimes eat meat but mostly don't are called "flexitarians." 220
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 02/10/2026I think that expanding labels to be so broad that they no longer tell you anything about the person identifying with them can lead to a situation where the people the label was originally made for become essentially silenced because they no longer have the language to express their experiences... 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 02/10/2026> go to queer meetup > don't pay attention to anyone's introduction because of anxiety > unaware the person I'm talking to is non-binary, assume they're just a cis woman > they ask me why I don't smoke > "it reduces estrogen levels 🤷♀️" > they reply "Oh really? Guess I'll never stop then..." FML 🫣 020
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 01/10/2026I feel like a small prey animal... I'm in a constant state of overwhelming painful anxiety... 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Chat... It's so fucking joever... Told my girlfriend my tits need to be touched, and she just said "oh did I take my evening estrogen?" and went ahead and smeared gel all over her forearms and now she can't touch me anymore... 😭😭😭 160
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I understand that people liked me more when I just internalized everything and blamed myself for their mistakes, but that actually was a symptom of mental illness too... Becoming able to understand that some things genuinely aren't my fault was part of the healing process... 010
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I don't think people realize that "recovery" means I become more abrasive, not less... <____< 140
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Back on Twitter I was dysphoriaposting hard and some cis moid randomly showed up and was like "would it help if I called you a good girl?" and now every time someone calls me that I get a flashback to that moment and I remember how fucking weird that was... <____< 021
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Bonus meme, as a child my parents sent me to ergotherapy for like *years* because I had no clear dominant hand and my handwriting and fine motor skills were ridiculously terrible, and still nobody ever considered Dyspraxia... which btw has a very high comorbidity with ADHD... 😐 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Ah it's "27 year old woman gets informed that thing she has been struggling with her whole life is actually not normal and probably a disorder" time again... 😐 020
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Girlfriend told her transphobic mom that she's getting an ADHD assessment, and her mom just left her on read... 😬 Same mom who thinks my girlfriend is "insulting" her and "calling her a bad mother" by being trans despite her not noticing any signs... 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 28/09/2026As a woman with a CNC kink I think CNC sex parties that are so integral to your industry that they are considered important professional networking events and women working in that industry feel strongly pressured into attending them are *extremely* bad actually... <____< 020
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 27/09/2026I mean, I'm repeating myself, but there's a huge overlap between sanism and transphobia... As in projecting how your own mind works onto everyone else and then assuming that people who claim they're experiencing a mental phenomenon that you don't experience yourself must have sinister motives... 030
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 27/09/2026I'm extremely thankful she did btw, because I personally firmly believed I couldn't have ADHD, since I vaguely remembered being assessed for it at the age of 10... Turns out that wasn't true and my parents just listened to someone's unqualified opinion... 030
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 27/09/2026When I went to the psych ward I was at some point moved to an open ward and like probably half of the people there were adults with depression who had been recently diagnosed with ADHD at that ward... 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 26/09/2026> Went to a protest > Stood in line at the women's restroom for like half an hour > Kissed my girlfriend > Talked to her in my clocky tranny voice And absoutely nothing happened, nobody cared... :b 050
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 25/09/2026Sometimes you just can't talk people out of it... There are a lot of people who know I'm suicidal. I've told them over and over again why I want to die and how I'd do it... Nothing they ever said to me ever changed anything for me... 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 25/09/2026I'm completely hopeless... The psych ward was an absolute nightmare, I absolutely can't go back there... but I also can't keep going... Can you blame me for considering the only way out of this agony that I can see? 010
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 25/09/2026I can't take it anymore... Everything is falling apart... I'm in chronic pain, I'm constantly anxious, I lost all my friends because of BPD, I will never get bottom surgery, I'm overwhelmed at work and I don't have enough energy for basic tasks anymore... 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 23/09/2026In my last few posts I was very critical of my girlfriend's behavior, but I genuinely think she really is a good person and she actually tries really hard to change how she reacts to my my breakdowns... I love her so much... <3 010
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 23/09/2026I lost two friends, both trans women, over "I am scared about the escalating transphobia in society" and one friend over "I think it was not ok when my girlfriend screamed at me for crying in the supermarket" 😐 110
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 22/09/2026My girlfriend admitted that she would validate someone's fear of ghosts, but she can't validate my fear of transphobic violence... ...According to four different trans women, my fear of getting raped in men's prison is actually hysteria... 140
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 22/09/2026Therapist said that I shouldn't seek validation from others for my feelings because they are always valid... 😐 240
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 22/09/2026> No no, I don't think you're hysterical... I just think that your emotions are completely out of control and you're always overreacting 😐 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 22/09/2026> Hmmm, you feel bad about being marginalized? Oh no, that's so terrible, someone should do something about this... How about we oppress you even harder until you finally realize that being this way is fundamentally unacceptable to us and you just magically stop? :) 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Yesterday, I talked to some chick about feeling lonely, and she told me that the most important thing is to "be my authentic self..." which is pretty funny, considering people who actually know my "authentic self" seem to call me "toxic and destructive" and run for the hills... 😐 041
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 19/09/2026:b music.youtube.com/watch?v=TYvR...music.youtube.comwtfYouTube video by bangerfabrique - Topic 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 19/09/2026I am filled with painful grief at being completely without friends again... 😖 I will stay strong, though, and will resist the urge to reconnect with any of the people who have betrayed me... 020
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 19/09/2026A woman without a gossip circle is like an angel without wings... 😔 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 19/09/2026I don't actually regret what I did... I know my girlfriend was worried sick, and I feel bad for putting her through that... Also talking to the cops was humiliating af... But getting away from her and being in nature for a while was exactly what I needed in that moment... 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Thursday I fought with my girlfriend, tricked her into letting me leave the flat, walked to the train tracks, got scared and walked past them, sat under a tree for an hour, got brought back home by the cops... 😐 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Never trust cis people. They don't see us a actual people. Their empathy just fundamentally doesn't extend to us... 180
Reposted by MELadaptedTalia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 17/09/2026"Enjoy the camps" is a succinct summation of the current moment trans people find ourselves in. People who insist they're allies also loudly proclaim they won't lift a finger to help us, will say nothing when we're attacked and even tacitly agree with the attacks, and still claim moral superiority. 232167495
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Would you still love me if I admitted that I like Heidi Reichineck's tranny bangs and I'd actually give her the pass... 🫣 030
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Bitches be like "open up to me I can handle it" and then can't handle it... <____< 030
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 16/09/2026People will accuse you of clearly manipulative actions and when you then say "oh, so you think I'm manipulative?" they will rush back to their motte and say "noooo, i didn't say that at all, you're always twisting my words around"... which is in itself an accusation of manipulation ofc 020
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Burned the bridge... I can't be friends with people who are too cowardly to support me when I'm in serious distress and seeking comfort after being screamed at for crying... 130
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 15/09/2026I believe that if you are an emotionally fragile person, like me, you need to prioritize protecting your emotional well-being more than other people... 140
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 15/09/2026I don't wanna victim blame, this is the result of trauma after all, but the problem with this mindset is that you actually inadvertently attract people that will hurt you... Like you make it very enticing for them to be around you... 030
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 15/09/2026I regret so much that I let her get away with this... Bitch is still connected to the local trans community of my old city and has the opportunity to victimize more people... I should have ruthlessly burned her ass when she tried to do her petty little stunt in front of all those other trannies 😐 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 15/09/2026I tried to encourage her to set boundaries with me because I tend to unload all my emotional pain onto others... But no matter how many times I asked her if there are topics that are triggering to her and that I should avoid, she just absolutely refused to set a boundary... 120
MELadapted @meladapted.bsky.social · 15/09/2026Apparently I'm now friends with this BPD trans chick with terminal doormat-brain, as in she thinks she needs to help everyone even if they're overtly terrible people who have already hurt her countless times, and I now realize how incredibly frustrating it is to see someone behave like that... 160
