iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

meet me at post-wedding ceremony French Canadian Wal-Mart parking lot sunset if u want ass kicking

a selfie of me in wedding guest regalia, a green and blue satin dress with my brown hair down around my shoulders, with a spectacular sunset behind me over a Wal-Mart parking lot

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

If you take enough pictures every once in a while one will come out just right

a picture of me on the patio of a cocktail bar late at night. my cocktail is in what looks like a capri sun packet stuck in a plastic beach pail full of ice. I am wearing a jean jacket over a pink and purple floral dress. my brown hair is loose and down on my shoulders. I have a thoughtful look on my face

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Justin Herbert dodging blame like

Agent Jones contorting every which way to dodge bullets in The Matrix

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

if you were this kind of guy in the 2010s, or otherwise described yourself as a "troubadour", how is your transition going?

a collage of men in hats with beards or long hair playing an acoustic guitar at an open mic night

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

OMG a queer bookstore just down the street from the Capitol! LOVE!!!

A street picture of Little District Books on Pennsylvania Ave SW

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

I get to be her for like 40 freaking years. how cool is that?

A full body picture of me in a dark green work dress, a charcoal blazer, gray tights, and black Chelsea boots

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Damn, I thought I was done with want her/want to be her stuff

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

Frankly unbelievable how closely this nailed me. I guess 17 years on the East Coast has caused some dialect drift on my part. mydialect.us/quiz-standar...

My dialect map from the quiz https://mydialect.us/quiz-standard.html. It shows me as talking like someone from Washington DC, with most similar locations being San Francisco, LA, and Seattle.

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Mariners fans reading this like

Brendan Frasier looking pathetic in The Whale

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

being a woman owns so hard, like goodness gracious

a picture of me standing in my office in a green and navy sheath dress. my hair is up in a claw clip and I'm wearing a silver moon pendant and silver and pearl branch earrings.

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Quick drag, a rouged cheek, a blush lip Eyeliner in her waterline and some contour on her tits Night owl and somehow an early bird She kinda just stays perpetually tired

office selfie of me in a green dress with a ponytail. it's friday and I'm tired

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

In Silver Spring, it's hard to see in the photo but there's a definite bite taken out of the moon!

A photo of the full moon in a hazy sky. The moon is slightly oblong, as part of it is eclipsed by the Earth's shadow

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

check this shit out zohran gundami

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

okay I watched the Petra Parker movie like everyone is talking about and I don't really understand what this has to do with superheroes

Movie poster for Kiss of the Spider Woman (1985)

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

new LinkedIn pic. this is my serious face 🧐

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

Started at 36, now 40, and it's an understatement to say I've never been happier. I didn't even know what happiness really *was* until I let myself live. I compare myself a lot to my grandma, who decided at 47 that she needed to get sober. We both decided to save our own lives.

A selfie of me in an apartment done up as a bridesmaid, wearing a navy and white floral dress, professional makeup, and my wavy hair in an updo

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Being a bridesmaid is *fun as hell* it turns out

a selfie of me in full bridesmaid outfit. my hair is in a professional updo and I have pro makeup on. I'm wearing silver dangly earrings and a silver pendant with Swarovski crystals. My dress is navy with white flowers and has a v-neck wrap bodice. I'm standing in an apartment with the kitchen behind me

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

it turns out you can just be a girl, the potion that turns you into one is real and you can take it and you can learn how to do it

it's me on too little sleep in a little dress leaving a wedding rehearsal dinner, I'm gonna be a bridesmaid tomorrow and damn life is good

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

Sometimes a look really feels right 🧑‍🍳🤌

A selfie of me in a wine red pleated skirt, a brown leather belt, a white lacy top, a pink cardigan with a scalloped frill, and a mother of pearl heart necklace. my brown hair is falling down my shoulders and my brown leather purse is slung over my shoulder. behind me are stairs leading down the outside of a building and a leafy green tree.

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

quote this with you being a hot girl in a dress this is probably my favorite pic of me ever

me seated in a sidewalk cafe at night. I'm wearing a low cut LBD with a pendant necklace, and my wavy brown hair is resting on my shoulders

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 19/07/2026

What's this?? ARGENTINA is evolving...

the flag of Argentina morphing into the flag of Paraguay

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 17/07/2026

worse, you have to sleep on a couch in here

the former Something Awful office in a small strip mall in Kansas City, Missouri

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 05/07/2026

No cake pic this year, but here's five years of birthdays. Getting to be me is the best gift of all!

Five selfies of me, one for the last five birthdays!
1. pre transition in a gray men's shirt
2. half a year HRT in a gray women's shirt
3. 1.5 years HRT with a green and white dress, hair past my ears
4. 2.5 years HRT in a tropical sleeveless green yellow and blue dress, hair to my neck
5. now, pleather jacket and white blouse over jeans, Oakland in the background, my hair down onto my shoulders, post-FFS

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

So this is 40 but it's 40 as *me*

a selfie of me on my leather jacket and white top at T-Slur in Oakland, California!

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

When the lights go down in the City

An aerial shot from a commercial airliner of the San Francisco Bay Area, with the City itself centered, in the early evening

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

get ya a girl who can do both

A selfie of me in workout clothes - short black shorts and a pale purple tank top - a mariners hat, and no makeup, with a weed whacker slung over my shoulders. I am standing on a deck with a lawn and trees behind me on a sunny day

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

Let's Brunch! Put on your red shoes and brunch

a selfie of me in the bright sunshine, in the shade of a small tree on a suburban street. I'm wearing a purple, blue, green, and pink floral Boden dress, a purple glass bead necklace, sun shaped earrings, makeup including Tarte eyeshadow and MAC lipstick in the shade Sitting Pretty. My nails are painted red.

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 16/06/2026

I'm not sure that's gonna work for the HOV lane my dude

a parked red crossover. in the front seat is a dummy wrapped in a yellow hoodie wearing a scary clown mask

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 13/06/2026

The soul restoring feel of summer clothes on a gorgeous day ☀️🍃

a selfie of me in jean shorts, a sage tank top, and a pink baseball cap with the word "femininomenon" written in cursive. I'm walking around in downtown Bethesda

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Maddy @maddystarstuff.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

Congratulations!!! But also, 37 isn't anywhere *close* to too old. Here's me at 36, four years ago. There is still time, and you are allowed to be whoever you want to be!