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Raven

@lycoray.bsky.social
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Hey its me. Raven or Ray. I don't like using social media much but I like art enough to keep me coming back to see what people make. I also like to talk to myself sometimes

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田名部 @tanabeai.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
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Juno @junoelise.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
tachyon dressed up for u chat (,,>﹏<,,) #umamusume #ウマ娘
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麦コスタ @mugikosuta.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
この服どうやって着てるのか気になる #FF14 #FFXIVART
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杜 @nezunomori.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
Lrp ever since I read the run the dishwasher twice post a long time ago it has always stuck with me. I actually consider it extremely important as a concept
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Leiracal @leiracal.bsky.social · 18/08/2025
This concept was introduced to me as "run the dishwasher twice" and was an important part of my executive functioning recovery as well as my path to self-acceptance.
When I was at one of my lowest (mental) points in life, I couldn't get out of bed some days. I had no energy or motivation and was barely getting by.

I had therapy once per week, and on this particular week I didn't have much to 'bring' to the session. He asked how my week was and I really had nothing to say.

'What are you struggling with?' he asked.

I gestured around me and said 'I dunno man. Life.'

Not satisfied with my answer, he said 'No, what exactly are you worried about right now? What feels overwhelming? When you go home after this session, what issue will be staring at you?'

I knew the answer, but it was so ridiculous that I didn't want to say it. I wanted to have something more substantial.
Something more profound.

But I didn't.

So I told him, 'Honestly? The dishes. It's stupid, I know, but the more I look at them the more I CAN'T do them because I'll have to scrub them before I put them in the dishwasher, because the dishwasher sucks, and I just can't stand and scrub the dishes.'

I felt like an idiot even saying it.

What kind of grown ass woman is undone by a stack of dishes? There are people out there with *actual* problems, and I'm whining to my therapist about dishes?

But he nodded in understanding and then said:

'RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE.'I began to tell him that you're not supposed to, but he stopped me.

'Why the hell aren't you supposed to? If you don't want to scrub the dishes and your dishwasher sucks, run it twice. Run it three times, who cares?! Rules do not exist.'

It blew my mind in a way that I don't think I can properly express.

That day, I went home and tossed my smelly dishes haphazardly into the dishwasher and ran it three times.

I felt like I had conquered a dragon.

The next day, I took a shower lying down.

A few days later. I folded my laundry and put them wherever the fuck they fit.

There were no longer arbitrary rules I had to follow, and it gave me the freedom to make accomplishments again.

Now that I'm in a healthier place, I rinse off my dishes and put them in the dishwasher properly. I shower standing up. I sort my laundry.

But at a time when living was a struggle instead of a blessing, I learned an incredibly important lesson:

THERE ARE NO RULES. RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE!!!"
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rafael zaiats @cornpunk.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
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Dizzy @dizzyisverydizzy.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
Boss called. Says you gotta up your Miku numbers
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
I feel crazy for just wanting things to be slower and mentally stimulating. The push for AI in the company comes from the stance of "we can be faster and think less :)" IDC! I want to take my time to use my brain!
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USER WAS BLOCKED FOR THIS POST @blockedforthispost.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
Thank you for your opinion on waffles but we're talking about pancakes little buddy.
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Lughost @lughostin.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
Squigly !
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sun ☀️🌊 @sunncean.bsky.social · 27/12/2025
🌙✨💙 #nyx #hadesgame
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samipeko🐱 @samipeko.bsky.social · 08/02/2024
I forgot to post this comm here you will look at baobhan sith
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dimitri🪽comms open @royai.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
given orders not to die #fma
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Just now learning that For Keeps was released after Keaton's passing SNIFF so messed up.. I'm glad they still put it out though
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
what if I asked for a demotion and stopped taking my meds, maybe that would solve all my problems
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kuro_ye @kuro-ye.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
#OC カシミア山羊お姉さん
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
I actually do think I have pretty noticably longer eyelashes now that's kind of fucked up, men are not capitalizing on this
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みるぎゅ〜 @millgyu.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
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⛓️Nye🐇 @nigelgraz.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
I liked the colors on this one <33
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
consultation in 1 month :)
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
we need to change everything again RIGHT NOW
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るみえ/Rumie @rumietake.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
すっかり暑くなってきたね…!😵‍💫🍦 It's gotten really hot, hasn't it...!😵‍💫🍦 #oc #ドラゴンクレイドル #art
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Garth Marenghi's Catbus @catbus.phd · 12/07/2026
felt cute might delete later
primitive illustration of the nervous system from 1908, a human shape with the brain and spinal cord lableled an the rest looking like the roots of a houseplant
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kekeken mk2 (im hacked) @hyungmulu.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
#guiltygear
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
JUST SAY YOU DONT KNOW
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
If I ask you a genuine question and you run it through Copilot to answer me I kill you
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彩樹 @ayakigeneratio.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Skebでリクエスト頂きました。有難うございました。 OCをリクエスト頂きました。 造形物を絵に落とし込むというのは、想像以上に難しく。苦戦しましたが、とても勉強になりましたし楽しく描かせて頂きました。
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
It has been like 10 months since I got my eyebrow piercings and they are still struggling, nobody told me they are the most temperamental piercings of all time
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
Whenever I'm about to unfollow the user was blocked for this post account it gives something that pulls me back in
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USER WAS BLOCKED FOR THIS POST @blockedforthispost.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
And the spelling, in ENGLISH, is OFFENCE. There is no such thing as the, American language.
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Smart Bitches @smartbitches.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
Oh, yay, it's a "heat dome," which always makes me think of Thunderdome instead.  If you're in the Thunderdome and you're on SSRIs, SNRIs, heart meds, or stimulants, please be careful! Your medication can make you very sensitive to the heat.
Medications that may interact with heat include many antidepressants, Anticholinergics, heard medications, stimulants, antipsychotics, and some commonly abused substances. I can't post the entire list because there's a limit on ALT text which is some bullshit let me tell you. Source; https://yaleclimateconnections.org/2022/07/common-medications-may-increase-the-dangers-of-heat-waves/
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覚醒ヘモリーナ@Skeb @hemorina.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
Oblivionis
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dafoppishdandy @alabasterffxiv.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
every day i feel like this
guy wearing a shirt that says "this is my nuance shirt" and a pin that days "i ❤️ ambiguity", holding a sign that says "its more complicated than that", and with a hat that says "There is no such thing as a black and white andwer in this situation and you cannot tackle the subject to its full complexity without addressing the many underlying factors and circumstances involved"
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東屋十四郎🎨 @azumaya146.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
ペン入れ楽しい。
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
I was so hyper fixated on OBM and I pretty much was only buying Kinwamonster clothes. This would have felt like it was created in a lab just to target me
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
Man a few years ago this would have hit like fucking crazy
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rem @tsulala.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
9: Summer Centaur!🌺🔫🌊
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Raven @lycoray.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
my ass loves to complain and then jump on the chance to do even more work the second I get it. Do I have a problem?
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Good Smile Company @en.goodsmile.com · 26/06/2026
Preorders open now! Good Smile Company Final Fantasy XIV Nendoroid G'raha Tia From the game "Final Fantasy XIV" comes a Nendoroid of G'raha Tia! Preorder: goodsmile.link/WCoKho #goodsmile
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Linden Davis @linden-davis.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
this is his gofundme btw. would encourage everyone else who can to chuck this fella a couple quid www.gofundme.com/f/get-artist...
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Donate to Get Artist Des Revol Help with His Legal Case!, organized by Jonathan Rochkind
Our friend Des Revol has been wrongly arrested and convicted over a b… Jonathan Rochkind needs your support for Get Artist Des Revol Help with His Legal Case!
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faith 🗡🦋 @rythulia.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
was finally able to finish this before pride month ended! 🥹 happy pride!! 🌈🏳️‍🌈✨ [ #pixelart #ドット絵 #art #artsky #pride #pridemonth #space #stars #planet #celestial #celestialart #sciart #cosmicart ]
pixel art piece featuring a colourful rainbow planet surrounded by equally colourful stars, with three big rainbow-coloured shooting stars passing nearby
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Et🍩(えと) @ettto.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
🦇🩸
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sarah margaret @sarahmargs.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
Me before clocking in at the getting pissed off factory
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key-lime pie @keymonster.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
✨ I have 4 spots open for my August queue. ✨ Interest has been low the last two months so I could really use some shares to boost interest. Thank you everyone for helping! 🌱
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MilkyBoxBoy @milkyboxboy.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
found a cute chicken
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Whydah (Comms Open!) @mighty-whydah.bsky.social · 15/07/2025
glorpi miku but make it slightly gooner
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krysichi.bsky.social @krysichi.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
#bakemonogatari #monogatariseries #物語シリーズ #羽川翼
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Norixio(ノリシオ) @norixio.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
oc📻
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