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LoraT

@ltimonin.bsky.social
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Wordy! Wife'nMom, Geek, AuADHD, superfat, uu. NY -Not NYC -unceded Gayogo̱hó:nǫ’ lands. Too many pets, not enough gardening. Failed my mammo, lopped off my boobs. Suppressing to survive. Making do with the new normal, whatever turns out to be.

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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
but Lora, a decade or so ago you loved to collage, why don't you come back to it? because I need my dining room table? (Rarely for eating, let's not be silly.) Also the set of sorted and trimmed animal images. totally not in these drawers and boxes.
a surface cluttered with piles of magazine pages and folders and storage boxes.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I have successfully not lost this chapstick long enough to deplete it to fingernail scrapings. I've changed.
a pale hand holding a chapstick tube with a little bit of product visible in the top portion normally covered by a cap. a wooden desk is in the upper background and a broken black keyboard in lower.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
sigh "Dismissal by the EEOC was not a determination on the merits of the issues purported to be raised in the charge." Do I try and rustle up a contingent lawyer specialist in employment law or do I just go to my next EMDR session and continue to try and move on emotionally?
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
this feels like one of those words that is should/ is going to get culturally appropriated.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Do I have too many cockerels this year? Totally. But this lil mini guy is so cute! I call them the Butters (2 pullets) and they are otherwise quite aloof. I like that they are maturing as slowly as their standard size breed. Freeloading cuties.
a bantam buff brahma cockeral (left) and pullet (right) on a straw covered ground with some pecked pears and apples. Logs, branches, pallets and cinderblocks are in the rear.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Me, attempting to leave for work at a responsible time - wow that's a lot of wet alright. Guess I don't need to worry about ragweed today and can skip the Flonase. 2 hours later- ded of snot. I forget that I'm allergic to mildew and mold.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
gofund.me/d536fe397 needs to get out of a bad situation in Cali back to NY.
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Donate to Support a Homeless Artist and Her ESA Cat escape DV, organized by Talia Turk
Hi, I'm a disabled lesbian artist from Upstate New York. I am neurodi… Talia Turk needs your support for Support a Homeless Artist and Her ESA Cat escape DV
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
me, 90 min ago. Wow this canned beverage has a scoodle boot of caffeine. Better decant. Me now-DESK CHOCOLATE 4 STRESS!!!! plus tachycardia (but I do still have 2/3 of a can left. 120 mg of flat natural jitter juice tomorrow)
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
over here in ADHD day off back to school land.... Pip is having a marvelous time. I did not find the bag I wanted in the closet. onto operation clean my bedside. Half a dozen titles to dust and one is clearly barely started. 2 are looking good- I can't remember last time I picked up a book.
a view of a patterned wingback chair with a pile of blue and white striped fabric on the left and an open closet on the right with open shelving. a black and white cat on a wooden surface investigates a left corner while behind some empty shelves.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
A little over a year back in an office has flown, but I struggle still with microwave friends. Unlike 15 years ago when connections were tied to children, now it seems to be aging parents. a link to a business insider first person about an article (not book) club share.google/ijQbldySBeAu...
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Well nertz www.mdanderson.org/newsroom/res...
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Psilocybin prevents chemotherapy-related nerve injury and associated symptoms in preclinical models
In a breakthrough study, researchers at The University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center discovered that psilocybin given before chemotherapy prevented the onset of nerve injury in preclinical models...
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
well good job me getting the pneumonia vaccine at the start of it all because now I don't need it because I'm 50 and suddenly eligible.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
let's see if I remember what I wanted to talk to the primary about vs what she thinks we're talking about!
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
well boo here I thought I was going to have a great and productive year 3 next spring extension.unh.edu/blog/2018/01...
extension.unh.edu
My plum tree has black fungus growing on the branches. What can I do to treat it?
Trees in the genus Prunus, which includes plum, are susceptible to a fungal disease called black knot. Trees infected with black knot have swollen, hard, black
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
snort www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-... I only read the bullets because the number of times my kids have not been able to get support because their aggregate scores are too high or they are doing well let's take away the supports and me struggling every day at 50 with decades of diy.
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Autism Is Not a Crutch
Giftedness can hide an autistic person’s disabilities. Calling autism overdiagnosed or a crutch dismisses real struggles, support needs, and the complexity of autism.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Sigh. Back and forth with a merchant across the pond. Make a lotr books reference. Agent says needed to google reference. What are they teaching kids nowadays? And no, my kids would get neither the lotr nor Narnia reference. Have I failed as a parent!?
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
kinda super loving the new Matlock.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
fucking morons. Executive orders are not how this country is supposed to be run.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
I picked up my Vyvanse and I don't know where it ended up in the house. But the mail pile is finally sorted and the living room is vacuumed. I guess the kitchen and dining room are next.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
I've got a tendency for both. Tho with post chemo turbo menopause brain I couldn't not tell you which one is more/less afterward The Opposite of Déjà Vu Exists And It's Even Stranger : ScienceAlert share.google/L0z2NXmiujwY...
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The Opposite of Déjà Vu Exists And It's Even Stranger
Try this: write your own name on a scrap of paper.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
I feel much better now.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Meanwhile, I spend much time on my global pigeon correspondence. My teen is starting to get a little fomo. My flock is big enough that I always have a handful of spare birds delivering for others. Even with a week+ transit, I've got book rec and board game recs out the ying. Code in alt text.
a busy view of Roost app with yellow lines of messenger birds converging on a point in north america. Join the flock on Roost! Get a free bird when you sign up with my code W2WNTA.
https://roostsocial.app/invite/W2WNTA
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
tfw you suspect that the people you are on hold for have flipped the phones and gone to lunch. the hold musazk is atypically jazzy, so that's nice. when I inevitably have to call BCBS their hold music will give me flashback feelings.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
My penpal efforts are proceeding briskly. Well. Not the snails from Europe. Months until those notes arrive.
a screen cap of a roost app showing messenger birds (and snails) yellow trails converging on north america. Join the flock on Roost! Get a free bird when you sign up with my code W2WNTA.
https://roostsocial.app/invite/W2WNTA
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
hrm FDA just approved this for ADHD and color me intrigued as I continue a bad brain fog week with a new manufacturer on my SNRI and problems with my Vyvanse. pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC... Except MAOA is I think not part of the common psych pharmocogenetic panel. And brand name coverage?!
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
oh no you did not. kicking out several someone from our prime front seats that we purchased last night for this tiny and packed theater. shove shove.
conceptual still from fifth element of sky thai.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
So I had cause to text my brother for parenting advice because he was sporty and popular and I was not. By lunchtime of my first day of senior year people were asking me to confirm giant freshman was my brother. And what sports did he do?
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
I do not want to build ai powered job skills for my coworkers to rely on. I would rather build actual skills and not have ai.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
No autisically out of state Google second guessing trained and licensed medical professionals in charge of Mom's sudden hospitalization. At least not to their faces. Pretty sure this is the same primary doing my mom's Medicare physical 2 weeks ago
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
omfg. my first experience with enhanced friendly ai customer support. While it may not have the vocal stress module configured I was able on the 3rd attempt at spelling my email to get out -"If you would let me use military spelling this would go faster DOT org". Then the rep revalidated it all
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
so if someone (not me!) says they used AI to actualize a design which they then customized to print onto products....do they get to complain when that final design is stolen and used and sold by other people? I have the artistic skills of a soggy turnip and just leave ideas to rot in my head.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
y'all. I'm not going with the family on vacation to Canada tomorrow, but I am going to a micro IKEA with my bestie to pick up her kallax and I am getting excited for the possibilities. Perhaps it will distract me from Mrs Potato Heading @bookreadingguy.bsky.social guy excessively?
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Slightly obsessed in a slow way as I very slowly chat about gardens and pets with people on the Roost app. At some point in the next 2 weeks that gull is going to arrive from the middle east and I'll be down a bird for an equivalent time writing back.
 an "inverted" global view of North America with yellow traceries and bird icons converging on a central location. as seen in the Roost penpal app.
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Trung Le Nguyen @trungles.com · 12/07/2026
Like, I’m certain we’ve all harbored internal dialogues just as mean as Elizabeth’s, but they tend to be tempered with time and experience with another person. I also can’t help but feel fondly about a person just by being around them for enough time, no matter how much they annoy me!
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
oh noes once again I am manly. cause I'm on my own all next week and cooking forecast is skimpy.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
where the role is being responsible and removing impacted products. the one the government abrogated.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
I got a Richard Scarry from an indie bookstore in my acquaintance in TN. inciardiprints.com/pages/mini-p... I had no idea it was a whole thing tho! Since we're woefully understocked by artomats but generally full of book shops, maybe they would be an easier add...
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Mini Print Vending Machine Info
Mini Print Vending Machine Information
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
Made a cordial base over the week but had to get a move on some jam because we're out of freezer room and the oldest fridge berries were starting to go. Whoops. Apparently should pack them in sugar and go every 3 days. Purple stained things include cheese cloth, my fingers and several chickens
the upper left has a large canning pot and the lower right has a beautiful purple soup of raspberries and sugar.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
whine I don't wanna have biphasic sleep right now. Can't figure out what has set me off, so delighting the dog with a middle of the night breakfast. And butt scritches and tugging time. Cat is not impressed that cat breakfast has not been moved up to match. Hard pass on dog activities .
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
You! Stop scrolling and go to bed!
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
golly Imagine if I had b12 shots on the regular or had some clinical case for attempting to assess and address my iron metabolism sooner.
a snippet of a ferritin result line graph with a low of 29 ng/ml in December 23 (start of chemo) trending slightly up to the 50s in spring of 26 before shooting steep to 240 today.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
I so enjoy when the wrap o the day coincidentally matches my shirt. and I cadged a sticker out of the tech cause big kids also like stickers .
a happy green frog sticker on forearm of a an upper sleeve in mixed blue with an elbow wrapped in blue
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
sadness is being expected to put in another 30 to 60 minutes of work because that is what you are contracted for-except your brain is an exhausted lil raisin and you can't conceive of the right thing to pick from your list that is appropriate for no brainzzz.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
voter #37 at 15 min to close of polls. Downstate forcing upstate to run 6am-9pm is so gah. I could have finished my episode maybe Managed to hang out with the babies for the first time in ages after dinner Stale popcorn and fish skin means I was well received. even if they all got a bit trampled.
mama in the middle with some mini me's on the right and the very big standard chicks in white on the left.  (Chantecler, one cockeral and one pullet probably.)
The right white chick is dysfunctional. mama on the left with a mini me on the right and healthy tsuki pearl (chantecler)on the center left and less healthy kintsugi pearl on center right, demonstrating extent of delayed growth at 6 weeks. But still totally mixing it up with everyone else this evening.Kintsugi does not have a ton of stamina. Some sort of nerve issue. Currently enjoys shoving self into cinder block supporting coop. Mouthy in a strong way and seemed happy to get scooped tonight.  Accepted being tossed into the coop but tromped out with everyone else too.  Adult hens seem to ignore.  Matches well with all the bantams for size.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
sunnuva Primary scripted me a BP med because I'm having creep and anxiety (and tension headaches.) insurance says I must have 90 day supply. finally getting around to checking it on drug bank and damn thing is a cyp2d6 inhibitor AND substrate. Grr. and she's the one that ordered genomics!
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
sure. 9:30p on a Sunday night is a fine and normal time to make a batch of cookies and prep a sourdough. I could not find my cookie recipe on the internet. and I think my sourdough is cranky or going off, so I think I will give up for the summer. Rain all day tomorrow and used up bread flour.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
yes yes. I know. Sharing a FB link. Really nifty short video about traditional Chinese jewelry aesthetic that I can't be bothered to hunt for elsewhere because I have a face full of phone jealous dog. www.facebook.com/share/v/1Bhj...
extreme dog snoot close up.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
oops I was unsupervised! It is cloudy with a forecast of cool. And veggies were 20% off or free and 80% of what they sell is native. (but not the beauty berries which annoys because they have other North American plants not from the NE.) Now really need to get some more chicken wire and stakes
a flat cart full of greenery sits in a parking lot.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
So I had this 4am thought and it riffed and expanded cause, hey neurodivergent. Promptly looked it up upon waking for the purposes of this post and found this official study in lieu of wikipedia. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1438656/ Birthday effect as a deadline for males. May NoKings be a party.
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LoraT @ltimonin.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
and sometimes you have lots of doctors and you get "a rash". and then NOBODY knows. Is it gardening without gloves? (I swear I barely did any yesterday) or being bitten while gardening? Or not using enough technu after woods the day before? Or a delayed systemic reaction from infusion Monday?
a plump and reddened hand and forearm resting on a blue patterned leg.
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