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@loveplay.bsky.social

Games for couples who are bored of running the same Tuesday on loop. Free, no download, a little bit filthy. Come make date night weird again. loveplay.io

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

which object in your kitchen has caused the most conversation between you and your partner this year?

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

how many photos on your phone are of your partner asleep?

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

which night of the week is actually free for you two, and what usually happens to it?

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

what does your partner always order at dinner?

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

how many board games in your house have all their pieces?

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

nobody has ever agreed on a film in under twenty minutes. pick two, flip a coin, start it.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

games that take two hours get abandoned at the halfway point. forty minutes gets played twice.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

an evening that has to survive both of you being tired is a different design problem from an evening you were both looking forward to. nearly everything sold to couples is built for the second one.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

the question that changes an evening is not what do you want to do. it is what would you do if i said yes to anything. one asks for a plan and the other asks for a wish, and people answer them completely differently.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

most couples do not need more ideas. they need one of them to be the person who says the idea out loud, in a normal voice, with the lights on. that is a completely different skill and nobody practises it.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

we are much better at planning a holiday than planning an evening. six months out gets a whole spreadsheet, and tonight gets whatever energy is left over.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

we started asking each other questions we already knew the answers to. about a third of them had quietly changed and neither of us had noticed when.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

we have a five minute rule for arguments now. not to finish them, just to say the actual thing before the fake version takes over. it works maybe half the time, which is about half more than before.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

the thing that changed our evenings was a rule that neither of us is allowed to say i don't mind. you have to pick something, even a bad something. we eat worse now and argue a lot less.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

we keep a running note of things the other one has said they want to try. it is mostly restaurants and one very ambitious camping idea. we have done four. the note is the point, not the list.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 29/07/2026

we have a rule that whoever gets home first says one true thing before either of us opens a laptop. it started as a joke. it is now most of what we know about each other's weeks.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

the fastest way to feel like strangers is to only talk about logistics. bills, schedules, who is picking up what. ask one question tonight that has nothing to do with the week.

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LovePlay @loveplay.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

the underrated relationship skill is being able to say i am in a bad mood and it is not about you. saves entire evenings.

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